I have the infamous problem of being in the ';Lets Just Be Friends Zone';. I have really and truly liked this lady for about 7 months. She thinks of me as just a ';very close'; friend, because we see movies together, i have dinner with her family and all. All the right things...but there is no romance! How can i introduce the aspect of ';love'; and how can i get out of the just being friends zone. I know she concisely has to like me...but how can i help?I need some advice from women with dating?
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7 months? You're stuck forever with this girl. Move on to someone else. You just need to make a move earlier instead of waiting. It makes you seem uninterested in that aspect. Be the guy who give her something unexpected, not the new gossip girlfriend.
Take it slowly. Don't rush it. Let her know you're interested in seeing if you two would be good together beyond friendship. Be ready in case she just wants to remain friends and decide if you're strong enough emotionally to handle that.
You really need to find out if she feels the same as you. Try complimenting her on her looks for example and see how she reacts. Or you could always tell her how you feel, although this can be risky if you really like her it may be worth it.
what are you five? I think the main problem you don't have the pubes that it takes to do it. Grow up. Your mom doesn't count
Talk about your dick.
Maybe do things you wouldn't do normally. Like open the door for her, or try holding her hand, or pay for her meal next time you go out. Good luck!
plan out a dinner night with just u and her... bring up topic as to ask her what does she think of u and can she see herself being with someone like u and so on... see what her responds are and move forward as it goes :) good luck bud.
buy her flowers=) maybe when you watch a film but your arm around her, or fool around tickle her and when your lips get close go in for a kiss =)
Tell her to mouthify something or leave.
you could get her drunk.or tell her you had an exotic dream about her.maybe she'll have one about yu and get things going.
i say take her to a elegant resturant
grab her hands look into her eyes and telll her exactly how u feel
dude once you there.
there is no gettin out....
move on...
Keep in mind that good friends don't always make good lovers! If you try to change the rules and the boundaries it could backfire on you and you may end up without a lover or a friend! If you become lovers and it doesn't work out, chances are you've also lost a good friend.
I've had my best male friend for over 30 years. We love each other to bits but we agreed to set boundaries at the very beginning of our friendship. In all these years we have never once even considered crossing those boundaries.
It sounds like you have a close, caring relationship with this lady, but if you're really looking for something more in your life, I would seriously look outside of your friendship with her. If you try to change the status of your relationship with her, you are making yourself very vulnerable to her and opening yourself to rejection if she doesn't feel the same way. Plus, if she doesn't feel the same way, it will create tension between the two of you if you try to remain friends.
It's your call what you do but I would seriously consider all the consequences of trying to take this to another level.
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