Friday, April 30, 2010

Women advice needed? what do i do?

i am 36 weeks pregnant and found out that lately my hubby has started looking at all kinds of porn again. i have asked him am i that ugly or am i just not meeting his needs or what??? my hubby wakes up 2 to 3 hrs early every morning before going to work used to be to play his online game wow wich i also play but now hes getting up early to look at porn. y am i bad for feeling hurt?? i even told him if it was a lack of meeting his needs wake me up or something ill be glad to cuddle or what ever but he still ignores me in the intamacy department and is still looking at all kinds of porn. what do i do am i over reacting or am i allowed to feel hurt being as weve been married 11 yrs and im due any day with his 3rd sonWomen advice needed? what do i do?
That is one thing I hate about computers. But anyways, I'd just make it plain and clear to your husband that you and your kids come first over anything disgusting like that. He is to be another father again and would he like his kids looking at that crap on the computer. I would be VERY blunt with him and I'd be so pissed if I were you sweetie. And yes I would feel very hurt too. I would feel unwanted and discouraged. I hope things work out for you. Shame on him.Women advice needed? what do i do?
Most men go to porn at this stage in pregnancy and a large amount of women masturbate at this point. Men quit out of fear of hurting the baby.





Imagen being a guy that is sticking his body part inside where a baby comes out of. And seeing the baby moving in the belly...





hee beee jeee beees for a guy.





He'll come back just relax and be confident.
Wow. I would be angry too, I don't blame you. The fact that he does that even though he knows how you feel about it just shows that he doesn't care about your feelings. He should be EXTRA sensitive to your feelings right now.
Just because he's looking at porn doesn't mean he's lost any emotional connection with you. I'm sure men aren't too sexually attracted to pregnant woman, so until your baby comes out, he's resorting to porn.
I know what you mean i caught my husband waking up way to early as well, but hey don't take it the wrong way. Just come on to him, when he's sleeping ;0)
Pornography is one of the most dangerous Leeches in a Marriage. More dangerous than alcohol and gambling addiction (my opinion). Lust is something that is very difficult for men to fight. If a man says he has no problems with lust, he has more wisdom than King Solomon and more strength than King David (Biblical Men).





I fought that addiction for years and have finally defeated it. My source of strength and success? The Bible. Your husband has to understand that Lust is something he will have to battle for the rest of his life. You can not get rid of it. He can't do it alone. He needs a source of strength and encouragement. Pray for him. Take him to Church. Ask your Pastor for help. Ask God for help.





Do not give up on him. Especially after 11 long years. He can still appreciate you for who you really are. He can still be the most wonderful husband for you and your wonderful kids.

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