What kind of bras can make you look bigger under shirts, without a lot of padding?does la senza have that kind of bras?Advice for bras shopping from small breasted women?
what we really want is to make people think that we hv nice boobies and not a nice bra.
try the self-adhesive bra you can find on ebay for $20.that REALLY REALLY WORKS,comfortable and durable (up to 30 times)
its strapless and backless and really sticks all day looongggg even when youre sweating like crazy!
people think im not wearing a bra (i wear semisheer tanktop and people cannot see the bra line)and my boobies are so pushed-up and shaped like i do yoga everyday :D
anyway i'm a size 32B..
la senza also has some self-adhesive bra,but $$$expensive$$$
goodluck!Advice for bras shopping from small breasted women?
The best type of bra is a shaped T-shirt bra. They don't have obvious seams, and they give you a great shape and a bit of extra volume. But they aren't all padding.
Berlei have some fantastic bras which are comfortable, aren't obvious but give you a great shape and make you look like you have a bigger bustline. http://www.berlei.com.au/Product/Product鈥?/a>
hmm idk..........if you want one of those adhesive bras they sell em reallly chaeap at wall mart or target,and they are every bit as good
Victoria's Secret
Push up bras and yes, la senza has this kind.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Lately I have been having these feelings for women,but not sure as to how to be with a woman ? Any Advice ?
I want to be with this girl but the most I have done with female is making out, how and what should I know what to do and when to do it when it comes to making love ?Lately I have been having these feelings for women,but not sure as to how to be with a woman ? Any Advice ?
Just go with how you feel. Don't worry about technique or anything, just do what feels right. Do to her what you like to have done to you. Talk it over before you do anything if that would make you more comfortable.
But whatever you do, play safely.Lately I have been having these feelings for women,but not sure as to how to be with a woman ? Any Advice ?
if the time is right trust me u will know and it will just come natural touch her just how ur feeling if u wanna rub ur hands up and down her body go for it if u want to touch her in anyway and thats were its leading too give it a shot of course u will be alittle nervous ur first time but theres always a first just try to relax easier said then done i know but really try if ur really into her u will be happy to be there and touching her dont worry if ur doing it wrong
You do not need to know anything. All you need to do is let your partner know that you are very inexperienced and make sure your partner knows that you need guidance. Most people will be learning to ';train'; you, but remember, it is different with every partner. We all have different likes. Why don't you start out with things you like done to you.
Once you get your girlfriend out of her clothes , just follow your impulses . Just do it .
totally awesome...you should email me sometime..to give you some tips!!
Get an idea of what feels good from your own body and explore another woman's. Get a little creative. Explore her with your fingers, mouth, etc. Pay attention to how she reacts and you'll know what to do.
Don't say a word and just do what your body tells you
guess what? the first time i had sex with a woman...i hadn't had sex with a woman before...and it was GREAT
Just go with how you feel. Don't worry about technique or anything, just do what feels right. Do to her what you like to have done to you. Talk it over before you do anything if that would make you more comfortable.
But whatever you do, play safely.Lately I have been having these feelings for women,but not sure as to how to be with a woman ? Any Advice ?
if the time is right trust me u will know and it will just come natural touch her just how ur feeling if u wanna rub ur hands up and down her body go for it if u want to touch her in anyway and thats were its leading too give it a shot of course u will be alittle nervous ur first time but theres always a first just try to relax easier said then done i know but really try if ur really into her u will be happy to be there and touching her dont worry if ur doing it wrong
You do not need to know anything. All you need to do is let your partner know that you are very inexperienced and make sure your partner knows that you need guidance. Most people will be learning to ';train'; you, but remember, it is different with every partner. We all have different likes. Why don't you start out with things you like done to you.
Once you get your girlfriend out of her clothes , just follow your impulses . Just do it .
totally awesome...you should email me sometime..to give you some tips!!
Get an idea of what feels good from your own body and explore another woman's. Get a little creative. Explore her with your fingers, mouth, etc. Pay attention to how she reacts and you'll know what to do.
Don't say a word and just do what your body tells you
guess what? the first time i had sex with a woman...i hadn't had sex with a woman before...and it was GREAT
Advice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
Anything you think would be helpful to a guy who just wants to be best for a girl.
Perhaps the list will grow to something every guy can get help from.Advice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
good listener, trust me on this oneAdvice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
from recent experience that's still hurting me...
be nice, don't be rough, take it slow and softly, but make your intentions obvious, and then gradually ask her out (don't rush in, may scare her)
be sweet, attentive, caring, and listen to her, knowing the little things about her will make her go ';awww :)'; i know it makes me and many of my friends go like that
and you just wanting to be the best for a girl is enough :)!! that is a wonderful attitude and so sweet :)!!! i hope one day i find a guy who wants to be the best to me :)
-Don't call too much( every night is fine, past that is pushing it).
-But, still always answer the phone
- Be yourself
- But still be polite, she isn't a guy friend.
- Be honest
- But don't be blunt/rude
- Tell her her perfections
- Ignore her flaws
- Be friends with her friends
- But tell her the most
- Don't flirt with other girls/cheat on her(it gives guys a bad name)
- Flirt with her, and be sweet!
- Never push her to do anything she doesn't want to. ( no means no!)
- but still cuddle with her, and whisper sweet things in her ear, or rub her back
- Tease her lightly
- But don't make her cry or feel self consious!!
- Remember that girls are delicate
- But, don't obsess over her, that is weird
- Always be a gentleman, and always do what feels right.
- Never assume she has her period and ask outloud.
- Talk to her, it's okay. We like confidence
- Don't be an ego maniac though, it's so annoying
I hope this list helps you and others!!
Be nice to her.
DONT CHEAT.
Hold doors open for her, let her go in doors first
Dont do drugs, drink
Dont go to parties without her (if your a party person)
ALWAYS BE KIND TO HER
Surprise her every so often with roses or her favorite flowers
Give her compliments
LISTEN TO HER!
Be nice to her friends
DO NOT HIT HER even if she hits you in the balls.
Cuddle with her (who cares what other guys think, i do with mine and everything else im giving you)
Watch movies with her
Make everynight a night she wont forget
Hold her tight
Kiss her forehead (girls like that stuff)
Move the hair away from her eyes
If your at that point to say I Love You, make sure you MEAN IT and say it every time you talk to her
Text/call her goodnight and goodmorning
Make her fell wanted, loved, appreciated and cared for
Hold her hand everytime you two walk together
Dont kiss and tell even if your pressured (they'll respect that)
Stand out from the other guys that just want sex.
I stand out. Sure i get teased sometimes about not cheating, or doing that stuff....but, honestly, i DONT care what other guys think of me. That's what separates me from the other guys. Im that ';perfect'; boyfriend that girls look for in a guy as some would say. Stand out, its okay to be different. I hope you'll put this to use
Ask her what things interest her. Don' pretend you like something you don't. Be honest. Listen with interest when she talks to you. Most guys don't. Little things mean a lot, like opening doors for her, walk her to her door after a date. If you don't ask her about sex, she will think you might not be normal and don't push sex on her. Showing respect for her will make her respect you. Be her friend, not just a boyfriend. And no lines. Don't look at other girls. This will flatter her.
as long as you don't listen to chris f, you will be fine. just the fact that you are concerned that you are doing everything you can do to make your girl happy makes you a good boyfriend. just be there for her whenever she needs you that's the best advice i can give you.
try to relate to her situations, see things from her perspective. haha, i know that sounds completely impossible, but once you support her like that, everything else just won't seem to matter so much.
=)
Don't obsessively text and/or call. Attention is nice but nothing can be more annoying than the guy who doesn't give you time to miss him because he's alwaysssss present.
Always be sweet and kind, never raise your voice at her, and always put her first.
You sound like a good guy, best of luck!
Stick it in her pooper !
Also, it helps to have an extremely large penis.
Don't question her and Do everything she says.
Perhaps the list will grow to something every guy can get help from.Advice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
good listener, trust me on this oneAdvice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
from recent experience that's still hurting me...
be nice, don't be rough, take it slow and softly, but make your intentions obvious, and then gradually ask her out (don't rush in, may scare her)
be sweet, attentive, caring, and listen to her, knowing the little things about her will make her go ';awww :)'; i know it makes me and many of my friends go like that
and you just wanting to be the best for a girl is enough :)!! that is a wonderful attitude and so sweet :)!!! i hope one day i find a guy who wants to be the best to me :)
-Don't call too much( every night is fine, past that is pushing it).
-But, still always answer the phone
- Be yourself
- But still be polite, she isn't a guy friend.
- Be honest
- But don't be blunt/rude
- Tell her her perfections
- Ignore her flaws
- Be friends with her friends
- But tell her the most
- Don't flirt with other girls/cheat on her(it gives guys a bad name)
- Flirt with her, and be sweet!
- Never push her to do anything she doesn't want to. ( no means no!)
- but still cuddle with her, and whisper sweet things in her ear, or rub her back
- Tease her lightly
- But don't make her cry or feel self consious!!
- Remember that girls are delicate
- But, don't obsess over her, that is weird
- Always be a gentleman, and always do what feels right.
- Never assume she has her period and ask outloud.
- Talk to her, it's okay. We like confidence
- Don't be an ego maniac though, it's so annoying
I hope this list helps you and others!!
Be nice to her.
DONT CHEAT.
Hold doors open for her, let her go in doors first
Dont do drugs, drink
Dont go to parties without her (if your a party person)
ALWAYS BE KIND TO HER
Surprise her every so often with roses or her favorite flowers
Give her compliments
LISTEN TO HER!
Be nice to her friends
DO NOT HIT HER even if she hits you in the balls.
Cuddle with her (who cares what other guys think, i do with mine and everything else im giving you)
Watch movies with her
Make everynight a night she wont forget
Hold her tight
Kiss her forehead (girls like that stuff)
Move the hair away from her eyes
If your at that point to say I Love You, make sure you MEAN IT and say it every time you talk to her
Text/call her goodnight and goodmorning
Make her fell wanted, loved, appreciated and cared for
Hold her hand everytime you two walk together
Dont kiss and tell even if your pressured (they'll respect that)
Stand out from the other guys that just want sex.
I stand out. Sure i get teased sometimes about not cheating, or doing that stuff....but, honestly, i DONT care what other guys think of me. That's what separates me from the other guys. Im that ';perfect'; boyfriend that girls look for in a guy as some would say. Stand out, its okay to be different. I hope you'll put this to use
Ask her what things interest her. Don' pretend you like something you don't. Be honest. Listen with interest when she talks to you. Most guys don't. Little things mean a lot, like opening doors for her, walk her to her door after a date. If you don't ask her about sex, she will think you might not be normal and don't push sex on her. Showing respect for her will make her respect you. Be her friend, not just a boyfriend. And no lines. Don't look at other girls. This will flatter her.
as long as you don't listen to chris f, you will be fine. just the fact that you are concerned that you are doing everything you can do to make your girl happy makes you a good boyfriend. just be there for her whenever she needs you that's the best advice i can give you.
try to relate to her situations, see things from her perspective. haha, i know that sounds completely impossible, but once you support her like that, everything else just won't seem to matter so much.
=)
Don't obsessively text and/or call. Attention is nice but nothing can be more annoying than the guy who doesn't give you time to miss him because he's alwaysssss present.
Always be sweet and kind, never raise your voice at her, and always put her first.
You sound like a good guy, best of luck!
Stick it in her pooper !
Also, it helps to have an extremely large penis.
Don't question her and Do everything she says.
Married women, what advice do you wish you had been given in the early months of your relationship?
Do you have any advice to give a young woman in the early months of a new relationship? What do you wish someone had told you?Married women, what advice do you wish you had been given in the early months of your relationship?
Marriage is living for your spouse.
Sometimes you give more than you get.
Do something special EVERY DAY for your spouse. No matter how tiny.
Never ever stop having sex or withhold it.
Do not ';punish';.
Do not get even.
Do not lie.
Trust.
Be trustworthy.
Communication is a work in progress forever. Never let that get bad.
EDIT
As someone else said - don't sweat the small stuff. Let little things go. Choose your battles.
NEVER EVER EVER fight in public.Married women, what advice do you wish you had been given in the early months of your relationship?
Don't expect him to be romantic. Romance gets thrown out with the birdseed (or rice for those who still use rice.) Also, drop a bean into a gallon jar every time you make love for a year. After the first year, take a bean out for every time you make love and see how many are left by the time you die of old age.
Pay attention to problems with in-laws on either side. A problem now means a problem for life, unfortunately.
Also, life is long.. don't rush. And don't go against your gut for other people.
I wish someone had told my ex-wife that everything is not an issue. And to show some respect for her husband. And to not look to find fault. And to show some appreciation. And to...
Start now building your relationship with your boyfriend/fiance's mother... whatever type of relationship you establish in the early days will carry over to your marriage... I've seen friends be total pushovers and then once they're married and they want to be respected etc it's impossible.
In my experience, especially during our engagement we set boundaries and were firm with our decisions. I think this is a great thing to start early in the relationship with one another's parents. I'm not suggesting you be disrespectful... just set boundaries.
Be totally, completely honest about any little thing even if the truth hurts. In the long run, you'll notice if your relationship will last. Don't expect him to read your mind.
i wish someone told me not to ***** about the small things, marriage is not a bed of roses, and that i would work on my relationship about 99% of the time.
(i love my hubby though)
Marriage is living for your spouse.
Sometimes you give more than you get.
Do something special EVERY DAY for your spouse. No matter how tiny.
Never ever stop having sex or withhold it.
Do not ';punish';.
Do not get even.
Do not lie.
Trust.
Be trustworthy.
Communication is a work in progress forever. Never let that get bad.
EDIT
As someone else said - don't sweat the small stuff. Let little things go. Choose your battles.
NEVER EVER EVER fight in public.Married women, what advice do you wish you had been given in the early months of your relationship?
Don't expect him to be romantic. Romance gets thrown out with the birdseed (or rice for those who still use rice.) Also, drop a bean into a gallon jar every time you make love for a year. After the first year, take a bean out for every time you make love and see how many are left by the time you die of old age.
Pay attention to problems with in-laws on either side. A problem now means a problem for life, unfortunately.
Also, life is long.. don't rush. And don't go against your gut for other people.
I wish someone had told my ex-wife that everything is not an issue. And to show some respect for her husband. And to not look to find fault. And to show some appreciation. And to...
Start now building your relationship with your boyfriend/fiance's mother... whatever type of relationship you establish in the early days will carry over to your marriage... I've seen friends be total pushovers and then once they're married and they want to be respected etc it's impossible.
In my experience, especially during our engagement we set boundaries and were firm with our decisions. I think this is a great thing to start early in the relationship with one another's parents. I'm not suggesting you be disrespectful... just set boundaries.
Be totally, completely honest about any little thing even if the truth hurts. In the long run, you'll notice if your relationship will last. Don't expect him to read your mind.
i wish someone told me not to ***** about the small things, marriage is not a bed of roses, and that i would work on my relationship about 99% of the time.
(i love my hubby though)
Women, your advice on contraception please.?
What do you feel to be the best methord and why. Pill gives me migraine, implant makes me bleed constantly and Depo-provera made me put on nearly 2 stone in 12 weeks! I am going to the family planning today but would like to know your experiances with certain types. Thanks!Women, your advice on contraception please.?
I was on depo and I am appalled its still on the market. IT does horrible things to many many women on it.
There are lots of ';Pill';'s, so you may need to try one or two before you give them up. I'm personally on Kariva, a low hormone dose pill, and have had no side affects.Women, your advice on contraception please.?
keep your legs crossed and knickers on ha ha condom of cause too many std';s about
I suppose it depends on what is right for you, I personally use the pill along with condoms.. as not only does two methods add to preventing pregnancy but also the condom is the only effective method at preventing you from getting a nasty STD. A ';belt and braces'; approach is usually the best option.
there a several different types of each of the methods you mentioned so if i was you, altho its trial and error i would keep going to dr and try diff ones till you find one to suit. sorry cant be more helpful, it must be a real drag for you.
Each and every method of contraception has its own advantages and disadvantages. The method that least interferes with your hormones is calender method along with condoms. If you know the time around which you ovulate, then you can use condoms at that time and rest of the time you do not have to use any protection.
eg if my cycle is of 30 days then I ovulate on 15th day, +/- 2 days. So I use condom from day 11 to day 20 of my cycle but do not need any contraception from day 1 to 10 and day 21 to day 30.
Mind you first day of your cycle starts on the day your period starts. Your period has to be regular to follow this method. You can consult your family planning doctor and she will explain it to you, if you wish. All the best.
get the guy to take a pill =] or consolt your doctor and tell him your symptoms hell be able tto get you the right type
Personally, I got preganant twice whikle taking the pill without missing one. I now have the Implanon Implant in, but like yourself I am experencing the same problems with this, I am looking into having the Coil inserted, but not too sure how I really feel about this.It could be an option for you? good luck
You can get the shot it seen to help .Or you can get a IUD.Or you can use a good rubber like lamb skinbecca
I was on depo and I am appalled its still on the market. IT does horrible things to many many women on it.
There are lots of ';Pill';'s, so you may need to try one or two before you give them up. I'm personally on Kariva, a low hormone dose pill, and have had no side affects.Women, your advice on contraception please.?
keep your legs crossed and knickers on ha ha condom of cause too many std';s about
I suppose it depends on what is right for you, I personally use the pill along with condoms.. as not only does two methods add to preventing pregnancy but also the condom is the only effective method at preventing you from getting a nasty STD. A ';belt and braces'; approach is usually the best option.
there a several different types of each of the methods you mentioned so if i was you, altho its trial and error i would keep going to dr and try diff ones till you find one to suit. sorry cant be more helpful, it must be a real drag for you.
Each and every method of contraception has its own advantages and disadvantages. The method that least interferes with your hormones is calender method along with condoms. If you know the time around which you ovulate, then you can use condoms at that time and rest of the time you do not have to use any protection.
eg if my cycle is of 30 days then I ovulate on 15th day, +/- 2 days. So I use condom from day 11 to day 20 of my cycle but do not need any contraception from day 1 to 10 and day 21 to day 30.
Mind you first day of your cycle starts on the day your period starts. Your period has to be regular to follow this method. You can consult your family planning doctor and she will explain it to you, if you wish. All the best.
get the guy to take a pill =] or consolt your doctor and tell him your symptoms hell be able tto get you the right type
Personally, I got preganant twice whikle taking the pill without missing one. I now have the Implanon Implant in, but like yourself I am experencing the same problems with this, I am looking into having the Coil inserted, but not too sure how I really feel about this.It could be an option for you? good luck
You can get the shot it seen to help .Or you can get a IUD.Or you can use a good rubber like lamb skin
This is me and my friend singing ';Some Things are Meant to Be'; from Little Women. Any advice/comments????
http://tinypic.com/player.php?v=34ime8o%26amp;鈥?/a>This is me and my friend singing ';Some Things are Meant to Be'; from Little Women. Any advice/comments????
I like it :]This is me and my friend singing ';Some Things are Meant to Be'; from Little Women. Any advice/comments????
You have a beautiful voice.I only wish I could hear your song better and more clearer.
IF THE WEBSITE SAYS ';FILE NOT FOUND'; IT'S LYING!!! PRESS PAUSE AND PRESS PLAY AGAIN IF IT'S NOT WORKING. YO guuurllzzzz you both sound amazin!!!
I like it :]This is me and my friend singing ';Some Things are Meant to Be'; from Little Women. Any advice/comments????
You have a beautiful voice.I only wish I could hear your song better and more clearer.
IF THE WEBSITE SAYS ';FILE NOT FOUND'; IT'S LYING!!! PRESS PAUSE AND PRESS PLAY AGAIN IF IT'S NOT WORKING. YO guuurllzzzz you both sound amazin!!!
Are there any resources or advice for women trying to get custody of their kids when exhusband has lawyers?
Not if you live in Louisiana! I found that out the hard way. Any other state probably has decent Legal Aid attorneys that can help you. Google Legal Aid and your state and see what pops up. Also you can try to talk to some law students at a university near you and get help filing your own papers with the courts. I never understood WHY Judges seem to favor the party that does have a lawyer vs the one with out a lawyer. In my custody case, I was the primary parent and didn't screw anything up so I felt I shouldn't have to pay for an attorney. So I didn't. And there came a point where I desperately needed one. And could not get one unless I could pull a few grand out of my butt. Which I could not at that time. But you actually CAN get all the forms and fill them out yourself and submit them to the court (clerk of court) and it will be totally legal. Actually, if you scribble something in crayon on a napkin, and you pay to have it submitted to the courts, the judge Will see it. Of course he's throw that out!, but it's just an example. What I finally did since I could not find a lawyer, I copied my ex's paperwork! Like if he got his lawyer to file contempt of court against me I would scan those actual papers (the copies I got of them) into the computer, and change all the info but leave the exact same format and legal wording. So if it said some kind of stuff like ';the plaintiff is asking for sole legal guardianship of the said minor child, Thomas 'Lastname' '; I would say the same thing. ';The Defendant (or Plaintiff, depending on the court date, it changed!!) is asking for sole legal guardianship of the said minor child, Thomas lastname';. And you have to have all that blah blah blah legal junk they add in there, usually at the end of the paperwork. But that way you can keep the case number, format and their legal wording and all. Get it notarized, submit it to the courts. It can cost a good bit, a few hundred dollars, but not anything like an attorney would cost. If you are on child support, I suggest you are current and paid up before you try to get custody. You need to be able to prove you have a steady job, childcare, decent home, and are drug free. That will help a lot. Good luck to you, and don't be afraid of the legal system. There is a law library in every big city. Go to it and ask someone to help point you to the books with custody and parental rights and such. And if you need paperwork to submit to court, you can also get it there, free or at low cost.Are there any resources or advice for women trying to get custody of their kids when exhusband has lawyers?
probably have to get a lawyer as wellAre there any resources or advice for women trying to get custody of their kids when exhusband has lawyers?
You know what i went through this. I hate both my parents for putting me through their bulshit its not your choice let the kids decide they are smarter than you think give them a chance to choose. And if its not you ya know what tough luck the only thing you can do is be there for them. they are human beings just like you they are not some pets that you fight over.
Its your fault for having a kid no one told you dont use protection.
Dont bring stress and drama into your kids lives i swear i resent both my parents for all their bulshit
The husband doesnt automatically win because he has a lawyer.
Things that are considered are. Who has the kids right now? Whose taken the kids to the park, who has always helped with homework. Whose always been there for them on a day to day basis.
If there is no criminal history for the mother, the next thing will be, who can support the kids easier. This is about the kids. Who is working, who has insurance for the kids.
Judges do not like to remove the kids from the mothers home for small things, its more of a huge thing, like abuse or drugs, excessive drinking or lack of provable care.
If they are considering putting the kids with him, then you will owe child support, and you will be chasing them down every other weekend, or each weekend, or every three days however you request and get the terms set. Ask for half the year custody if your not going to win full custody. Then no one pays child support, but one must provide insurance for the children.
You can try to contact legal aid and ask what capacity they work with these days. Ive known no one ever that got help from them though, I hear about legal aid society, but I dont know what they actually do for anyone.
Just be well dressed, and versed, quiet and polite, speak to the point, and you should be fine. Bring with you all things that show you take care of your kids, bring in school records and report cards to show their attending and doing well. Bring in shot records, Dr visits etc etc. Just have anyting you can think of in a file to have handy if the judge wants to see something.
Bring in notorised statements from neighbors, landlords, and family about you as a person, written testomonies about you and your family.
I wish you well. Men do not always win, so relax, be prepared, get things in place that migth need taking care of and politely handle court. The judge is looking for a stable parent, and hes looking at you being that parent first, not your ex. PS, dont bring up anything bad about your ex, unless you have say, copies of arrests paperwork where your ex had hit you or the kids. Do not bring up anything you cant prove on paper, or that the judge cant see on a computer such as DUIs. No hearsay, just like court tv, they need to see proof, and never lie or stretch the truth, they can see honesty in someones face by their mannerisms.
probably have to get a lawyer as wellAre there any resources or advice for women trying to get custody of their kids when exhusband has lawyers?
You know what i went through this. I hate both my parents for putting me through their bulshit its not your choice let the kids decide they are smarter than you think give them a chance to choose. And if its not you ya know what tough luck the only thing you can do is be there for them. they are human beings just like you they are not some pets that you fight over.
Its your fault for having a kid no one told you dont use protection.
Dont bring stress and drama into your kids lives i swear i resent both my parents for all their bulshit
The husband doesnt automatically win because he has a lawyer.
Things that are considered are. Who has the kids right now? Whose taken the kids to the park, who has always helped with homework. Whose always been there for them on a day to day basis.
If there is no criminal history for the mother, the next thing will be, who can support the kids easier. This is about the kids. Who is working, who has insurance for the kids.
Judges do not like to remove the kids from the mothers home for small things, its more of a huge thing, like abuse or drugs, excessive drinking or lack of provable care.
If they are considering putting the kids with him, then you will owe child support, and you will be chasing them down every other weekend, or each weekend, or every three days however you request and get the terms set. Ask for half the year custody if your not going to win full custody. Then no one pays child support, but one must provide insurance for the children.
You can try to contact legal aid and ask what capacity they work with these days. Ive known no one ever that got help from them though, I hear about legal aid society, but I dont know what they actually do for anyone.
Just be well dressed, and versed, quiet and polite, speak to the point, and you should be fine. Bring with you all things that show you take care of your kids, bring in school records and report cards to show their attending and doing well. Bring in shot records, Dr visits etc etc. Just have anyting you can think of in a file to have handy if the judge wants to see something.
Bring in notorised statements from neighbors, landlords, and family about you as a person, written testomonies about you and your family.
I wish you well. Men do not always win, so relax, be prepared, get things in place that migth need taking care of and politely handle court. The judge is looking for a stable parent, and hes looking at you being that parent first, not your ex. PS, dont bring up anything bad about your ex, unless you have say, copies of arrests paperwork where your ex had hit you or the kids. Do not bring up anything you cant prove on paper, or that the judge cant see on a computer such as DUIs. No hearsay, just like court tv, they need to see proof, and never lie or stretch the truth, they can see honesty in someones face by their mannerisms.
I'm a single guy (24), but I tend to gravitate towards and be sexually attracted to older women? Advice?
craigslistI'm a single guy (24), but I tend to gravitate towards and be sexually attracted to older women? Advice?
age isnt nothing but a number. if you love her, then go for it. only worry about what YOU think not others. shes yours, not theirs!I'm a single guy (24), but I tend to gravitate towards and be sexually attracted to older women? Advice?
Have a good time and avoid married women. Never worth it.
What kind of advice are you looking for?
well im single and 17 and i like younger guys, so im sure there are other people like me out there. its just who you like and feel comfortable with. just because your not following the 'norm' doesn't mean your bad. its good to be different. my friends mom was 50 and she was dating a 25 year old, and they were happier then ever. so it can happen. can you answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Some much older women dig much older guys so go for whomever you are attracted to...she'll either like you or not (just as a chick your age).
So whats the problem??
my boyfriend told me that nothing is wrong with it. if that's what you like then go for it, there's nothing wrong with older women.
my aunt likes younger men....
what she likes is someone that is great in bed %26amp; mature as well. yeah, she isn't the best role model but thats the basics. oh yeah, those younger men have to always have great looks.......good luck
I guess follow your heart(or attraction)My uncle married a woman 14 yrs his senior.I'm attracted to older guys.Wup te freakin do. =)
Good for you, I wish there were more men like you out there for us!
You probably simply prefer a more maternal figure in your life and you don't like younger, sillier girls. Good for you!
Suite yourself. Your not a minor, if you like older women then go for it.
Nothing wrong with that...i'm 21 and attracted to older men.
Namely my husband.
because they are more '; mature'; in the sack !.....so you think!
age isnt nothing but a number. if you love her, then go for it. only worry about what YOU think not others. shes yours, not theirs!I'm a single guy (24), but I tend to gravitate towards and be sexually attracted to older women? Advice?
Have a good time and avoid married women. Never worth it.
What kind of advice are you looking for?
well im single and 17 and i like younger guys, so im sure there are other people like me out there. its just who you like and feel comfortable with. just because your not following the 'norm' doesn't mean your bad. its good to be different. my friends mom was 50 and she was dating a 25 year old, and they were happier then ever. so it can happen. can you answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Some much older women dig much older guys so go for whomever you are attracted to...she'll either like you or not (just as a chick your age).
So whats the problem??
my boyfriend told me that nothing is wrong with it. if that's what you like then go for it, there's nothing wrong with older women.
my aunt likes younger men....
what she likes is someone that is great in bed %26amp; mature as well. yeah, she isn't the best role model but thats the basics. oh yeah, those younger men have to always have great looks.......good luck
I guess follow your heart(or attraction)My uncle married a woman 14 yrs his senior.I'm attracted to older guys.Wup te freakin do. =)
Good for you, I wish there were more men like you out there for us!
You probably simply prefer a more maternal figure in your life and you don't like younger, sillier girls. Good for you!
Suite yourself. Your not a minor, if you like older women then go for it.
Nothing wrong with that...i'm 21 and attracted to older men.
Namely my husband.
because they are more '; mature'; in the sack !.....so you think!
I need advice from an older women?
I have extreme lower back pain. What kind of women problems cause a person to have lower back pain? I've been to my family doctor who always seems to just put me on inflamatory pain killers. You think if i went to an actual OB/GYN they might be able to find the cause and actually fix the problem. Or is this something that getting older (after having babies) causes? Some days i have no pain but there are days where the pain is so bad that sitting up strait is painful.I need advice from an older women?
Get a second opinion. Doesn't necessarily mean women problems. Sounds like a pinched nerve or you stand in one position too long at a job, without much movement. On your good days try stretching exercises, a little at a time. On your bad days have someone give you a lower back rub to loosen it up.I need advice from an older women?
not enough info here to hazard a guess at a diagnosis. but, if you went to a gyno you will probably get an ultrasound and different types of treatment offered such as birth control pills which are very effective by the way. could be endometriosis, adenomyosis, go to the gyno for a second opinion if nothing else. they have a lot more expertise in this area than a family doctor
stretching helps it sooooo much! I have a yoga ball. I lay over it on my stomach %26amp; it stretches the lower back muscles. My doctor recommended it.
Get a second opinion. Doesn't necessarily mean women problems. Sounds like a pinched nerve or you stand in one position too long at a job, without much movement. On your good days try stretching exercises, a little at a time. On your bad days have someone give you a lower back rub to loosen it up.I need advice from an older women?
not enough info here to hazard a guess at a diagnosis. but, if you went to a gyno you will probably get an ultrasound and different types of treatment offered such as birth control pills which are very effective by the way. could be endometriosis, adenomyosis, go to the gyno for a second opinion if nothing else. they have a lot more expertise in this area than a family doctor
stretching helps it sooooo much! I have a yoga ball. I lay over it on my stomach %26amp; it stretches the lower back muscles. My doctor recommended it.
Im in love with two women. advice please?
I really love my girlfriend but I can't hide the fact that im also in love with a girl that goes to the same university.I thought it was just lust and had expected to go away within weeks,but now it's been two months and i really do love her.I would never cheat on my girlfriend but i don't know what to do
advice pleaseIm in love with two women. advice please?
above answer is good.
whatever you do you need to be sure that you are being fair to both of them. dont string them along while youre trying to figure out what to do. they will respect and appreciate you more if you tell them right away rather than them find out that you were liking them both at the same time and hiding it.
really think about who is there for you more and who you really know cares about you. maybe neither of them are right for you. but then again maybe both of them seem like they are.
that is definitely a hard place to be in because your feelings will pretty much overpower what anyone says and what you may know in your head is ';right.'; so be careful not to hurt them.Im in love with two women. advice please?
youre young, unencumbered have your whole life ahead of you. Love as many women as you can and keep on.. Once you say I do. youll say OYE VEY why did i get married... Just do what your heart and head tell you.. and keep yourself open to any new loves to come your way..Enjoy it. skip the guilt!
who is the person you last think about before you go to bed?
which is the one that first comes to mind when you have some news to tell?
which could you not imagine yourself without?
take a long hard think about it, im sure u will find the answer :)
do whatever makes YOU happy. Not anyone else. YOU. :) Hope this helps.
i've had a problem like this b 4. u need to think hard and long becuz i broke 2 hearts becuz i didnt kno who to choose...so gud luk
make a list and write down everything you know about them. do what right.
rock, paper, scissors
that is how you should pick the winner!!!!becca
advice pleaseIm in love with two women. advice please?
above answer is good.
whatever you do you need to be sure that you are being fair to both of them. dont string them along while youre trying to figure out what to do. they will respect and appreciate you more if you tell them right away rather than them find out that you were liking them both at the same time and hiding it.
really think about who is there for you more and who you really know cares about you. maybe neither of them are right for you. but then again maybe both of them seem like they are.
that is definitely a hard place to be in because your feelings will pretty much overpower what anyone says and what you may know in your head is ';right.'; so be careful not to hurt them.Im in love with two women. advice please?
youre young, unencumbered have your whole life ahead of you. Love as many women as you can and keep on.. Once you say I do. youll say OYE VEY why did i get married... Just do what your heart and head tell you.. and keep yourself open to any new loves to come your way..Enjoy it. skip the guilt!
who is the person you last think about before you go to bed?
which is the one that first comes to mind when you have some news to tell?
which could you not imagine yourself without?
take a long hard think about it, im sure u will find the answer :)
do whatever makes YOU happy. Not anyone else. YOU. :) Hope this helps.
i've had a problem like this b 4. u need to think hard and long becuz i broke 2 hearts becuz i didnt kno who to choose...so gud luk
make a list and write down everything you know about them. do what right.
rock, paper, scissors
that is how you should pick the winner!!!!
I need some advice from the women. What is your read of the situation?
I need help from the adult ladies out there, it would be greatly appreciated. I need to know how to read this situation so I don’t make an a** of myself tomorrow (I’m 30, and this girl is 34, neither of us have ever been married). I went out with this girl twice, the last time was a year and a half ago. The first time we went out things went ok and we made plans to go out again. Then one of her longtime friends got in the way and they began seeing each other. She lives one hour away from me so it would have been a long distance relationship. She broke up with him a few months later. We went out again shortly thereafter. I went to see her. At the end of the date, she said that she would have to come down to see me next time. she had indicated previously that the distance turns her off because she has to drive 45 minutes everyday to work and that was what was precluding her from starting a relationship with me.. It’s really complicated, but like an idiot I never asked her down because I kept coming back to the “she doesn’t like the distance thing so she isn’t really interested”. I didn’t want to have to deal with the rejection because she is an awesome girl and I could have seen myself falling hard for her and then end up hurt. If I missed my chance with her I’ll never forgive myself. Here’s the thing. We’ve kept in touch consistently for the last year and a half and email nearly daily (sometimes to the point of excessive since we are both at work!). Sometimes about absolutely nothing at all, but other times about life and what’s happening in each of our lives. Over this time I’ve begun to realize that I have some serious feelings for her, like she might be THE ONE. Back in January I realized this and I asked her out to lunch but she said that she had started seeing someone and “didn’t think it would be fair for all of us involved” to get together. So we went on like usual. I casually mentioned to her about a month ago that I had started seeing somebody (I’m not anymore but she doesn’t know that), and she immediately responded by suggesting that we needed to get together sometime. She is planning on coming down to my town to do some shopping and wanted to get together with me afterwards. Today, she mentioned that she’d like to switch up the schedule though, that she wants to see me first then do the shopping later. Can you give me your interpretation of the situation? Am I in the dreaded “friend zone” or is there a chance she is waiting to see my reaction and if I still have interest? I need the female perspective. Thanks in advance for your help, I am an absolutely pathetic messI need some advice from the women. What is your read of the situation?
Could you make it a little longer please. I would like to goto sleep before lunch ....
Zzzzzzzzz......I need some advice from the women. What is your read of the situation?
I get the impression that its okay for her to see someone, but gets quickly territorial when you mention someone. Be very careful here, I am not sure I understand what is going on but it seems like you could easily be hurt. If a person wants something bad enough, they will bend over backwards to make it work. I understand the long distance relationship issue, but meeting halfway (compromise) never hurt a relationship. I hope it works in your favor.
Hmm. I'd have to agree with one of the other ladies who answered. It seems like she's just kind of trying to string you along. Like she doesn't want you unless nothing else is going on for her. You don't want to be her in-between guy and that's what it seems like she's using you for.
I would say, there's probably a chance that when you said you were seeing someone else that she realized that she likes you a lot and doesn't want to loose you.... I mean it's possible... but then again it could be just that she doesn't want to loose her in-between guy. You sound like a real sweetheart and you don't deserve that.
My suggestion? Hang in there a little longer. See if anything develops now that you've sort of hinted that you're tired of waiting around on her. If she goes back to her old ways? Well then you know what's up. She wants an in-between guy. If she hangs in there though? Maybe it's worth it. I'd say give it a little time now that you've given her a gentle 'hey woman, I won't wait forever'.
That's really all you can do. But don't let her keep stringing you along. There are other women out there that are really great and really looking for someone who's really serious about being with them. Lots of fish in the sea. ;) Don't get hung up because one stole your hook. Get a new hook, get some more bait, go for a bigger, better catch ;)
Hope this helps a bit. I'm probably not in the age-range you want answers from, BUT just from a female prospective. I thought it might help. Hope it has!
My Take.....she doesnt want you but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either dump her quickly! she wants you as a fall back
It sounds like it got her a little jealous when you mentioned you were seeing someone. I think what's going on is she has grown close to you I mean chatting with each other and stuff and you've probably both shared many things with each other. I think she's afraid if you meet someone else that part of your relationship will change. And then again she might not know what she really wants.
sounds like she isnt thinkin the same as u and if distance is a problem now for her what would change it? ummm maybe it she feels the same as u do. sounds like she shoots ya down when u wanna go out with her and has another relationship, not good. maybe ur striking her interest more now since u have moved up to an earlier slot instead of shopping..lol jk. sounds like if she thinks ur in a relationship she will come see u and nothing will be expected, try to tell her ur free and single and see if u still meet up together, test the waters and maybe just ask her how she feels. instead of wondering just good to know what going on and u can think more clearly and maybe feel better..emailing daily thats really good and for so long too. its only an hour away.....even worse when its several hours away...doesnt sound too much like she wants to make a go of it at that time in her life. give it a shot and see what happens but dont set urself for failure, no expectations can only make the meeting that much better.
I go crazy trying to second guess what someone is thinking. So, I am always honest in what my intentions are. Then, I try to make it as comfortable as possible for the other person to also be honest. This works in every kind of situation, and you are never left 'wondering'. Your imagination of what may or may not be happening will cripple normal thinking.
Good luck. When your heart is involved, it's always kind of scarey. But if you say something and lose her, you probably didn't have her in the first place.
At this point you could go either way....friend or lover.
Ask her to visit or you go to her. If she likes you--she would drive a million miles.
This is a complicated situation. It could be that she likes you, but is afraid to start something because of the distance situation. It could also be one of those things where it is okay for her to date someone else but not okay for you. I would be very careful. Even though you have strong feelings for this girl, you could potentially end up getting hurt very badly. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. However, it could go the opposite way. You two might get together and decide that you can get over the distance thing and make a great go of it. It all depends on how much you are willing to go through to get what you want. Are you willing to take the chance of getting hurt? Are you willing to take that chance? I wish you luck in this situation. It could be that fate is possibly keeping you guys apart knowing that there is someone else that is out there for you. Love is a tricky thing. Sometimes it is great and sometimes it is not so great. Sometimes we get hurt and sometimes we find the love of a lifetime. Good luck on your quest for the love of your life.
You sound like a decent man and I hate to see ';good guys'; treated this way. What it sounds like to me is that this woman has not made up her mind as to what she wants and she is keeping all of her options open. Unfortunately she see's you as only one of several options.
The reason she is coming to you now is that she knows that if you are dating then you are no longer one of her options. I hate to say this but what she is doing is selfish on her part.
My advise is that you see her when she comes for her ';shopping'; trip and tell her right out that you are interested in an exclusive relationship with her. If she is not ready for that then you need to move on. Don't let her keep you on the side line just in case she can't find anyone better.
She may be a wonderful person but it sounds like she is not ready for a committed relationship.
Welll I am not expert in relationships but I am a chick. And it seems like she is playing games a bit - she wants her cake and eat it too. I get the sense from what you have told us that she wants to be chased. She obviously thinks you are interesting because she is emailing you etc but if she was REALLY into you then the distance thing would not be an issue. Your story sounds very close to mine - I was the same way - this guy was into me and I didn't feel like I was being chased - it was too easy. He lived 45 mins away as well and my excuse was that he is too far ...but then he started to come and see me but when I found out that he was ';talking'; to other girls I got super jealous and I started going after him...anyways to make a long story short I wanted that rush of being chased but I wasn't 100% sure if I was as into him as he was into me....sure enough to make a long story short - we are getting married next year...
My Advice - play her game a bit - tell her that you are dating, when she calls, tell her you will call her back and then wait a day before you do...when you are in her area give her a call and see what shes up to...you will keep her on her toes but still be the nice guy...and last but not least when you just don't wanna play the games anymore (this should have been my first piece of advice) just communicate to her - Say something like ';Look I am a nice guy, I have feelings for you and I would like to see where this is going - but even nice guys have pride and if you keep this up I am not gonna be around anymore';
My fiance said those words to me and it got me listening...
Good Luck!
I guess there are a few takes on this. First take....she really likes you as a good friend but knows you like her as more which is why she always has a ';boyfriend'; or something when you want to see her. And now that she thinks you're seeing someone...she feels ';safe'; to come see her friend without fear of you wanting something more than friendship from her. Second take....she does like you, as more than just a friend and maybe she really was seeing someone at the time you suggested getting together. Maybe she had moved on because it didn't seem like you were really interested in her (when you left it up to her to call or come to you after the last time you saw her...even though she had said she'd have to come to you next). Like someone else said, maybe she wants/wanted to be chased. And now that she hears you're moving on, maybe she's afraid she'll lose you forever and wants to get together to see if there's a chance for her. Third take....you're a nice guy, a good friend, and a good candidate for a boyfriend/mate but she trusts that/thinks/knows that you'll always be there, in the wings when she wants/needs you. Like others have stated...as back-up. Good old reliable. Comfortable and safe maybe? Not necessarily ';friend zone'; but not a committed or exclusive relationship either. Now, my final take....she likes you and has all along but didn't realize in what way or how much until you mentioned seeing someone else. Maybe that's when the light went on for her like it did for you in January. I hope this take is the right one. I probably didn't help much as I'm sure you've gone through tons of possibilities in your head and were looking for an answer not more possibilities to ponder, lol. Anyway, as for the fact that she's moved up your time slot on her shopping day, it may just be strictly a convenience/timing thing. Sorry, don't mean to squash your hope there. Or, maybe she's hoping to spend the day with you and the shopping was really just an excuse to be coming into town and not making it look like she's chasing you. She may be trying to be subtle (back to that her wanting you to chase her thing). Try not to sweat it too much. Wait til she comes and see how it plays out. Hmmm...gotta remember though, you told her you were seeing someone. What you gonna do about that? You can't really come on to her and profess your feelings for her when you are supposedly seeing someone else. That won't make you look very faithful or good. Neither will telling her you lied...hmmm. I don't know. Wish I could be more help. Not 100% what she's thinking....some of her actions are inconsistent but I think there's a chance though. Good luck. I hope it all works out for you. You sound like a nice, caring man...not a pathetic mess.
Sorry to burst your bubble! Personally, I don't think she is into you. She is possessive though. She doesn't need you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either.
Wow ...just give her the best sex imaginable..honestly women will choose the best lover everytime..She is coming to you..she wants to have some Sex b4 the shopping ..I think anyways ...clean your apartment..run a bath if she wants..to ease her from the trip down...by her some beautiful carnations assorted...set them on the table so she sees them when she gets there..ask her if she wants to go out to eat...lay it on thick...she likes u ...good luck..Isnt falling in Love the best...have fun... :) :):)
ok,here's my advice...are either one of you willing to move closer to each other? it kinda sounds to me like she is using you as an emergency backup. i would think long and hard about getting involved with this woman.if you SERIOUSLY think she is the one,make a move to really get to know her and talk to her about your feelings for one another.good luck!
You are in the dreaded friend zone.
She is dating someone else, and unfortunately, you missed the boat...twice. She likes you, yes, but it's obviously not going to work out or it would have already.
Have lunch with her, and find someone else to love.
Could you make it a little longer please. I would like to goto sleep before lunch ....
Zzzzzzzzz......I need some advice from the women. What is your read of the situation?
I get the impression that its okay for her to see someone, but gets quickly territorial when you mention someone. Be very careful here, I am not sure I understand what is going on but it seems like you could easily be hurt. If a person wants something bad enough, they will bend over backwards to make it work. I understand the long distance relationship issue, but meeting halfway (compromise) never hurt a relationship. I hope it works in your favor.
Hmm. I'd have to agree with one of the other ladies who answered. It seems like she's just kind of trying to string you along. Like she doesn't want you unless nothing else is going on for her. You don't want to be her in-between guy and that's what it seems like she's using you for.
I would say, there's probably a chance that when you said you were seeing someone else that she realized that she likes you a lot and doesn't want to loose you.... I mean it's possible... but then again it could be just that she doesn't want to loose her in-between guy. You sound like a real sweetheart and you don't deserve that.
My suggestion? Hang in there a little longer. See if anything develops now that you've sort of hinted that you're tired of waiting around on her. If she goes back to her old ways? Well then you know what's up. She wants an in-between guy. If she hangs in there though? Maybe it's worth it. I'd say give it a little time now that you've given her a gentle 'hey woman, I won't wait forever'.
That's really all you can do. But don't let her keep stringing you along. There are other women out there that are really great and really looking for someone who's really serious about being with them. Lots of fish in the sea. ;) Don't get hung up because one stole your hook. Get a new hook, get some more bait, go for a bigger, better catch ;)
Hope this helps a bit. I'm probably not in the age-range you want answers from, BUT just from a female prospective. I thought it might help. Hope it has!
My Take.....she doesnt want you but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either dump her quickly! she wants you as a fall back
It sounds like it got her a little jealous when you mentioned you were seeing someone. I think what's going on is she has grown close to you I mean chatting with each other and stuff and you've probably both shared many things with each other. I think she's afraid if you meet someone else that part of your relationship will change. And then again she might not know what she really wants.
sounds like she isnt thinkin the same as u and if distance is a problem now for her what would change it? ummm maybe it she feels the same as u do. sounds like she shoots ya down when u wanna go out with her and has another relationship, not good. maybe ur striking her interest more now since u have moved up to an earlier slot instead of shopping..lol jk. sounds like if she thinks ur in a relationship she will come see u and nothing will be expected, try to tell her ur free and single and see if u still meet up together, test the waters and maybe just ask her how she feels. instead of wondering just good to know what going on and u can think more clearly and maybe feel better..emailing daily thats really good and for so long too. its only an hour away.....even worse when its several hours away...doesnt sound too much like she wants to make a go of it at that time in her life. give it a shot and see what happens but dont set urself for failure, no expectations can only make the meeting that much better.
I go crazy trying to second guess what someone is thinking. So, I am always honest in what my intentions are. Then, I try to make it as comfortable as possible for the other person to also be honest. This works in every kind of situation, and you are never left 'wondering'. Your imagination of what may or may not be happening will cripple normal thinking.
Good luck. When your heart is involved, it's always kind of scarey. But if you say something and lose her, you probably didn't have her in the first place.
At this point you could go either way....friend or lover.
Ask her to visit or you go to her. If she likes you--she would drive a million miles.
This is a complicated situation. It could be that she likes you, but is afraid to start something because of the distance situation. It could also be one of those things where it is okay for her to date someone else but not okay for you. I would be very careful. Even though you have strong feelings for this girl, you could potentially end up getting hurt very badly. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. However, it could go the opposite way. You two might get together and decide that you can get over the distance thing and make a great go of it. It all depends on how much you are willing to go through to get what you want. Are you willing to take the chance of getting hurt? Are you willing to take that chance? I wish you luck in this situation. It could be that fate is possibly keeping you guys apart knowing that there is someone else that is out there for you. Love is a tricky thing. Sometimes it is great and sometimes it is not so great. Sometimes we get hurt and sometimes we find the love of a lifetime. Good luck on your quest for the love of your life.
You sound like a decent man and I hate to see ';good guys'; treated this way. What it sounds like to me is that this woman has not made up her mind as to what she wants and she is keeping all of her options open. Unfortunately she see's you as only one of several options.
The reason she is coming to you now is that she knows that if you are dating then you are no longer one of her options. I hate to say this but what she is doing is selfish on her part.
My advise is that you see her when she comes for her ';shopping'; trip and tell her right out that you are interested in an exclusive relationship with her. If she is not ready for that then you need to move on. Don't let her keep you on the side line just in case she can't find anyone better.
She may be a wonderful person but it sounds like she is not ready for a committed relationship.
Welll I am not expert in relationships but I am a chick. And it seems like she is playing games a bit - she wants her cake and eat it too. I get the sense from what you have told us that she wants to be chased. She obviously thinks you are interesting because she is emailing you etc but if she was REALLY into you then the distance thing would not be an issue. Your story sounds very close to mine - I was the same way - this guy was into me and I didn't feel like I was being chased - it was too easy. He lived 45 mins away as well and my excuse was that he is too far ...but then he started to come and see me but when I found out that he was ';talking'; to other girls I got super jealous and I started going after him...anyways to make a long story short I wanted that rush of being chased but I wasn't 100% sure if I was as into him as he was into me....sure enough to make a long story short - we are getting married next year...
My Advice - play her game a bit - tell her that you are dating, when she calls, tell her you will call her back and then wait a day before you do...when you are in her area give her a call and see what shes up to...you will keep her on her toes but still be the nice guy...and last but not least when you just don't wanna play the games anymore (this should have been my first piece of advice) just communicate to her - Say something like ';Look I am a nice guy, I have feelings for you and I would like to see where this is going - but even nice guys have pride and if you keep this up I am not gonna be around anymore';
My fiance said those words to me and it got me listening...
Good Luck!
I guess there are a few takes on this. First take....she really likes you as a good friend but knows you like her as more which is why she always has a ';boyfriend'; or something when you want to see her. And now that she thinks you're seeing someone...she feels ';safe'; to come see her friend without fear of you wanting something more than friendship from her. Second take....she does like you, as more than just a friend and maybe she really was seeing someone at the time you suggested getting together. Maybe she had moved on because it didn't seem like you were really interested in her (when you left it up to her to call or come to you after the last time you saw her...even though she had said she'd have to come to you next). Like someone else said, maybe she wants/wanted to be chased. And now that she hears you're moving on, maybe she's afraid she'll lose you forever and wants to get together to see if there's a chance for her. Third take....you're a nice guy, a good friend, and a good candidate for a boyfriend/mate but she trusts that/thinks/knows that you'll always be there, in the wings when she wants/needs you. Like others have stated...as back-up. Good old reliable. Comfortable and safe maybe? Not necessarily ';friend zone'; but not a committed or exclusive relationship either. Now, my final take....she likes you and has all along but didn't realize in what way or how much until you mentioned seeing someone else. Maybe that's when the light went on for her like it did for you in January. I hope this take is the right one. I probably didn't help much as I'm sure you've gone through tons of possibilities in your head and were looking for an answer not more possibilities to ponder, lol. Anyway, as for the fact that she's moved up your time slot on her shopping day, it may just be strictly a convenience/timing thing. Sorry, don't mean to squash your hope there. Or, maybe she's hoping to spend the day with you and the shopping was really just an excuse to be coming into town and not making it look like she's chasing you. She may be trying to be subtle (back to that her wanting you to chase her thing). Try not to sweat it too much. Wait til she comes and see how it plays out. Hmmm...gotta remember though, you told her you were seeing someone. What you gonna do about that? You can't really come on to her and profess your feelings for her when you are supposedly seeing someone else. That won't make you look very faithful or good. Neither will telling her you lied...hmmm. I don't know. Wish I could be more help. Not 100% what she's thinking....some of her actions are inconsistent but I think there's a chance though. Good luck. I hope it all works out for you. You sound like a nice, caring man...not a pathetic mess.
Sorry to burst your bubble! Personally, I don't think she is into you. She is possessive though. She doesn't need you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either.
Wow ...just give her the best sex imaginable..honestly women will choose the best lover everytime..She is coming to you..she wants to have some Sex b4 the shopping ..I think anyways ...clean your apartment..run a bath if she wants..to ease her from the trip down...by her some beautiful carnations assorted...set them on the table so she sees them when she gets there..ask her if she wants to go out to eat...lay it on thick...she likes u ...good luck..Isnt falling in Love the best...have fun... :) :):)
ok,here's my advice...are either one of you willing to move closer to each other? it kinda sounds to me like she is using you as an emergency backup. i would think long and hard about getting involved with this woman.if you SERIOUSLY think she is the one,make a move to really get to know her and talk to her about your feelings for one another.good luck!
You are in the dreaded friend zone.
She is dating someone else, and unfortunately, you missed the boat...twice. She likes you, yes, but it's obviously not going to work out or it would have already.
Have lunch with her, and find someone else to love.
Any advice on meeting and dating Chinese/Taiwanese women?
Hi-I want to meet some. I was told it's a good idea to learn some Chinese. I was thinking of getting Rosetta Stone to learn some Chinese, but isn't it better to just be yourself? I'd like some advice about meeting Chinese/Taiwanese women and meeting foreign women in general.Any advice on meeting and dating Chinese/Taiwanese women?
There is really not much advice I could give you... other than that I do think it is a good idea you learn a bit of Chinese. The more you know the better.. of course a lot of people know simple phrases like 'xie xie' (thank you) and 'ni hao' (hello) but if you wanna REALLY hit it off, go a bit further than that ;) Also I don't know where you live but go hang around areas with a lot of Chinese people. Don't be shy about approaching Chinese/ Taiwanese women because they might not be expecting attention from a foreigner.
Also, I am Chinese myself (too young for you i suspect) but I don't think race plays a big part in a healthy relationship. Some of the answers on here are WAY too stereotypical (you people need to get out more). At the end of the day, the skin tone doesn't matter, its the person.
Good luck xAny advice on meeting and dating Chinese/Taiwanese women?
Relationship wise, Chinese women would work with men who are a little bit on the business side. If you happen to be a professional, that's ok as long as you can prove that you are sincere. You don't really need to know the language but a word or two would make her smile a bit. Old chinese people prefer their daughter to marry a chinese man. But these days, they are more open to other nationalities as long as the couple love each other. Marriage is very important and staying together is more important to them than chemistry. I guess if you really love each other chemistry would follow. They don't expect the marriage to be full of romance but more realistic to know that being together means there will be ups and down.
Haha. I know you were just asking about dating.
I already talked about marriage. Well just in case you are really interested and would like to take it to the final level.
Where to meet them?
From what i heard, San Francisco has a bigger chinese population that here in LA.
Or you can go to china town.
I was thinking the same thing. I don't really have any advice. I lived in Taiwan before, and they were pretty friendly, some quite nice. Now I live in China, but only been here under 2 months and have not met anyone yet. It's not as easy as I had hoped, but the language barrier is a thing here. I haven't learned much Chinese, and not many speak much English it appears, at least where I am. I'd say the main big cities might be better, at least for language, but then you would also be more of a novelty in cities with fewer foreigners, and sometimes I have found Asian girls show interest in that. Hang out in place where they might be easier to meet, say some coffee shop. Department stores are not bad either. I don't really know.
It definitely helps to learn some of the language. They love when you show effort to learn it and it's also a very good conversation starter. If you travel at all, just visit those countries and it is easy to get to know some because you are exotic (assuming you're not Chinese). I've traveled all over Asia so you can believe what I'm saying. Why limit yourself to Chinese/Taiwanese anyway? My favorite would be Thai, and I've known women from all over Asia.
if u are trying to meet chinese women, then go to a chinese massage parlor and ask for the happy ending and u will have a chinese girl
go to china and say you will send her money every week.
get down on ur knees when ur doin whatever ur doin with them
uh.....go to China or Taiwan?
There is really not much advice I could give you... other than that I do think it is a good idea you learn a bit of Chinese. The more you know the better.. of course a lot of people know simple phrases like 'xie xie' (thank you) and 'ni hao' (hello) but if you wanna REALLY hit it off, go a bit further than that ;) Also I don't know where you live but go hang around areas with a lot of Chinese people. Don't be shy about approaching Chinese/ Taiwanese women because they might not be expecting attention from a foreigner.
Also, I am Chinese myself (too young for you i suspect) but I don't think race plays a big part in a healthy relationship. Some of the answers on here are WAY too stereotypical (you people need to get out more). At the end of the day, the skin tone doesn't matter, its the person.
Good luck xAny advice on meeting and dating Chinese/Taiwanese women?
Relationship wise, Chinese women would work with men who are a little bit on the business side. If you happen to be a professional, that's ok as long as you can prove that you are sincere. You don't really need to know the language but a word or two would make her smile a bit. Old chinese people prefer their daughter to marry a chinese man. But these days, they are more open to other nationalities as long as the couple love each other. Marriage is very important and staying together is more important to them than chemistry. I guess if you really love each other chemistry would follow. They don't expect the marriage to be full of romance but more realistic to know that being together means there will be ups and down.
Haha. I know you were just asking about dating.
I already talked about marriage. Well just in case you are really interested and would like to take it to the final level.
Where to meet them?
From what i heard, San Francisco has a bigger chinese population that here in LA.
Or you can go to china town.
I was thinking the same thing. I don't really have any advice. I lived in Taiwan before, and they were pretty friendly, some quite nice. Now I live in China, but only been here under 2 months and have not met anyone yet. It's not as easy as I had hoped, but the language barrier is a thing here. I haven't learned much Chinese, and not many speak much English it appears, at least where I am. I'd say the main big cities might be better, at least for language, but then you would also be more of a novelty in cities with fewer foreigners, and sometimes I have found Asian girls show interest in that. Hang out in place where they might be easier to meet, say some coffee shop. Department stores are not bad either. I don't really know.
It definitely helps to learn some of the language. They love when you show effort to learn it and it's also a very good conversation starter. If you travel at all, just visit those countries and it is easy to get to know some because you are exotic (assuming you're not Chinese). I've traveled all over Asia so you can believe what I'm saying. Why limit yourself to Chinese/Taiwanese anyway? My favorite would be Thai, and I've known women from all over Asia.
if u are trying to meet chinese women, then go to a chinese massage parlor and ask for the happy ending and u will have a chinese girl
go to china and say you will send her money every week.
get down on ur knees when ur doin whatever ur doin with them
uh.....go to China or Taiwan?
Advice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
Anything you think would be helpful to a guy who just wants to be best for a girl.
Perhaps the list will grow to something every guy can get help from.Advice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
good listener, trust me on this oneAdvice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
from recent experience that's still hurting me...
be nice, don't be rough, take it slow and softly, but make your intentions obvious, and then gradually ask her out (don't rush in, may scare her)
be sweet, attentive, caring, and listen to her, knowing the little things about her will make her go ';awww :)'; i know it makes me and many of my friends go like that
and you just wanting to be the best for a girl is enough :)!! that is a wonderful attitude and so sweet :)!!! i hope one day i find a guy who wants to be the best to me :)
-Don't call too much( every night is fine, past that is pushing it).
-But, still always answer the phone
- Be yourself
- But still be polite, she isn't a guy friend.
- Be honest
- But don't be blunt/rude
- Tell her her perfections
- Ignore her flaws
- Be friends with her friends
- But tell her the most
- Don't flirt with other girls/cheat on her(it gives guys a bad name)
- Flirt with her, and be sweet!
- Never push her to do anything she doesn't want to. ( no means no!)
- but still cuddle with her, and whisper sweet things in her ear, or rub her back
- Tease her lightly
- But don't make her cry or feel self consious!!
- Remember that girls are delicate
- But, don't obsess over her, that is weird
- Always be a gentleman, and always do what feels right.
- Never assume she has her period and ask outloud.
- Talk to her, it's okay. We like confidence
- Don't be an ego maniac though, it's so annoying
I hope this list helps you and others!!
Be nice to her.
DONT CHEAT.
Hold doors open for her, let her go in doors first
Dont do drugs, drink
Dont go to parties without her (if your a party person)
ALWAYS BE KIND TO HER
Surprise her every so often with roses or her favorite flowers
Give her compliments
LISTEN TO HER!
Be nice to her friends
DO NOT HIT HER even if she hits you in the balls.
Cuddle with her (who cares what other guys think, i do with mine and everything else im giving you)
Watch movies with her
Make everynight a night she wont forget
Hold her tight
Kiss her forehead (girls like that stuff)
Move the hair away from her eyes
If your at that point to say I Love You, make sure you MEAN IT and say it every time you talk to her
Text/call her goodnight and goodmorning
Make her fell wanted, loved, appreciated and cared for
Hold her hand everytime you two walk together
Dont kiss and tell even if your pressured (they'll respect that)
Stand out from the other guys that just want sex.
I stand out. Sure i get teased sometimes about not cheating, or doing that stuff....but, honestly, i DONT care what other guys think of me. That's what separates me from the other guys. Im that ';perfect'; boyfriend that girls look for in a guy as some would say. Stand out, its okay to be different. I hope you'll put this to use
Ask her what things interest her. Don' pretend you like something you don't. Be honest. Listen with interest when she talks to you. Most guys don't. Little things mean a lot, like opening doors for her, walk her to her door after a date. If you don't ask her about sex, she will think you might not be normal and don't push sex on her. Showing respect for her will make her respect you. Be her friend, not just a boyfriend. And no lines. Don't look at other girls. This will flatter her.
as long as you don't listen to chris f, you will be fine. just the fact that you are concerned that you are doing everything you can do to make your girl happy makes you a good boyfriend. just be there for her whenever she needs you that's the best advice i can give you.
try to relate to her situations, see things from her perspective. haha, i know that sounds completely impossible, but once you support her like that, everything else just won't seem to matter so much.
=)
Don't obsessively text and/or call. Attention is nice but nothing can be more annoying than the guy who doesn't give you time to miss him because he's alwaysssss present.
Always be sweet and kind, never raise your voice at her, and always put her first.
You sound like a good guy, best of luck!
Stick it in her pooper !
Also, it helps to have an extremely large penis.
Don't question her and Do everything she says.
Perhaps the list will grow to something every guy can get help from.Advice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
good listener, trust me on this oneAdvice on women, dating, and being a good boyfriend?
from recent experience that's still hurting me...
be nice, don't be rough, take it slow and softly, but make your intentions obvious, and then gradually ask her out (don't rush in, may scare her)
be sweet, attentive, caring, and listen to her, knowing the little things about her will make her go ';awww :)'; i know it makes me and many of my friends go like that
and you just wanting to be the best for a girl is enough :)!! that is a wonderful attitude and so sweet :)!!! i hope one day i find a guy who wants to be the best to me :)
-Don't call too much( every night is fine, past that is pushing it).
-But, still always answer the phone
- Be yourself
- But still be polite, she isn't a guy friend.
- Be honest
- But don't be blunt/rude
- Tell her her perfections
- Ignore her flaws
- Be friends with her friends
- But tell her the most
- Don't flirt with other girls/cheat on her(it gives guys a bad name)
- Flirt with her, and be sweet!
- Never push her to do anything she doesn't want to. ( no means no!)
- but still cuddle with her, and whisper sweet things in her ear, or rub her back
- Tease her lightly
- But don't make her cry or feel self consious!!
- Remember that girls are delicate
- But, don't obsess over her, that is weird
- Always be a gentleman, and always do what feels right.
- Never assume she has her period and ask outloud.
- Talk to her, it's okay. We like confidence
- Don't be an ego maniac though, it's so annoying
I hope this list helps you and others!!
Be nice to her.
DONT CHEAT.
Hold doors open for her, let her go in doors first
Dont do drugs, drink
Dont go to parties without her (if your a party person)
ALWAYS BE KIND TO HER
Surprise her every so often with roses or her favorite flowers
Give her compliments
LISTEN TO HER!
Be nice to her friends
DO NOT HIT HER even if she hits you in the balls.
Cuddle with her (who cares what other guys think, i do with mine and everything else im giving you)
Watch movies with her
Make everynight a night she wont forget
Hold her tight
Kiss her forehead (girls like that stuff)
Move the hair away from her eyes
If your at that point to say I Love You, make sure you MEAN IT and say it every time you talk to her
Text/call her goodnight and goodmorning
Make her fell wanted, loved, appreciated and cared for
Hold her hand everytime you two walk together
Dont kiss and tell even if your pressured (they'll respect that)
Stand out from the other guys that just want sex.
I stand out. Sure i get teased sometimes about not cheating, or doing that stuff....but, honestly, i DONT care what other guys think of me. That's what separates me from the other guys. Im that ';perfect'; boyfriend that girls look for in a guy as some would say. Stand out, its okay to be different. I hope you'll put this to use
Ask her what things interest her. Don' pretend you like something you don't. Be honest. Listen with interest when she talks to you. Most guys don't. Little things mean a lot, like opening doors for her, walk her to her door after a date. If you don't ask her about sex, she will think you might not be normal and don't push sex on her. Showing respect for her will make her respect you. Be her friend, not just a boyfriend. And no lines. Don't look at other girls. This will flatter her.
as long as you don't listen to chris f, you will be fine. just the fact that you are concerned that you are doing everything you can do to make your girl happy makes you a good boyfriend. just be there for her whenever she needs you that's the best advice i can give you.
try to relate to her situations, see things from her perspective. haha, i know that sounds completely impossible, but once you support her like that, everything else just won't seem to matter so much.
=)
Don't obsessively text and/or call. Attention is nice but nothing can be more annoying than the guy who doesn't give you time to miss him because he's alwaysssss present.
Always be sweet and kind, never raise your voice at her, and always put her first.
You sound like a good guy, best of luck!
Stick it in her pooper !
Also, it helps to have an extremely large penis.
Don't question her and Do everything she says.
Married women, what advice do you wish you had been given in the early months of your relationship?
Do you have any advice to give a young woman in the early months of a new relationship? What do you wish someone had told you?Married women, what advice do you wish you had been given in the early months of your relationship?
Marriage is living for your spouse.
Sometimes you give more than you get.
Do something special EVERY DAY for your spouse. No matter how tiny.
Never ever stop having sex or withhold it.
Do not ';punish';.
Do not get even.
Do not lie.
Trust.
Be trustworthy.
Communication is a work in progress forever. Never let that get bad.
EDIT
As someone else said - don't sweat the small stuff. Let little things go. Choose your battles.
NEVER EVER EVER fight in public.Married women, what advice do you wish you had been given in the early months of your relationship?
Don't expect him to be romantic. Romance gets thrown out with the birdseed (or rice for those who still use rice.) Also, drop a bean into a gallon jar every time you make love for a year. After the first year, take a bean out for every time you make love and see how many are left by the time you die of old age.
Pay attention to problems with in-laws on either side. A problem now means a problem for life, unfortunately.
Also, life is long.. don't rush. And don't go against your gut for other people.
I wish someone had told my ex-wife that everything is not an issue. And to show some respect for her husband. And to not look to find fault. And to show some appreciation. And to...
Start now building your relationship with your boyfriend/fiance's mother... whatever type of relationship you establish in the early days will carry over to your marriage... I've seen friends be total pushovers and then once they're married and they want to be respected etc it's impossible.
In my experience, especially during our engagement we set boundaries and were firm with our decisions. I think this is a great thing to start early in the relationship with one another's parents. I'm not suggesting you be disrespectful... just set boundaries.
Be totally, completely honest about any little thing even if the truth hurts. In the long run, you'll notice if your relationship will last. Don't expect him to read your mind.
i wish someone told me not to ***** about the small things, marriage is not a bed of roses, and that i would work on my relationship about 99% of the time.
(i love my hubby though)
Marriage is living for your spouse.
Sometimes you give more than you get.
Do something special EVERY DAY for your spouse. No matter how tiny.
Never ever stop having sex or withhold it.
Do not ';punish';.
Do not get even.
Do not lie.
Trust.
Be trustworthy.
Communication is a work in progress forever. Never let that get bad.
EDIT
As someone else said - don't sweat the small stuff. Let little things go. Choose your battles.
NEVER EVER EVER fight in public.Married women, what advice do you wish you had been given in the early months of your relationship?
Don't expect him to be romantic. Romance gets thrown out with the birdseed (or rice for those who still use rice.) Also, drop a bean into a gallon jar every time you make love for a year. After the first year, take a bean out for every time you make love and see how many are left by the time you die of old age.
Pay attention to problems with in-laws on either side. A problem now means a problem for life, unfortunately.
Also, life is long.. don't rush. And don't go against your gut for other people.
I wish someone had told my ex-wife that everything is not an issue. And to show some respect for her husband. And to not look to find fault. And to show some appreciation. And to...
Start now building your relationship with your boyfriend/fiance's mother... whatever type of relationship you establish in the early days will carry over to your marriage... I've seen friends be total pushovers and then once they're married and they want to be respected etc it's impossible.
In my experience, especially during our engagement we set boundaries and were firm with our decisions. I think this is a great thing to start early in the relationship with one another's parents. I'm not suggesting you be disrespectful... just set boundaries.
Be totally, completely honest about any little thing even if the truth hurts. In the long run, you'll notice if your relationship will last. Don't expect him to read your mind.
i wish someone told me not to ***** about the small things, marriage is not a bed of roses, and that i would work on my relationship about 99% of the time.
(i love my hubby though)
What advice do you have for a man to has suicidal thoughts because of his fear of women?
GET IT OVER WITH.What advice do you have for a man to has suicidal thoughts because of his fear of women?
Go to the gym and work out
Get a boyfriend
Become a founding member of ';The He-man's Woman Hating Club';What advice do you have for a man to has suicidal thoughts because of his fear of women?
well I am a woman and I am not scarey, women are just sensitive creatures even thoe they act cold, I would say if you kill yourself over that your going to miss the opportunity to experience true love so why are you so afraid stop being self centered, start looking around you the one you are looking for is looking for you so stop it I say stop it..........
pay for body rubs with the extras. at least he will get used to being naked around females.
dont kill yourself over women there is nothing to be afraid of the worst they will say is no
no.1 dont kill yorself you will die whene your time comes no.2 eny man has a chnce whith a girl
Dude you should not have those thoughts. Basically women are not worth killing yourself over. Take a good look around you. Do you see some fairly what you would consider attractive women with what you would consider total jerk guys. Yep ... see women are not to be put on a pedastal. If losers like those guys can get women anyone can. Women say they want a nice guy then they date bad boys. They don't know what they want. What you need to do is get women out of your mind and take up a hobby. Tennis, weight training, karate, or what about ballroom dancing. With ballroom you get to get close to all kinds of females in a casual relaxed no expectations atmosphere and one may surprise you and express interest in you and becoming a good dancer will increase your chances 10 fold. If not then get good at something which will increase your self confidence and then that will attract them. Because honestly women are not self confident they are critical and judgemental and always comparing themselves to other women feeling inadequate. Dude relax and enjoy life. I hope that you are not totally serious but if you are go out to a club with some buddies or just pop in for a drink yourself and chat with one of the dancers. No expectations and nothing to loose except the money in your wallet but atleast the girls are friendly because it pays them to be. But don't count on dating any or taking them home. They're just meant to be visually enjoyed. Hope this helps. And keep the faith. You will make it.
Well, I feel that you need to slowly introduce yourself to women tactfully, and try to befriend them. The best way to get over a fear is to conquer it head on. Like my fear of the dark, I just turned off the lights and knew God was on watch and it's all good and I'm fine since. See, what I feel that your fear is more of the unknown. If this advice doesn't help, I would consider going to a counselor or a physcologist who could help you find ways to overcome this condition. Just realize that death is not the answer. Who knows? You may love women, and be crazy for them later??? You might even get a girlfriend. So, that's my advice. I hope it helps, and good luck.
Go to the gym and work out
Get a boyfriend
Become a founding member of ';The He-man's Woman Hating Club';What advice do you have for a man to has suicidal thoughts because of his fear of women?
well I am a woman and I am not scarey, women are just sensitive creatures even thoe they act cold, I would say if you kill yourself over that your going to miss the opportunity to experience true love so why are you so afraid stop being self centered, start looking around you the one you are looking for is looking for you so stop it I say stop it..........
pay for body rubs with the extras. at least he will get used to being naked around females.
dont kill yourself over women there is nothing to be afraid of the worst they will say is no
no.1 dont kill yorself you will die whene your time comes no.2 eny man has a chnce whith a girl
Dude you should not have those thoughts. Basically women are not worth killing yourself over. Take a good look around you. Do you see some fairly what you would consider attractive women with what you would consider total jerk guys. Yep ... see women are not to be put on a pedastal. If losers like those guys can get women anyone can. Women say they want a nice guy then they date bad boys. They don't know what they want. What you need to do is get women out of your mind and take up a hobby. Tennis, weight training, karate, or what about ballroom dancing. With ballroom you get to get close to all kinds of females in a casual relaxed no expectations atmosphere and one may surprise you and express interest in you and becoming a good dancer will increase your chances 10 fold. If not then get good at something which will increase your self confidence and then that will attract them. Because honestly women are not self confident they are critical and judgemental and always comparing themselves to other women feeling inadequate. Dude relax and enjoy life. I hope that you are not totally serious but if you are go out to a club with some buddies or just pop in for a drink yourself and chat with one of the dancers. No expectations and nothing to loose except the money in your wallet but atleast the girls are friendly because it pays them to be. But don't count on dating any or taking them home. They're just meant to be visually enjoyed. Hope this helps. And keep the faith. You will make it.
Well, I feel that you need to slowly introduce yourself to women tactfully, and try to befriend them. The best way to get over a fear is to conquer it head on. Like my fear of the dark, I just turned off the lights and knew God was on watch and it's all good and I'm fine since. See, what I feel that your fear is more of the unknown. If this advice doesn't help, I would consider going to a counselor or a physcologist who could help you find ways to overcome this condition. Just realize that death is not the answer. Who knows? You may love women, and be crazy for them later??? You might even get a girlfriend. So, that's my advice. I hope it helps, and good luck.
How much respect should guys give to women's advice on dating?
Remember, if it were for the advice of women, we'd all be nice guys- and none of us would be gettin any.How much respect should guys give to women's advice on dating?
Not much man. Most girls will say they want one thing and theyll date another. They say they want a guy to care for them, hold them, be honest with them, talk to them, be loyal, and all around nice guy they can rely on. But have u ever noticed that most girls date the jerks who dont respect women that much.
I didnt start going out like crazy until i stopped respecting women and just began being more jerkish and being more forward. I swear women love jerks.How much respect should guys give to women's advice on dating?
Not much. Women only give tips on how to better serve your girlfriend. Guys know the best ways to manage a quick score, and how to best manage a long term relationship from our end, and keep our needs best met while satisfying both parties.
A friend of mine has a girl friend of two years, and about 3 women he has fun with on the side. The best part is he does it all at minimum financial expense to himself.
Women never know what other women want. Women hate other women. Most women say they want a certain guy, but they go for something completely different. Actions speak louder than words.
Panacea said it perfectly. Women don't realize that they don't respond to what they say they want, and they will respond to something different. Society put it into their heads that they want one thing, and nature put it into their actions that they want something else.
Women rarely tell the truth about this issue. They are not so much dishonest as they are completely unaware of the disconnect between what they say they want and what they actually respond to.
BTW, the 4 elements a woman RESPONDS to are:
1. Dominance
2. Emotion
3. Variety
4. Immersion
If you want the sex and the relationship to be good, focus on those 4 qualities.
Since we women are the ones who know exactly what we like and want it would be wise to take our advise, otherwise the 'gettin' any' well just might dry up. Nice or naughty the guys who treat us with respect get more than those who don't. Remember that respect is also a two way street.
100% multiplide by infinity. Right or wrong you have to respect the advice.
All respect. Women after all know what women want.
alot
lol
Because women understand women so we can help guys
haha it depends on how good the advice is my friend
93%becca
Not much man. Most girls will say they want one thing and theyll date another. They say they want a guy to care for them, hold them, be honest with them, talk to them, be loyal, and all around nice guy they can rely on. But have u ever noticed that most girls date the jerks who dont respect women that much.
I didnt start going out like crazy until i stopped respecting women and just began being more jerkish and being more forward. I swear women love jerks.How much respect should guys give to women's advice on dating?
Not much. Women only give tips on how to better serve your girlfriend. Guys know the best ways to manage a quick score, and how to best manage a long term relationship from our end, and keep our needs best met while satisfying both parties.
A friend of mine has a girl friend of two years, and about 3 women he has fun with on the side. The best part is he does it all at minimum financial expense to himself.
Women never know what other women want. Women hate other women. Most women say they want a certain guy, but they go for something completely different. Actions speak louder than words.
Panacea said it perfectly. Women don't realize that they don't respond to what they say they want, and they will respond to something different. Society put it into their heads that they want one thing, and nature put it into their actions that they want something else.
Women rarely tell the truth about this issue. They are not so much dishonest as they are completely unaware of the disconnect between what they say they want and what they actually respond to.
BTW, the 4 elements a woman RESPONDS to are:
1. Dominance
2. Emotion
3. Variety
4. Immersion
If you want the sex and the relationship to be good, focus on those 4 qualities.
Since we women are the ones who know exactly what we like and want it would be wise to take our advise, otherwise the 'gettin' any' well just might dry up. Nice or naughty the guys who treat us with respect get more than those who don't. Remember that respect is also a two way street.
100% multiplide by infinity. Right or wrong you have to respect the advice.
All respect. Women after all know what women want.
alot
lol
Because women understand women so we can help guys
haha it depends on how good the advice is my friend
93%
I need some advice from the women. What is your read of the situation?
I need help from the adult ladies out there, it would be greatly appreciated. I need to know how to read this situation so I don’t make an a** of myself tomorrow (I’m 30, and this girl is 34, neither of us have ever been married). I went out with this girl twice, the last time was a year and a half ago. The first time we went out things went ok and we made plans to go out again. Then one of her longtime friends got in the way and they began seeing each other. She lives one hour away from me so it would have been a long distance relationship. She broke up with him a few months later. We went out again shortly thereafter. I went to see her. At the end of the date, she said that she would have to come down to see me next time. she had indicated previously that the distance turns her off because she has to drive 45 minutes everyday to work and that was what was precluding her from starting a relationship with me.. It’s really complicated, but like an idiot I never asked her down because I kept coming back to the “she doesn’t like the distance thing so she isn’t really interested”. I didn’t want to have to deal with the rejection because she is an awesome girl and I could have seen myself falling hard for her and then end up hurt. If I missed my chance with her I’ll never forgive myself. Here’s the thing. We’ve kept in touch consistently for the last year and a half and email nearly daily (sometimes to the point of excessive since we are both at work!). Sometimes about absolutely nothing at all, but other times about life and what’s happening in each of our lives. Over this time I’ve begun to realize that I have some serious feelings for her, like she might be THE ONE. Back in January I realized this and I asked her out to lunch but she said that she had started seeing someone and “didn’t think it would be fair for all of us involved” to get together. So we went on like usual. I casually mentioned to her about a month ago that I had started seeing somebody (I’m not anymore but she doesn’t know that), and she immediately responded by suggesting that we needed to get together sometime. She is planning on coming down to my town to do some shopping and wanted to get together with me afterwards. Today, she mentioned that she’d like to switch up the schedule though, that she wants to see me first then do the shopping later. Can you give me your interpretation of the situation? Am I in the dreaded “friend zone” or is there a chance she is waiting to see my reaction and if I still have interest? I need the female perspective. Thanks in advance for your help, I am an absolutely pathetic mess.I need some advice from the women. What is your read of the situation?
I'm 30. Sounds like you are in the ';friend zone';. 45 minutes is not that big of a deal to drive. When I was all into a guy, I would drive 3 hours! When you really fall for someone, you do things that you normally wouldn't do and it sounds like she's just making excuses to not get with you and just wants something to do.
You may be into her, but you will find someone else! Throw that Tuna back in the sea and so fishing for some Salmon.I need some advice from the women. What is your read of the situation?
She's definitely trying to see what's going on. However, she doesn't seem that into you. It's like she finds whatever reason to keep you at arms length, and because of that, you should talk to her and lay it out there, but also be ready to scrap the whole relationship because there is a chance you may not hear what you want.
I dunno but lifes too short to waste time pussy footin around. Do you really want to know where you stand with this girl or not?Truthfully distance shouldn't be a serious issue if she's really into you. If her feelings were strong she'd jump through hoops to get to spend time with you. She'd also have offered to meet you half way (driving wise) a while ago.You two could have and still could meet each other once a week for dinner after work again driving somewhere halfway for the two of you.When you've met Mr or Ms Right distance is the least of your obstacles especially since it's only an hour away. People that are used to living in large metropolitian areas perception of an hours driving time is like, it's nothing to sweat about, no big deal.I'm not sure why she all the sudden decided that she had a sudden craving to see you except that you seem more appealing now that she thinks someone else is interested in you.Annoying huh? Just put your cards on the table ,and make her do it too.This way you're not wasting each others time especially if she really does only want to be your friend.Who knows how many countless other wonderful girls are out there just waiting for a chance to go out with you.You have to think like that and not put your eggs all in one basket with this girl just in case.She may not know how she feels about you but she'll have a chance to prove it when you come up with different options for her. If she keeps coming up with excuses let it go and move on.Ok?Good luck.
awww, You seem like a really sweet guy. I read your ';entire'; story and I think she wants to see if your still interested. The fact that she wants to meet before shopping says a lot. Plan something nice and make her wish she could be treated this way everyday. She'll make that drive!
Good Luck
Oh boy!! Maybe she wants to get together - and see how it goes- do it- is there a chance you can move or her move- I lnow that driving can be a pain- but you won't know unless you try-sounds like she is interested- esp when she heard someone else is in you- D
I'm 30. Sounds like you are in the ';friend zone';. 45 minutes is not that big of a deal to drive. When I was all into a guy, I would drive 3 hours! When you really fall for someone, you do things that you normally wouldn't do and it sounds like she's just making excuses to not get with you and just wants something to do.
You may be into her, but you will find someone else! Throw that Tuna back in the sea and so fishing for some Salmon.I need some advice from the women. What is your read of the situation?
She's definitely trying to see what's going on. However, she doesn't seem that into you. It's like she finds whatever reason to keep you at arms length, and because of that, you should talk to her and lay it out there, but also be ready to scrap the whole relationship because there is a chance you may not hear what you want.
I dunno but lifes too short to waste time pussy footin around. Do you really want to know where you stand with this girl or not?Truthfully distance shouldn't be a serious issue if she's really into you. If her feelings were strong she'd jump through hoops to get to spend time with you. She'd also have offered to meet you half way (driving wise) a while ago.You two could have and still could meet each other once a week for dinner after work again driving somewhere halfway for the two of you.When you've met Mr or Ms Right distance is the least of your obstacles especially since it's only an hour away. People that are used to living in large metropolitian areas perception of an hours driving time is like, it's nothing to sweat about, no big deal.I'm not sure why she all the sudden decided that she had a sudden craving to see you except that you seem more appealing now that she thinks someone else is interested in you.Annoying huh? Just put your cards on the table ,and make her do it too.This way you're not wasting each others time especially if she really does only want to be your friend.Who knows how many countless other wonderful girls are out there just waiting for a chance to go out with you.You have to think like that and not put your eggs all in one basket with this girl just in case.She may not know how she feels about you but she'll have a chance to prove it when you come up with different options for her. If she keeps coming up with excuses let it go and move on.Ok?Good luck.
awww, You seem like a really sweet guy. I read your ';entire'; story and I think she wants to see if your still interested. The fact that she wants to meet before shopping says a lot. Plan something nice and make her wish she could be treated this way everyday. She'll make that drive!
Good Luck
Oh boy!! Maybe she wants to get together - and see how it goes- do it- is there a chance you can move or her move- I lnow that driving can be a pain- but you won't know unless you try-sounds like she is interested- esp when she heard someone else is in you- D
Do you recommend breast implants?? Advice from women who have had work done is greatly appreciated!!?
Hello everyone. I am seriously considering breast augmentation but I am getting mixed reactions from friends and family. I have three children and have absolutely no plans to have anymore. Since having children I have gone from a D all the way down to a B. Naturally, it is not something that I am used to and would love to have my old shape back. Although a B does fit my small frame (5'2 115 lbs.) I am not insecure with any aspect of my life but I know I would feel a lot better if I did go through with it. Nothing drastic, I was thinking of a small C.
A friend of mine had hers done and she is unbelievably happy. My main concern is health risks. Does anybody really know what the long term effects are?? Should I do it?? lol Any information or advice would be great.Do you recommend breast implants?? Advice from women who have had work done is greatly appreciated!!?
The same thing happened to me after I had 3 kids (after I nursed them). Sure, it would be nice to get the original ones back, but I don't think it's worth the health risks of having an operation, and having something inserted under the skin. However, I lifted weights for about a year (before an injury sidelined me), and I found that the bench press type exercises increased my pectoral muscles, which in turn, pushed my breasts out, making them seem bigger. So consider this alternative, or even easier, the newer, padded bras they have out now. What message are you sending your kids, if you have an OPERATION for something so superficial? Self-esteem shouldn't depend on our breast size. Also, ask your husband. Mine doesn't want me to risk my health for such a flimsy, vain reason.Do you recommend breast implants?? Advice from women who have had work done is greatly appreciated!!?
i havent had them done but i probably wouldnt in my opinion. it all depends on if your doing it for beauty reasons or just cause someone else has done it. natural beauty should be a good thing =) but the choice is up to you really. its your body =P
Breast implant surgery is very safe nowadays. My cousin got her breast reduction, tummy tuck and facelift surgery in India by the company called Tour2india4health Consultants .The Price for the surgery she paid in India was very less. She paid 30% of the cost she was quoted in America.
Tour2india4health Consultants is very famous in India. They arrange cosmetic and plastic surgery for foreigners in India. I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories. They arrange financing for USA, Canadian, UK and other international patients who plan to have surgery abroad for low price, as the breast reduction, tummy tuck, facelift and other cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance. They also have photos pasted of their International patients. You can checkout their website. There are huge cost savings. As a doctor I personally believe that surgery can be easily handled in India, as the quality of healthcare available In India is simply best in the world. The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.
http://www.tour2india4health.com
Hope this helps.
Breast augmentation surgery does carry certain risks indeed.
These may include general risks related to the procedure, medical risks including infection, and the risk of your not being satisfied with the result of the procedure. Each of these risks must be considered carefully and you must be aware of all of them before undergoing the breast augmentation surgery.
However, there are some common myths and exagerrations you should know :
Myth: Breast implants rupture all of the time.
Fact: In reality, breast implants are quite durable, and while occurrences of ruptures do exist, they are not common. For one brand of breast implant, the incidence of rupture after breast augmentation was 2.7% over 4 years. A study conducted with 106 women who had breast implants an average of 11 years showed an incidence of rupture of 15%. (Please note that this study was done in Europe and may have included older types of implants.) A study of saline implants found that leakage or deflation occurred in about 3% of cases after 3 years.
A rupture occurs when the shell of the implant develops a tear or hole. Rupture in a silicone implant may be what is called “silent.” This means that you have no signs that your implants are leaking. With saline implants, rupture will cause the breast to deflate, either slowly or quickly.
Myth: As soon as an implant is placed in the body, the implant is changed forever.
Fact: The chemical make-up of the implant is not changed as soon as it enters the body, but this does not mean the implants will last forever. Implants are not designed to last forever, and a replacement surgery will likely be required at some point.
Myth: Capsular contracture (CC) happens quite frequently.
Fact: CC is the formation of too much scar tissue around the implant. Scar tissue normally forms around the implant, but it is considered CC only if it becomes tight or squeezes on the implant. It can range in severity from normal feeling to causing the breasts to be hard, painful or look abnormal. For one brand of silicone implants, the incidence of severe CC was 13% over 4 years. For saline implants, one study showed an incidence of CC in 9% of patients over 3 years. CC occurs when a patient does not react well to the implants. The incidence of CC increases over time and it is more common in revision breast augmentation. CC may be associated with infection.
Myth: You can get a fungus infection from a saline-filled implant.
Fact: There are two kinds of saline implants, the kind that are permanently filled and a type whose size can be adjusted after surgery by adding more saline. All implants are designed to be impermeable to all known fungi, including those that can cause an infection. Although the elastomer of an implant is porous, these pores are too small for any type of fungi to pass through. Even salt molecules in saline implants cannot escape through these pores because their molecular structure is too big, and they are far smaller than any fungus. At one time, the adjustable saline implants were filled in such a way that the saline being added could have been contaminated. Now, saline implants are filled from a sterile bag of saline, allowing no possibility of infection during the filling process. Additionally, the FDA prohibits the injection of any substance, including Betadine, into the implant.
Myth: The silicone elastomer shell can make you sick.
Fact: No published studies have found that the silicone elastomer shells used in both saline and silicone-filed implants cause disease or illness. In 2006, the FDA approved the use of silicone gel-filled breast implants. The agency concluded that silicone-shell breast implants are safe for both cosmetic and reconstructive purposes. But, silicone implants can rupture, and while studies regarding the long-term effects of exposure to the silicone gel in the body are underway, none have reached conclusions as yet. As part of FDA approval, companies that produce breast implants are required to monitor breast implant patients for connective tissue disease and cancer in studies that are on-going.
Myth: Breast implants will make your breasts sag earlier.
Fact: Sagging of the breasts is a result of gravity, weight and the collagen structure of your skin. This means two breasts of the same size and weight will likely sag at approximately the same time, even if one breast is natural and the other is enhanced with implants.
Myth: Breast implants make it very difficult to detect breast cancer.
Fact: Breast implants can interfere with cancer screening, but both benign and precancerous lumps can still be visible during a mammogram. These lumps can also be detected during manual self-examinations of the breasts. Ask your surgeon to show you how to examine your breasts after you have implants. Women who have had augmentation must tell the radiology technician conducting the mammogram about their implants. Because the breast is compressed during mammography, there is the possibility of an implant rupturing. Usually, extra care will be taken and more x-rays of the breasts will be done. When you schedule your mammogram, tell the receptionist or scheduler that you have implants so that more time will be allotted for you. Mammograms are recommended for all women over the age of 35, whether they have implants or not.
Myth: Silicone breast implants cause breast cancer.
Fact: Before re-approving the use of silicone gel-filled breast implants in 2006, the FDA’s rigorous scientific review concluded that there is no convincing evidence that breast implants are associated with breast cancer. However, companies that manufacture implants are monitoring breast cancer rates during the post-approval studies mandated by the FDA.
Myth: If you need to replace a breast implant, the recovery is as long and involves the same amount of pain as the original surgery.
Fact: The original surgery requires a significantly longer recovery period than replacement surgery (also called revision surgery). This is because the original surgery involves creating a pocket for the implant as well as the expansion of the skin and surrounding tissue, while replacement surgery only involves replacing the original implant. In replacement surgery, the majority of the discomfort is in the area of the sutures and is minimal in comparison to the discomfort associated with the original procedure.
A friend of mine had hers done and she is unbelievably happy. My main concern is health risks. Does anybody really know what the long term effects are?? Should I do it?? lol Any information or advice would be great.Do you recommend breast implants?? Advice from women who have had work done is greatly appreciated!!?
The same thing happened to me after I had 3 kids (after I nursed them). Sure, it would be nice to get the original ones back, but I don't think it's worth the health risks of having an operation, and having something inserted under the skin. However, I lifted weights for about a year (before an injury sidelined me), and I found that the bench press type exercises increased my pectoral muscles, which in turn, pushed my breasts out, making them seem bigger. So consider this alternative, or even easier, the newer, padded bras they have out now. What message are you sending your kids, if you have an OPERATION for something so superficial? Self-esteem shouldn't depend on our breast size. Also, ask your husband. Mine doesn't want me to risk my health for such a flimsy, vain reason.Do you recommend breast implants?? Advice from women who have had work done is greatly appreciated!!?
i havent had them done but i probably wouldnt in my opinion. it all depends on if your doing it for beauty reasons or just cause someone else has done it. natural beauty should be a good thing =) but the choice is up to you really. its your body =P
Breast implant surgery is very safe nowadays. My cousin got her breast reduction, tummy tuck and facelift surgery in India by the company called Tour2india4health Consultants .The Price for the surgery she paid in India was very less. She paid 30% of the cost she was quoted in America.
Tour2india4health Consultants is very famous in India. They arrange cosmetic and plastic surgery for foreigners in India. I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories. They arrange financing for USA, Canadian, UK and other international patients who plan to have surgery abroad for low price, as the breast reduction, tummy tuck, facelift and other cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance. They also have photos pasted of their International patients. You can checkout their website. There are huge cost savings. As a doctor I personally believe that surgery can be easily handled in India, as the quality of healthcare available In India is simply best in the world. The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.
http://www.tour2india4health.com
Hope this helps.
Breast augmentation surgery does carry certain risks indeed.
These may include general risks related to the procedure, medical risks including infection, and the risk of your not being satisfied with the result of the procedure. Each of these risks must be considered carefully and you must be aware of all of them before undergoing the breast augmentation surgery.
However, there are some common myths and exagerrations you should know :
Myth: Breast implants rupture all of the time.
Fact: In reality, breast implants are quite durable, and while occurrences of ruptures do exist, they are not common. For one brand of breast implant, the incidence of rupture after breast augmentation was 2.7% over 4 years. A study conducted with 106 women who had breast implants an average of 11 years showed an incidence of rupture of 15%. (Please note that this study was done in Europe and may have included older types of implants.) A study of saline implants found that leakage or deflation occurred in about 3% of cases after 3 years.
A rupture occurs when the shell of the implant develops a tear or hole. Rupture in a silicone implant may be what is called “silent.” This means that you have no signs that your implants are leaking. With saline implants, rupture will cause the breast to deflate, either slowly or quickly.
Myth: As soon as an implant is placed in the body, the implant is changed forever.
Fact: The chemical make-up of the implant is not changed as soon as it enters the body, but this does not mean the implants will last forever. Implants are not designed to last forever, and a replacement surgery will likely be required at some point.
Myth: Capsular contracture (CC) happens quite frequently.
Fact: CC is the formation of too much scar tissue around the implant. Scar tissue normally forms around the implant, but it is considered CC only if it becomes tight or squeezes on the implant. It can range in severity from normal feeling to causing the breasts to be hard, painful or look abnormal. For one brand of silicone implants, the incidence of severe CC was 13% over 4 years. For saline implants, one study showed an incidence of CC in 9% of patients over 3 years. CC occurs when a patient does not react well to the implants. The incidence of CC increases over time and it is more common in revision breast augmentation. CC may be associated with infection.
Myth: You can get a fungus infection from a saline-filled implant.
Fact: There are two kinds of saline implants, the kind that are permanently filled and a type whose size can be adjusted after surgery by adding more saline. All implants are designed to be impermeable to all known fungi, including those that can cause an infection. Although the elastomer of an implant is porous, these pores are too small for any type of fungi to pass through. Even salt molecules in saline implants cannot escape through these pores because their molecular structure is too big, and they are far smaller than any fungus. At one time, the adjustable saline implants were filled in such a way that the saline being added could have been contaminated. Now, saline implants are filled from a sterile bag of saline, allowing no possibility of infection during the filling process. Additionally, the FDA prohibits the injection of any substance, including Betadine, into the implant.
Myth: The silicone elastomer shell can make you sick.
Fact: No published studies have found that the silicone elastomer shells used in both saline and silicone-filed implants cause disease or illness. In 2006, the FDA approved the use of silicone gel-filled breast implants. The agency concluded that silicone-shell breast implants are safe for both cosmetic and reconstructive purposes. But, silicone implants can rupture, and while studies regarding the long-term effects of exposure to the silicone gel in the body are underway, none have reached conclusions as yet. As part of FDA approval, companies that produce breast implants are required to monitor breast implant patients for connective tissue disease and cancer in studies that are on-going.
Myth: Breast implants will make your breasts sag earlier.
Fact: Sagging of the breasts is a result of gravity, weight and the collagen structure of your skin. This means two breasts of the same size and weight will likely sag at approximately the same time, even if one breast is natural and the other is enhanced with implants.
Myth: Breast implants make it very difficult to detect breast cancer.
Fact: Breast implants can interfere with cancer screening, but both benign and precancerous lumps can still be visible during a mammogram. These lumps can also be detected during manual self-examinations of the breasts. Ask your surgeon to show you how to examine your breasts after you have implants. Women who have had augmentation must tell the radiology technician conducting the mammogram about their implants. Because the breast is compressed during mammography, there is the possibility of an implant rupturing. Usually, extra care will be taken and more x-rays of the breasts will be done. When you schedule your mammogram, tell the receptionist or scheduler that you have implants so that more time will be allotted for you. Mammograms are recommended for all women over the age of 35, whether they have implants or not.
Myth: Silicone breast implants cause breast cancer.
Fact: Before re-approving the use of silicone gel-filled breast implants in 2006, the FDA’s rigorous scientific review concluded that there is no convincing evidence that breast implants are associated with breast cancer. However, companies that manufacture implants are monitoring breast cancer rates during the post-approval studies mandated by the FDA.
Myth: If you need to replace a breast implant, the recovery is as long and involves the same amount of pain as the original surgery.
Fact: The original surgery requires a significantly longer recovery period than replacement surgery (also called revision surgery). This is because the original surgery involves creating a pocket for the implant as well as the expansion of the skin and surrounding tissue, while replacement surgery only involves replacing the original implant. In replacement surgery, the majority of the discomfort is in the area of the sutures and is minimal in comparison to the discomfort associated with the original procedure.
What comes first? (Especially would welcome women's advice!)?
Confidence at dating or success at dating?
I have lost all confidence that women will go out with me! I only go out on about 2 dates a year. This has caused me to get in the mindset that, when I start talking to someone, that it will end. I believe I unconsciously make this a self-fulfilling prophecy by sabotaging myself.
So I am asking, how do you gain confidence in dating if you aren't having any dating success?What comes first? (Especially would welcome women's advice!)?
Self Confidence comes from Self Worth. Do you believe yourself to be worthy? Have you ever asked a woman who chose not to date you to explain to you in detail exactly why? Sure, hearing someone else talk about your would be short comings is going to sting a bit, but you can learn from it. Try not to let it hurt you and not to get defensive. Just take it in and see if you can torque out those little kinks that don't accentuate your positives. We are all worthy of love Matt, but we absolutely must love ourselves first.What comes first? (Especially would welcome women's advice!)?
okay, i understand what ur going through with the whole dating thing, but u HAVE to have confidence! if u have a high confidence level, then girls will notice it, trust me, and dont give up, and dont sabotage all thoughts about it not working out, if you think the worst, then the worse will happen, just stay on the positive side and everything will work out, its all good, im sure theres women who would love to go out with you :)
I have lost all confidence that women will go out with me! I only go out on about 2 dates a year. This has caused me to get in the mindset that, when I start talking to someone, that it will end. I believe I unconsciously make this a self-fulfilling prophecy by sabotaging myself.
So I am asking, how do you gain confidence in dating if you aren't having any dating success?What comes first? (Especially would welcome women's advice!)?
Self Confidence comes from Self Worth. Do you believe yourself to be worthy? Have you ever asked a woman who chose not to date you to explain to you in detail exactly why? Sure, hearing someone else talk about your would be short comings is going to sting a bit, but you can learn from it. Try not to let it hurt you and not to get defensive. Just take it in and see if you can torque out those little kinks that don't accentuate your positives. We are all worthy of love Matt, but we absolutely must love ourselves first.What comes first? (Especially would welcome women's advice!)?
okay, i understand what ur going through with the whole dating thing, but u HAVE to have confidence! if u have a high confidence level, then girls will notice it, trust me, and dont give up, and dont sabotage all thoughts about it not working out, if you think the worst, then the worse will happen, just stay on the positive side and everything will work out, its all good, im sure theres women who would love to go out with you :)
Breastfeeding for Bigger breasted women..Advice?
I am 5 4 and 148 lbs being pregnant.
I have always been of Normal size and active. However i have been ';horribly blessed'; with 32DD breast and there getting bigger everyday.
I plan on nursing but I wonder how difficult it will be. My breast are bigger then the baby itself. Any advice.?Breastfeeding for Bigger breasted women..Advice?
Well, I don't know what it is like for smaller breasted women to nurse since I, too, have been blessed with DDD's. I can't say if it is harder or not. It was odd at first to see that my breast was bigger than my babe's head, but I got past that quickly.
The hardest part was latching on at first. The nipple seemed too big for the baby's mouth, but the baby's all got the hang of it eventually.
I found that I needed to support my breasts. A folded receiving blanket propped underneath helped. The baby usually needed to be supported on a pillow. I also lay down a lot to feed. The breast rests on the bed, one arm under your head, the other free to touch your baby.
A good supportive bra is essential. Don't skimp-- get a couple of good ones. I did not wear one at night, but I know some women do. Your shoulders probably hurt already from the extra weight and will hurt even more once you are carrying fully loaded 'udders' and a baby.Breastfeeding for Bigger breasted women..Advice?
I will be honest it was very hard. My 34DD's went up to a 36G while breastfeeding. It is hard to breastfeed when your boobs are bigger than the baby. Don't let any little-boobed mommy tell you differently lol. I always had to be in a specific chair, with a boppy pillow to support the baby. I needed one hard to pinch the nipple so she could latch on, and the other hand to pull the rest of the boob back so it wouldn't smother her. I used to get so jealous of my friends who would do things like read, or type on the computer, or knit while breastfeeding. Shoot if I wanted to itch my nose I would bend over and rub it on the table because I didn't want to lose my baby's latch. And public breastfeeding for me was just out of the question because there was just no way to be discreet about it. But it is possible to be successful at it. I would plan to have help from the lactation consultant to help you find a position that you are comfortable in.
I've got DD's, and have had no problem nursing either of my boys. When my 1st son was born, my husband used to love joking about my breasts being bigger than the baby's head. I used to worry that I would smother them while they ate because their little noses would be pressed against my breast, but in 13 months of nursing the 1st, and 4 1/2 months %26amp; counting with the 2nd one, I still have two very healthy, well nourished little boys. From my experience, we larger breasted women have no more difficulty than our flatter counter parts in breast feeding. Everyone fears that they won't be able to do it though. Flat chested women are afraid that they wont produce enough milk becuase their breasts are too small. All breasts of all sizes are perfectely equipped to nurture a baby.
EDIT: Be sure to get really good bras. This is not the area to skimp. Also make sure you get a sleeping bra. I'm able to nurse in any position (laying down %26amp; all holds) comfortably %26amp; easily, and I can knit, read, and be on my computer while nursing.
I am so glad to see that other women have struggled with this - I thought it was just me!
I have 38 DD's, so they're not huge, but definitely bigger than a newborn's head! My babies never had trouble latching on, but for the most part, I have to always have one hand under my breast to keep the weight from pulling it out of the babies mouth, and then my thumb on top to keep their nostrils clear. My daughter (14 weeks) sometimes doesn't take so big a ';bite'; so she is able to breathe without my assistance.
I have yet to master the art of nursing while lying down, but I did buy a nice cover that allows me to nurse in public without flashing anyone!
The bigger your breast, the easier it will be. My breasts got huge during pregnancy and once my milk came in, my stomach disappeared and my breasts got scary huge. I had so much milk that I would have huge letdowns in the middle of the night and wet the bed and i had to sleep with a bra on 1/2 the time. A good bra will make a world of difference to you and I would recomend motherhood maternity store. It was a lot more afforable and they had a lot of comfortable nighttime bras that I coudln't have doen without. They also sold nusring pads and lilly pads as well
My breasts are a 40J so I know what it is like to breastfeed and have the big ones. I suggest to you, get a boppy. Use the ';C'; and use the football hold a lot. Now that my daughter is 8 and half months old, I can no longer do the football hold but she likes to sit up on my lap and nurse that way. Nursing came naturally to me. She latched on with no trouble and I had no pain. Except for the tenderness you feel in the beginning. The lactation consultant was very surprised that I was having no trouble with nursing at all. I love breastfeeding and my big breasts don't get in my way anymore. I am used to them.
Well, I have large breasts, DD, and yes, it did make things a little more difficult, but mostly just at first. It was even harder on me because I have flat nipples. But, I had a great lactation consultant while in the hospital that taught me some tricks and techniques to help the latch at first.
So it may be a little more challenging at the beginning, but once you get the hang of it, it gets easier.
I had hard time at first with nursing because I have 40 DDD breasts! The only thing I found was that certain positions made it uncomfortable for me to nurse because I was holding my son and my breast trying not to suffocate him! MY entire breast would cover his nostrils and he would come out fighting for air LOL! The cradle hold and the football hold worked well for me but I was not at all able to nurse laying down. Good luck!
I was a 32 A or a 34 B (right between) before I got pregnant. Now, I look bigger than my sister (who is overweight and like a 38 D) who even said I looked bigger.
What works for us (between huge boobs I'm unfamilar with lol and his reflux) is him sitting on my right knee, nursing from the left or left knee right boob. It helps keep his nose in the open (not smushed against the boob)
I am 15 weeks pregnant and i have size E boobs and they are still getting bigger..i have had the same question u are asking..but the doctors keep telling me that the size of the breast does not matter as long as u have a good size nipple..i know how u feel about the giant bags i cant stand them and i am scared that i am going to stay big
My sister-in-law has boobs bigger than her head and she has breastfed all 3 of her kids without a problem.
I have always been of Normal size and active. However i have been ';horribly blessed'; with 32DD breast and there getting bigger everyday.
I plan on nursing but I wonder how difficult it will be. My breast are bigger then the baby itself. Any advice.?Breastfeeding for Bigger breasted women..Advice?
Well, I don't know what it is like for smaller breasted women to nurse since I, too, have been blessed with DDD's. I can't say if it is harder or not. It was odd at first to see that my breast was bigger than my babe's head, but I got past that quickly.
The hardest part was latching on at first. The nipple seemed too big for the baby's mouth, but the baby's all got the hang of it eventually.
I found that I needed to support my breasts. A folded receiving blanket propped underneath helped. The baby usually needed to be supported on a pillow. I also lay down a lot to feed. The breast rests on the bed, one arm under your head, the other free to touch your baby.
A good supportive bra is essential. Don't skimp-- get a couple of good ones. I did not wear one at night, but I know some women do. Your shoulders probably hurt already from the extra weight and will hurt even more once you are carrying fully loaded 'udders' and a baby.Breastfeeding for Bigger breasted women..Advice?
I will be honest it was very hard. My 34DD's went up to a 36G while breastfeeding. It is hard to breastfeed when your boobs are bigger than the baby. Don't let any little-boobed mommy tell you differently lol. I always had to be in a specific chair, with a boppy pillow to support the baby. I needed one hard to pinch the nipple so she could latch on, and the other hand to pull the rest of the boob back so it wouldn't smother her. I used to get so jealous of my friends who would do things like read, or type on the computer, or knit while breastfeeding. Shoot if I wanted to itch my nose I would bend over and rub it on the table because I didn't want to lose my baby's latch. And public breastfeeding for me was just out of the question because there was just no way to be discreet about it. But it is possible to be successful at it. I would plan to have help from the lactation consultant to help you find a position that you are comfortable in.
I've got DD's, and have had no problem nursing either of my boys. When my 1st son was born, my husband used to love joking about my breasts being bigger than the baby's head. I used to worry that I would smother them while they ate because their little noses would be pressed against my breast, but in 13 months of nursing the 1st, and 4 1/2 months %26amp; counting with the 2nd one, I still have two very healthy, well nourished little boys. From my experience, we larger breasted women have no more difficulty than our flatter counter parts in breast feeding. Everyone fears that they won't be able to do it though. Flat chested women are afraid that they wont produce enough milk becuase their breasts are too small. All breasts of all sizes are perfectely equipped to nurture a baby.
EDIT: Be sure to get really good bras. This is not the area to skimp. Also make sure you get a sleeping bra. I'm able to nurse in any position (laying down %26amp; all holds) comfortably %26amp; easily, and I can knit, read, and be on my computer while nursing.
I am so glad to see that other women have struggled with this - I thought it was just me!
I have 38 DD's, so they're not huge, but definitely bigger than a newborn's head! My babies never had trouble latching on, but for the most part, I have to always have one hand under my breast to keep the weight from pulling it out of the babies mouth, and then my thumb on top to keep their nostrils clear. My daughter (14 weeks) sometimes doesn't take so big a ';bite'; so she is able to breathe without my assistance.
I have yet to master the art of nursing while lying down, but I did buy a nice cover that allows me to nurse in public without flashing anyone!
The bigger your breast, the easier it will be. My breasts got huge during pregnancy and once my milk came in, my stomach disappeared and my breasts got scary huge. I had so much milk that I would have huge letdowns in the middle of the night and wet the bed and i had to sleep with a bra on 1/2 the time. A good bra will make a world of difference to you and I would recomend motherhood maternity store. It was a lot more afforable and they had a lot of comfortable nighttime bras that I coudln't have doen without. They also sold nusring pads and lilly pads as well
My breasts are a 40J so I know what it is like to breastfeed and have the big ones. I suggest to you, get a boppy. Use the ';C'; and use the football hold a lot. Now that my daughter is 8 and half months old, I can no longer do the football hold but she likes to sit up on my lap and nurse that way. Nursing came naturally to me. She latched on with no trouble and I had no pain. Except for the tenderness you feel in the beginning. The lactation consultant was very surprised that I was having no trouble with nursing at all. I love breastfeeding and my big breasts don't get in my way anymore. I am used to them.
Well, I have large breasts, DD, and yes, it did make things a little more difficult, but mostly just at first. It was even harder on me because I have flat nipples. But, I had a great lactation consultant while in the hospital that taught me some tricks and techniques to help the latch at first.
So it may be a little more challenging at the beginning, but once you get the hang of it, it gets easier.
I had hard time at first with nursing because I have 40 DDD breasts! The only thing I found was that certain positions made it uncomfortable for me to nurse because I was holding my son and my breast trying not to suffocate him! MY entire breast would cover his nostrils and he would come out fighting for air LOL! The cradle hold and the football hold worked well for me but I was not at all able to nurse laying down. Good luck!
I was a 32 A or a 34 B (right between) before I got pregnant. Now, I look bigger than my sister (who is overweight and like a 38 D) who even said I looked bigger.
What works for us (between huge boobs I'm unfamilar with lol and his reflux) is him sitting on my right knee, nursing from the left or left knee right boob. It helps keep his nose in the open (not smushed against the boob)
I am 15 weeks pregnant and i have size E boobs and they are still getting bigger..i have had the same question u are asking..but the doctors keep telling me that the size of the breast does not matter as long as u have a good size nipple..i know how u feel about the giant bags i cant stand them and i am scared that i am going to stay big
My sister-in-law has boobs bigger than her head and she has breastfed all 3 of her kids without a problem.
Just a few words of advice for women who are preganct with no insurancE?
there is a program called precap (if it spelled corrctly) that should be offered at most local hospitals ! look into it!...its to benefit mothers with no insurance.Just a few words of advice for women who are preganct with no insurancE?
I was understanding it was called PCAP, Prenatal Care Assistance Program, or something like that. I used that plan with my first, obtained it by first going to Planned Parenthood, and then they referred me to the area hospitals which would help set it up. It's a form of welfare, so the paperwork goes through social services.
I was understanding it was called PCAP, Prenatal Care Assistance Program, or something like that. I used that plan with my first, obtained it by first going to Planned Parenthood, and then they referred me to the area hospitals which would help set it up. It's a form of welfare, so the paperwork goes through social services.
Over thirties single women advice please?
I'm going to be 30 soon and I'm single (after having long term relationships in my 20's).
All my friends are either in long term relationships/getting married/having children and they're great but when we see each other, they constantly ask if I've met someone and look disappointed or seem to pity me when I say no. One of my friends even told me I shouldn't be so picky, which hurt as the truth is there really hasn't been anyone. They say they're glad they will still be young when their children are older.
It feels really lonely sometimes, not because I don't have someone special but because we don't seem to connect anymore. I'm happy for them %26amp; would love to have that too but my view is that you can't chose when you fall in love with someone and at what time? I don't want to be with someone for the sake of it. I'd like to travel, try new things. From being quite positive and happy go lucky, I'm starting to panic.Maybe, my priorities are wrong?Please help, any advice would be great xOver thirties single women advice please?
I'm 31 and have been in two long term relationships so far. A year ago (for a variety of reasons) i split up with my other half and have been single since (had a few brief dates but nothing serious). It takes a wee while to get used to being on your own, but i absolutely LOVE it now, honestly! It's great to be able to do your own thing, please yourself, be selfish and not feel guilty etc. There's nothing worse than two stressed out tired people living together. I enjoy being single and have a great social life, loads of friends and time for hobbies etc that i never had (or was allowed to have) before. My family do ask me a lot of times if i've not met anyone yet, and some of the people i work with do the same. Just bloody ignore them. Tell them you're happy the way you are and it's really none of their business. Enjoy your life and just let things happen. As i said, i honestly was under more stress and was more miserable when i was in relationships than i am now being single - it's great and i love it. Ignore all the others questioning you. There's no rule that you should be married with kids by the time you're 30. I personally couldn't think of anything worse!!!!! Have fun and live your life the way YOU want to xxxOver thirties single women advice please?
'I'd like to travel, try new things' - so travel, get away, do new stuff, meet some people who think like you do and start enjoying life again - then you may well meet someone, when you're happy and feeling good about yourself. You're right, we can't plan when these things will happen so go and do what you want to do and don't let your friends get you hung up on the wrong things.
I'm 46 and single, never married. But I think the time is soon coming when I may decide, one day, to settle down. In the meantime, I have friends, and I take each day as it comes.
if you cant find someone then try to pick up different hobbies and surround yourself with different atmostphere and im sure youll find someone.
gl
dont worry..me also still single and no house, i got nothing and i manage to settle my debt by this month and later i am free.from debt.then i can my life back.u will find some one too.in fact i am 30 as well.be happy little girl.
Don't worry, I look at all my shacked-up friends and think 'poor you'... I'm not in the market to be doing all that again, I've got stuff like my career to sort out... And I agree, I feel lonely sometimes but I'd rather be alone than unhappy (as the song goes). I figure it'll come when the time is right!
You know, I was talking to my neighbour and her partner the other day, and I was telling them about finishing my degree. The partner piped up, ';Oh, you'll be on the look-out for a nice man then now, won't you?'; Yes, of course, I've just spent several years and thousands of pounds just to get shacked up!!! Duh *slap*
no i think you have the right attitude. im in exactly the same situation. enjoy life while you can, theres still plenty of time to settle down. my guess is your friends are actually quite jealous of you
what u should said is the natural cycle of life for the single people, its normal to see a girl who is single and her friends who are married or in a long relationship stay away from her for two simple reasons 1) because they dont want u to be a chance for there husbands or boy friends not because they dont trust u but they dont trust the guys they knows.2) they want ur life they dont want to be commted to one person and this is human nature. so dont be upset u will find the right person at the right time and u will get all u need from love trust me God created for everyone his second part so dont be upset to be 30. just ask ur self a question didnt u had fun in the past 30 years ? dont worry u will find him maybe beside u but u dont see him
i hope u find what u looking for :) and i wish u all the luck in the whole world :)
No, your priorities are in the right place. I felt pressured by others to be married in my late 20s and married someone I wasn't in love with, then out of desperation married another man I wasn't in love with that adored me. That failed too. If you are happy and positive and happy go lucky, I think that's great. Just be you, and if true love comes your way, so much the better.
I don't know if you want any advice from an over 30s single guy so stop reading here if you don't!! But...... I think you sound like you have your priorities well sorted. They are your own after all, and doing what YOU like should always be one of your top priorities!
The married ones are probably a little bit jealous! Go travelling. Everyone should at least try it before they lay roots anyway..
Your friends are doing what suits them , without consulting you, therefore you do what suits you, having a family later on in life can have its advantages, you have more time to spend with them , more understanding, what is for you wont pass you by, email me if you fancy a chat I had my daughter at just passed 30yrs and I have never looked back at twenty or there abouts would not have been for me Good Luck
don't panic, things happen at a different pace for each person.....you're doing pretty well, so just enjoy your life =)
hey gurl when you in a relationship and at that stage thats what they do is hang out with other people doing the same thing having kids and all but that doesnt mean you have to find someone and you not missing out you are lucky so go travel enjoy yourself.Im in nz and look after a hoilday park and drive boats to take trampers up tracks and have a few contacts here so if you want a hoilday let me know.k. kiwi_nz61@hotmail.com
I'm 34 - nearly 35 and single. Enjoy it! You by definition are the person most feared (by women) and the most desired (by men) possible and you can do whatever you like! Travel wherever you want; on a smaller scale enjoy being able to watch whatever you want on TV and go to bed whenever you feel like it! Be as choosy as you like - many others have not and been stuck with their first choice whether they like it or not - at least if you pick up a bad one you never have to see them again! Think yourself lucky - you really are!
I'm well over 30, have never been married or had children but I have loved and been loved. I relate to what your'e saying and have had that look of pity from friends but now, some of them openly admit how they envy my lifestyle. I have no major commitments but I do have the love of good friendship and my conversation tends to be far broader than what model washing machine I prefer (no offense).
Like you, I never ruled those things out, and still don't but I certainly am not a loser in this. I have freedom and time and they are invaluable. If its meant to be then it'll happen. Don't start dropping your standards, you would only later regret it. Be you, and enjoy others for who they are and they will cherish you for it.
If you lead a full life I expect they are simply jealous!
I found myself single at 32 with 2 kids and had the best few years of my life freed from the shackles of a terrible marriage and mundane domesticity. All the while I was married I envied my single friends so look at it as sour grapes. I wish I'd waited until I was in my 30's to settle down. Although I wouldnt be without my kids even though their father is a complete w@nker.
I met the man of my dreams and we have been happy for the last 6 years. Its great. You know who you are and what you want from life in your 30's and are less likely to be swept of your feet by someone completely unsuitable for you.
You go girl. Live life to the full and it will all fall into place.becca
All my friends are either in long term relationships/getting married/having children and they're great but when we see each other, they constantly ask if I've met someone and look disappointed or seem to pity me when I say no. One of my friends even told me I shouldn't be so picky, which hurt as the truth is there really hasn't been anyone. They say they're glad they will still be young when their children are older.
It feels really lonely sometimes, not because I don't have someone special but because we don't seem to connect anymore. I'm happy for them %26amp; would love to have that too but my view is that you can't chose when you fall in love with someone and at what time? I don't want to be with someone for the sake of it. I'd like to travel, try new things. From being quite positive and happy go lucky, I'm starting to panic.Maybe, my priorities are wrong?Please help, any advice would be great xOver thirties single women advice please?
I'm 31 and have been in two long term relationships so far. A year ago (for a variety of reasons) i split up with my other half and have been single since (had a few brief dates but nothing serious). It takes a wee while to get used to being on your own, but i absolutely LOVE it now, honestly! It's great to be able to do your own thing, please yourself, be selfish and not feel guilty etc. There's nothing worse than two stressed out tired people living together. I enjoy being single and have a great social life, loads of friends and time for hobbies etc that i never had (or was allowed to have) before. My family do ask me a lot of times if i've not met anyone yet, and some of the people i work with do the same. Just bloody ignore them. Tell them you're happy the way you are and it's really none of their business. Enjoy your life and just let things happen. As i said, i honestly was under more stress and was more miserable when i was in relationships than i am now being single - it's great and i love it. Ignore all the others questioning you. There's no rule that you should be married with kids by the time you're 30. I personally couldn't think of anything worse!!!!! Have fun and live your life the way YOU want to xxxOver thirties single women advice please?
'I'd like to travel, try new things' - so travel, get away, do new stuff, meet some people who think like you do and start enjoying life again - then you may well meet someone, when you're happy and feeling good about yourself. You're right, we can't plan when these things will happen so go and do what you want to do and don't let your friends get you hung up on the wrong things.
I'm 46 and single, never married. But I think the time is soon coming when I may decide, one day, to settle down. In the meantime, I have friends, and I take each day as it comes.
if you cant find someone then try to pick up different hobbies and surround yourself with different atmostphere and im sure youll find someone.
gl
dont worry..me also still single and no house, i got nothing and i manage to settle my debt by this month and later i am free.from debt.then i can my life back.u will find some one too.in fact i am 30 as well.be happy little girl.
Don't worry, I look at all my shacked-up friends and think 'poor you'... I'm not in the market to be doing all that again, I've got stuff like my career to sort out... And I agree, I feel lonely sometimes but I'd rather be alone than unhappy (as the song goes). I figure it'll come when the time is right!
You know, I was talking to my neighbour and her partner the other day, and I was telling them about finishing my degree. The partner piped up, ';Oh, you'll be on the look-out for a nice man then now, won't you?'; Yes, of course, I've just spent several years and thousands of pounds just to get shacked up!!! Duh *slap*
no i think you have the right attitude. im in exactly the same situation. enjoy life while you can, theres still plenty of time to settle down. my guess is your friends are actually quite jealous of you
what u should said is the natural cycle of life for the single people, its normal to see a girl who is single and her friends who are married or in a long relationship stay away from her for two simple reasons 1) because they dont want u to be a chance for there husbands or boy friends not because they dont trust u but they dont trust the guys they knows.2) they want ur life they dont want to be commted to one person and this is human nature. so dont be upset u will find the right person at the right time and u will get all u need from love trust me God created for everyone his second part so dont be upset to be 30. just ask ur self a question didnt u had fun in the past 30 years ? dont worry u will find him maybe beside u but u dont see him
i hope u find what u looking for :) and i wish u all the luck in the whole world :)
No, your priorities are in the right place. I felt pressured by others to be married in my late 20s and married someone I wasn't in love with, then out of desperation married another man I wasn't in love with that adored me. That failed too. If you are happy and positive and happy go lucky, I think that's great. Just be you, and if true love comes your way, so much the better.
I don't know if you want any advice from an over 30s single guy so stop reading here if you don't!! But...... I think you sound like you have your priorities well sorted. They are your own after all, and doing what YOU like should always be one of your top priorities!
The married ones are probably a little bit jealous! Go travelling. Everyone should at least try it before they lay roots anyway..
Your friends are doing what suits them , without consulting you, therefore you do what suits you, having a family later on in life can have its advantages, you have more time to spend with them , more understanding, what is for you wont pass you by, email me if you fancy a chat I had my daughter at just passed 30yrs and I have never looked back at twenty or there abouts would not have been for me Good Luck
don't panic, things happen at a different pace for each person.....you're doing pretty well, so just enjoy your life =)
hey gurl when you in a relationship and at that stage thats what they do is hang out with other people doing the same thing having kids and all but that doesnt mean you have to find someone and you not missing out you are lucky so go travel enjoy yourself.Im in nz and look after a hoilday park and drive boats to take trampers up tracks and have a few contacts here so if you want a hoilday let me know.k. kiwi_nz61@hotmail.com
I'm 34 - nearly 35 and single. Enjoy it! You by definition are the person most feared (by women) and the most desired (by men) possible and you can do whatever you like! Travel wherever you want; on a smaller scale enjoy being able to watch whatever you want on TV and go to bed whenever you feel like it! Be as choosy as you like - many others have not and been stuck with their first choice whether they like it or not - at least if you pick up a bad one you never have to see them again! Think yourself lucky - you really are!
I'm well over 30, have never been married or had children but I have loved and been loved. I relate to what your'e saying and have had that look of pity from friends but now, some of them openly admit how they envy my lifestyle. I have no major commitments but I do have the love of good friendship and my conversation tends to be far broader than what model washing machine I prefer (no offense).
Like you, I never ruled those things out, and still don't but I certainly am not a loser in this. I have freedom and time and they are invaluable. If its meant to be then it'll happen. Don't start dropping your standards, you would only later regret it. Be you, and enjoy others for who they are and they will cherish you for it.
If you lead a full life I expect they are simply jealous!
I found myself single at 32 with 2 kids and had the best few years of my life freed from the shackles of a terrible marriage and mundane domesticity. All the while I was married I envied my single friends so look at it as sour grapes. I wish I'd waited until I was in my 30's to settle down. Although I wouldnt be without my kids even though their father is a complete w@nker.
I met the man of my dreams and we have been happy for the last 6 years. Its great. You know who you are and what you want from life in your 30's and are less likely to be swept of your feet by someone completely unsuitable for you.
You go girl. Live life to the full and it will all fall into place.
I need some good advice,A women hit my car last tues. and I made a report with a police and my insurance,?
but now I haven't heard from the police or my insurance company,my friend of work got her license plate number,but for some reason,I haven't heard anything,what should I do?I need some good advice,A women hit my car last tues. and I made a report with a police and my insurance,?
call the police station and ask if you incident report is ready yet (the officer should have given you a number) if its ready, call your insurance company and tell them, or you can just go pick it up yourself. it may cost money. there will be a number in the box labeled insurance company for the person that hit you. call your insurance and give them that number and they will tell you the company.
when i was in a hit and run a few weeks ago, my insurance said i could do two things
1. file through them and they would pay for my damages and the recoup the amount from the other insurance. this way you only have to deal with your insurance agency, but you have to pay any deductibles (which will get paid back however) this will not make your rates increase.
2. call and file a claim with the other insurance company and leave yours out of it.
i went with option 2 because i wouldn't have to pay anything out of pocket.I need some good advice,A women hit my car last tues. and I made a report with a police and my insurance,?
You need to pick up the police report, get estimates for the damages done on your car and call the other persons insurance company %26amp; give them the estimates. They should give you a check. Or you can go through your insurance company and they can file the claim and get the check. Good luck.
well you wont hear from the police, they are done once they do the report. you need to call your company and file a claim with them. they will in turn subrogate back to the at fault parties insurance for repayment plus your deductible. this is the best way to handle it.
Call your insurance company and ask them what's going on. BUT... don't take matters into your own hands, let your insurance company handle the entire matter. That is what you pay premiums to them for.
Get a copy of the police report from the police. Call your insurance company and ask for a status report on the claim.
Next thing I would do is call my insurance company and ask them ';what is going on?';
call the police station and ask if you incident report is ready yet (the officer should have given you a number) if its ready, call your insurance company and tell them, or you can just go pick it up yourself. it may cost money. there will be a number in the box labeled insurance company for the person that hit you. call your insurance and give them that number and they will tell you the company.
when i was in a hit and run a few weeks ago, my insurance said i could do two things
1. file through them and they would pay for my damages and the recoup the amount from the other insurance. this way you only have to deal with your insurance agency, but you have to pay any deductibles (which will get paid back however) this will not make your rates increase.
2. call and file a claim with the other insurance company and leave yours out of it.
i went with option 2 because i wouldn't have to pay anything out of pocket.I need some good advice,A women hit my car last tues. and I made a report with a police and my insurance,?
You need to pick up the police report, get estimates for the damages done on your car and call the other persons insurance company %26amp; give them the estimates. They should give you a check. Or you can go through your insurance company and they can file the claim and get the check. Good luck.
well you wont hear from the police, they are done once they do the report. you need to call your company and file a claim with them. they will in turn subrogate back to the at fault parties insurance for repayment plus your deductible. this is the best way to handle it.
Call your insurance company and ask them what's going on. BUT... don't take matters into your own hands, let your insurance company handle the entire matter. That is what you pay premiums to them for.
Get a copy of the police report from the police. Call your insurance company and ask for a status report on the claim.
Next thing I would do is call my insurance company and ask them ';what is going on?';
Women: What is the best advice to win a Feet Fight against another women?
advice from previous question
size 9 vs 9 1/2Women: What is the best advice to win a Feet Fight against another women?
my wife has had one and she suggest that since you two are almost the same size to use as much leg strength you have and try to interlock your big toe with hers and squeeze the life out of itWomen: What is the best advice to win a Feet Fight against another women?
What the f%#k?
size 9 vs 9 1/2Women: What is the best advice to win a Feet Fight against another women?
my wife has had one and she suggest that since you two are almost the same size to use as much leg strength you have and try to interlock your big toe with hers and squeeze the life out of itWomen: What is the best advice to win a Feet Fight against another women?
What the f%#k?
I am looking for very stylish boots for the winter!! Need women's advice please!!?
I am very stylish and am looking for a pair of boots to rock with semi-short dresses, dressy capris pants, dark tights, and of course some great accessorries. I want some type of heel or wedge- but absolutely no flat foot boots. I want something that I can wear everywhere but that is classy and sophisticated. Please tell me some websites, brands, anything that fits my descrption please ladies--help me!!I am looking for very stylish boots for the winter!! Need women's advice please!!?
This website has a lot.
http://www.lovemyshoes.com/products.cfm/鈥?/a>I am looking for very stylish boots for the winter!! Need women's advice please!!?
try www.zappos.com
Wanted shoestores have what you need.
i don't know what your price range is but nordstrom has a lot of amazing boots in many styles and colors
click here to go to their boot shop: http://shop.nordstrom.com/C/6007659/0~23鈥?/a>
they also have a free shipping special if you order any shoes online
Your question is too broad to justs link you to one pair of boots, so.... I suggest you go to zappos.com and browse the selection. They have tons to choose from! The multi-views and reviews are extremely helpful.
This website has a lot.
http://www.lovemyshoes.com/products.cfm/鈥?/a>I am looking for very stylish boots for the winter!! Need women's advice please!!?
try www.zappos.com
Wanted shoestores have what you need.
i don't know what your price range is but nordstrom has a lot of amazing boots in many styles and colors
click here to go to their boot shop: http://shop.nordstrom.com/C/6007659/0~23鈥?/a>
they also have a free shipping special if you order any shoes online
Your question is too broad to justs link you to one pair of boots, so.... I suggest you go to zappos.com and browse the selection. They have tons to choose from! The multi-views and reviews are extremely helpful.
What advice would older women give women in their twenties?
Thanks. Serious answers only.What advice would older women give women in their twenties?
take care of yourself cuz sometimes nobody else willWhat advice would older women give women in their twenties?
Don't get married before you are 25. I was married at 21, divorced at 29. I think people in their 20s are young, want freedom and space, and need time to know who they are. They need to commit to themselves before they commit to another person.
Little Miss is dead on point......
take care of yourself cuz sometimes nobody else willWhat advice would older women give women in their twenties?
Don't get married before you are 25. I was married at 21, divorced at 29. I think people in their 20s are young, want freedom and space, and need time to know who they are. They need to commit to themselves before they commit to another person.
Little Miss is dead on point......
Any military men or women out there can i have sum advice?
ok im 16 i was kicked out of school for a posetion of a deadly wepon charge and i was wonderinging if that might hurt my chances of getting in because thats one option i am think of takeing.Any military men or women out there can i have sum advice?
You have two problems right now:
1. You have a weapon charge and you are required to list it even if it was only given to you by the school and not law enforcement.
2. By getting kicked out you obviously aren't getting a diploma and need a GED, but GEDs are currently being turned around because of the influx of people coming in because of the economy.
Your first step is to get a GED and try to add 15 college credits to it. That will make it count as an high school diploma. Your second step is to keep your nose clean for the next few years in hopes that you can get your waiver approved for your charge. Can't say it will happen but if you want to turn your life around the military is a good place to start. If you try to join the Army the approving authority to get in with your weapon charge is the Batallion Commander of the recruiting batallion you join through according to AR 601-210, Chapter 4-6:
a. For disqualification, the approval authority is the recruiting battalion commander, acting commander, executive officer or equivalent members of the ARNG. An adverse disposition will no longer include those that the only disposition was court costs or attorney fees imposed. A waiver is required for any applicant who has鈥?br>
(skip 1 through 3)
(4) Received one conviction or other adverse disposition for one of the following offenses or misdemeanors labeled serious offenses listed in paragraph 4鈥?0:
(a) Carrying of weapon on school grounds when a penalty was imposed by school officials (for example, expulsion, suspension, fine, or community service).Any military men or women out there can i have sum advice?
Great phonetics ! You better go back to school for more education, you cannot survive in the real world without the capacity to spell.
Your age is your biggest obstacle, and at 17 it might not be any better since the military is raising it's standards. Having a HS diploma might not do it anymore. As I understand it, some college is required.
So, make up your mind to shape up and finish school even if you need to take summer school classes to catch up. Without at least your high school diploma, you aren't going anywhere !
It depends on the legal issues that probably arose from the incident and how you have continued your education since then.
You won't get in, but it probably won't hurt your chances of working ina field somewhere.
Well if its on your record even as a minor you will not be able to get in. They dont typically take anyone with a felony.
if its not on your criminal record then no, but i think the army would take you anyway so id dnt matter
good luckbecca
You have two problems right now:
1. You have a weapon charge and you are required to list it even if it was only given to you by the school and not law enforcement.
2. By getting kicked out you obviously aren't getting a diploma and need a GED, but GEDs are currently being turned around because of the influx of people coming in because of the economy.
Your first step is to get a GED and try to add 15 college credits to it. That will make it count as an high school diploma. Your second step is to keep your nose clean for the next few years in hopes that you can get your waiver approved for your charge. Can't say it will happen but if you want to turn your life around the military is a good place to start. If you try to join the Army the approving authority to get in with your weapon charge is the Batallion Commander of the recruiting batallion you join through according to AR 601-210, Chapter 4-6:
a. For disqualification, the approval authority is the recruiting battalion commander, acting commander, executive officer or equivalent members of the ARNG. An adverse disposition will no longer include those that the only disposition was court costs or attorney fees imposed. A waiver is required for any applicant who has鈥?br>
(skip 1 through 3)
(4) Received one conviction or other adverse disposition for one of the following offenses or misdemeanors labeled serious offenses listed in paragraph 4鈥?0:
(a) Carrying of weapon on school grounds when a penalty was imposed by school officials (for example, expulsion, suspension, fine, or community service).Any military men or women out there can i have sum advice?
Great phonetics ! You better go back to school for more education, you cannot survive in the real world without the capacity to spell.
Your age is your biggest obstacle, and at 17 it might not be any better since the military is raising it's standards. Having a HS diploma might not do it anymore. As I understand it, some college is required.
So, make up your mind to shape up and finish school even if you need to take summer school classes to catch up. Without at least your high school diploma, you aren't going anywhere !
It depends on the legal issues that probably arose from the incident and how you have continued your education since then.
You won't get in, but it probably won't hurt your chances of working ina field somewhere.
Well if its on your record even as a minor you will not be able to get in. They dont typically take anyone with a felony.
if its not on your criminal record then no, but i think the army would take you anyway so id dnt matter
good luck
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