i am 36 weeks pregnant and found out that lately my hubby has started looking at all kinds of porn again. i have asked him am i that ugly or am i just not meeting his needs or what??? my hubby wakes up 2 to 3 hrs early every morning before going to work used to be to play his online game wow wich i also play but now hes getting up early to look at porn. y am i bad for feeling hurt?? i even told him if it was a lack of meeting his needs wake me up or something ill be glad to cuddle or what ever but he still ignores me in the intamacy department and is still looking at all kinds of porn. what do i do am i over reacting or am i allowed to feel hurt being as weve been married 11 yrs and im due any day with his 3rd sonWomen advice needed? what do i do?
That is one thing I hate about computers. But anyways, I'd just make it plain and clear to your husband that you and your kids come first over anything disgusting like that. He is to be another father again and would he like his kids looking at that crap on the computer. I would be VERY blunt with him and I'd be so pissed if I were you sweetie. And yes I would feel very hurt too. I would feel unwanted and discouraged. I hope things work out for you. Shame on him.Women advice needed? what do i do?
Most men go to porn at this stage in pregnancy and a large amount of women masturbate at this point. Men quit out of fear of hurting the baby.
Imagen being a guy that is sticking his body part inside where a baby comes out of. And seeing the baby moving in the belly...
hee beee jeee beees for a guy.
He'll come back just relax and be confident.
Wow. I would be angry too, I don't blame you. The fact that he does that even though he knows how you feel about it just shows that he doesn't care about your feelings. He should be EXTRA sensitive to your feelings right now.
Just because he's looking at porn doesn't mean he's lost any emotional connection with you. I'm sure men aren't too sexually attracted to pregnant woman, so until your baby comes out, he's resorting to porn.
I know what you mean i caught my husband waking up way to early as well, but hey don't take it the wrong way. Just come on to him, when he's sleeping ;0)
Pornography is one of the most dangerous Leeches in a Marriage. More dangerous than alcohol and gambling addiction (my opinion). Lust is something that is very difficult for men to fight. If a man says he has no problems with lust, he has more wisdom than King Solomon and more strength than King David (Biblical Men).
I fought that addiction for years and have finally defeated it. My source of strength and success? The Bible. Your husband has to understand that Lust is something he will have to battle for the rest of his life. You can not get rid of it. He can't do it alone. He needs a source of strength and encouragement. Pray for him. Take him to Church. Ask your Pastor for help. Ask God for help.
Do not give up on him. Especially after 11 long years. He can still appreciate you for who you really are. He can still be the most wonderful husband for you and your wonderful kids.
Friday, April 30, 2010
WOMEN ADVICE for Drunk Aftermath Please?
So I got really drunk last Saturday and then invited a girl that i knew over to my room and she showed up drunk too. So i put in a movie and before i knew it we were on top of each other and things got interesting.
This girl and me never really got to the point of being friends, we met a few months back and only say hi or a friendly conversation here and there. but i forgot that we had a class together 3 days a week.
My idea was to ignore the event as if it never happened since both of us were incredibly inebriated and not in a normal state. i feel like my first contact was played very cool by me but she got really awkward. It seems that she may have gotten more comfortable around me, but it may be a facade.
This is my first experience with a one night stand, i could really use some advice towards what is possibly going through her head and what to do to make things somewhat normal when we see each otherWOMEN ADVICE for Drunk Aftermath Please?
She might be really embarrassed and doesn't know how to act around you now or what to expect. I would talk to her about it if I were you. Girls like to talk things out. I had a similar experience after which he pretended he didn't remember much and refused to discuss anything, which upset me.
This girl and me never really got to the point of being friends, we met a few months back and only say hi or a friendly conversation here and there. but i forgot that we had a class together 3 days a week.
My idea was to ignore the event as if it never happened since both of us were incredibly inebriated and not in a normal state. i feel like my first contact was played very cool by me but she got really awkward. It seems that she may have gotten more comfortable around me, but it may be a facade.
This is my first experience with a one night stand, i could really use some advice towards what is possibly going through her head and what to do to make things somewhat normal when we see each otherWOMEN ADVICE for Drunk Aftermath Please?
She might be really embarrassed and doesn't know how to act around you now or what to expect. I would talk to her about it if I were you. Girls like to talk things out. I had a similar experience after which he pretended he didn't remember much and refused to discuss anything, which upset me.
Women advice plz !!:S?
hey x
erm i have a prob over the last few days i get like a few twinges in my vagina and itchiness i think it could be vaginal thrush, but im not sure..
Ive had discharge now again and sometimes i can smell it, but recently i have been itchin,im only 16 and have brought some canesten, it seems to have got a bit better but stil not ryt, i have internal canesten, is it safe to use if it turned out i didnt have vaginal thrush im really worried. I havent had sex either
can anybody give me sum serious advice no nasty comments
really appreciated
thanksWomen advice plz !!:S?
Usually if you have thrush, you get a hot itchy and burning vagina. the itching is unbearable. You also get a thick chucky white discharge form the yeast growing rapidly.
You can use Canesten if you havent got it, but if it doesnt clear up, you should see your GPO. If you are sexually active, it could be an STI which needs to be looked at.
Other than that, drink lots of water, never use talcum powder or perfumed soap down there and wear full cotton knickers. xWomen advice plz !!:S?
Its called bacterial vaginosis Folic acid 3 times a day and hyrodgen peroxide douche with water. out side candidas selenium, zinc, folic acid 3 times a day go to earth clinic com read more on baterial vaginosis and candida its a natural remedy web site. these vitimins have worked for me....
Don't worry lovely. It won't be anything serious, it really sounds like thrush. HOWEVER I would definately do what the other person suggests and go and see a doctor, it's always best to be safe than sorry.
Good luckxx
You need to see your doctor so they can do a culture. It could be an STD called chlamydia (sp?). It's not serious if caught early. Left untouched the symptoms will clear up but you can become sterile. It will plug up your tubes.
go see a gynocologist.
I would tell your parents or see a doctor.
erm i have a prob over the last few days i get like a few twinges in my vagina and itchiness i think it could be vaginal thrush, but im not sure..
Ive had discharge now again and sometimes i can smell it, but recently i have been itchin,im only 16 and have brought some canesten, it seems to have got a bit better but stil not ryt, i have internal canesten, is it safe to use if it turned out i didnt have vaginal thrush im really worried. I havent had sex either
can anybody give me sum serious advice no nasty comments
really appreciated
thanksWomen advice plz !!:S?
Usually if you have thrush, you get a hot itchy and burning vagina. the itching is unbearable. You also get a thick chucky white discharge form the yeast growing rapidly.
You can use Canesten if you havent got it, but if it doesnt clear up, you should see your GPO. If you are sexually active, it could be an STI which needs to be looked at.
Other than that, drink lots of water, never use talcum powder or perfumed soap down there and wear full cotton knickers. xWomen advice plz !!:S?
Its called bacterial vaginosis Folic acid 3 times a day and hyrodgen peroxide douche with water. out side candidas selenium, zinc, folic acid 3 times a day go to earth clinic com read more on baterial vaginosis and candida its a natural remedy web site. these vitimins have worked for me....
Don't worry lovely. It won't be anything serious, it really sounds like thrush. HOWEVER I would definately do what the other person suggests and go and see a doctor, it's always best to be safe than sorry.
Good luckxx
You need to see your doctor so they can do a culture. It could be an STD called chlamydia (sp?). It's not serious if caught early. Left untouched the symptoms will clear up but you can become sterile. It will plug up your tubes.
go see a gynocologist.
I would tell your parents or see a doctor.
Women advice on tampons?
i have had my period for a little less than i year and im 14.. all of my friends say how much better tampons are than pads.. and i hate pads. i want to start using tampons but im very nervous. im so scared that i will accidentally put it up the wrong hole..i know the RIGHT hole is right at the tip of the clitorous (idk how 2 spell it) at least i think? am i right? i just get so nervous when it comes to actually putting it up.. the furthest i got was about half an inch.. which is pathetic. my friends say just do it.. but its easier said then done. i have also heard (from my sister) that it is easier lying down.. is that true? what is the easiest way to do it? i know that i was born a women and basically born to do this so why cant i? how can i calm myself down? is that the right hole? ( i know there is only 2 others... and can u actually see your pee hole or is it covered by the citorous?) the first time my sister had to put a tampon in, my mom had to do it for her! and im just too embarassed to ask her.. what should i do... thank you!Women advice on tampons?
Your fears are perfectly warranted! I was scared and I put it in wrong the first time and sat down and scream bloody murder it hurt so bad. In the box there is a drawing of how to do it so you should practice using that as a guide, just not while you are menstruating, that can get messy! I find it easier to sit on the toilet, slightly lifting one leg, and sort of jiggling it in. Make sure you start off with the lightness one. I believe there are some for teens that are skinny and should slide in with little effort. As for the hole, you can鈥檛 really miss which hole to put it in. It鈥檚 the one closer to the anus. Make sure you remember to take it out within 8 hours as to not risk TSS (toxic shock syndrome), believe it or not they can not be felt and you might forget about it. Once you do it a while, it will be second nature to you so don鈥檛 worry about it. When you are putting relax your body because if you are tense it might not be able to get it in and you might hurt yourself.
You鈥檒l do great
Women advice on tampons?
it may hurt the first time because of the hymin, but no it dosn't hurt, the right hole? well what i did was take the tampon and see if it could fit in a hole (your pee hole isn't big enough)i did it slow, just to see how far it would go, after a few times of being late to class you will be able to do it fast and painless. hope this helps!
first off, relax. I was nervous too. I started using them this summer. It doesnt hurt if u relax and do it slow. also, if ur unsure about which hole to put it in, what I did was, find the hole where the blo0od is coming out of. then slide it in. also, its easy to put one foot on the toilet or spread ur knees. cause think about it, u cant lie down if u change ur tamp0n in a bathroom stall
Just take it slow.
If you don't have an anatomy book, then you could take one out at the library. Or even just look at it there and not take it out if you're too embarrassed.
And you can find girl's sites online too even.
Yes, it did pinch the first time I put it in. But don't go fast, because I think that might make it feel worse.
But once you get it over with, it's no big deal and it never hurts again.
I'm the only one of my sisters who uses tampons. The other two are too afraid to try them, and one's 15 while the other one's 20.
Many years ago, there WERE no tampons. They're just another option. Don't think that you MUST use them, because you certainly don't.
i got my period when i was 12 and couldnt use a tampon until i was 15! so dont worry, its pretty much impossible to put it in your pee hole, its too small. but when you get it in make sure you take the cardboard off! my cousin failed to tell me that when she taught me and it completely didn't work and kept slipping out.(i was at the beach lol, very embarassing) Just relax and no it doesnt hurt, once its in you cant even feel it. do it at whatever pace suits you
okay;
i'm 13 and i started using tampons this past summer and i started my period back in January.
listen the first few times i tried i would put it in about an half inch like you said and then pull it out reall quick! haha, but i ignored it for awhile. finally i found a way that helps me. okay get the tampax pearl version, they slide in real easily. so then i sit on the toilet just find where to put it and slowly slide it in. it doesn't hurt, but may feel a little uncomfy. when you think its right just push that applicator thingy and wa-lah! haha.
and trust me the first time i put it in, i did it wrong! it hurt when i sat and everything lol.
(and no it doesn't hurt, just may be uncomfortable)
GOOD LUCK!!
I think you need to get a mirror and an anatomy picture. The vagina is the middle hole...between the anus and clitoris. If you spread your ';lips'; open you will most likely see where the tampon is meant to go. It does not go in the tiny gap under your clitoris, the vagina is bigger than that, if you have your period look for where the blood is coming from.
Yes your sister is correct, lying down opens up the vagina and makes it easier, as does breathing out which relaxes the muscles. Use some vaseline or lube if you havent got menstrual blood to lubricate the tampon.
It usually takes a few tries to get it right...no it does not hurt but it can pinch if you are not slippery with blood. Be calm its no big deal.
Your fears are perfectly warranted! I was scared and I put it in wrong the first time and sat down and scream bloody murder it hurt so bad. In the box there is a drawing of how to do it so you should practice using that as a guide, just not while you are menstruating, that can get messy! I find it easier to sit on the toilet, slightly lifting one leg, and sort of jiggling it in. Make sure you start off with the lightness one. I believe there are some for teens that are skinny and should slide in with little effort. As for the hole, you can鈥檛 really miss which hole to put it in. It鈥檚 the one closer to the anus. Make sure you remember to take it out within 8 hours as to not risk TSS (toxic shock syndrome), believe it or not they can not be felt and you might forget about it. Once you do it a while, it will be second nature to you so don鈥檛 worry about it. When you are putting relax your body because if you are tense it might not be able to get it in and you might hurt yourself.
You鈥檒l do great
Women advice on tampons?
it may hurt the first time because of the hymin, but no it dosn't hurt, the right hole? well what i did was take the tampon and see if it could fit in a hole (your pee hole isn't big enough)i did it slow, just to see how far it would go, after a few times of being late to class you will be able to do it fast and painless. hope this helps!
first off, relax. I was nervous too. I started using them this summer. It doesnt hurt if u relax and do it slow. also, if ur unsure about which hole to put it in, what I did was, find the hole where the blo0od is coming out of. then slide it in. also, its easy to put one foot on the toilet or spread ur knees. cause think about it, u cant lie down if u change ur tamp0n in a bathroom stall
Just take it slow.
If you don't have an anatomy book, then you could take one out at the library. Or even just look at it there and not take it out if you're too embarrassed.
And you can find girl's sites online too even.
Yes, it did pinch the first time I put it in. But don't go fast, because I think that might make it feel worse.
But once you get it over with, it's no big deal and it never hurts again.
I'm the only one of my sisters who uses tampons. The other two are too afraid to try them, and one's 15 while the other one's 20.
Many years ago, there WERE no tampons. They're just another option. Don't think that you MUST use them, because you certainly don't.
i got my period when i was 12 and couldnt use a tampon until i was 15! so dont worry, its pretty much impossible to put it in your pee hole, its too small. but when you get it in make sure you take the cardboard off! my cousin failed to tell me that when she taught me and it completely didn't work and kept slipping out.(i was at the beach lol, very embarassing) Just relax and no it doesnt hurt, once its in you cant even feel it. do it at whatever pace suits you
okay;
i'm 13 and i started using tampons this past summer and i started my period back in January.
listen the first few times i tried i would put it in about an half inch like you said and then pull it out reall quick! haha, but i ignored it for awhile. finally i found a way that helps me. okay get the tampax pearl version, they slide in real easily. so then i sit on the toilet just find where to put it and slowly slide it in. it doesn't hurt, but may feel a little uncomfy. when you think its right just push that applicator thingy and wa-lah! haha.
and trust me the first time i put it in, i did it wrong! it hurt when i sat and everything lol.
(and no it doesn't hurt, just may be uncomfortable)
GOOD LUCK!!
I think you need to get a mirror and an anatomy picture. The vagina is the middle hole...between the anus and clitoris. If you spread your ';lips'; open you will most likely see where the tampon is meant to go. It does not go in the tiny gap under your clitoris, the vagina is bigger than that, if you have your period look for where the blood is coming from.
Yes your sister is correct, lying down opens up the vagina and makes it easier, as does breathing out which relaxes the muscles. Use some vaseline or lube if you havent got menstrual blood to lubricate the tampon.
It usually takes a few tries to get it right...no it does not hurt but it can pinch if you are not slippery with blood. Be calm its no big deal.
What advice would you give to a catholic women who believes she has sinned because she divorced her husband?
Her husband systematically abused her for two years.What advice would you give to a catholic women who believes she has sinned because she divorced her husband?
Divorce is not a sin. Remarriage without having received an annulment is a sin.
Whether or not she has grounds for an annulment I can't say because that depends on whether the husband ever intended to enter a valid sacramental marriage. She would have to discuss this with a priest.
If she does not get remarried she has not committed a sin and is welcome to participate fully in Church including receiving the Eucharist.What advice would you give to a catholic women who believes she has sinned because she divorced her husband?
%26lt;%26lt;What advice would you give to a catholic women who believes she has sinned because she divorced her husband?%26gt;%26gt;
I would say, find out for sure whether or not she really has sinned. It's entirely possible a sin has not been committed and that there is nothing to worry about. However, it's also possible she has, and wouldn't she like to know for sure, for peace of mind, if for no other reason?
Let's assume the marriage is valid. A valid marital bond CANNOT be undone. Legally, and for practical reasons, a legal divorce is necessary - but a legal divorce has no bearing on the marital bond.
%26lt;%26lt;Her husband systematically abused her for two years.%26gt;%26gt;
It's not wrong for a married couple to be separated - especially in situations where one spouse is abusing another. However, merely being separated doesn't mean the marital bond is dissolved. Neither spouse can engage in courtship, lest they committ adultery.
What you really need to do is speak directly with a priest - and tell him EVERYTHING. The more you are willing to disclose to the priest, the more relevant his help and advice will be.
None until I talked with her and found out more.
While there are women who are abused by their husbands, there are just as many men who are abused by their wives.
A higher percentage of women abuse their own children than men.
75% of the time when a woman claims abuse, its done just to gain an advantage in a divorce she wants for other reasons.
Which is why I'd want to talk to her first.
I'd also want to talk to her ex and their children.
I know a lady who divorced her husband claiming he was abusive, yet the children said, ';We want to live with Dad!';
The court agreed and awarded the Dad sole custody of the children.
14 years after this lady went to court the first of many times complaining about her abusive husband, one of their children got married.
Dad was at the wedding, but the Mom was not.
So do you see why I would want to talk to her first?
This is tricky, because we are told that what God has bound cannot be broken, but the husband had obviously not taken his own vows seriously when he gave them to your friend.
My advice? Tell her to talk to her parish priest. There are also groups for those who are suffering through divorce that she could join and work with. The priest is not going to condemn her, but he can certainly give her spiritual advice and tell her the Church's teachings and the Bible's teachings about divorce and, more importantly, her situation.
Here's a few sites:
http://www.divorceinfo.com/catholic.htm
http://insidecatholic.com/Joomla/index.p鈥?/a>
This one is very helpful:
http://www.divorcedcatholic.com/
This is from the same site as above, just their answers page, which I think will really help her:
http://www.divorcedcatholic.com/divorced鈥?/a>
I would just tell her, that probably isnt the place she needs to be. If the church is going to reject her and in the long run 'turn her away' from God, that's not right.
My mother went thru a divorce and she doesnt like going to her (catholic) church anymore because she feels like the shun her. I just dont agree with the catholic church at all.
ugh, it makes me mad.
That's a tough situation. Especially with abuse involved. :/
I mean, truthfully, the only time divorce is NOT a sin is in the case of infidelity. (This is in the Bible. Sorry.)
But we all sin. Every day. That doesn't make it any better... but it should reassure her that life goes on, and Jesus offers hope for forgiveness.
Though I'm not Catholic, I am a Christian, and this is how I believe it works: Sin or not, God still loves her, still cares for her, and still hurts when she hurts. She needs to just ask Him for forgiveness, and move on the best that she can, trying not to sin again. That's the same way you'd treat any sin, really.
She must be going through a lot of pain right now, and guilt over sin just makes it all feel even worse. :(
You tell her that she did the right thing!!! She sure can go to her parish priest too, and he will tell her the same thing.
No woman is to be ';married'; to someone abusing her, that is no marriage, anyway. That is some kind of wacko bondage.
God is not for that.
If she believes she sinned, she should go to confession. The priest will assure her that she has not sinned by protecting herself (and her kids). She probably wouldn't believe anybody else.
She needs to keep on living. Many Christians are divorced because it takes 2 to make a marriage.
I'd tell her that even if she sinned, everyone sins, and Jesus blood cleanses those sins so don't sweat it any longer.
Don't even talk about religion, that is doing good for her already!
fight the real enemyphilosophy
Divorce is not a sin. Remarriage without having received an annulment is a sin.
Whether or not she has grounds for an annulment I can't say because that depends on whether the husband ever intended to enter a valid sacramental marriage. She would have to discuss this with a priest.
If she does not get remarried she has not committed a sin and is welcome to participate fully in Church including receiving the Eucharist.What advice would you give to a catholic women who believes she has sinned because she divorced her husband?
%26lt;%26lt;What advice would you give to a catholic women who believes she has sinned because she divorced her husband?%26gt;%26gt;
I would say, find out for sure whether or not she really has sinned. It's entirely possible a sin has not been committed and that there is nothing to worry about. However, it's also possible she has, and wouldn't she like to know for sure, for peace of mind, if for no other reason?
Let's assume the marriage is valid. A valid marital bond CANNOT be undone. Legally, and for practical reasons, a legal divorce is necessary - but a legal divorce has no bearing on the marital bond.
%26lt;%26lt;Her husband systematically abused her for two years.%26gt;%26gt;
It's not wrong for a married couple to be separated - especially in situations where one spouse is abusing another. However, merely being separated doesn't mean the marital bond is dissolved. Neither spouse can engage in courtship, lest they committ adultery.
What you really need to do is speak directly with a priest - and tell him EVERYTHING. The more you are willing to disclose to the priest, the more relevant his help and advice will be.
None until I talked with her and found out more.
While there are women who are abused by their husbands, there are just as many men who are abused by their wives.
A higher percentage of women abuse their own children than men.
75% of the time when a woman claims abuse, its done just to gain an advantage in a divorce she wants for other reasons.
Which is why I'd want to talk to her first.
I'd also want to talk to her ex and their children.
I know a lady who divorced her husband claiming he was abusive, yet the children said, ';We want to live with Dad!';
The court agreed and awarded the Dad sole custody of the children.
14 years after this lady went to court the first of many times complaining about her abusive husband, one of their children got married.
Dad was at the wedding, but the Mom was not.
So do you see why I would want to talk to her first?
This is tricky, because we are told that what God has bound cannot be broken, but the husband had obviously not taken his own vows seriously when he gave them to your friend.
My advice? Tell her to talk to her parish priest. There are also groups for those who are suffering through divorce that she could join and work with. The priest is not going to condemn her, but he can certainly give her spiritual advice and tell her the Church's teachings and the Bible's teachings about divorce and, more importantly, her situation.
Here's a few sites:
http://www.divorceinfo.com/catholic.htm
http://insidecatholic.com/Joomla/index.p鈥?/a>
This one is very helpful:
http://www.divorcedcatholic.com/
This is from the same site as above, just their answers page, which I think will really help her:
http://www.divorcedcatholic.com/divorced鈥?/a>
I would just tell her, that probably isnt the place she needs to be. If the church is going to reject her and in the long run 'turn her away' from God, that's not right.
My mother went thru a divorce and she doesnt like going to her (catholic) church anymore because she feels like the shun her. I just dont agree with the catholic church at all.
ugh, it makes me mad.
That's a tough situation. Especially with abuse involved. :/
I mean, truthfully, the only time divorce is NOT a sin is in the case of infidelity. (This is in the Bible. Sorry.)
But we all sin. Every day. That doesn't make it any better... but it should reassure her that life goes on, and Jesus offers hope for forgiveness.
Though I'm not Catholic, I am a Christian, and this is how I believe it works: Sin or not, God still loves her, still cares for her, and still hurts when she hurts. She needs to just ask Him for forgiveness, and move on the best that she can, trying not to sin again. That's the same way you'd treat any sin, really.
She must be going through a lot of pain right now, and guilt over sin just makes it all feel even worse. :(
You tell her that she did the right thing!!! She sure can go to her parish priest too, and he will tell her the same thing.
No woman is to be ';married'; to someone abusing her, that is no marriage, anyway. That is some kind of wacko bondage.
God is not for that.
If she believes she sinned, she should go to confession. The priest will assure her that she has not sinned by protecting herself (and her kids). She probably wouldn't believe anybody else.
She needs to keep on living. Many Christians are divorced because it takes 2 to make a marriage.
I'd tell her that even if she sinned, everyone sins, and Jesus blood cleanses those sins so don't sweat it any longer.
Don't even talk about religion, that is doing good for her already!
fight the real enemy
I NEED SOME WOMEN ADVICE!!!!!!!?
I have been with the love of my life fro the past year....We spent every single day with each other....We embraced our love each day....We would say, I love you to each other. It was truly magical.....I love her with all of my heart.....She broke up with me about 2 weeks ago due to my low self confidence.... We still love each other though?
Do you think we will ever be back with each other?
Should I avoid her at wherever I go?
What should I do ladies?I NEED SOME WOMEN ADVICE!!!!!!!?
Well if you really love her, then you should work on your self confidence. If you try really hard and then try to re-woo her back into your arms, you guys can become an item once again. don't avoid her but don't forget you guys are no longer together and it's still recent. wave to her hi but don't pretend that everything is alright. Just say hi and walk away under five minutes. Relax, there is still hope but don't smother her or ignore her. smile at her and say hello but don't try to get into a deep conversation with her. give both of you time to breathe by yourselves. don't worry, work on your confidence and you can win her back.
answer mine!!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>I NEED SOME WOMEN ADVICE!!!!!!!?
Ya, I would defintely try to goet back with her. Good luck! ;)
well i think that she will definitely get back with u if she still loves you..and i don't think avoiding her will do you well if u wanna get back with her so i hope u to go well and good luck she'll come back don't worry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In my opinion I think you should not try to avoid her because it will make her think that you don't love her anymore. I also think yah will get back together. Don't stress over it, it will be fine. :)
first you need to have more confidence in youself And when you do build that confidence up. show her that you build that confidence. Other than getting back together that's up to her. If avoiding her in the meantime so you can fix your confidence then do so.
just tell her how much she means to you and that will taker away..tell her why you guys should go back with each other... and if she is with someone else dont take it the wrong way she probably wanted you to be jealous:0
help me i need some boy advice???? easy 10 points
Take it slow but go for it. Try to prove that you are working on your self confidence so she knows that you are trying to do this for her.
But you should try to get back with her because if the spark is still there, there should be nothing to worry about.
please answer my question i need a boys point of view on my situation.
do NOT avoid her! just try to be friends for now and maybe thing'll patch over. you should gain some self confidence and that'll def. help the situation, just know you are a great guy and stuff like(even though i cant say that cuz i dont know u)once you gain some confidence prove to her you have
for now i'd just try to remain friends with her
I could see your problem right through! its not because of low self confidence.. you are too clingy man! and she wanted someone who is not clingy.,, Dont cry or get depressed go ahead with your life like nothing happened and pursue something greater. Dont be clingY! that drives chicks away.. she willl come back to you as soon as she finds out that you have other imp things to do in your life as well.. Remember clingy is the worst thing you could be in life.. no matter what it is
MAN! you need to think first. do you still love her? if so you NEED to go right to her, tell her about your low self confidence! (if she doesnt know) tell her you want her back and you think about her all the time.(if thats true)
you guys seemed like you really liked each other and i would try whatever it takes to get back with her.
If you still love her, then don't avoid her. It will make her think you have lost interest and that you don't love her anymore. If I were you try and get your self confidence up. If she was dating you then she obviously must find you attractive. I hate to say it I don't feel like giving tons of tips on how to get self confidence, so maybe post another question asking how to boost your self confidence or how to get self confidence. If I were you don't avoid her, and gain self confidence so you can get her back because you love her. Let her know it's something you want to work on and also that it's hurtful that she left you for that. Let her know how bad it hurts her dumping you and ask her to put herself in your place.
be confident, don't change the way you are around her, apart from like sexually lol
and defs don't avoid her, its gay, and always shows. ;)
good luck
Send her a special bouquet of roses with a note like: ';I love you always, Please, help me to believe in myself. I cannot do it without you, then your name...';
Wow, that's dumb. Leaving a guy because of his low self confidence.
Well, I was in a similar situation cept the self confidence part. I'd ask the girl straight up, like, is this permanent? Are we still friends? Like, where do you guys stand with each other? Just get some answers. And it's best to stay away from her for a little, yes.
Sometimes spending every single day with each other, can be a burden, no space at all, it would drive me crazy! most likely you can get her back just doing the opposite of what you did before, and when she is around you, treat her good but not overly nice, and go out with other girls as friends that will show her that 1. she can be replaced, 2.you still have what it takes to attract other women, and it shows confidence in yourself..my best wishes
Get higher self confidence.
I can't say if you will be back together. I don't know you or her or the whole situation. Plus I'm not a psychic.
But yeah, boost your self confidence. If you don't get her back, move on and find someone new.
If you love her, show her. The best way to show you have self confidence is to show that you have confidence in the fact that you are competant enough to make her happy. Go get em tiger!!
let her know all that you just said. obviously shes like your world let her know that. and in the meantime work on your self confidence. she obviously thinks your an amazing guy if she told you she loves you. dont avoid her if you want her back talk to her
give her some space then in that time try to man up a bit then oneday call her and ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner or something
try to gain more self confidence and do something to show her that you have. don't do it JUST for her though- also do it for yourself. don't brag about yourself but don't put yourself down when you talk to other people. i think there is a chance you two could be together again. :)
u will get back together but u need 2 show her that u boosted ur self confidence but don't sound desperate doing it.
be everything to her that you were but no kissing or anything be there for her and talk to her about everything or act how you two did when you are daiting but nothing more than friends.
If you want to get back with her you need to sit down and talk to her. A person who loves you loves you flaws and all. At the same time it is important for anyone man or woman to have confidence in themselves and not just their relationship. You cannot put everything into a relationship or another person. You are a man first and foremost so developer a backbone and self confidence but ask her to help you along the way. But at the same time a year is a milestone and if I loved a man I would help him not break up with him to force confidence on him. I believe a woman should be a builder just like a man. Because when a strong foundation is built and people grow together confidence comes with it. Look at the man in the mirror and tell yourself how much you appreciate you daily. It helps. I have been there and done that as a woman and now I am fearless, compassionate, shrewd, firm but yet loving. It starts with self but sometimes as women we can make a man better if he wants to be. Good luck and I wish you the best.
Same thing happened to me but im kinda the girl so yeah. We still talked and stuff and eventually i realized that i did love him and i did want to be with him. IDK if it will work for u but if she really loves u and u love her give it time and if its ment to be it will be.
I would say, try staying friends. If you really want her back, show her what she wants to see- show her you can be confident. Try new things, and don`t give up when you don`t succeed- not everyone is great at something on their first try.
Most importantly: Love yourself before you let anyone else love you.
It seems like a really simple thing to say, but it really matters. It`s incredibly hard to love someone who doubts themselves all the time and looks down upon them self.
If you`re really desperate to get her back, do what I said in the 1st paragraph and show her you can be confident, then, on the side, you will start to learn to love yourself. It takes a while, trust me. But eventually you will get pretty good at it.
What I did when I tried to get over my lack of self confidence is keep my mind occupied with things other than what makes me feel down about myself. Keep yourself busy and avoid things that make you sad about yourself. ;P
-Sorry, that was really long. Lol. Good luck! :]
do not avoid make sure you aknowladge her presence
i think that you will definatly get back together because you can fix your low confidence but if somthing so simple will trigger her into breaking up than i would watch my back to see what bothers her so you can fix it and you guys can love each other as much as you want
hope that helps!!!
build up your self confindece! Be confident that you can get her back and she will appreciate that in you. go tell your woman that you love her and you don't want to be without her! Even if she says no, you were brave and obviously she wasn't the one. there are other fish in the sea. But i bet she will say yes.
Well why would u want her back,she should love you for ur good and bad.Not everyone is perfect,hopefully she will realize it was wrong to dump you for an odd reason and come back to you.(If that's what you want) and if she doesn't come to her senses one day you will meet someone who loves you for your ups and downs.Just remember its her loss good luck!
She left you because of your low self esteem, so what have you done in that department? Have you tried feeling better about yourself, taking charge of your relationship, talking to her about how you will change or what you want in the relationship? When you see her, don't avoid her but show her you are sure of yourself by saying hi and asking how she is doing. Good luck
i'm bored.
Do you think we will ever be back with each other?
Should I avoid her at wherever I go?
What should I do ladies?I NEED SOME WOMEN ADVICE!!!!!!!?
Well if you really love her, then you should work on your self confidence. If you try really hard and then try to re-woo her back into your arms, you guys can become an item once again. don't avoid her but don't forget you guys are no longer together and it's still recent. wave to her hi but don't pretend that everything is alright. Just say hi and walk away under five minutes. Relax, there is still hope but don't smother her or ignore her. smile at her and say hello but don't try to get into a deep conversation with her. give both of you time to breathe by yourselves. don't worry, work on your confidence and you can win her back.
answer mine!!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>I NEED SOME WOMEN ADVICE!!!!!!!?
Ya, I would defintely try to goet back with her. Good luck! ;)
well i think that she will definitely get back with u if she still loves you..and i don't think avoiding her will do you well if u wanna get back with her so i hope u to go well and good luck she'll come back don't worry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In my opinion I think you should not try to avoid her because it will make her think that you don't love her anymore. I also think yah will get back together. Don't stress over it, it will be fine. :)
first you need to have more confidence in youself And when you do build that confidence up. show her that you build that confidence. Other than getting back together that's up to her. If avoiding her in the meantime so you can fix your confidence then do so.
just tell her how much she means to you and that will taker away..tell her why you guys should go back with each other... and if she is with someone else dont take it the wrong way she probably wanted you to be jealous:0
help me i need some boy advice???? easy 10 points
Take it slow but go for it. Try to prove that you are working on your self confidence so she knows that you are trying to do this for her.
But you should try to get back with her because if the spark is still there, there should be nothing to worry about.
please answer my question i need a boys point of view on my situation.
do NOT avoid her! just try to be friends for now and maybe thing'll patch over. you should gain some self confidence and that'll def. help the situation, just know you are a great guy and stuff like(even though i cant say that cuz i dont know u)once you gain some confidence prove to her you have
for now i'd just try to remain friends with her
I could see your problem right through! its not because of low self confidence.. you are too clingy man! and she wanted someone who is not clingy.,, Dont cry or get depressed go ahead with your life like nothing happened and pursue something greater. Dont be clingY! that drives chicks away.. she willl come back to you as soon as she finds out that you have other imp things to do in your life as well.. Remember clingy is the worst thing you could be in life.. no matter what it is
MAN! you need to think first. do you still love her? if so you NEED to go right to her, tell her about your low self confidence! (if she doesnt know) tell her you want her back and you think about her all the time.(if thats true)
you guys seemed like you really liked each other and i would try whatever it takes to get back with her.
If you still love her, then don't avoid her. It will make her think you have lost interest and that you don't love her anymore. If I were you try and get your self confidence up. If she was dating you then she obviously must find you attractive. I hate to say it I don't feel like giving tons of tips on how to get self confidence, so maybe post another question asking how to boost your self confidence or how to get self confidence. If I were you don't avoid her, and gain self confidence so you can get her back because you love her. Let her know it's something you want to work on and also that it's hurtful that she left you for that. Let her know how bad it hurts her dumping you and ask her to put herself in your place.
be confident, don't change the way you are around her, apart from like sexually lol
and defs don't avoid her, its gay, and always shows. ;)
good luck
Send her a special bouquet of roses with a note like: ';I love you always, Please, help me to believe in myself. I cannot do it without you, then your name...';
Wow, that's dumb. Leaving a guy because of his low self confidence.
Well, I was in a similar situation cept the self confidence part. I'd ask the girl straight up, like, is this permanent? Are we still friends? Like, where do you guys stand with each other? Just get some answers. And it's best to stay away from her for a little, yes.
Sometimes spending every single day with each other, can be a burden, no space at all, it would drive me crazy! most likely you can get her back just doing the opposite of what you did before, and when she is around you, treat her good but not overly nice, and go out with other girls as friends that will show her that 1. she can be replaced, 2.you still have what it takes to attract other women, and it shows confidence in yourself..my best wishes
Get higher self confidence.
I can't say if you will be back together. I don't know you or her or the whole situation. Plus I'm not a psychic.
But yeah, boost your self confidence. If you don't get her back, move on and find someone new.
If you love her, show her. The best way to show you have self confidence is to show that you have confidence in the fact that you are competant enough to make her happy. Go get em tiger!!
let her know all that you just said. obviously shes like your world let her know that. and in the meantime work on your self confidence. she obviously thinks your an amazing guy if she told you she loves you. dont avoid her if you want her back talk to her
give her some space then in that time try to man up a bit then oneday call her and ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner or something
try to gain more self confidence and do something to show her that you have. don't do it JUST for her though- also do it for yourself. don't brag about yourself but don't put yourself down when you talk to other people. i think there is a chance you two could be together again. :)
u will get back together but u need 2 show her that u boosted ur self confidence but don't sound desperate doing it.
be everything to her that you were but no kissing or anything be there for her and talk to her about everything or act how you two did when you are daiting but nothing more than friends.
If you want to get back with her you need to sit down and talk to her. A person who loves you loves you flaws and all. At the same time it is important for anyone man or woman to have confidence in themselves and not just their relationship. You cannot put everything into a relationship or another person. You are a man first and foremost so developer a backbone and self confidence but ask her to help you along the way. But at the same time a year is a milestone and if I loved a man I would help him not break up with him to force confidence on him. I believe a woman should be a builder just like a man. Because when a strong foundation is built and people grow together confidence comes with it. Look at the man in the mirror and tell yourself how much you appreciate you daily. It helps. I have been there and done that as a woman and now I am fearless, compassionate, shrewd, firm but yet loving. It starts with self but sometimes as women we can make a man better if he wants to be. Good luck and I wish you the best.
Same thing happened to me but im kinda the girl so yeah. We still talked and stuff and eventually i realized that i did love him and i did want to be with him. IDK if it will work for u but if she really loves u and u love her give it time and if its ment to be it will be.
I would say, try staying friends. If you really want her back, show her what she wants to see- show her you can be confident. Try new things, and don`t give up when you don`t succeed- not everyone is great at something on their first try.
Most importantly: Love yourself before you let anyone else love you.
It seems like a really simple thing to say, but it really matters. It`s incredibly hard to love someone who doubts themselves all the time and looks down upon them self.
If you`re really desperate to get her back, do what I said in the 1st paragraph and show her you can be confident, then, on the side, you will start to learn to love yourself. It takes a while, trust me. But eventually you will get pretty good at it.
What I did when I tried to get over my lack of self confidence is keep my mind occupied with things other than what makes me feel down about myself. Keep yourself busy and avoid things that make you sad about yourself. ;P
-Sorry, that was really long. Lol. Good luck! :]
do not avoid make sure you aknowladge her presence
i think that you will definatly get back together because you can fix your low confidence but if somthing so simple will trigger her into breaking up than i would watch my back to see what bothers her so you can fix it and you guys can love each other as much as you want
hope that helps!!!
build up your self confindece! Be confident that you can get her back and she will appreciate that in you. go tell your woman that you love her and you don't want to be without her! Even if she says no, you were brave and obviously she wasn't the one. there are other fish in the sea. But i bet she will say yes.
Well why would u want her back,she should love you for ur good and bad.Not everyone is perfect,hopefully she will realize it was wrong to dump you for an odd reason and come back to you.(If that's what you want) and if she doesn't come to her senses one day you will meet someone who loves you for your ups and downs.Just remember its her loss good luck!
She left you because of your low self esteem, so what have you done in that department? Have you tried feeling better about yourself, taking charge of your relationship, talking to her about how you will change or what you want in the relationship? When you see her, don't avoid her but show her you are sure of yourself by saying hi and asking how she is doing. Good luck
i'm bored.
Women! What advice could you give me to pass onto my son as far as women?
Don't tell him anything, just lead by example.Women! What advice could you give me to pass onto my son as far as women?
have respect for a woman but she must have respect for you too. if this is not happening, the woman is not for you. if he is young. let him know when it comes to sex always and always cover up even if she says she cant get pregnant.
alot of young women these days want to settle down way too early. let him know if he isn't ready he doesn't have to.
the way you treat women will probably be the way he will treat woman so make sure you are showing him the right way.Women! What advice could you give me to pass onto my son as far as women?
just what chris and She C said , though you might want to add-on:....find one who will reveal `the Rules`......because when we fella`s get close to finding these out , THEY change them again..!
it`s very Frustrating.
have respect for a woman but she must have respect for you too. if this is not happening, the woman is not for you. if he is young. let him know when it comes to sex always and always cover up even if she says she cant get pregnant.
alot of young women these days want to settle down way too early. let him know if he isn't ready he doesn't have to.
the way you treat women will probably be the way he will treat woman so make sure you are showing him the right way.Women! What advice could you give me to pass onto my son as far as women?
just what chris and She C said , though you might want to add-on:....find one who will reveal `the Rules`......because when we fella`s get close to finding these out , THEY change them again..!
it`s very Frustrating.
Can anyone help with advice on where to get information on grants for women wanting to start a new business?
There are no grants for a for profit business unless you are opening a daycare and then it is a minimal amount. If you need money, you will need to apply for a loan. No lender will talk to you unless you provide them with a valid business plan. Go to http://www.sba.gov , http://www.score.org or http://www.bplan.com for sample business plans and instructions on how to write a business plan.
Then, go to http://www.score.org/ and in the upper left hand corner, enter your zip code. On the next screen, you will get information on the nearest SCORE chapter. Call them and arrange for a free meeting with a SCORE counselor to review your business plan and discuss various loan options available to you.
SCORE is a nonprofit association dedicated to entrepreneur education and the formation, growth and success of small business nationwide. SCORE is a resource partner with the U.S. Small Business Administration (SBA).
SCORE has 389 chapters in locations throughout the United States and its territories, with 10,500 volunteers nationwide. Both working and retired executives and business owners donate time and expertise as business counselors.Can anyone help with advice on where to get information on grants for women wanting to start a new business?
this gov web site has the info about grants and loans for people that want to start or who are in business all ready
http://www.sba.gov/services/financialass鈥?/a>
hope this helpCan anyone help with advice on where to get information on grants for women wanting to start a new business?
sorry, but what you're asking has one really simple answer and that is there are no grants for new businesses. I mean all the information related to grants for businesses is pretty much like a scam.
however, what you can do is educate yourself about how to start a business and get the finances on your own or through investors who you present your business plan.
So, take a look at this article, just for a little motivation and straight-forward advice: http://www.freetomanifest.com/start_my_o鈥?/a>
hi i found alot of information about grants, loans, charties on ELWA . so if you type in elwa grants on google then the site should come up. on the elwa site there is alot of information in its self but on that site i found a making learning work for you a guide to funding sept 04. i printed this guide its 24 pages long but it has loads in and i know its for people in wales but if you read it rather than print it it could help you find the information you're looking for and it also has phone numbers and websites that could help. also nat west do small business grants or you could just google small business grants for women. good luck
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Then, go to http://www.score.org/ and in the upper left hand corner, enter your zip code. On the next screen, you will get information on the nearest SCORE chapter. Call them and arrange for a free meeting with a SCORE counselor to review your business plan and discuss various loan options available to you.
SCORE is a nonprofit association dedicated to entrepreneur education and the formation, growth and success of small business nationwide. SCORE is a resource partner with the U.S. Small Business Administration (SBA).
SCORE has 389 chapters in locations throughout the United States and its territories, with 10,500 volunteers nationwide. Both working and retired executives and business owners donate time and expertise as business counselors.Can anyone help with advice on where to get information on grants for women wanting to start a new business?
this gov web site has the info about grants and loans for people that want to start or who are in business all ready
http://www.sba.gov/services/financialass鈥?/a>
hope this helpCan anyone help with advice on where to get information on grants for women wanting to start a new business?
sorry, but what you're asking has one really simple answer and that is there are no grants for new businesses. I mean all the information related to grants for businesses is pretty much like a scam.
however, what you can do is educate yourself about how to start a business and get the finances on your own or through investors who you present your business plan.
So, take a look at this article, just for a little motivation and straight-forward advice: http://www.freetomanifest.com/start_my_o鈥?/a>
hi i found alot of information about grants, loans, charties on ELWA . so if you type in elwa grants on google then the site should come up. on the elwa site there is alot of information in its self but on that site i found a making learning work for you a guide to funding sept 04. i printed this guide its 24 pages long but it has loads in and i know its for people in wales but if you read it rather than print it it could help you find the information you're looking for and it also has phone numbers and websites that could help. also nat west do small business grants or you could just google small business grants for women. good luck
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OK so i need your advice women?
so i am going to study with this girl i like tonight, and we are goin to study American Lit I. I was wondering should i ask her to come to my house to study, because i will have the house to myself or should we meet at the library to study? and how would i go about starting a conversation? i am in need of some help haha!OK so i need your advice women?
Put your house out there as an option as a place to study, but don't pressure her into it. Some people study better at the library. But from a studying frame of mind, your house might be better, because you can chat about your class and about what your studying without having to worry about disturbing people. That also helps answer your second question. Since you're there to study, there is less pressure on the conversation. You know what your class is about and you know what you need help with, and so does she, so discuss this. But during downtime, bring up other classes you are taking, hobbies, summer plans, work, the sky is the limit.OK so i need your advice women?
lol aww You should start out studying at the library and if you two seem to be having a good time maybe you can ask her to go to your house to watch a movie afterwards. But at least give her the option to study with you at the library first, so she doesnt have to feel awekward. Then if things go well you can see about going to your place to hangout. Either way...good luck =)
The american art , yes it is good . At least its understood.I''ll bet you have a orange cat that sits on your lap. or maybe a bird that speaks your words.You could study the silver may or the scholar and a gentle soul , and wonder of your father , the history and soul.You would'nt need a heart if you had no soul , So history is a go, but the library is closed.
Well, is this the considered the 1st date or so to speak? i think you ought to go to the library, you don't want her to think funny stuffs if you were to invite her to your house and she realized that there was nobody at home.
or rather, why don't you just ask her directly. respect her decision.
Ok invite her to study at your house. Cook up some great fingerfoods and study and laugh and joke but STUDY. Studying is the key. Take a break, get some food and talk. Talk about what happened today. Talk about how you guys should hang out next saturday at the mall or go to a friendly/romantic date.
You should keep it cool and take the library. Even though your house would be much better. You don't want to come on too strong. And just talk about the subject your studying on and elaborate on it. Stuff might just come up. Good Luck!
Honestly, just talk about your assignment. Maybe try and make a joke here and there... ask her how she feels about some of the themes in the story. Be yourself and try not to show how nervous you are. Be confident.
just ask her.. be like.. my house will be quiet if you just want to come over here..
do like small things to stumble off topic, study, but dont actually ';study';. flick paper at her or something really lame.. but funny keeep it casual
house is more romantic and funn (: and for convos, just be funny that def breaks the ice and makes things more relaxed and not so tense good luckk (: *tristan*
take her to your house its more personal and if u already made plans to go to the library say that it would be easyer if she came to ur house
library now
house after a few more times
stay in the library what if she says no i don`t want to go to your house.......
Put your house out there as an option as a place to study, but don't pressure her into it. Some people study better at the library. But from a studying frame of mind, your house might be better, because you can chat about your class and about what your studying without having to worry about disturbing people. That also helps answer your second question. Since you're there to study, there is less pressure on the conversation. You know what your class is about and you know what you need help with, and so does she, so discuss this. But during downtime, bring up other classes you are taking, hobbies, summer plans, work, the sky is the limit.OK so i need your advice women?
lol aww You should start out studying at the library and if you two seem to be having a good time maybe you can ask her to go to your house to watch a movie afterwards. But at least give her the option to study with you at the library first, so she doesnt have to feel awekward. Then if things go well you can see about going to your place to hangout. Either way...good luck =)
The american art , yes it is good . At least its understood.I''ll bet you have a orange cat that sits on your lap. or maybe a bird that speaks your words.You could study the silver may or the scholar and a gentle soul , and wonder of your father , the history and soul.You would'nt need a heart if you had no soul , So history is a go, but the library is closed.
Well, is this the considered the 1st date or so to speak? i think you ought to go to the library, you don't want her to think funny stuffs if you were to invite her to your house and she realized that there was nobody at home.
or rather, why don't you just ask her directly. respect her decision.
Ok invite her to study at your house. Cook up some great fingerfoods and study and laugh and joke but STUDY. Studying is the key. Take a break, get some food and talk. Talk about what happened today. Talk about how you guys should hang out next saturday at the mall or go to a friendly/romantic date.
You should keep it cool and take the library. Even though your house would be much better. You don't want to come on too strong. And just talk about the subject your studying on and elaborate on it. Stuff might just come up. Good Luck!
Honestly, just talk about your assignment. Maybe try and make a joke here and there... ask her how she feels about some of the themes in the story. Be yourself and try not to show how nervous you are. Be confident.
just ask her.. be like.. my house will be quiet if you just want to come over here..
do like small things to stumble off topic, study, but dont actually ';study';. flick paper at her or something really lame.. but funny keeep it casual
house is more romantic and funn (: and for convos, just be funny that def breaks the ice and makes things more relaxed and not so tense good luckk (: *tristan*
take her to your house its more personal and if u already made plans to go to the library say that it would be easyer if she came to ur house
library now
house after a few more times
stay in the library what if she says no i don`t want to go to your house.......
Men and Women Advice!?
My fiancee went to a bachelor party this past weekend. We have agreed for sometime now that he would not go to a strip club and I wouldn't go to one. So he went out and said all the guys when into the strip club but he didn't....I believed him no big deal. Then about 3 days later he comes into the bathroom and I can tell on his face he has something to tell me. He tells me he went into the strip club JUST to get all the guys to get going to get to the bar. I don't know what to believe and every time he tells the story he keeps adding more. Guys....what do you think really happened...espeically if he was drinking. It makes me feel worthless that he did this and that he lied to me...any advice. Please only NICE answers needed.Men and Women Advice!?
well look at it this way . . . at least he was honest and told you that he went in . . . and I'm sure it took a LOT out of him to do that . . . if you think something more happened, just have a heart-to-heart with him . . tell him that you're concerned and you want to know EVERYthing that happened that night . . but if you tell him that, be prepared for anything . . make sure you can handle what he's going to tell you . . but like I said before, at least he told you the truth . . I would say, just let him know you didn't like what he did and just move on . . don't dwell on it because it might tear you apart . . .Men and Women Advice!?
Oh, please...
Leave the poor guy alone.
you go to a club he goes to a club and then go home together...i dont see the big deal in people going to strip clubs you have more luck getting lucky at a local bar then a strip club
Once a cheater always a cheater!
he's trying to be honest but he's also trying to cover his *ss. y'all shouldn't be putting restrictions on each other, you're not married yet! if you lay down too much rules and regulations the marriage is going to be the same, y'all are a simple couple ENJOY. go to a strip joint together.
Take it from another guy he probably just went out with the guys because they were all going and he would look wimpy if he didn't go, no he should no have lied about it up front but he came clean, I think you should nicely let him know how you feel about it but do not hold a grudge against him if he is a good man who loves you nothing more happened then he went out for a good time with the guys.
if he keeps changing his story then it's a lie ask the friend of his that you trust the most to fill you in and take the necessary actions after you find out the truth
talk to him ok good luck
well did he actually tell u he went in/ and if he didn't y are u assuming the worst trust him and besides if u trust him y not now?
can we say bullshit ................u know he went in dont lie to yourself
he lied, which means he already knew he done wrong, confession, because the guilt was that strong, and a drunk man at a strip club who never gets to go to one, use your head sweetness
Guys don't like to admit to their friends that they can't do something because of their girlfriend. He probably would have preferred not to disrespect the relationship but gave in to the guys. I wouldn't hold it against him. Its normal for guys to look at other woman, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you and obviously he's feeling guilty for lying to you if he's told you some details. He's probably not telling the whole truth but forgive him anyway!
Do you really think he stayed outside and waited on them??? Are you serious?? Yeah --- I'm a guy -- out with friends --- and I am going to wait outside of a strip club and look like a perv while the guys have fun --- you need to grow up ---
i would not worry about it!
more than likely!
nothing!
you are not in competition with any woman!
forgive him!
move on!
I think he is being honest with you. Why would he approach you just to tell you even more about that night unless he was trying to be honest? I think he felt guilty for not even telling you that he went in just to get the guys, so now he's coming clean with you. Sounds like a pretty good guy...
yes ma'm he went... but get over it. strip clubs are no big deal unless he continues to go. but if its just a one time thing then its no biggie. and as far as him lying to you just sit him down and tell him you want the truth. if he cant give you the complete truth then in the future you dont know what he will lie to you about. so make him understand that if he is not honest with you, then you dont know whats going to happen to your relationship. oh and ask his friends one by one dont ask em all together. good luck to you.
He did not want to hurt your feelings and that is why he lied. Did he come home to you that nite and hold you in his arms? I'm not saying it is ok for him to do that, but more than likely nothing at all happened.
My advice is that you first need to ask yourself which is more important to you: knowing the truth or punishing him if he broke the rules. If the truth is more important to you, then sit him down and tell him ';look, I'm going to give you a get out of jail free card for this ONE incident, but in exchange I want the complete truth on what happened that night.'; Make sure you ask every question you need to have answered, and then from there decide if you need to make a new rule or whatever.
If punishing him is more important to you, then I guess you can always do a little detective work on your own, but remember that you are risking driving a deeper wedge into your relationship by doing so. I realize that he was the one who broke the rules, but we all know that life isn't fair, and that you can suffer from something that someone else did. So please consider carefully what it is you really want before you take any actions.
Going into a strip club is not cheating as long as he watched and did not touch. No worse than some of the stuff ya see at the beach! Relax honey, guys are gonna look and no one is gonna change that. Give the guy a break......imagine how whipped he felt when all the other guys were going in and he couldn't.
well look at it this way . . . at least he was honest and told you that he went in . . . and I'm sure it took a LOT out of him to do that . . . if you think something more happened, just have a heart-to-heart with him . . tell him that you're concerned and you want to know EVERYthing that happened that night . . but if you tell him that, be prepared for anything . . make sure you can handle what he's going to tell you . . but like I said before, at least he told you the truth . . I would say, just let him know you didn't like what he did and just move on . . don't dwell on it because it might tear you apart . . .Men and Women Advice!?
Oh, please...
Leave the poor guy alone.
you go to a club he goes to a club and then go home together...i dont see the big deal in people going to strip clubs you have more luck getting lucky at a local bar then a strip club
Once a cheater always a cheater!
he's trying to be honest but he's also trying to cover his *ss. y'all shouldn't be putting restrictions on each other, you're not married yet! if you lay down too much rules and regulations the marriage is going to be the same, y'all are a simple couple ENJOY. go to a strip joint together.
Take it from another guy he probably just went out with the guys because they were all going and he would look wimpy if he didn't go, no he should no have lied about it up front but he came clean, I think you should nicely let him know how you feel about it but do not hold a grudge against him if he is a good man who loves you nothing more happened then he went out for a good time with the guys.
if he keeps changing his story then it's a lie ask the friend of his that you trust the most to fill you in and take the necessary actions after you find out the truth
talk to him ok good luck
well did he actually tell u he went in/ and if he didn't y are u assuming the worst trust him and besides if u trust him y not now?
can we say bullshit ................u know he went in dont lie to yourself
he lied, which means he already knew he done wrong, confession, because the guilt was that strong, and a drunk man at a strip club who never gets to go to one, use your head sweetness
Guys don't like to admit to their friends that they can't do something because of their girlfriend. He probably would have preferred not to disrespect the relationship but gave in to the guys. I wouldn't hold it against him. Its normal for guys to look at other woman, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you and obviously he's feeling guilty for lying to you if he's told you some details. He's probably not telling the whole truth but forgive him anyway!
Do you really think he stayed outside and waited on them??? Are you serious?? Yeah --- I'm a guy -- out with friends --- and I am going to wait outside of a strip club and look like a perv while the guys have fun --- you need to grow up ---
i would not worry about it!
more than likely!
nothing!
you are not in competition with any woman!
forgive him!
move on!
I think he is being honest with you. Why would he approach you just to tell you even more about that night unless he was trying to be honest? I think he felt guilty for not even telling you that he went in just to get the guys, so now he's coming clean with you. Sounds like a pretty good guy...
yes ma'm he went... but get over it. strip clubs are no big deal unless he continues to go. but if its just a one time thing then its no biggie. and as far as him lying to you just sit him down and tell him you want the truth. if he cant give you the complete truth then in the future you dont know what he will lie to you about. so make him understand that if he is not honest with you, then you dont know whats going to happen to your relationship. oh and ask his friends one by one dont ask em all together. good luck to you.
He did not want to hurt your feelings and that is why he lied. Did he come home to you that nite and hold you in his arms? I'm not saying it is ok for him to do that, but more than likely nothing at all happened.
My advice is that you first need to ask yourself which is more important to you: knowing the truth or punishing him if he broke the rules. If the truth is more important to you, then sit him down and tell him ';look, I'm going to give you a get out of jail free card for this ONE incident, but in exchange I want the complete truth on what happened that night.'; Make sure you ask every question you need to have answered, and then from there decide if you need to make a new rule or whatever.
If punishing him is more important to you, then I guess you can always do a little detective work on your own, but remember that you are risking driving a deeper wedge into your relationship by doing so. I realize that he was the one who broke the rules, but we all know that life isn't fair, and that you can suffer from something that someone else did. So please consider carefully what it is you really want before you take any actions.
Going into a strip club is not cheating as long as he watched and did not touch. No worse than some of the stuff ya see at the beach! Relax honey, guys are gonna look and no one is gonna change that. Give the guy a break......imagine how whipped he felt when all the other guys were going in and he couldn't.
Need Advice! Women preferably but will accept a man's answer as well if it's tasteful....?
I'm going on vacation to Orange Beach in Gulf Shores. I want to wear a bathing suit but I've had three children and I'm very self-conscious about my body. What could I use to cover up areas like my thighs and still have fun....I don't want to look like a nun. :)Need Advice! Women preferably but will accept a man's answer as well if it's tasteful....?
at pacsun they have bathing suit shorts.
i wear them too because they cover my thighs.
http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=10001%26amp;catalogId=10001%26amp;langId=-1%26amp;categoryId=12704%26amp;parentCategoryId=10002%26amp;sortBy=0%26amp;pageNumber=1philosophy
at pacsun they have bathing suit shorts.
i wear them too because they cover my thighs.
http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=10001%26amp;catalogId=10001%26amp;langId=-1%26amp;categoryId=12704%26amp;parentCategoryId=10002%26amp;sortBy=0%26amp;pageNumber=1
Should I WAX? MEN AND WOMEN ADVICE PLEASE?
i'm wondering if any women could tell me how bad it hurts to get a brazilian wax (ie. all the pubic hair off). could you walk afterwards?
and men...is it nice for girls to be completely bare down there?Should I WAX? MEN AND WOMEN ADVICE PLEASE?
I have been waxing since I was 17, (im almost 20). The first few times its painful, im not going to lie about that. But after a while, you get used to it and there is less hair so its not as painful. Yes, you can walk after. If you are worried about the pain you can get a cream at the pharmacy that numbs the area, dont need a perscription, put it on like 30mins before and your good to go.Should I WAX? MEN AND WOMEN ADVICE PLEASE?
the pubic area, as i am sure you know, is very sensitive. But just like anything, it will hurt the first time. After you get it done for a while, you will get used to it and it won't hurt as badly. its like plucking or waxing your eyebrows. hurts like hell the first time, but then you get used to it.
as for being bare, it is easier to care for, but not as sanitary. Hair is there to keep stuff out, without the hair, stuff can get in. but, considering that we bathe and wear clothes now-a-days, i don't think sanitation will be an issue.
Find someone very good at doing the waxing and it's no where near as bad as you would think. I've had male brazillians. It's worth anything you go through because you feel so much cleaner. Getting laser now...Yes it's nice to have shaved, bare women.
from a mans point of view its far more attractive and a turn on if it is brazilian. not to mention that guys are more likely to go down there if it is...
i dont like a woman to be completely bare, it makes me think iam having sex with a little girl, just trim it close.
girls should be bare there
wax or shave please!
either way is fine with me
I like to have my girl have no hair there
they like it cllean i gess, i mean do u want ur man with hair???
and men...is it nice for girls to be completely bare down there?Should I WAX? MEN AND WOMEN ADVICE PLEASE?
I have been waxing since I was 17, (im almost 20). The first few times its painful, im not going to lie about that. But after a while, you get used to it and there is less hair so its not as painful. Yes, you can walk after. If you are worried about the pain you can get a cream at the pharmacy that numbs the area, dont need a perscription, put it on like 30mins before and your good to go.Should I WAX? MEN AND WOMEN ADVICE PLEASE?
the pubic area, as i am sure you know, is very sensitive. But just like anything, it will hurt the first time. After you get it done for a while, you will get used to it and it won't hurt as badly. its like plucking or waxing your eyebrows. hurts like hell the first time, but then you get used to it.
as for being bare, it is easier to care for, but not as sanitary. Hair is there to keep stuff out, without the hair, stuff can get in. but, considering that we bathe and wear clothes now-a-days, i don't think sanitation will be an issue.
Find someone very good at doing the waxing and it's no where near as bad as you would think. I've had male brazillians. It's worth anything you go through because you feel so much cleaner. Getting laser now...Yes it's nice to have shaved, bare women.
from a mans point of view its far more attractive and a turn on if it is brazilian. not to mention that guys are more likely to go down there if it is...
i dont like a woman to be completely bare, it makes me think iam having sex with a little girl, just trim it close.
girls should be bare there
wax or shave please!
either way is fine with me
I like to have my girl have no hair there
they like it cllean i gess, i mean do u want ur man with hair???
Need women advice?
Hello my friends
Once again I need some advice from you and your opinion from men and woman, expessialy women.
It鈥檚 a girl that I met on yahoo personals and now we are together 6 weeks.
We had sex from the third date and after that my girlfriend told me that it came too fast and she wants to know me better.
We go out two times a week , talk on the phone but not too much and I mean around 4-5 minutes and she cooks dinner for me at her house sometimes.
She bought me a present also on my birthday and she paid for the dinner too.
Recently I deleted my profile on yahoo personals because I respect what we are trying to build together and after almost two days she deleted her profile too.
Also she wants me to meet her friends and her father and meet her coworkers
I like this girl and I am willing to wait for her,
My concern is that if is she true?
Sometimes I have a pain in my stomach and I guess its that I might be in love with her
I am trying to control it, it鈥檚 a little early I think, don鈥檛 you think?
Last night we made sex again and she wanted me to stay at night and sleep there.
We had normal sex and then we tried anal sex because she said she likes it.
She showed to me also how she wants me to kiss her
Unfortunatelly I couldnt make it because it was dark (PLEASE DONT LAUGH) and she said next time. After she said that she sleeps diagonical on the bed and she doesnt want me to feel unconfortable. I thought she wanted me to stay there and she changed her mind
Then I left and she told me I see you on Sunday.
She asked me to call her when I get home
What did I do wrong?
Am I over analizing things?
Thank youNeed women advice?
pls keep your questions a little cleaner because yahoo has no way of keeping young kids even 5 and 10 year olds form using this site I would also stay far away from ANY girl that wants you to put your penis in a poop filled hole THAT IS NASTY !!! /Need women advice?
You are over analizing. I was going to say that she seems like too much trouble. But then you said what a freak she is in bed.
So, restart your personals account, find another girl. Then send me this one's details so I can fufill the needs you are incapable of meeting.
In my opinion, I believe you are dealing with some type of psychotic individual. You most be careful when meeting folk on the Internet. I mean there's all different personality types on here, and who's to say she's not sleeping with others from the net? I'd get rid of her. She sounds quite strange and easy too!
I aint gonna laugh at chu. If he calls you back or still answer your phone call she likes you. If she is the one she wont let anything get in the way or what happens. She should repect you. Just as you do her. I wonder why she changed her mind?
maybe she was a bit disappointed and needed time to get over it?
i think she still likes you
dude what a great relationship you got. seemed like she isn't upset at all with you. just go with the flow. also don't be a cheapskate or a free loader. you better buy stuff for her or take her out somewhere.
good luck!
sex too soon could ruin a relationship hold out on her too long you might miss your shot be honest don't play games hope that she does not either make sure its what you both want or wait till your married you cant go wrong, if its bad on the wedding night get it annulled or a better negotiator than me
You are a good story teller and I am not buying it and also at the end of the story I am not sure what is your concern and you want advice about.
Try xxx site to put your story in.
Once again I need some advice from you and your opinion from men and woman, expessialy women.
It鈥檚 a girl that I met on yahoo personals and now we are together 6 weeks.
We had sex from the third date and after that my girlfriend told me that it came too fast and she wants to know me better.
We go out two times a week , talk on the phone but not too much and I mean around 4-5 minutes and she cooks dinner for me at her house sometimes.
She bought me a present also on my birthday and she paid for the dinner too.
Recently I deleted my profile on yahoo personals because I respect what we are trying to build together and after almost two days she deleted her profile too.
Also she wants me to meet her friends and her father and meet her coworkers
I like this girl and I am willing to wait for her,
My concern is that if is she true?
Sometimes I have a pain in my stomach and I guess its that I might be in love with her
I am trying to control it, it鈥檚 a little early I think, don鈥檛 you think?
Last night we made sex again and she wanted me to stay at night and sleep there.
We had normal sex and then we tried anal sex because she said she likes it.
She showed to me also how she wants me to kiss her
Unfortunatelly I couldnt make it because it was dark (PLEASE DONT LAUGH) and she said next time. After she said that she sleeps diagonical on the bed and she doesnt want me to feel unconfortable. I thought she wanted me to stay there and she changed her mind
Then I left and she told me I see you on Sunday.
She asked me to call her when I get home
What did I do wrong?
Am I over analizing things?
Thank youNeed women advice?
pls keep your questions a little cleaner because yahoo has no way of keeping young kids even 5 and 10 year olds form using this site I would also stay far away from ANY girl that wants you to put your penis in a poop filled hole THAT IS NASTY !!! /Need women advice?
You are over analizing. I was going to say that she seems like too much trouble. But then you said what a freak she is in bed.
So, restart your personals account, find another girl. Then send me this one's details so I can fufill the needs you are incapable of meeting.
In my opinion, I believe you are dealing with some type of psychotic individual. You most be careful when meeting folk on the Internet. I mean there's all different personality types on here, and who's to say she's not sleeping with others from the net? I'd get rid of her. She sounds quite strange and easy too!
I aint gonna laugh at chu. If he calls you back or still answer your phone call she likes you. If she is the one she wont let anything get in the way or what happens. She should repect you. Just as you do her. I wonder why she changed her mind?
maybe she was a bit disappointed and needed time to get over it?
i think she still likes you
dude what a great relationship you got. seemed like she isn't upset at all with you. just go with the flow. also don't be a cheapskate or a free loader. you better buy stuff for her or take her out somewhere.
good luck!
sex too soon could ruin a relationship hold out on her too long you might miss your shot be honest don't play games hope that she does not either make sure its what you both want or wait till your married you cant go wrong, if its bad on the wedding night get it annulled or a better negotiator than me
You are a good story teller and I am not buying it and also at the end of the story I am not sure what is your concern and you want advice about.
Try xxx site to put your story in.
Do women usually do this?? (mostly women advice)?
right i know this is gunna sound weired but here we go. i started seeing this girl 3 days ago we have seen each other 2 of these days and txted each other all day yesterday today we texted each other.
and i sent a text 6 hours ago to which she aint replied we get on really well she has even said she really cares about me and said yesterday that she couldent stop thinking off me. im kind of lovestruck at the moment and am wondering why she isent exting me abck after 6 hours is it a way to proove she aint desperate or something.
i know she has a life 2 but cant seem to get her out my head we live in the same town as each other so
My question is: do women often not text lads back to keep us in suspense or summinDo women usually do this?? (mostly women advice)?
yeah calm downnn
she doesnt want you to think that your the only thing in her life
she'll text back...justt give her some spaceDo women usually do this?? (mostly women advice)?
yeah they do. it's cuz their friends tell them to. not all girls do it, i don't. 6 hours isn't that long though.
i wonder how she can ';really care about you'; after 3 days though...
she's probably working or sleeping. if its 6 days then its time to worry, 6 hours could mean anything..maybe she went for a drive with no signal somewhere, take it easy.
yea sometimes she wants to see if you miss her or if you dont even notice
sometimes, certain cell carriers get backed up and either the messages are lost or get there hours later. its possible she hasn't even received your message. the only sure way would be to CALL her.
Beware of yourself coming on as desperate. Girls don't like that. Make the call, leave a message telling her you really enjoy her company and hope to see her again. Forget the texting. After you call, leave it be. If she doesn't respond, move on. Don't chase.
and i sent a text 6 hours ago to which she aint replied we get on really well she has even said she really cares about me and said yesterday that she couldent stop thinking off me. im kind of lovestruck at the moment and am wondering why she isent exting me abck after 6 hours is it a way to proove she aint desperate or something.
i know she has a life 2 but cant seem to get her out my head we live in the same town as each other so
My question is: do women often not text lads back to keep us in suspense or summinDo women usually do this?? (mostly women advice)?
yeah calm downnn
she doesnt want you to think that your the only thing in her life
she'll text back...justt give her some spaceDo women usually do this?? (mostly women advice)?
yeah they do. it's cuz their friends tell them to. not all girls do it, i don't. 6 hours isn't that long though.
i wonder how she can ';really care about you'; after 3 days though...
she's probably working or sleeping. if its 6 days then its time to worry, 6 hours could mean anything..maybe she went for a drive with no signal somewhere, take it easy.
yea sometimes she wants to see if you miss her or if you dont even notice
sometimes, certain cell carriers get backed up and either the messages are lost or get there hours later. its possible she hasn't even received your message. the only sure way would be to CALL her.
Beware of yourself coming on as desperate. Girls don't like that. Make the call, leave a message telling her you really enjoy her company and hope to see her again. Forget the texting. After you call, leave it be. If she doesn't respond, move on. Don't chase.
What is the best relationship advice you can give to a man about women?
Trying to compile advice from women and men about relationships. What would you tell a man is the best piece of advice about women you know? You can email your advice or tip to relationshiptidbits@gmail.com. Please include your age and gender, and first name last initial if you are comfortable with that. Your advice may be published.What is the best relationship advice you can give to a man about women?
i would tell the man to learn when to keep his mouth shut and do what has to be done. it makes for a happy marriage. grannybc
no age, i gave my birthdays awayWhat is the best relationship advice you can give to a man about women?
I'm a 23 year old woman...the best advice I can give is to listen, just listen and try to understand, if you dont understans what she's saying ask for explinations. Communication is the key to everything.
respect her, dont do anything violent on her person, when she say NO to sex, accept it, love her, be her friend, look after her if she becomes ill, if you marry, thank her for the things she do, wash iron your clothes, cook clean home, bearing children buy her gifts, take her out often have lots of fun, be honest, be faithful, no cheating on her, give money so she can shop, my age 53, im a female, my hubbie does this im very happy.
Be honest and be yourself if you are looking for a lasting relationship.
i give you nothing about my personal thing, but i can give you my piece of advice.
Don't ever forget those important date, such as her birthday, the anniversary date.
To love her, show her with little things, notes, etc...
Don't try to fix everything. Just give her a hug.
Good luck:)
To take care of each others feelings as they are your own.
female, 30 years old and DeMonfort
Building a data base from anonymous people who might even be complete failures in relationships
LOL
That's a good one LOL
My advice however (and yeah I might even be a wife beater for all you know)
is to deal with your partner as you would the most important business associate in your life because, quite simply, that is what they are or should be.
The conversations I have with my wife are very formal and extremely polite.
We've noticed it veering into more and more formality with the passing of years to the point that if you were to over hear us talking the last thing you would guess is that we're married.
I talk to my wife as I would to a judge who has the power to put me away for life.
always make her feel special. dont just do it in the start of the relationship and then stop once you get her. i am a 35 year old female
Respect yourself and the person you are choosing to be with!
i would tell the man to learn when to keep his mouth shut and do what has to be done. it makes for a happy marriage. grannybc
no age, i gave my birthdays awayWhat is the best relationship advice you can give to a man about women?
I'm a 23 year old woman...the best advice I can give is to listen, just listen and try to understand, if you dont understans what she's saying ask for explinations. Communication is the key to everything.
respect her, dont do anything violent on her person, when she say NO to sex, accept it, love her, be her friend, look after her if she becomes ill, if you marry, thank her for the things she do, wash iron your clothes, cook clean home, bearing children buy her gifts, take her out often have lots of fun, be honest, be faithful, no cheating on her, give money so she can shop, my age 53, im a female, my hubbie does this im very happy.
Be honest and be yourself if you are looking for a lasting relationship.
i give you nothing about my personal thing, but i can give you my piece of advice.
Don't ever forget those important date, such as her birthday, the anniversary date.
To love her, show her with little things, notes, etc...
Don't try to fix everything. Just give her a hug.
Good luck:)
To take care of each others feelings as they are your own.
female, 30 years old and DeMonfort
Building a data base from anonymous people who might even be complete failures in relationships
LOL
That's a good one LOL
My advice however (and yeah I might even be a wife beater for all you know)
is to deal with your partner as you would the most important business associate in your life because, quite simply, that is what they are or should be.
The conversations I have with my wife are very formal and extremely polite.
We've noticed it veering into more and more formality with the passing of years to the point that if you were to over hear us talking the last thing you would guess is that we're married.
I talk to my wife as I would to a judge who has the power to put me away for life.
always make her feel special. dont just do it in the start of the relationship and then stop once you get her. i am a 35 year old female
Respect yourself and the person you are choosing to be with!
Some women advice?
HI well as u notice valentine is come and all im asking is for some ideals on a sweet thing i can do for my Lady that people had tried. What i did last year was a scavenger hunt where i put notes that lead to more all around my area till she got to my house where we had dinner it work out pretty well but i am loch for some way to top this
Ladies please if u had something really sweet done for you help ME out PLEASe cause im clue lessSome women advice?
U didn't say Ur age??
so...??
if u know when she gets off work have her come over a day before val's day.. have a little candle lite.. table set.. and the tub filled with hot water.. bubbles..
and don't forget the rose pedals on the pillow..
good luckSome women advice?
wow thats great ! hmm.. how can you top this ? how about fireworks ? have somebody to do it for you.. while you take her somewhere where you could spend some alone time.. like the beach or top of the hill.. of course where you could see the fireworks clearly. on the fireworks.. have something that says i love you and her name has to be there !
Ladies please if u had something really sweet done for you help ME out PLEASe cause im clue lessSome women advice?
U didn't say Ur age??
so...??
if u know when she gets off work have her come over a day before val's day.. have a little candle lite.. table set.. and the tub filled with hot water.. bubbles..
and don't forget the rose pedals on the pillow..
good luckSome women advice?
wow thats great ! hmm.. how can you top this ? how about fireworks ? have somebody to do it for you.. while you take her somewhere where you could spend some alone time.. like the beach or top of the hill.. of course where you could see the fireworks clearly. on the fireworks.. have something that says i love you and her name has to be there !
Can any women offer me some much needed advice?
I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an aniversery surprise for my wife because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their husband did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?Can any women offer me some much needed advice?
Doug, Doug, Doug, Doug, Doug.
Don't do it, Doug.
Has your wife asked you to do this?
Read LOTS of info on the 'net and weigh the pros and cons.
It is very serious after the first month of life and unless you guys are having sexual difficulties, I would not recommend it.
Good luckCan any women offer me some much needed advice?
It does not make any difference at all in terms of feeling. To be blunt, the clit is more important in terms of sexual pleasure anyways, so the penis isn't quite the be-all-and-end-all of sex (despite what men like to think).
If my theoretical husband did that, I'd feel bad because he did something unnecessary and it's probably extremely painful.
EDIT: Okay, the **** was c l i t. WTF, they can show penis but not cl*t? Since when is any correct term for a body part a dirty word? Arrgh.
It will not make any difference to her pleasure. You may experience irritation from the fact that you are ';exposed'; where you never have been before and you are more sensitive to the pressures and frictions that most men who are circumcised at birth are used to.
But as far as hygiene goes, it is more sanitary. The foreskin can hold and grow bacteria that can be passed to your wife.
But, in general, I agree with what seemed to be the majority. Why have a painful surgery that really isn't necessary? It is your bod and you can do what you want with it, but just by asking for opinions, I think you have some major doubts and hesitations.
Maybe you should talk it over with your wife before you go under the knife.
I think it looks better, I have always thought the look of an uncircumsized male body part was not as good looking as a circumsized one. Also, it might easier for you to take care of down there, that is after you heal.
In terms of a sexual experience it doesn't make much of a difference. Is this something that you wife has expressed interest in?
I do not think the cut of the penis tip makes any difference. Frankly, the clitoris and G-Spot matter more for MUTUAL satisfaction. It pays to be versatile and experimental!philosophy
Doug, Doug, Doug, Doug, Doug.
Don't do it, Doug.
Has your wife asked you to do this?
Read LOTS of info on the 'net and weigh the pros and cons.
It is very serious after the first month of life and unless you guys are having sexual difficulties, I would not recommend it.
Good luckCan any women offer me some much needed advice?
It does not make any difference at all in terms of feeling. To be blunt, the clit is more important in terms of sexual pleasure anyways, so the penis isn't quite the be-all-and-end-all of sex (despite what men like to think).
If my theoretical husband did that, I'd feel bad because he did something unnecessary and it's probably extremely painful.
EDIT: Okay, the **** was c l i t. WTF, they can show penis but not cl*t? Since when is any correct term for a body part a dirty word? Arrgh.
It will not make any difference to her pleasure. You may experience irritation from the fact that you are ';exposed'; where you never have been before and you are more sensitive to the pressures and frictions that most men who are circumcised at birth are used to.
But as far as hygiene goes, it is more sanitary. The foreskin can hold and grow bacteria that can be passed to your wife.
But, in general, I agree with what seemed to be the majority. Why have a painful surgery that really isn't necessary? It is your bod and you can do what you want with it, but just by asking for opinions, I think you have some major doubts and hesitations.
Maybe you should talk it over with your wife before you go under the knife.
I think it looks better, I have always thought the look of an uncircumsized male body part was not as good looking as a circumsized one. Also, it might easier for you to take care of down there, that is after you heal.
In terms of a sexual experience it doesn't make much of a difference. Is this something that you wife has expressed interest in?
I do not think the cut of the penis tip makes any difference. Frankly, the clitoris and G-Spot matter more for MUTUAL satisfaction. It pays to be versatile and experimental!
Need women advice?
Hello my friends
Once again I need some advice from you and your opinion from men and woman, expessialy women.
It鈥檚 a girl that I met on yahoo personals and now we are together 6 weeks.
We had sex from the third date and after that my girlfriend told me that it came too fast and she wants to know me better.
We go out two times a week , talk on the phone but not too much and I mean around 4-5 minutes and she cooks dinner for me at her house sometimes.
She bought me a present also on my birthday and she paid for the dinner too.
Recently I deleted my profile on yahoo personals because I respect what we are trying to build together and after almost two days she deleted her profile too.
Also she wants me to meet her friends and her father and meet her coworkers
I like this girl and I am willing to wait for her,
My concern is that if is she true?
Sometimes I have a pain in my stomach and I guess its that I might be in love with her
I am trying to control it, it鈥檚 a little early I think, don鈥檛 you think?
Last night we made sex again and she wanted me to stay at night and sleep there.
We had normal sex and then we tried anal sex because she said she likes it.
She showed to me also how she wants me to kiss her
Unfortunatelly I couldnt make it because it was dark (PLEASE DONT LAUGH) and she said next time. After she said that she sleeps diagonical on the bed and she doesnt want me to feel unconfortable. I thought she wanted me to stay there and she changed her mind
Then I left and she told me I see you on Sunday.
She asked me to call her when I get home
What did I do wrong?
Am I over analizing things?
Thank youNeed women advice?
she sounds good, just do what she tells you in the bed room, because she knows what gets her off and obviousloy she really likes you, just keep havin sex, the more often you do it the more you will both learn how to make each other explode. maybe you should watch porn, and get a few moves because it sounds like she is alot more experienced than you. thats not a bad thing either goodluckNeed women advice?
You should respect a woman's private space, she is probably thinking of the last night, and making some major decisions like, would he be my knight in shining armour and stuff like that, just as she told you, call her when you get back home...
lol, om my. Im sorry i some what have to giggle. I never see a guy nervous. Just treat it as a regular dating thing until you can be fore sure about her. LAst thing you want is her to say bye bye after you have feeling for her too deep.
Take it easy and slow, she might have gotten nervious and changed her mind. Step by step is all you have to take. As the days go byyou will start to realize if you want to be with her truely or not. It may last a year or for years who knows just watch her body language and well ease up on sex to be sure she is in it for that. get to know each other on picnics or walks in the park or dinners dates or zoo walks.
Until then good luck hun.
Once again I need some advice from you and your opinion from men and woman, expessialy women.
It鈥檚 a girl that I met on yahoo personals and now we are together 6 weeks.
We had sex from the third date and after that my girlfriend told me that it came too fast and she wants to know me better.
We go out two times a week , talk on the phone but not too much and I mean around 4-5 minutes and she cooks dinner for me at her house sometimes.
She bought me a present also on my birthday and she paid for the dinner too.
Recently I deleted my profile on yahoo personals because I respect what we are trying to build together and after almost two days she deleted her profile too.
Also she wants me to meet her friends and her father and meet her coworkers
I like this girl and I am willing to wait for her,
My concern is that if is she true?
Sometimes I have a pain in my stomach and I guess its that I might be in love with her
I am trying to control it, it鈥檚 a little early I think, don鈥檛 you think?
Last night we made sex again and she wanted me to stay at night and sleep there.
We had normal sex and then we tried anal sex because she said she likes it.
She showed to me also how she wants me to kiss her
Unfortunatelly I couldnt make it because it was dark (PLEASE DONT LAUGH) and she said next time. After she said that she sleeps diagonical on the bed and she doesnt want me to feel unconfortable. I thought she wanted me to stay there and she changed her mind
Then I left and she told me I see you on Sunday.
She asked me to call her when I get home
What did I do wrong?
Am I over analizing things?
Thank youNeed women advice?
she sounds good, just do what she tells you in the bed room, because she knows what gets her off and obviousloy she really likes you, just keep havin sex, the more often you do it the more you will both learn how to make each other explode. maybe you should watch porn, and get a few moves because it sounds like she is alot more experienced than you. thats not a bad thing either goodluckNeed women advice?
You should respect a woman's private space, she is probably thinking of the last night, and making some major decisions like, would he be my knight in shining armour and stuff like that, just as she told you, call her when you get back home...
lol, om my. Im sorry i some what have to giggle. I never see a guy nervous. Just treat it as a regular dating thing until you can be fore sure about her. LAst thing you want is her to say bye bye after you have feeling for her too deep.
Take it easy and slow, she might have gotten nervious and changed her mind. Step by step is all you have to take. As the days go byyou will start to realize if you want to be with her truely or not. It may last a year or for years who knows just watch her body language and well ease up on sex to be sure she is in it for that. get to know each other on picnics or walks in the park or dinners dates or zoo walks.
Until then good luck hun.
I need a some women advice?
so i recently just had sex and im still bleeding is that normal? we went slow please help me outI need a some women advice?
Yes it is normal. If you remember the old saying ';getting your cherry popped'; It is not uncommon for women to bleed because your cervix is closed when you are a virgin and having rough sex or if he is bigger in that area it would be the issue, but keep in mind it is normal and you should not bleed after tomorrow, it should be very little considering it was 5 hours ago you said.I need a some women advice?
How long ago was it.
If his penis was long or had really rough sex it's possible that he bruised your cervix.
Yes it is normal. If you remember the old saying ';getting your cherry popped'; It is not uncommon for women to bleed because your cervix is closed when you are a virgin and having rough sex or if he is bigger in that area it would be the issue, but keep in mind it is normal and you should not bleed after tomorrow, it should be very little considering it was 5 hours ago you said.I need a some women advice?
How long ago was it.
If his penis was long or had really rough sex it's possible that he bruised your cervix.
Younger guy into older women....advice?
im a 16 year old guy, i know alot of women are into older guys, but i have an extremely strong sex drive when it comes to older women, its a huge turn on to me, i want so badly to be with someone older between 30 and 55 is this wierd, and are some women actually turned on by younger guys, and where can i meet women liek this?Younger guy into older women....advice?
you'll find freaks like that anywhere..... but most of the places... your too young to go sweetheart.... sorry...
you'll find freaks like that anywhere..... but most of the places... your too young to go sweetheart.... sorry...
Ladies, I'm shy around HOT women. Any advice on approaching or good first words?
I get tense and overexcited when I see a hot girl that I like. I seem to have no problem talking with unattractive girls and I seem to have several of those type who like me. Yet, I don't have the confidence to talk to attractive women. I need some advice on some good icebreakers when meeting a girl at a bar, store, or any casual setting?Ladies, I'm shy around HOT women. Any advice on approaching or good first words?
well obviously you would appoarch these women in differently depending on the situation. my adivce to you is too take a deep breath and calmly appoarch her in a very natural way (avoid akwardness at all costs) i know when i get appoarched by guys at work or something it is a major turn off when they are nervous and i can tell they planned out their whole conversation with me. we want a confident man, not a nervous little boy haha. good luck! p.s. dont appoarch a girl when she is with her friends and remember no akwardness...hahLadies, I'm shy around HOT women. Any advice on approaching or good first words?
There are no perfect lines or magic words. Just be yourself and realize they're only people too. Put yourself in their shoes, I mean the REALLY HOT ladies. They get men stumbling around all the time. Be different. Act as though you could have her if you wanted. Be yourself and act the same way you do with the unattractive ones. Women, all women like a man that's: funny, sexy (which is a state of mind and an attitude), has a good job, keeps his house clean, intelligent, and has a kind soul. Don't over think things, just get in there and mix it up.
well obviously you would appoarch these women in differently depending on the situation. my adivce to you is too take a deep breath and calmly appoarch her in a very natural way (avoid akwardness at all costs) i know when i get appoarched by guys at work or something it is a major turn off when they are nervous and i can tell they planned out their whole conversation with me. we want a confident man, not a nervous little boy haha. good luck! p.s. dont appoarch a girl when she is with her friends and remember no akwardness...hahLadies, I'm shy around HOT women. Any advice on approaching or good first words?
There are no perfect lines or magic words. Just be yourself and realize they're only people too. Put yourself in their shoes, I mean the REALLY HOT ladies. They get men stumbling around all the time. Be different. Act as though you could have her if you wanted. Be yourself and act the same way you do with the unattractive ones. Women, all women like a man that's: funny, sexy (which is a state of mind and an attitude), has a good job, keeps his house clean, intelligent, and has a kind soul. Don't over think things, just get in there and mix it up.
Have a friend need women advice???
help my buddy is 49 and has low self esteem since his divorce helpHave a friend need women advice???
Maybe you should try taking him out and yall enjoying some drinks, bowling, or maybe even a strip club. Just so that he can have some fun and enjoy himself.Have a friend need women advice???
Tell him to pick himself up and get out there.
Or be a loser the rest of his life.
There is really not a whole lot you can do for your friend. He is gonna feel this way for a few months. Longer than that and he needs to have a friend tell him to get over it and get on with his life. I hope he starts feeling better soon. You are a great friend for him to have in his corner. Just bear with him while he is in transition. It is a tough one to make.
Best wishes
take him to the bar by him a round and maybe a agirl in there too, just get him out into the world again as a single man, be a friend and do things he'd enjoy, help him get over it asap otherwise he'll just become more depressed
so take him out to meet new women! there is some one out there that will find him interesting again! just make shure he is ready to start dating don't be pushy!
He's got to climb out of it.
Women dont want a weak *** man. A weak man means that any woman can rule him. women do NOT LIKE THAT. He needs to go to the gym, work out, practice being confident and things will get better for him.
He should seek counseling
Tell him that he doesn't need anyone to help his self-esteem, he's a beautiful person on his own. Help him get out there and mingle!!!
I will go uot with him call me (562)555-6666
tell him to...have fun and enjoy himself!! and keep busy!!
At 49, it's hard to get ANY kind of steam, let alone esteem. Tell him good luck, if not, hope he had a good job, lots of money, and a cool car.
Maybe you should try taking him out and yall enjoying some drinks, bowling, or maybe even a strip club. Just so that he can have some fun and enjoy himself.Have a friend need women advice???
Tell him to pick himself up and get out there.
Or be a loser the rest of his life.
There is really not a whole lot you can do for your friend. He is gonna feel this way for a few months. Longer than that and he needs to have a friend tell him to get over it and get on with his life. I hope he starts feeling better soon. You are a great friend for him to have in his corner. Just bear with him while he is in transition. It is a tough one to make.
Best wishes
take him to the bar by him a round and maybe a agirl in there too, just get him out into the world again as a single man, be a friend and do things he'd enjoy, help him get over it asap otherwise he'll just become more depressed
so take him out to meet new women! there is some one out there that will find him interesting again! just make shure he is ready to start dating don't be pushy!
He's got to climb out of it.
Women dont want a weak *** man. A weak man means that any woman can rule him. women do NOT LIKE THAT. He needs to go to the gym, work out, practice being confident and things will get better for him.
He should seek counseling
Tell him that he doesn't need anyone to help his self-esteem, he's a beautiful person on his own. Help him get out there and mingle!!!
I will go uot with him call me (562)555-6666
tell him to...have fun and enjoy himself!! and keep busy!!
At 49, it's hard to get ANY kind of steam, let alone esteem. Tell him good luck, if not, hope he had a good job, lots of money, and a cool car.
Older women advice? She came over but....?
I got a new woman friend who happens too be a bit older, she's 37 and I'm 24, but age isn't the problem. On Wednesday she called and came over but we were interupted by family and friends coming by. So, on Thursday she came back over, but nothing happened between us. Did I make a mistake by not trying to make a move or did I do myself a favor by not acting on my feelings. We have gotten fairly far in converstaions because she was telling me about a wet dream she had and we talked about porn( i asked if she moaned and she smiled, but she looked at me alittle wierd...she said ';it depends on whats going on? and whos home? I said '; no ones here'; She said '; I know'; BLaH I mess UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Older women advice? She came over but....?
date women close to your age,your just whorney..ask her for sex and see what she says this is just a sex thingOlder women advice? She came over but....?
I'd try to tap that. Sounds like some good ol fashioned grind.
meh, I doubt that one little thing would be considered messing up lol.
hahaha
wrong notes at the right time~!philosophy
date women close to your age,your just whorney..ask her for sex and see what she says this is just a sex thingOlder women advice? She came over but....?
I'd try to tap that. Sounds like some good ol fashioned grind.
meh, I doubt that one little thing would be considered messing up lol.
hahaha
wrong notes at the right time~!
Need women advice please.?
Had a friend of mine set up with this girl. My friend is a girl too we all stayed at her house Sat night and had a good time. I got her number the next day and text with her a little. I did not contact her on Mon. On Tues. she contacted out of the blue just asking whats up. We text for awhile and she said I should hang out with her at her pool. I said sure and asked if she wanted to get dinner one night this week. We have a date tonight for dinner and whatever afterwards. The date was suppose to be for 8:45 since she works the overnight shift at a hospital. She however, text and asked if we could go earlier. I said sure and ask why she wants earlier. She said she staying in town and did not have her kid today. She lives one town over and has a kid which she told me she had today. The question is that it appears she made change her plans today for more time on the date. What level of interest would this be from a womans view point.Need women advice please.?
It sounds like she is interested! Go for it :)
Goodluck
xoxo
It sounds like she is interested! Go for it :)
Goodluck
xoxo
Ladies, women!!! Advice please!? Did I do the right thing? Would she have stopped me?
Ok, so there's this girl I work with who's back in town for the summer til she goes back to college. She has a boyfriend back @ school and all, but she seems to like me. Shes always giving me these long, tight kinda ';more than just friends'; hugs and I make her laugh, so i think she kinda likes me. But people can be misleading so I haven't really jump to conclusions. Long story short, we went on a ';date'; to the movies and I was kinda confused, because on one hand she talked a lot about her boyfriend, how she cleans for him, washes his clothes, tell him everywhere she goes...and so on. It seems like she really likes him and respects him a lot. But on the other hand, at the movies i had my arm around her the whole time, i was massaging her hands, arms and stuff like that.She didn't stop me at all, and actually, moved in closer.( her arm was in my lab and our faces were almost touching) So, after the movies we're in my car and she tells me she didn't really feel like going home just yet. She wasn't really hungry and it was around midnight so there wasn't much really to do. Her parents were home and so were mine. So we sat and my car and talked...about, well, everything.( college life, how she was worried about her make up, sex, etc.) I had her laughing the whole time of course, but i did notice she seemed slightly nervous the way she was sitting and the fact that she was talking a mile a minute. So eventually, i took her home and she gave me another one of those long hugs again. the thought to kiss her crossed my mind but I played it safe. When i got home, she sent me a text wishing me goodnight saying she had a great time and we should hang out again sometime. It was weird, though because I kinda had this feeling like she wanted me to make a move, and she seemed to be sending ';signs'; all night but I held back because: 1) she had a boyfriend 2) I work with this girl, and if i would've made a move and offended her, it would make for an unpleasant work environment 3) some people are flirty so naturally they are misleadng. So did I do the right thing by playing it safe or should I have just ';went for it';?Ladies, women!!! Advice please!? Did I do the right thing? Would she have stopped me?
ok first of all why are you flirting with a girl who has a boyfriend, I dont think you should even be with her because if you were to be her boyfriend eventually she will do the same thing back to you. Its just kind of wrong to go on a ';date'; with someone when your already in a relationship. it just starts ALOT of drama and it shows SHE DOESNT have any respect for her boyfriend, if she did she would have stopped you...Ladies, women!!! Advice please!? Did I do the right thing? Would she have stopped me?
i think you did the right thing
I also think that she likes you but because she has a boyfriend she is holding back
You def did the right thing. Keep it up
yes
you did the right thing...u dont wanna creep her out
I think you did the right thing. You could have started a lot of problems with her and her boyfriend if you made a move. Maybe, though, you shouldn't have taken it as far as you did. Putting your arm around her, sitting and talking to her, and flirting when you knew she had a boyfriend might not have been in your best interest. Over all I think you knew when enough was enough. Good job!
Well, she did like you obviously, but the act that she has a boyfriend and either of you making a move is a big no-no. It isn't fair to you or the BF. You should talk to each other and figure things out.
I think you did the right thing by holding back, and the reasons you listed are perfect reasons why. She may have been 'telling' you about her boyfriend and how she does all these things for him because she wanted to let you know that she is a good and useful girlfriend, and that she would do the 'same things' for you. HOWEVER...the fact that she is acting this way with you when she has a boyfriend, despite the fact she may like you or not, means she would probably do the same exact thing to you with another guy later on. She might just be getting a kick out of the attention, but you need to maybe have a chat with her about her intentions. Just throw it in a casual face to face convo, such as ';what do you want from me'; or ';what are your intentions';. Just be careful. She may be a big flirt, yes, but for having a boyfriend she was awful 'friendly'! Good luck!
It definitly sounds like she likes you but be warned! She could be one of two types of girls; the first is that she's just a massive flirt and is looking for the attention from you. She wants a bit of a chase, to feel desired etc. The second you do make a move on this kinda girl she will act like she's never even thought about you in this way, can't believe you got it so wrong yada yada yada! She'll tell her boyfriend, make him jealous and get his attention instead
The second kinda girl is that she really does like you and wants you to make a move on her. Your both young most relationships at this age dont last long at this age. Herself and the bf could be on the rocks bt she wont break up with him until shen knows she has something to leave him for!
You've been a gentleman to her so far (my girlfriend agrees) bt u need to know where you stand. Clearly you like her, just come out and ask her in a very nonthreatening environment. Her place, or when she's asked you out somewhere. Start a conversation reminding her of all the fun you've been having together, dont put emphasis on the friendship role. More on how compatible you two are, mention private jokes etc. Remind her of how special you are to each other, then tell her how you feel about her. She'll give you an honest response!
Best of luck, hope it goes well!
Yes, you did the right thing, in my opinion you were a gentleman. Congrats, not many of you out there.
Maybe you should talk to here. Tell her what you have just told us here. Find out what it is she wants (if anything)
She maybe just one of those people who have the kind of personality
that like giving hugs to people she likes. For your own peace of mind though, talk to her.
I think you should have held her face in your hands and like leaned in to kiss her but dont, hold back and then if she meets you half way and kisses you, then you've done nothing wrong ;) x
You did the right thing playing it safe. If she wants you, she is the one who should make the move. But I would hope she splits with her boyfriend first! Sometimes it would help if you asked her tricky questions or make a silly joke and see what she says. Example: Some girls or guys play this one, I should know - I've heard it myself ';what would you do if i gave you a sloppy kiss?'; it's silly but its a pick up line for sure but it's also a kiddie Joke. If she gives you a response, then i hope its an answer you'd like! Good luck!
ok first of all why are you flirting with a girl who has a boyfriend, I dont think you should even be with her because if you were to be her boyfriend eventually she will do the same thing back to you. Its just kind of wrong to go on a ';date'; with someone when your already in a relationship. it just starts ALOT of drama and it shows SHE DOESNT have any respect for her boyfriend, if she did she would have stopped you...Ladies, women!!! Advice please!? Did I do the right thing? Would she have stopped me?
i think you did the right thing
I also think that she likes you but because she has a boyfriend she is holding back
You def did the right thing. Keep it up
yes
you did the right thing...u dont wanna creep her out
I think you did the right thing. You could have started a lot of problems with her and her boyfriend if you made a move. Maybe, though, you shouldn't have taken it as far as you did. Putting your arm around her, sitting and talking to her, and flirting when you knew she had a boyfriend might not have been in your best interest. Over all I think you knew when enough was enough. Good job!
Well, she did like you obviously, but the act that she has a boyfriend and either of you making a move is a big no-no. It isn't fair to you or the BF. You should talk to each other and figure things out.
I think you did the right thing by holding back, and the reasons you listed are perfect reasons why. She may have been 'telling' you about her boyfriend and how she does all these things for him because she wanted to let you know that she is a good and useful girlfriend, and that she would do the 'same things' for you. HOWEVER...the fact that she is acting this way with you when she has a boyfriend, despite the fact she may like you or not, means she would probably do the same exact thing to you with another guy later on. She might just be getting a kick out of the attention, but you need to maybe have a chat with her about her intentions. Just throw it in a casual face to face convo, such as ';what do you want from me'; or ';what are your intentions';. Just be careful. She may be a big flirt, yes, but for having a boyfriend she was awful 'friendly'! Good luck!
It definitly sounds like she likes you but be warned! She could be one of two types of girls; the first is that she's just a massive flirt and is looking for the attention from you. She wants a bit of a chase, to feel desired etc. The second you do make a move on this kinda girl she will act like she's never even thought about you in this way, can't believe you got it so wrong yada yada yada! She'll tell her boyfriend, make him jealous and get his attention instead
The second kinda girl is that she really does like you and wants you to make a move on her. Your both young most relationships at this age dont last long at this age. Herself and the bf could be on the rocks bt she wont break up with him until shen knows she has something to leave him for!
You've been a gentleman to her so far (my girlfriend agrees) bt u need to know where you stand. Clearly you like her, just come out and ask her in a very nonthreatening environment. Her place, or when she's asked you out somewhere. Start a conversation reminding her of all the fun you've been having together, dont put emphasis on the friendship role. More on how compatible you two are, mention private jokes etc. Remind her of how special you are to each other, then tell her how you feel about her. She'll give you an honest response!
Best of luck, hope it goes well!
Yes, you did the right thing, in my opinion you were a gentleman. Congrats, not many of you out there.
Maybe you should talk to here. Tell her what you have just told us here. Find out what it is she wants (if anything)
She maybe just one of those people who have the kind of personality
that like giving hugs to people she likes. For your own peace of mind though, talk to her.
I think you should have held her face in your hands and like leaned in to kiss her but dont, hold back and then if she meets you half way and kisses you, then you've done nothing wrong ;) x
You did the right thing playing it safe. If she wants you, she is the one who should make the move. But I would hope she splits with her boyfriend first! Sometimes it would help if you asked her tricky questions or make a silly joke and see what she says. Example: Some girls or guys play this one, I should know - I've heard it myself ';what would you do if i gave you a sloppy kiss?'; it's silly but its a pick up line for sure but it's also a kiddie Joke. If she gives you a response, then i hope its an answer you'd like! Good luck!
Married women advice please?
dunno I feel bad and paranoid and was wondering if you could help me?
First let me explain.
5 years ago I decided to not talk to married or taken men at all(unless it's for business) because of a bad experience where I was accused of breaking up a relationship. He was flirting with me and taking me out on all his dates(I didn't drive and I didn't even reach puberty back then I was 19 at the time) and HE told me that he cheated on her with someone else. Good person I am I told her and she blamed it on me as so all of her friends.
Anyway I want to become a missionary and I can't if I distrust men you know. So I've befriended a couple and the woman decided to help me out and challenge me and stuff. She knows about my distrust in men and stuff.
Anyway she hasn't replied back all day and usually she would. I mentioned her husband twice in two emails(one yesterday and one today). and I'm like oh crap I talked about him too much yadayada
I'm 24 now and I am not attracted to married men, I am against adultery and I don't talk to them alone, don't talk to them on the phone and don't talk to them through email. I also don't share personal things with them either.
If you say you won't trust me with your husband tell me why you said that.
Oh I'm also paranoid that if I mention a person 3x recently in a day that's bad? or something? help me here and the rest.Married women advice please?
if she fully 100% trusts her husband, nothing you say or do will be taken as a threat. it might be taken as disrespectful but not as a threat to their relationship.Married women advice please?
you sound like me and worry too much, don't. It's only making the situation worse that what it really is. That man broke up his relationship, not you, sounded like you did the best you could. Alot of married men are sleezballs so i don't blame you for keeping distance.
Hi I am not really sure how to answer your question, I think you are 'thinking' to much about these things. Sure some men cheat on their wives and others don't. It can't be generalised and you can't mistrust ALL men because of one or two bad experiences.
i would give my opinion but gee i am married and no way should you ever talk to a married person how terrible and frightening. You know I really could tell you a thing or two that you need to know but you do seem a bit paranoid
Seek professional counseling.
Just come to the reality that you just realize that there is no tastier bone then another dog's bone...
you are over reacting to your past.....get on with life and dont spend so much time worring about men.....good luck : )
you got some OCD issues and need to chill out. Could be serotonin issues. Try taking some fish oil n warm months and cod liver oil in months with little sun, like Winter (depending where you live).
Get some exercise and get out in world.
You are getting anal and hypersensitive. I think you don't fully trust yourself within. I don't go after married men so Id on't think two hoots about it. I try to be respectful when I am with other women and in regards to their man - cuz I am luscious but true, in general.
You had bad experience and it kind of scarred you and you still seem stuck there, mentally. Continue with meditation/prayer and healthy lifestyle. Get out and mingle (sounds like you might need your own boyfriend - don't deprive yourself if so). More you face your fear, even when your mind has inappropriate mental thought or worry, just witness it and movie on. Its ok! We are all a bit crazy in these times (:
No one's opinion of you should push you to these lengths. You do need to see a counselor to help you sort some of this out. You have let one bad experience profoundly affect your life and need to get things back in perspective, sweetie. Your self-confidence has been shaken to the core and you feel betrayed. If you want to be a missionary, you have close ties with a church. You might want to speak with your pastor? to see if there is someone in the church that is a professional counselor with whom you could speak and have some common ground.
You CAN get past this. Take care.
Your life becomes what you think about the most. You sound like you obsessive over married men wanting you. You are on the look out for married men. Stop. Re-read the first sentence. Then read it again and again until you ';get'; it.
I see no reason for you to talk to married men alone, on the phone or thru email. Remember:You life becomes what you think about the most. I suggest some counseling
well if you're completely resigned to never having a relationship with a married man, then you dont need to be so paranoid about it. you've made your decision and when/if it ever comes up, you'll know how to react. i dont know that competely seperating yourself from males is the answer though. i think it's doing more to feed your paranoia than help you ';keep you on the straight and narrow.';
i wouldn't worry about this friend either. maybe she's just busy or something came up and she couldn't respond. wait until tomorrow and if you dont hear from her, either email her or call.
First let me explain.
5 years ago I decided to not talk to married or taken men at all(unless it's for business) because of a bad experience where I was accused of breaking up a relationship. He was flirting with me and taking me out on all his dates(I didn't drive and I didn't even reach puberty back then I was 19 at the time) and HE told me that he cheated on her with someone else. Good person I am I told her and she blamed it on me as so all of her friends.
Anyway I want to become a missionary and I can't if I distrust men you know. So I've befriended a couple and the woman decided to help me out and challenge me and stuff. She knows about my distrust in men and stuff.
Anyway she hasn't replied back all day and usually she would. I mentioned her husband twice in two emails(one yesterday and one today). and I'm like oh crap I talked about him too much yadayada
I'm 24 now and I am not attracted to married men, I am against adultery and I don't talk to them alone, don't talk to them on the phone and don't talk to them through email. I also don't share personal things with them either.
If you say you won't trust me with your husband tell me why you said that.
Oh I'm also paranoid that if I mention a person 3x recently in a day that's bad? or something? help me here and the rest.Married women advice please?
if she fully 100% trusts her husband, nothing you say or do will be taken as a threat. it might be taken as disrespectful but not as a threat to their relationship.Married women advice please?
you sound like me and worry too much, don't. It's only making the situation worse that what it really is. That man broke up his relationship, not you, sounded like you did the best you could. Alot of married men are sleezballs so i don't blame you for keeping distance.
Hi I am not really sure how to answer your question, I think you are 'thinking' to much about these things. Sure some men cheat on their wives and others don't. It can't be generalised and you can't mistrust ALL men because of one or two bad experiences.
i would give my opinion but gee i am married and no way should you ever talk to a married person how terrible and frightening. You know I really could tell you a thing or two that you need to know but you do seem a bit paranoid
Seek professional counseling.
Just come to the reality that you just realize that there is no tastier bone then another dog's bone...
you are over reacting to your past.....get on with life and dont spend so much time worring about men.....good luck : )
you got some OCD issues and need to chill out. Could be serotonin issues. Try taking some fish oil n warm months and cod liver oil in months with little sun, like Winter (depending where you live).
Get some exercise and get out in world.
You are getting anal and hypersensitive. I think you don't fully trust yourself within. I don't go after married men so Id on't think two hoots about it. I try to be respectful when I am with other women and in regards to their man - cuz I am luscious but true, in general.
You had bad experience and it kind of scarred you and you still seem stuck there, mentally. Continue with meditation/prayer and healthy lifestyle. Get out and mingle (sounds like you might need your own boyfriend - don't deprive yourself if so). More you face your fear, even when your mind has inappropriate mental thought or worry, just witness it and movie on. Its ok! We are all a bit crazy in these times (:
No one's opinion of you should push you to these lengths. You do need to see a counselor to help you sort some of this out. You have let one bad experience profoundly affect your life and need to get things back in perspective, sweetie. Your self-confidence has been shaken to the core and you feel betrayed. If you want to be a missionary, you have close ties with a church. You might want to speak with your pastor? to see if there is someone in the church that is a professional counselor with whom you could speak and have some common ground.
You CAN get past this. Take care.
Your life becomes what you think about the most. You sound like you obsessive over married men wanting you. You are on the look out for married men. Stop. Re-read the first sentence. Then read it again and again until you ';get'; it.
I see no reason for you to talk to married men alone, on the phone or thru email. Remember:You life becomes what you think about the most. I suggest some counseling
well if you're completely resigned to never having a relationship with a married man, then you dont need to be so paranoid about it. you've made your decision and when/if it ever comes up, you'll know how to react. i dont know that competely seperating yourself from males is the answer though. i think it's doing more to feed your paranoia than help you ';keep you on the straight and narrow.';
i wouldn't worry about this friend either. maybe she's just busy or something came up and she couldn't respond. wait until tomorrow and if you dont hear from her, either email her or call.
Women in the marines, any advice?
I am a 26 yo female and considering joining the marines. I was looking for any advice from other women who have been down this path already. What do I need to be aware of, think about and know before joining. I also have 2 children, they can live with their grandmother during any time I am away. What issues do I need to be aware of when it comes to being a mother?
Also what jobs am I likely to be able to get? (no college, I only have a GED) What are some good paths to consider?
ANY help and advice is greatly appreciated!Women in the marines, any advice?
i was in the marines and i am a female
first of all, good luck getting in with only a GED, because they take only take so many people with that type of education in a month.
second, if you do get in, you better have thick skin.
third, it's news to me they take single mothers active duty
but if it all works out and you get in, your ASVAB score will determine your job. shoot for a MOS that will help you get a good civilian job when you get out.
good luckWomen in the marines, any advice?
MOS (jobs) is based on ASVAB score. Take the test, do well and you qualify for whatever jobs is in the bracket. Consider any easy job with little manual labor. Not trying to be rude but the Marines have sh-tty living conditions and food for almost any job with labor (my brother is in aviation eating food not fit for consumption and living in quarters not fit for living - as deemed by the US government).
As for your children, the worst thing is that children who grow up without a mother will often develop social and psychological impediments.
I am a Marine however I'm not a female so I'm not sure I can help out too much. I will tell you that as a recruiter's aide make sure they will let you DEP in with a GED. They can only sign so many contracts with GED's per year. They tend to only contract you if the GED is the only thing holding you back. If you have any medical issues or outstanding police involvement or anything, then you may run into some issues.
As far as jobs go...obviously nothing combat related. Specific jobs such as administration, intelligence or even military police are available only if you qualify. Again that is something you will have to go over with your recruiter. They will let you know what jobs you qualify for with your line scores (from the ASVAB test)
As far as for the motherhood. My help is very general. During boot camp and MOS school it is obvious that you won't see them much if at all. There is on base housing for married couples but as far as single parents I'm not too sure. It may depend on your custody of the kids. I'll check into that and email you if you'd like just to be sure. But I'm thinking that there will be some kind of issue with who will watch them while you are training or even deployed. `
Also what jobs am I likely to be able to get? (no college, I only have a GED) What are some good paths to consider?
ANY help and advice is greatly appreciated!Women in the marines, any advice?
i was in the marines and i am a female
first of all, good luck getting in with only a GED, because they take only take so many people with that type of education in a month.
second, if you do get in, you better have thick skin.
third, it's news to me they take single mothers active duty
but if it all works out and you get in, your ASVAB score will determine your job. shoot for a MOS that will help you get a good civilian job when you get out.
good luckWomen in the marines, any advice?
MOS (jobs) is based on ASVAB score. Take the test, do well and you qualify for whatever jobs is in the bracket. Consider any easy job with little manual labor. Not trying to be rude but the Marines have sh-tty living conditions and food for almost any job with labor (my brother is in aviation eating food not fit for consumption and living in quarters not fit for living - as deemed by the US government).
As for your children, the worst thing is that children who grow up without a mother will often develop social and psychological impediments.
I am a Marine however I'm not a female so I'm not sure I can help out too much. I will tell you that as a recruiter's aide make sure they will let you DEP in with a GED. They can only sign so many contracts with GED's per year. They tend to only contract you if the GED is the only thing holding you back. If you have any medical issues or outstanding police involvement or anything, then you may run into some issues.
As far as jobs go...obviously nothing combat related. Specific jobs such as administration, intelligence or even military police are available only if you qualify. Again that is something you will have to go over with your recruiter. They will let you know what jobs you qualify for with your line scores (from the ASVAB test)
As far as for the motherhood. My help is very general. During boot camp and MOS school it is obvious that you won't see them much if at all. There is on base housing for married couples but as far as single parents I'm not too sure. It may depend on your custody of the kids. I'll check into that and email you if you'd like just to be sure. But I'm thinking that there will be some kind of issue with who will watch them while you are training or even deployed. `
Aquarius women, advice please ?
she and I (I'm a guy) are friends. yet, when we go out, we do all the things bfs and gfs do the intimacy. Then she says she can't go out (changed her mind) because she has another thing and says she's going to attend this event with one of her other guy friends. And he's gonna pick me up so she mentions. Where the heck do I stand? She reads me like book. Am I being too easy? Should I play hard to get?
Okay, so let me have it. And thanks in advance for the lumps on the head. I did it to me again. Ugh.Aquarius women, advice please ?
Hi! Well, what is your sign? Might be able to direct you a little better. But she sounds like a classic Aquarius. I dated one for quite some time and fell in love with him, and he was a lot like this. Here's the schtick with Aquarians.
Aquarians make wonderful friends. In fact, they want to be the universal best friend to everyone. All Air Signs are very outgoing and friendly. On the flip side, however, they hate romantic, intimate relationships. These are creatures who live in their minds and love to think. True, Aquarian logic is a little bit more unpredictable and scattered than logic from the other signs, it's still in a way logical and rational. Emotions, to an Aquarius, are not logical and not rational, so they deal with them by shutting them out and resisting the formation of emotional ties to other people. They are also ruled by Uranus, the planet of rebellion, so they need their independence and freedom to be their crazy outgoing selves. A relationship can seem way too stiffling to these people. So of course she's gonna hang out with other people and I'm sure she does care about you in a way (I know my ex cared about me in his own crazy Aquarius way). But there is a way to play the game.
You said it yourself, play hard to get. Aquarians are funny this way. Become to emotionally available to them, and they run away. There would be nights where I'd stay on the phone with my ex for hours, and I'd actually get him to spill his heart out to me about his past emotional traumas, but then, right afterward, I wouldn't hear from him for a week. They will run from emotions! But as soon as you start ignoring them and living your own life (they like independent souls like themselves), suddenly they are at your doorstep, wanting your attention. Yes, it can drive you crazy! I'm sure you stand a good chance with her. All Aquarians love reading people, but if she remembers things about you and really takes an interest in reading you like a book, it means she finds you interesting. Aquarians love studying people, especially fascinating people. It was my intellect and open-minded juggling of many points of view that my Aquarius ex found fascinating about me (but I'm a Libra, that's just how I think). If you're an Air Sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius), she's probably intrigued by your mind, just keep talking to her and bouncing ideas off her (good conversation is an Air Sign aphrodisiac). If you're a Fire Sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius), she'll love that bold, take no prisoners personality (bolder personalities give us Air Signs lots to think about). If you're an Earth Sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn), you probably have this grounding affect on her that is intriguing (it's hard pinning Aquarians down and an Earth Sign might just do that). If you're a Water Sign (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces), you probably have a way of drawing out her emotions like no one else. So that's how to handle an Aquarian (and I've had plenty of practice with this)! Good luck!Aquarius women, advice please ?
Leo Jen obviously doesnt know many aquarians. We obviously have our faults, who doesn't? I CAN be selfish, I CAN be a *****.. but i'm NOT those things. I think Aquarius woman are selfless most of the time. I will do anything for anyone. I will literally give you my last dollar, and thats no lie- i've done it. I'm DEFINETLY not cheap, infact i'm horrible with money and blow it on whoever im with just to make sure everyone has a good time. I would say play more hard to get.. but thats typical with all woman. I know that i'm kind of turned off by a guy if he is completly at my disposal. Just relax and give her space.
Aquarius women can be very selfish, cheap, lazy, gossiper, and the list goees on. Most of them only think about what benefits them. But they can be nice. They tend to forget about who is trully important in there life.
Aquarius women (more like Aquarius in general) are the most selfish, emotionally detached people on earth! i'm a Gemini and i've been with 3 Aquarius women. beyond sex they're really not all that useful.
your sign please
Okay, so let me have it. And thanks in advance for the lumps on the head. I did it to me again. Ugh.Aquarius women, advice please ?
Hi! Well, what is your sign? Might be able to direct you a little better. But she sounds like a classic Aquarius. I dated one for quite some time and fell in love with him, and he was a lot like this. Here's the schtick with Aquarians.
Aquarians make wonderful friends. In fact, they want to be the universal best friend to everyone. All Air Signs are very outgoing and friendly. On the flip side, however, they hate romantic, intimate relationships. These are creatures who live in their minds and love to think. True, Aquarian logic is a little bit more unpredictable and scattered than logic from the other signs, it's still in a way logical and rational. Emotions, to an Aquarius, are not logical and not rational, so they deal with them by shutting them out and resisting the formation of emotional ties to other people. They are also ruled by Uranus, the planet of rebellion, so they need their independence and freedom to be their crazy outgoing selves. A relationship can seem way too stiffling to these people. So of course she's gonna hang out with other people and I'm sure she does care about you in a way (I know my ex cared about me in his own crazy Aquarius way). But there is a way to play the game.
You said it yourself, play hard to get. Aquarians are funny this way. Become to emotionally available to them, and they run away. There would be nights where I'd stay on the phone with my ex for hours, and I'd actually get him to spill his heart out to me about his past emotional traumas, but then, right afterward, I wouldn't hear from him for a week. They will run from emotions! But as soon as you start ignoring them and living your own life (they like independent souls like themselves), suddenly they are at your doorstep, wanting your attention. Yes, it can drive you crazy! I'm sure you stand a good chance with her. All Aquarians love reading people, but if she remembers things about you and really takes an interest in reading you like a book, it means she finds you interesting. Aquarians love studying people, especially fascinating people. It was my intellect and open-minded juggling of many points of view that my Aquarius ex found fascinating about me (but I'm a Libra, that's just how I think). If you're an Air Sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius), she's probably intrigued by your mind, just keep talking to her and bouncing ideas off her (good conversation is an Air Sign aphrodisiac). If you're a Fire Sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius), she'll love that bold, take no prisoners personality (bolder personalities give us Air Signs lots to think about). If you're an Earth Sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn), you probably have this grounding affect on her that is intriguing (it's hard pinning Aquarians down and an Earth Sign might just do that). If you're a Water Sign (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces), you probably have a way of drawing out her emotions like no one else. So that's how to handle an Aquarian (and I've had plenty of practice with this)! Good luck!Aquarius women, advice please ?
Leo Jen obviously doesnt know many aquarians. We obviously have our faults, who doesn't? I CAN be selfish, I CAN be a *****.. but i'm NOT those things. I think Aquarius woman are selfless most of the time. I will do anything for anyone. I will literally give you my last dollar, and thats no lie- i've done it. I'm DEFINETLY not cheap, infact i'm horrible with money and blow it on whoever im with just to make sure everyone has a good time. I would say play more hard to get.. but thats typical with all woman. I know that i'm kind of turned off by a guy if he is completly at my disposal. Just relax and give her space.
Aquarius women can be very selfish, cheap, lazy, gossiper, and the list goees on. Most of them only think about what benefits them. But they can be nice. They tend to forget about who is trully important in there life.
Aquarius women (more like Aquarius in general) are the most selfish, emotionally detached people on earth! i'm a Gemini and i've been with 3 Aquarius women. beyond sex they're really not all that useful.
your sign please
Is there any women who are going though a divorce that can give me advice?
my husband was caught by me, texting this woman he knows and emailing womens personal ads and denies it was his fault he started because i didnt give him what he needs.Is there any women who are going though a divorce that can give me advice?
i didn't divorce my husband over this. he was doing the same thing. i believe men do this to live out some fantasy. some of them are bored with the same ole stuff and want fun without physically cheating. not saying its ok cause it bothered the hell out of me too.Is there any women who are going though a divorce that can give me advice?
i agree with this anwer and thats why we are working out our problems and talking things over.
There is NO EXCUSE for a married person to flirt with other people or cheat on their spouse. PERIOD!!! If there is a problem in the marriage, then the two of you need to sit down and talk about it. It's up to the BOTH of you to work together to solve your problems and save your marriage. If the two of you can't or won't do that and one of you has the desire to be with someone else, because you aren't getting what you want or need from your spouse, then that person needs to file for a divorce BEFORE they get involved with someone else.
Cheating is for selfish people who want their cake and eat it too and they are flat out cowards who can't or won't do what is right for everyone involved.
Tell your husband who wants to blame YOU for what he is doing, that if YOU were getting what you needed in this marriage, you wouldn't have to spy on him to find out that he is a liar and a cheater.
First, Im not a women, sorry but I have personally dealt with many couples seeking divorce because the wifeis accusing the husbnd of exactly what youre saying so i have some experience in this area. Computers or should say websites on computers themselves have caused many a divorce over the past few years. the biggest problem being that the computers are so readily available in homes, work, school, etc and so easy to use. Many wives and a few husbands have confronted their spouses over porn and answering personel ads on here and the spouse says the usual theyll stop which they do at home but go elsewhre to get online til they get so obsessed that they sneak back at home for probably a quick fix and get caught again and this time two problems are happening; 1 on line again and 2. lying about stopping, so then they have had enough and they contact me about divorce. Some wives even give their husbands multi chances before approaching me. It becomes an addiction to their spouses with no way out. So by no means are you alone here in this. Youre not to blame here as men will be men, and no one blames you for being tired of it. Sorry about your marriage and good luck. If there is anymore I could possibly help you with my email address is thunder_wright@yahoo.com and please feel free to email me
First, this is not necessarily a reason to divorce. It's just a wake up call to work on the marriage. Secondly, did he ever try telling you he wasn't getting what he needed? If he didn't, then he is just as much to blame. If he did, then it is your fault. But he should have divorced you before he started the whole flirting with other women thing.
Oh, how typical for cheaters - blame the other person for what they are doing. Why didn't he ask for what he needs? So many marriages break up because one person assumes that the other person is supposed to guess what their spouse needs.
But what is your question? Whether or not to divorce him? It is up to you. Do you need him? If yes, give him the bashing and keep him, if no - divorce him whenever it is convenient for you.
Print the texts if you can. You can photograph the phone and print it if you have a digital camera. If he has already deleted, you won't have the evidence, so try to wait for some more...
I wouldn't discuss this with him at all.
He is a cheater and he is blaming you. Classic.
Added: That is NOT a ';wake-up call to work on your marriage.'; That is pathetically blaming you for his failure to abide by his vow to ';forsake all others.';
He is an idiot! Classic. He wasn't ready for marriage. So he blames you. Wake up and smell the coffee. He needs to take responsibility for his actions.
by state laws..this would not be a valid reason for divorce..texting another woman..apparently he has issues..needs to work on them..and you yourself should consider counseling with your husband to see if you two can work things out first..
Whats your question?philosophy
i didn't divorce my husband over this. he was doing the same thing. i believe men do this to live out some fantasy. some of them are bored with the same ole stuff and want fun without physically cheating. not saying its ok cause it bothered the hell out of me too.Is there any women who are going though a divorce that can give me advice?
i agree with this anwer and thats why we are working out our problems and talking things over.
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There is NO EXCUSE for a married person to flirt with other people or cheat on their spouse. PERIOD!!! If there is a problem in the marriage, then the two of you need to sit down and talk about it. It's up to the BOTH of you to work together to solve your problems and save your marriage. If the two of you can't or won't do that and one of you has the desire to be with someone else, because you aren't getting what you want or need from your spouse, then that person needs to file for a divorce BEFORE they get involved with someone else.
Cheating is for selfish people who want their cake and eat it too and they are flat out cowards who can't or won't do what is right for everyone involved.
Tell your husband who wants to blame YOU for what he is doing, that if YOU were getting what you needed in this marriage, you wouldn't have to spy on him to find out that he is a liar and a cheater.
First, Im not a women, sorry but I have personally dealt with many couples seeking divorce because the wifeis accusing the husbnd of exactly what youre saying so i have some experience in this area. Computers or should say websites on computers themselves have caused many a divorce over the past few years. the biggest problem being that the computers are so readily available in homes, work, school, etc and so easy to use. Many wives and a few husbands have confronted their spouses over porn and answering personel ads on here and the spouse says the usual theyll stop which they do at home but go elsewhre to get online til they get so obsessed that they sneak back at home for probably a quick fix and get caught again and this time two problems are happening; 1 on line again and 2. lying about stopping, so then they have had enough and they contact me about divorce. Some wives even give their husbands multi chances before approaching me. It becomes an addiction to their spouses with no way out. So by no means are you alone here in this. Youre not to blame here as men will be men, and no one blames you for being tired of it. Sorry about your marriage and good luck. If there is anymore I could possibly help you with my email address is thunder_wright@yahoo.com and please feel free to email me
First, this is not necessarily a reason to divorce. It's just a wake up call to work on the marriage. Secondly, did he ever try telling you he wasn't getting what he needed? If he didn't, then he is just as much to blame. If he did, then it is your fault. But he should have divorced you before he started the whole flirting with other women thing.
Oh, how typical for cheaters - blame the other person for what they are doing. Why didn't he ask for what he needs? So many marriages break up because one person assumes that the other person is supposed to guess what their spouse needs.
But what is your question? Whether or not to divorce him? It is up to you. Do you need him? If yes, give him the bashing and keep him, if no - divorce him whenever it is convenient for you.
Print the texts if you can. You can photograph the phone and print it if you have a digital camera. If he has already deleted, you won't have the evidence, so try to wait for some more...
I wouldn't discuss this with him at all.
He is a cheater and he is blaming you. Classic.
Added: That is NOT a ';wake-up call to work on your marriage.'; That is pathetically blaming you for his failure to abide by his vow to ';forsake all others.';
He is an idiot! Classic. He wasn't ready for marriage. So he blames you. Wake up and smell the coffee. He needs to take responsibility for his actions.
by state laws..this would not be a valid reason for divorce..texting another woman..apparently he has issues..needs to work on them..and you yourself should consider counseling with your husband to see if you two can work things out first..
Whats your question?
Women Advice About Menstrual Cycle,Help!?
She has told me it stopped today the 24th and theres nothing now.. and it was just spotting yesterday, is this normal? and why
Thanks!Women Advice About Menstrual Cycle,Help!?
Based on the information given it does not sound like she is pregnant. It sounds more like something else like an infection (an example only) could be going on.
I would recommend that she see her doctor for further evaluation of the situation to see what they say.
Thanks!Women Advice About Menstrual Cycle,Help!?
Based on the information given it does not sound like she is pregnant. It sounds more like something else like an infection (an example only) could be going on.
I would recommend that she see her doctor for further evaluation of the situation to see what they say.
Women advice on tampons?
i have had my period for a little less than i year and im 14.. all of my friends say how much better tampons are than pads.. and i hate pads. i want to start using tampons but im very nervous. im so scared that i will accidentally put it up the wrong hole..i know the RIGHT hole is right at the tip of the clitorous (idk how 2 spell it) at least i think? am i right? i just get so nervous when it comes to actually putting it up.. the furthest i got was about half an inch.. which is pathetic. my friends say just do it.. but its easier said then done. i have also heard (from my sister) that it is easier lying down.. is that true? what is the easiest way to do it? i know that i was born a women and basically born to do this so why cant i? how can i calm myself down? is that the right hole? ( i know there is only 2 others... and can u actually see your pee hole or is it covered by the citorous?) the first time my sister had to put a tampon in, my mom had to do it for her! and im just too embarassed to ask her.. what should i do... thank you!Women advice on tampons?
Your fears are perfectly warranted! I was scared and I put it in wrong the first time and sat down and scream bloody murder it hurt so bad. In the box there is a drawing of how to do it so you should practice using that as a guide, just not while you are menstruating, that can get messy! I find it easier to sit on the toilet, slightly lifting one leg, and sort of jiggling it in. Make sure you start off with the lightness one. I believe there are some for teens that are skinny and should slide in with little effort. As for the hole, you can鈥檛 really miss which hole to put it in. It鈥檚 the one closer to the anus. Make sure you remember to take it out within 8 hours as to not risk TSS (toxic shock syndrome), believe it or not they can not be felt and you might forget about it. Once you do it a while, it will be second nature to you so don鈥檛 worry about it. When you are putting relax your body because if you are tense it might not be able to get it in and you might hurt yourself.
You鈥檒l do great
Women advice on tampons?
it may hurt the first time because of the hymin, but no it dosn't hurt, the right hole? well what i did was take the tampon and see if it could fit in a hole (your pee hole isn't big enough)i did it slow, just to see how far it would go, after a few times of being late to class you will be able to do it fast and painless. hope this helps!
first off, relax. I was nervous too. I started using them this summer. It doesnt hurt if u relax and do it slow. also, if ur unsure about which hole to put it in, what I did was, find the hole where the blo0od is coming out of. then slide it in. also, its easy to put one foot on the toilet or spread ur knees. cause think about it, u cant lie down if u change ur tamp0n in a bathroom stall
Just take it slow.
If you don't have an anatomy book, then you could take one out at the library. Or even just look at it there and not take it out if you're too embarrassed.
And you can find girl's sites online too even.
Yes, it did pinch the first time I put it in. But don't go fast, because I think that might make it feel worse.
But once you get it over with, it's no big deal and it never hurts again.
I'm the only one of my sisters who uses tampons. The other two are too afraid to try them, and one's 15 while the other one's 20.
Many years ago, there WERE no tampons. They're just another option. Don't think that you MUST use them, because you certainly don't.
i got my period when i was 12 and couldnt use a tampon until i was 15! so dont worry, its pretty much impossible to put it in your pee hole, its too small. but when you get it in make sure you take the cardboard off! my cousin failed to tell me that when she taught me and it completely didn't work and kept slipping out.(i was at the beach lol, very embarassing) Just relax and no it doesnt hurt, once its in you cant even feel it. do it at whatever pace suits you
okay;
i'm 13 and i started using tampons this past summer and i started my period back in January.
listen the first few times i tried i would put it in about an half inch like you said and then pull it out reall quick! haha, but i ignored it for awhile. finally i found a way that helps me. okay get the tampax pearl version, they slide in real easily. so then i sit on the toilet just find where to put it and slowly slide it in. it doesn't hurt, but may feel a little uncomfy. when you think its right just push that applicator thingy and wa-lah! haha.
and trust me the first time i put it in, i did it wrong! it hurt when i sat and everything lol.
(and no it doesn't hurt, just may be uncomfortable)
GOOD LUCK!!
I think you need to get a mirror and an anatomy picture. The vagina is the middle hole...between the anus and clitoris. If you spread your ';lips'; open you will most likely see where the tampon is meant to go. It does not go in the tiny gap under your clitoris, the vagina is bigger than that, if you have your period look for where the blood is coming from.
Yes your sister is correct, lying down opens up the vagina and makes it easier, as does breathing out which relaxes the muscles. Use some vaseline or lube if you havent got menstrual blood to lubricate the tampon.
It usually takes a few tries to get it right...no it does not hurt but it can pinch if you are not slippery with blood. Be calm its no big deal.
Your fears are perfectly warranted! I was scared and I put it in wrong the first time and sat down and scream bloody murder it hurt so bad. In the box there is a drawing of how to do it so you should practice using that as a guide, just not while you are menstruating, that can get messy! I find it easier to sit on the toilet, slightly lifting one leg, and sort of jiggling it in. Make sure you start off with the lightness one. I believe there are some for teens that are skinny and should slide in with little effort. As for the hole, you can鈥檛 really miss which hole to put it in. It鈥檚 the one closer to the anus. Make sure you remember to take it out within 8 hours as to not risk TSS (toxic shock syndrome), believe it or not they can not be felt and you might forget about it. Once you do it a while, it will be second nature to you so don鈥檛 worry about it. When you are putting relax your body because if you are tense it might not be able to get it in and you might hurt yourself.
You鈥檒l do great
Women advice on tampons?
it may hurt the first time because of the hymin, but no it dosn't hurt, the right hole? well what i did was take the tampon and see if it could fit in a hole (your pee hole isn't big enough)i did it slow, just to see how far it would go, after a few times of being late to class you will be able to do it fast and painless. hope this helps!
first off, relax. I was nervous too. I started using them this summer. It doesnt hurt if u relax and do it slow. also, if ur unsure about which hole to put it in, what I did was, find the hole where the blo0od is coming out of. then slide it in. also, its easy to put one foot on the toilet or spread ur knees. cause think about it, u cant lie down if u change ur tamp0n in a bathroom stall
Just take it slow.
If you don't have an anatomy book, then you could take one out at the library. Or even just look at it there and not take it out if you're too embarrassed.
And you can find girl's sites online too even.
Yes, it did pinch the first time I put it in. But don't go fast, because I think that might make it feel worse.
But once you get it over with, it's no big deal and it never hurts again.
I'm the only one of my sisters who uses tampons. The other two are too afraid to try them, and one's 15 while the other one's 20.
Many years ago, there WERE no tampons. They're just another option. Don't think that you MUST use them, because you certainly don't.
i got my period when i was 12 and couldnt use a tampon until i was 15! so dont worry, its pretty much impossible to put it in your pee hole, its too small. but when you get it in make sure you take the cardboard off! my cousin failed to tell me that when she taught me and it completely didn't work and kept slipping out.(i was at the beach lol, very embarassing) Just relax and no it doesnt hurt, once its in you cant even feel it. do it at whatever pace suits you
okay;
i'm 13 and i started using tampons this past summer and i started my period back in January.
listen the first few times i tried i would put it in about an half inch like you said and then pull it out reall quick! haha, but i ignored it for awhile. finally i found a way that helps me. okay get the tampax pearl version, they slide in real easily. so then i sit on the toilet just find where to put it and slowly slide it in. it doesn't hurt, but may feel a little uncomfy. when you think its right just push that applicator thingy and wa-lah! haha.
and trust me the first time i put it in, i did it wrong! it hurt when i sat and everything lol.
(and no it doesn't hurt, just may be uncomfortable)
GOOD LUCK!!
I think you need to get a mirror and an anatomy picture. The vagina is the middle hole...between the anus and clitoris. If you spread your ';lips'; open you will most likely see where the tampon is meant to go. It does not go in the tiny gap under your clitoris, the vagina is bigger than that, if you have your period look for where the blood is coming from.
Yes your sister is correct, lying down opens up the vagina and makes it easier, as does breathing out which relaxes the muscles. Use some vaseline or lube if you havent got menstrual blood to lubricate the tampon.
It usually takes a few tries to get it right...no it does not hurt but it can pinch if you are not slippery with blood. Be calm its no big deal.
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