I NEED SOME WOMEN ADVICE!!!!!!!?

I have been with the love of my life fro the past year....We spent every single day with each other....We embraced our love each day....We would say, I love you to each other. It was truly magical.....I love her with all of my heart.....She broke up with me about 2 weeks ago due to my low self confidence.... We still love each other though?





Do you think we will ever be back with each other?





Should I avoid her at wherever I go?





What should I do ladies?I NEED SOME WOMEN ADVICE!!!!!!!?
Well if you really love her, then you should work on your self confidence. If you try really hard and then try to re-woo her back into your arms, you guys can become an item once again. don't avoid her but don't forget you guys are no longer together and it's still recent. wave to her hi but don't pretend that everything is alright. Just say hi and walk away under five minutes. Relax, there is still hope but don't smother her or ignore her. smile at her and say hello but don't try to get into a deep conversation with her. give both of you time to breathe by yourselves. don't worry, work on your confidence and you can win her back.





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Ya, I would defintely try to goet back with her. Good luck! ;)
well i think that she will definitely get back with u if she still loves you..and i don't think avoiding her will do you well if u wanna get back with her so i hope u to go well and good luck she'll come back don't worry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In my opinion I think you should not try to avoid her because it will make her think that you don't love her anymore. I also think yah will get back together. Don't stress over it, it will be fine. :)
first you need to have more confidence in youself And when you do build that confidence up. show her that you build that confidence. Other than getting back together that's up to her. If avoiding her in the meantime so you can fix your confidence then do so.
just tell her how much she means to you and that will taker away..tell her why you guys should go back with each other... and if she is with someone else dont take it the wrong way she probably wanted you to be jealous:0





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Take it slow but go for it. Try to prove that you are working on your self confidence so she knows that you are trying to do this for her.


But you should try to get back with her because if the spark is still there, there should be nothing to worry about.








please answer my question i need a boys point of view on my situation.
do NOT avoid her! just try to be friends for now and maybe thing'll patch over. you should gain some self confidence and that'll def. help the situation, just know you are a great guy and stuff like(even though i cant say that cuz i dont know u)once you gain some confidence prove to her you have


for now i'd just try to remain friends with her
I could see your problem right through! its not because of low self confidence.. you are too clingy man! and she wanted someone who is not clingy.,, Dont cry or get depressed go ahead with your life like nothing happened and pursue something greater. Dont be clingY! that drives chicks away.. she willl come back to you as soon as she finds out that you have other imp things to do in your life as well.. Remember clingy is the worst thing you could be in life.. no matter what it is
MAN! you need to think first. do you still love her? if so you NEED to go right to her, tell her about your low self confidence! (if she doesnt know) tell her you want her back and you think about her all the time.(if thats true)


you guys seemed like you really liked each other and i would try whatever it takes to get back with her.
If you still love her, then don't avoid her. It will make her think you have lost interest and that you don't love her anymore. If I were you try and get your self confidence up. If she was dating you then she obviously must find you attractive. I hate to say it I don't feel like giving tons of tips on how to get self confidence, so maybe post another question asking how to boost your self confidence or how to get self confidence. If I were you don't avoid her, and gain self confidence so you can get her back because you love her. Let her know it's something you want to work on and also that it's hurtful that she left you for that. Let her know how bad it hurts her dumping you and ask her to put herself in your place.
be confident, don't change the way you are around her, apart from like sexually lol


and defs don't avoid her, its gay, and always shows. ;)


good luck
Send her a special bouquet of roses with a note like: ';I love you always, Please, help me to believe in myself. I cannot do it without you, then your name...';
Wow, that's dumb. Leaving a guy because of his low self confidence.


Well, I was in a similar situation cept the self confidence part. I'd ask the girl straight up, like, is this permanent? Are we still friends? Like, where do you guys stand with each other? Just get some answers. And it's best to stay away from her for a little, yes.
Sometimes spending every single day with each other, can be a burden, no space at all, it would drive me crazy! most likely you can get her back just doing the opposite of what you did before, and when she is around you, treat her good but not overly nice, and go out with other girls as friends that will show her that 1. she can be replaced, 2.you still have what it takes to attract other women, and it shows confidence in yourself..my best wishes
Get higher self confidence.


I can't say if you will be back together. I don't know you or her or the whole situation. Plus I'm not a psychic.


But yeah, boost your self confidence. If you don't get her back, move on and find someone new.
If you love her, show her. The best way to show you have self confidence is to show that you have confidence in the fact that you are competant enough to make her happy. Go get em tiger!!
let her know all that you just said. obviously shes like your world let her know that. and in the meantime work on your self confidence. she obviously thinks your an amazing guy if she told you she loves you. dont avoid her if you want her back talk to her
give her some space then in that time try to man up a bit then oneday call her and ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner or something
try to gain more self confidence and do something to show her that you have. don't do it JUST for her though- also do it for yourself. don't brag about yourself but don't put yourself down when you talk to other people. i think there is a chance you two could be together again. :)
u will get back together but u need 2 show her that u boosted ur self confidence but don't sound desperate doing it.
be everything to her that you were but no kissing or anything be there for her and talk to her about everything or act how you two did when you are daiting but nothing more than friends.
If you want to get back with her you need to sit down and talk to her. A person who loves you loves you flaws and all. At the same time it is important for anyone man or woman to have confidence in themselves and not just their relationship. You cannot put everything into a relationship or another person. You are a man first and foremost so developer a backbone and self confidence but ask her to help you along the way. But at the same time a year is a milestone and if I loved a man I would help him not break up with him to force confidence on him. I believe a woman should be a builder just like a man. Because when a strong foundation is built and people grow together confidence comes with it. Look at the man in the mirror and tell yourself how much you appreciate you daily. It helps. I have been there and done that as a woman and now I am fearless, compassionate, shrewd, firm but yet loving. It starts with self but sometimes as women we can make a man better if he wants to be. Good luck and I wish you the best.
Same thing happened to me but im kinda the girl so yeah. We still talked and stuff and eventually i realized that i did love him and i did want to be with him. IDK if it will work for u but if she really loves u and u love her give it time and if its ment to be it will be.
I would say, try staying friends. If you really want her back, show her what she wants to see- show her you can be confident. Try new things, and don`t give up when you don`t succeed- not everyone is great at something on their first try.


Most importantly: Love yourself before you let anyone else love you.


It seems like a really simple thing to say, but it really matters. It`s incredibly hard to love someone who doubts themselves all the time and looks down upon them self.


If you`re really desperate to get her back, do what I said in the 1st paragraph and show her you can be confident, then, on the side, you will start to learn to love yourself. It takes a while, trust me. But eventually you will get pretty good at it.


What I did when I tried to get over my lack of self confidence is keep my mind occupied with things other than what makes me feel down about myself. Keep yourself busy and avoid things that make you sad about yourself. ;P


-Sorry, that was really long. Lol. Good luck! :]
do not avoid make sure you aknowladge her presence


i think that you will definatly get back together because you can fix your low confidence but if somthing so simple will trigger her into breaking up than i would watch my back to see what bothers her so you can fix it and you guys can love each other as much as you want


hope that helps!!!
build up your self confindece! Be confident that you can get her back and she will appreciate that in you. go tell your woman that you love her and you don't want to be without her! Even if she says no, you were brave and obviously she wasn't the one. there are other fish in the sea. But i bet she will say yes.
Well why would u want her back,she should love you for ur good and bad.Not everyone is perfect,hopefully she will realize it was wrong to dump you for an odd reason and come back to you.(If that's what you want) and if she doesn't come to her senses one day you will meet someone who loves you for your ups and downs.Just remember its her loss good luck!
She left you because of your low self esteem, so what have you done in that department? Have you tried feeling better about yourself, taking charge of your relationship, talking to her about how you will change or what you want in the relationship? When you see her, don't avoid her but show her you are sure of yourself by saying hi and asking how she is doing. Good luck
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