Need women advice for me (male). having sex with my virgin girlfriend?

my girlfriend and i are virgins. we both plan to have sex the night of prom. Romantic right? Yea, we are both excited and nervous, I am especially nervous. we are both juniors. this will be our first time actually going this far. I need advice, because i want to make this night perfect. our prom is in 3 weeks. Can you give me advice about wat to expect and how to be prepared. thanks. because i want this to be one of the best nights of her life.Need women advice for me (male). having sex with my virgin girlfriend?
Don't feel like you have to have sex just because its prom night. That's like feeling like you need to propose on Valentines day, its played out. If you're sure that you're ready and you're positive that you really care about and preferably LOVE your girlfriend then please use a condom and lots of lube, focus on how much you love her and give her hugs and kisses, respect her and her boundaries .But please remember first time sex is very painful for a girl and just know its probably going to be kind of unpleasant and you may build it up in your mind and be disapointed. Please really think hard about this, you've got all the time in the world to experience this together and it might be a little more special if you waited for a while, at least for a day that feels less trendy %26amp; forced and at least a little more special than prom night, for both of your sakes. You'll have sweeter memories.Need women advice for me (male). having sex with my virgin girlfriend?
Why do people think they have to do it on Prom night?





The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penetration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not all have pain. I never bled but there was a lot of pain.





For some, the first few times might make her feel sore, as the vagina has been an unused muscle or even hurt, if she isn't properly lubricated, or if the you (the guy) is in a hurry, doesn't arouse her and her body isn't ready.





Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay 鈥?touching, kissing, etc) being fully aroused or better yet, her having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help. You can use your fingers to stretch her some.
Oh, boy...you may be a bit young to be having sex, but I'm not going to lecture you. You want answers, and I'll give them to you.





My boyfriend and I were both virgins when we had sex with each other (we were both in college though). I'm not going to lie...it will be a bit awkward, especially if you've never been naked in front of a person of the opposite sex before.





Go slowly. Use lots of fore-play to make sure she's ready. Use a condom (read the directions carefully) and LOTS OF LUBE!!! I can't stress that enough! It will make things a lot easier for her and hopefully prevent any serious discomfort. Also move nice and easy. If she tells you to stop, then do so. Let her get the feeling of things and adjust to what's happening. Odds are you probably won't last very long (it takes time to build up stamina), so make sure she's nice and happy, even if that means making her orgasm before intercourse.





Hopefully you'll both have a pleasant experience.
hah, this is actually really sweet. Some of the others are right though, the first time is always a little awkward. Just go really slow to make things more comfortable for both of you. start out with foreplay to get both of you in the mood, and again, more comfortable. Bring more than 1 condom. If youve never put one on, and it gets messed up, you dont want the whole thing to be ruined. If you guys are really planning this out, make a mix or playlist of music she likes to play when you guys are getting ready. it sounds corny, but it kind of sucks when its totally silent in the room, especially if youre gong for a comfortable atmosphere.








Hope this helps, my prom is in a couple of weeks too ( im a senior )


have fun and be careful!
Well, for starters,


get STD tested...





Use condoms/birth control/morning-after pills.





Make sure you are both physiclly and emotionally ready.





Take responsibility for your actions if something goes wrong.





Are your parents okay with this?
my advise: don't do it. A Junior in high school is still a child (I know you don't like hearing that). Wait till you're married and can be responsible for a child.





And no I don't think it's ';Romantic';. I think it's a ';mistake';.





I don't mean to be rude or mean, but you asked for my advice. You got it.
even if i do, will u listen? as ur both virgins, u didn do d horrible sin yet. even if guys tell u this ok to hav sex outside marriage, i don't think it's ok. im not trying make u upset, but if u really want to make her n urself happy, don't do it. wait until u get married. it's so nice after marriage.


n there is God.
why dont u give her a promise ring instead to marry her and just wait to make that special move? i think she will love that...just being honest ...i personally waited til i got married...it was worth the wait because i knew i loved my husband and that he loved me...we were both virgins...it just works so much better...god forbid wat if u and her break up after the prom nite? wont that hurt the two of u? u'll think it was a waste to have lost ur virginity to someone u didnt last with. im sorry if i sound like a mother..( i am)lol
Yeah i can give you advice ..YOu are both still YOUNG wait until you are both ready for commitment are you ready to possibly become a FATHER !!! do not have sex on prom night its good that you are both virgins but why not wait until you are married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
well sex probably wont make it her best night. it usually hurts like hell. like i mean really really bad pain for me... i was crying. and then she might have discomfort for the rest of the night, i suggest saving it for the day after prom.. sorry
if your both virgins, get more into the foreplay that the actual sex, cos if your a virgin you probly wont last too long with intercourse, so just make sure she's happy before you are ;)