I thought it would be pretty romantic to hide a diamond ring inside a piece of candy for the girl I wanted to propose to. Unfortunately she ended up choking on the ring and had to be sent to the ER. I have a feeling she is going to break up with me :(
How can I patch this up?I screwed up majorly and need women's advice.?
no, i dont think she'd break up with you because she accidentally ate it and was choked. I think the idea of proposing to her made her realize that you really love her, though it happened that way. i honestly believe that she'd forgive you.
hope she's okay now. best of luck with your proposal!I screwed up majorly and need women's advice.?
if she breaks up with you then she's obvi stupid. if that happened to me, like if i ended up choking on my engagement ring, i'd feel like a butt for ruining my guys proposal. but you should get her a different ring and do it old school .
well this is just my opinion but i think it would be pretty shallow of her to break up with you for that.
it would be different if you hid like a bomb in there you know?
Sooo..... did she like the candy?
Friday, January 8, 2010
I need women advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please Women only!!!!!!?
I need women advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please Women only!!!!!!?
can you get pregnant if your period is irregular and you take birth control to have your period and then when you get it you stop taking it and start taking the vitex pill again? Do you think it will make me ovulate?
I need women advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please Women only!!!!!!?
no, i think it will make you LESS likely to ovulate..
your best bet is calling or going to see your OBGYN or family dr. for starters.
but don't take birth control, it will mess you up worse.I need women advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please Women only!!!!!!?
Absolutely. Doctors use this method all the time to help women get pregnant that have PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome). The birth control will regulate your cycle and increase your progesterone levels. When getting off of the birth control, there are less cysts and the progesterone levels are higher in order to carry a pregnancy to term. I am going to a fertility specialist and this is what they are doing to me.
You would be better off going to an ob/gyn to find out why your periods aren't regular and if you are ovulating or not. Just trying to fix the problem yourself without knowing what's wrong isn't going to help much.
That will make your cycle REALLY messed up! Talk to your doctor about getting on something to help you out... btw you can ovulate with out a period.
can you get pregnant if your period is irregular and you take birth control to have your period and then when you get it you stop taking it and start taking the vitex pill again? Do you think it will make me ovulate?
I need women advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please Women only!!!!!!?
no, i think it will make you LESS likely to ovulate..
your best bet is calling or going to see your OBGYN or family dr. for starters.
but don't take birth control, it will mess you up worse.I need women advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please Women only!!!!!!?
Absolutely. Doctors use this method all the time to help women get pregnant that have PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome). The birth control will regulate your cycle and increase your progesterone levels. When getting off of the birth control, there are less cysts and the progesterone levels are higher in order to carry a pregnancy to term. I am going to a fertility specialist and this is what they are doing to me.
You would be better off going to an ob/gyn to find out why your periods aren't regular and if you are ovulating or not. Just trying to fix the problem yourself without knowing what's wrong isn't going to help much.
That will make your cycle REALLY messed up! Talk to your doctor about getting on something to help you out... btw you can ovulate with out a period.
Help with girl-on-top sex? Men & women, advice please?
I'm in my 20's, and I feel really awkward and clumsy when I'm on top. I'm not sure how to move and I'm just not that coordinated. Can anyone give me some solid instructions about how to do this well?Help with girl-on-top sex? Men %26amp; women, advice please?
Get on top and get your guys c*ck in you. Then, lay down on him completely so your breasts are against his chest ... now let HIM do the thrusting. He will be able to thrust faster and harder in this position and also to thrust for much longer because it takes less work in this position.
As the two of you start getting into it, you'll find you have the tendancy to raise up on your arms a bit (getting off his chest) and thrusting you hips back and down onto him ... go with the flow. You'll have a natural rhythm if you do this ';raising up'; thing as the urge hits you.
This position (laying down on him) also gets a lot of cl*t stimulation.
It's also a nice position to kiss each other in (because your faces are near each other) and for him to suck your nipples while he's in you. It is possible to really ';hammer'; very hard this way ... the classic hot, hard f*ck.Help with girl-on-top sex? Men %26amp; women, advice please?
Guys like control. Pony lessons would work 2.
Try turning backwards and riding it like a bike.
all I can tell ya is if ya make it feel good to you it will feel good to them. move your hips do whatever there is not set way to do it
I am also in my 20s, if that matters.
For one thing, you can always have him thrust from the bottom, that's good for both parties. Always be on your knees, whether you're leaning forward on him or not.
However, if you want to do the work, first get on your knees and sit up straight straddling him and lower yourself onto his penis. Next, use your knees/legs to move your pelvis back and forth on his penis rather than up and down. Put your hands on his shoulders to steady yourself, and it's often easier if you lean forward on him, that helps with balance. He will meet your thrusts and help you out. Once you get steady, you have full control of the angle and you can do whatever you want.
get pony lessons
call my number (***)***-****
Don't be afraid to take control when in that position. Guys like it when you are rough with them. Approach it with confidence and rock our world!!
stick to the bottom
Let me offer you a position alternative for ';on top';. Let the guy sit in a chair and you sit in his lap and use the chair arms to help you move up and down. Believe me, this is very easy and they really like it as you can apply more force/bounce to your movement. If you just have to have it the usual way, use the headboard as leverage. I think that for a guy, this is more of a visual stimulation as they can get a really good look at your breast and watch your face.philosophy
Get on top and get your guys c*ck in you. Then, lay down on him completely so your breasts are against his chest ... now let HIM do the thrusting. He will be able to thrust faster and harder in this position and also to thrust for much longer because it takes less work in this position.
As the two of you start getting into it, you'll find you have the tendancy to raise up on your arms a bit (getting off his chest) and thrusting you hips back and down onto him ... go with the flow. You'll have a natural rhythm if you do this ';raising up'; thing as the urge hits you.
This position (laying down on him) also gets a lot of cl*t stimulation.
It's also a nice position to kiss each other in (because your faces are near each other) and for him to suck your nipples while he's in you. It is possible to really ';hammer'; very hard this way ... the classic hot, hard f*ck.Help with girl-on-top sex? Men %26amp; women, advice please?
Guys like control. Pony lessons would work 2.
Try turning backwards and riding it like a bike.
all I can tell ya is if ya make it feel good to you it will feel good to them. move your hips do whatever there is not set way to do it
I am also in my 20s, if that matters.
For one thing, you can always have him thrust from the bottom, that's good for both parties. Always be on your knees, whether you're leaning forward on him or not.
However, if you want to do the work, first get on your knees and sit up straight straddling him and lower yourself onto his penis. Next, use your knees/legs to move your pelvis back and forth on his penis rather than up and down. Put your hands on his shoulders to steady yourself, and it's often easier if you lean forward on him, that helps with balance. He will meet your thrusts and help you out. Once you get steady, you have full control of the angle and you can do whatever you want.
get pony lessons
call my number (***)***-****
Don't be afraid to take control when in that position. Guys like it when you are rough with them. Approach it with confidence and rock our world!!
stick to the bottom
Let me offer you a position alternative for ';on top';. Let the guy sit in a chair and you sit in his lap and use the chair arms to help you move up and down. Believe me, this is very easy and they really like it as you can apply more force/bounce to your movement. If you just have to have it the usual way, use the headboard as leverage. I think that for a guy, this is more of a visual stimulation as they can get a really good look at your breast and watch your face.
Women - Advice me! virgin or not ?
I am 26 yo virgin man. I am straight and very normal. have a good income. Should I marry with a virgin girl or with a non virgin one? which one is better for me to marry? why?Women - Advice me! virgin or not ?
CONGRATULATIONS you are one in a million !
To Be young and still a virgin is an honorable thing. I don't know how you have managed to deal with all the '; sights out there with how young girls dress today.'; or all the movies that promote sex by the time you are 13, or even how you deal with peer pressure...but KUDOS to you.
I don't know what chance you will have of finding a virgin to marry out there, but there is no harm in searching. You might hook up with one and then that would be great.
But I have learned this lesson in life that I would like to share with you. Our expectations, and what life offers us are seldom on the same wave length. If you meet someone you truely love, her being a virgin won't matter anyway.
Some would argue anyway that having someone familiar with the ways of good sex would be a good thing. Could be, could cause problems in the long run.
So my advice...wait until you find the ';right one '; you've waited this long. Don't just settle...your true love waits out there looking for someone just like you.
Good Luck, and this is one mom out here who is proud that there still are some good guys left.Women - Advice me! virgin or not ?
What's your heart say? Listen to your heart
I hope that there are not 2 girls waiting on the sidelines for the result of a Yahoo! Answers question. :-) That being said, are you really going to determine who you marry based on the presence or absence of a hymen? Sigh. Please don't. The only issue that I can see resulting from being a ';non virgin'; is that some men are intimidated by women who have more experience than they do. After 20 years of marriage, let me give you some advice. A close and loving relationship evolves its own style, pace, and passion in physical encounters. Remember also that the 1 hour or so spent each week participating in sexual intercourse is a TINY part of the time spent with your partner. Perhaps other aspects of their personality should be more important to you than their virginity status.
it doesnt matter....whoever you happen to fall in love with!
wow thats cool dog go with a virgin its better :)
whom you love ofcourse, but my point of view v.1 is better for you.
It doesn't matter as long as you're honest about it. Don't hide it because then she'll wonder why you suck so bad in bed. Let her teach you what she likes and don't be afraid to ask questions. The last thing you should judge or choose a woman on is whether she's a virgin or not. There are much more important qualities she should or might have.
i dont think it matters. if you fall in love and want to marry a either type of women she wont matter if your a virgin or not.
You marry who you fall in love with...whether they be a virgin or not!
depends if you want a girl with experience or not!
When you do have sex... would you like to be the dominant or submissive one? If dominant, grab yourself a vigin... i submissive, go get that girl with the bag load of experience!
OK What does your having a good income have to do with weather or not to marry a virgin or non virgin? lol I'd say go with your heart on who you want to marry. I believe the good thing maybe even the best thing about marrying another virgin is the fact that you both will be each others first obviously and you both can experience together. You wont ever question her or wonder if she had anyone bigger and better lol OK I'm trying to be gentle with my words so I hope you understand what I'm saying. :-) Hmm what else...congrats on still being a virgin :-) Wishing you loads of love and happiness now and always! Peace!!
a virgin boy must marry a virgin girl otherwise u may get a complex if she has had long ones and weird experiences just think a while and the answer will be with you apply ur MIND that's all
Curiousbee24, marry the Lady you Love knowing that you will do everything possible to fulfill your vows and make her the most blessed woman alive and you better believe - you'll be the happiest man alive.*
whoever you fall in love with. Why? Because you are going to be with her for a long time and its better to marry for love than on the basis that they are pure or not
maybe you should marry me :) lol
the decision is yours, if u love a woman you must see 'the inside' of a woman (like character, attitude, trait) not just virginity.
It depends if you fall in love with a non virgin you should marry her, I am a virgin and will marry a non virgin guy, but i will first make sure he is clean and doesn't have any desiases.
i think you should marry the person you're in love with. the virgin part or not shouldn't play that much into it.
CONGRATULATIONS you are one in a million !
To Be young and still a virgin is an honorable thing. I don't know how you have managed to deal with all the '; sights out there with how young girls dress today.'; or all the movies that promote sex by the time you are 13, or even how you deal with peer pressure...but KUDOS to you.
I don't know what chance you will have of finding a virgin to marry out there, but there is no harm in searching. You might hook up with one and then that would be great.
But I have learned this lesson in life that I would like to share with you. Our expectations, and what life offers us are seldom on the same wave length. If you meet someone you truely love, her being a virgin won't matter anyway.
Some would argue anyway that having someone familiar with the ways of good sex would be a good thing. Could be, could cause problems in the long run.
So my advice...wait until you find the ';right one '; you've waited this long. Don't just settle...your true love waits out there looking for someone just like you.
Good Luck, and this is one mom out here who is proud that there still are some good guys left.Women - Advice me! virgin or not ?
What's your heart say? Listen to your heart
I hope that there are not 2 girls waiting on the sidelines for the result of a Yahoo! Answers question. :-) That being said, are you really going to determine who you marry based on the presence or absence of a hymen? Sigh. Please don't. The only issue that I can see resulting from being a ';non virgin'; is that some men are intimidated by women who have more experience than they do. After 20 years of marriage, let me give you some advice. A close and loving relationship evolves its own style, pace, and passion in physical encounters. Remember also that the 1 hour or so spent each week participating in sexual intercourse is a TINY part of the time spent with your partner. Perhaps other aspects of their personality should be more important to you than their virginity status.
it doesnt matter....whoever you happen to fall in love with!
wow thats cool dog go with a virgin its better :)
whom you love ofcourse, but my point of view v.1 is better for you.
It doesn't matter as long as you're honest about it. Don't hide it because then she'll wonder why you suck so bad in bed. Let her teach you what she likes and don't be afraid to ask questions. The last thing you should judge or choose a woman on is whether she's a virgin or not. There are much more important qualities she should or might have.
i dont think it matters. if you fall in love and want to marry a either type of women she wont matter if your a virgin or not.
You marry who you fall in love with...whether they be a virgin or not!
depends if you want a girl with experience or not!
When you do have sex... would you like to be the dominant or submissive one? If dominant, grab yourself a vigin... i submissive, go get that girl with the bag load of experience!
OK What does your having a good income have to do with weather or not to marry a virgin or non virgin? lol I'd say go with your heart on who you want to marry. I believe the good thing maybe even the best thing about marrying another virgin is the fact that you both will be each others first obviously and you both can experience together. You wont ever question her or wonder if she had anyone bigger and better lol OK I'm trying to be gentle with my words so I hope you understand what I'm saying. :-) Hmm what else...congrats on still being a virgin :-) Wishing you loads of love and happiness now and always! Peace!!
a virgin boy must marry a virgin girl otherwise u may get a complex if she has had long ones and weird experiences just think a while and the answer will be with you apply ur MIND that's all
Curiousbee24, marry the Lady you Love knowing that you will do everything possible to fulfill your vows and make her the most blessed woman alive and you better believe - you'll be the happiest man alive.*
whoever you fall in love with. Why? Because you are going to be with her for a long time and its better to marry for love than on the basis that they are pure or not
maybe you should marry me :) lol
the decision is yours, if u love a woman you must see 'the inside' of a woman (like character, attitude, trait) not just virginity.
It depends if you fall in love with a non virgin you should marry her, I am a virgin and will marry a non virgin guy, but i will first make sure he is clean and doesn't have any desiases.
i think you should marry the person you're in love with. the virgin part or not shouldn't play that much into it.
Women advice... please!?
I have a girlfriend who is really in love with me and with whom i do not share as much affection. However, she has a best friend I have just found im very attached to, and i also found that the friend feels the same way for me. So id like some advice on how to proceed, I'm really torn. Women advice... please!?
Break up with the first girl before touching the second. It is much more respectable and responsible than acting on impulse and hurting feelings.Women advice... please!?
Thanks everyone its resolved, I did break up with the first. And now that Im ready to make a move on the 2nd girl, any advice on how to do it with the 1st one freaking out as little as possible?
If you love your girl friend you will stay with her, but if you don't have that together/loving that you should then I guess you should go for the other one!
Break up with the first girl before touching the second. It is much more respectable and responsible than acting on impulse and hurting feelings.Women advice... please!?
Thanks everyone its resolved, I did break up with the first. And now that Im ready to make a move on the 2nd girl, any advice on how to do it with the 1st one freaking out as little as possible?
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If you love your girl friend you will stay with her, but if you don't have that together/loving that you should then I guess you should go for the other one!
Women advice only!! what does it mean when a guy doesnt make an effort to talk to you but claims he loves you
I know you wanted woman only, but let me shed some light on the situation. I'm speaking from personal experience. (myself). I am one of those guys, I loved my ex very much, but was unable to show it. Sometimes life forces people to put up a wall, a barrier. You become very comfortable having guarded yourself for so long. It becomes a challenge to overcome that obstacle. If you love him, take him by the, hand and teach him how to show his love. Be patient with him. He will learn; once he opens his heart you, you'll be on cloud nine. Plus, sometimes you can show your love, just by the way you look at someone. Look into his eyes, see what he is telling you........Women advice only!! what does it mean when a guy doesnt make an effort to talk to you but claims he loves you
he just wants to get you in bed.Women advice only!! what does it mean when a guy doesnt make an effort to talk to you but claims he loves you
Talking is over-rated...it sounds to me like he's really comfortable with you, so much so that he doesn't feel the need to fill the empty space with empty words...
It means he thinks the relationship should be conducted on his terms: mainly that you are there for him whenever he wants you to be, but he does not have to reciprocate, and you are being either too pushy or not trusting enough if you don't accept these terms. I'd tell him (and I have actually done this) to take his ';love'; elsewhere.
It means hes bullshitting you so you so he can just get laid.
I think it means that he doesn't want to get dumped by you, but he really isn't interested anymore. I think that if he really loved you, he'd be willing to talk, wanting to spend his time with you.
Some guys just aren't very talkative and don't feel a need to share the details of their day. Also, men are (to varying degrees) conditioned to keep their feelings inside and not show vulnerability.
The bottom line is, you can't force him to be more conversational or open by nagging him -- this will just have the opposite effect. Stop probing and let him open up on his own terms. Also, consider discussing things on a cerebral rather than emotional level -- if he's more a thinker than a feeler, that might engage him more.
But, if he's REALLY not making an effort, it could mean he's not happy in the relationship.
It usually means he doesn't love you enough to make the effort to talk to you.
It means he is either very stupid, very boring, or very insecure. Any way you look at it, he isn't the one. If you can't talk to him, all the love in the world means nothing!
He could be lazy; or just not a talker...or just doesn't know how to talk ';to girls';.
maybe he just likes listening to you more than talking about himself, he could be shy or not very good at conversation
he just wants to get you in bed.Women advice only!! what does it mean when a guy doesnt make an effort to talk to you but claims he loves you
Talking is over-rated...it sounds to me like he's really comfortable with you, so much so that he doesn't feel the need to fill the empty space with empty words...
It means he thinks the relationship should be conducted on his terms: mainly that you are there for him whenever he wants you to be, but he does not have to reciprocate, and you are being either too pushy or not trusting enough if you don't accept these terms. I'd tell him (and I have actually done this) to take his ';love'; elsewhere.
It means hes bullshitting you so you so he can just get laid.
I think it means that he doesn't want to get dumped by you, but he really isn't interested anymore. I think that if he really loved you, he'd be willing to talk, wanting to spend his time with you.
Some guys just aren't very talkative and don't feel a need to share the details of their day. Also, men are (to varying degrees) conditioned to keep their feelings inside and not show vulnerability.
The bottom line is, you can't force him to be more conversational or open by nagging him -- this will just have the opposite effect. Stop probing and let him open up on his own terms. Also, consider discussing things on a cerebral rather than emotional level -- if he's more a thinker than a feeler, that might engage him more.
But, if he's REALLY not making an effort, it could mean he's not happy in the relationship.
It usually means he doesn't love you enough to make the effort to talk to you.
It means he is either very stupid, very boring, or very insecure. Any way you look at it, he isn't the one. If you can't talk to him, all the love in the world means nothing!
He could be lazy; or just not a talker...or just doesn't know how to talk ';to girls';.
maybe he just likes listening to you more than talking about himself, he could be shy or not very good at conversation
I need mature women advice only?
i had sex 3 days before i ovulated was to start is there a a great changes of me getting pregnant anytime soonI need mature women advice only?
Yes there is a very good chance to get pregnant. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?I need mature women advice only?
Very close call....seems like 50%....contact your dr.
In the meantime you can check out this site, if it helps.
www.mymonthlycycles.com
yes there is a very good chance because the time you describe is just when you should have sex if you wanted to get pregnant. Get to a doctor ASAP. You have to know.
Get to a clinic and get tested. You also need to have a serious talk with your doctor about HPV. There are more than 100 strains of HPV and there is no test for a man but he can pass it to a woman and it gives you pre-cancer. That is one of many reasons you don't want to have unprotected sex so pregnant or not, don't have unprotected sex again. I personally feel you should wait until you are married to have sex but I realize the liklihood of that happening in today's world is nil. Regardless, you need to know 10 AIDS viruses can fit side by side through a hole in a condom that you cannot see with the naked eye. There is no such thing as safe sex, but at least a condom helps minimize the risk a little. They also break, so pretty little. Anyway . . . if you are pregnant, please do not murder your baby. There are a lot of people out there who cannot have children and would love to give it a home and there is such thing as open adoption, so you could be a part of your child's life. If you are not pregnant, be more careful in the future. Good Luck.
Yes, there is a chance you could get pregnant. The sperm can live for 3-4 days and if you ovulated sometime in that time, then there is a chance you are pregnant. Those sperm go into the fallopian tubes by where the egg is released and wait for it. Remember though, your body kills a lot of the sperm that is ejaculated into you, so it isn't as easy as it may seem.
Yes there is a chance for you getting pregnant because sperm can live for up to 72 hours in your body! If you miss your period go get checked at the doc's office!
Yes there is a very good chance you can be pregnant. Good Luck
There is a very good chance. Sperm can live for up to 3 days in the vagina/cervix. Maybe one of little met with the egg.
yes its a great chance of getting pregnant, sperm lasts up to 3 days in the female body.
ok first of all your cycle doesnt depend on how many days there are in teh month but sperm can live in your body for several days it is possible that your pregnant but there is no way to be sure except a test
Very good chance. Sperm can live in the female body for at least 3 and sometimes 5 days.
Well do you want to get pregnant soon? You cycle differs from month to month. You might have gotten lucky and had one of your eggs fertilized. Sperm generally live 24 hours but some can survive up to 72 hours. Go to the store and buy an ovulation kit to get more of an idea of when the best time to have sex. I did that with my second child. I got pregnant that month. Good luck
Good chance you are Good luck to you!!
I'm trying to get pregnant and my obgyn said there is only 2 days a month when you can become pregnant. That takes place when your lining is nice and thick and the egg is released. Get an ovulation test kit and watch your temperature. I believe it's 14 days after your period.
Good luck!
You can get preganant anytime not just when you ovulate. You just have a better chance then. I have heard that sperm will live inside for I think 24 to 48 hours or something like that. If you are not trying to get pregnant then I would try some BC pills if you are then you are right on time.
i have always benn told that you are most fertile a few days before ovulation, and that sperm live for almost 24 hours or longer, pretty good chance!
Yes there is a very good chance to get pregnant. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?I need mature women advice only?
Very close call....seems like 50%....contact your dr.
In the meantime you can check out this site, if it helps.
www.mymonthlycycles.com
yes there is a very good chance because the time you describe is just when you should have sex if you wanted to get pregnant. Get to a doctor ASAP. You have to know.
Get to a clinic and get tested. You also need to have a serious talk with your doctor about HPV. There are more than 100 strains of HPV and there is no test for a man but he can pass it to a woman and it gives you pre-cancer. That is one of many reasons you don't want to have unprotected sex so pregnant or not, don't have unprotected sex again. I personally feel you should wait until you are married to have sex but I realize the liklihood of that happening in today's world is nil. Regardless, you need to know 10 AIDS viruses can fit side by side through a hole in a condom that you cannot see with the naked eye. There is no such thing as safe sex, but at least a condom helps minimize the risk a little. They also break, so pretty little. Anyway . . . if you are pregnant, please do not murder your baby. There are a lot of people out there who cannot have children and would love to give it a home and there is such thing as open adoption, so you could be a part of your child's life. If you are not pregnant, be more careful in the future. Good Luck.
Yes, there is a chance you could get pregnant. The sperm can live for 3-4 days and if you ovulated sometime in that time, then there is a chance you are pregnant. Those sperm go into the fallopian tubes by where the egg is released and wait for it. Remember though, your body kills a lot of the sperm that is ejaculated into you, so it isn't as easy as it may seem.
Yes there is a chance for you getting pregnant because sperm can live for up to 72 hours in your body! If you miss your period go get checked at the doc's office!
Yes there is a very good chance you can be pregnant. Good Luck
There is a very good chance. Sperm can live for up to 3 days in the vagina/cervix. Maybe one of little met with the egg.
yes its a great chance of getting pregnant, sperm lasts up to 3 days in the female body.
ok first of all your cycle doesnt depend on how many days there are in teh month but sperm can live in your body for several days it is possible that your pregnant but there is no way to be sure except a test
Very good chance. Sperm can live in the female body for at least 3 and sometimes 5 days.
Well do you want to get pregnant soon? You cycle differs from month to month. You might have gotten lucky and had one of your eggs fertilized. Sperm generally live 24 hours but some can survive up to 72 hours. Go to the store and buy an ovulation kit to get more of an idea of when the best time to have sex. I did that with my second child. I got pregnant that month. Good luck
Good chance you are Good luck to you!!
I'm trying to get pregnant and my obgyn said there is only 2 days a month when you can become pregnant. That takes place when your lining is nice and thick and the egg is released. Get an ovulation test kit and watch your temperature. I believe it's 14 days after your period.
Good luck!
You can get preganant anytime not just when you ovulate. You just have a better chance then. I have heard that sperm will live inside for I think 24 to 48 hours or something like that. If you are not trying to get pregnant then I would try some BC pills if you are then you are right on time.
i have always benn told that you are most fertile a few days before ovulation, and that sperm live for almost 24 hours or longer, pretty good chance!
For adult women: What's the best advice you can give to a teenage girl?
What's something that you wish you could tell to teenage girls these days? Or maybe it's something you wish someone would have told you back when you were a teenager?
Men potentially could answer this also, I suppose.For adult women: What's the best advice you can give to a teenage girl?
You can be whatever you like!!!!!
Even if you have to do it on your own.For adult women: What's the best advice you can give to a teenage girl?
Keep the lines of communication open with your parents. We know u will get up to some form of mischief but let us know so we can help.
I would say that the teen years are very, very difficult and that I would just warn them about all the broken hearts, emotional junk, and other garbage you go through as a teen.
respect God and Love him then you will...
respect yourself,
love yourself
stay true to yourself
wait for marriage
and have fewer regrets
Showing more skin doesn't make you sexier.
It makes you sluttier.
when me say they love you they only have one thing on there mind..
carry a condom
Just be yourself. Don't worry so much about what everyone else thinks about you.
If you aren't you, who will be?
Parents, keep your teenage daughters locked up until they are 30 away from boys. Girls, keep your legs crossed.
Be YOU. Do not give in to peer pressure. Make your own choices.
Someone did tell me but I didn't listen. Not to get married so young. Have some fun first or you will feel like you're missing out later.
Do what YOU know is best,not what others tell you is best
Dress appropriately for your age
Its not clever to act dumb.
Keep your legs closed(I mean that in the nicest possible way)
Don't marry too young and make sure you love that person. Be careful of those around you and stay out of trouble. Be good and stay away from drugs. Don't smoke, eat healthy and exercise. Think about a career that you'll love and want to stay with all your life.
don't be in a hurry to lose your virginity. you don't have to lose it to be cool or in the ';in'; crowd.
popularity is only good in school, it gets you no where in life when you are older.
responsibility and Independence gets you everywhere in life.
don't wear too much make-up to early, and when you wear too much it doesn't make you attractive , it just looks fake.
just because a guy says he loves you doesn't mean that he does. actions always speak louder than words.
always use sunscreen no matter where you go, the sun is a woman's worst enemy it gives you wrinkles so too much sunscreen is not enough.
more clothes leaves more to the imagination, wearing less clothes gives away all your secrets at one time.
hope this helps!
and good luck on your journey to becoming a woman:)
Several things come to mind..%26gt;=)
*Skin care...very important to moisturize and stay away from direct sunlight
*If you must judge people,look inside not just outside
*As you become an adult acceptance of ones piers is much easier,
choose your friends wisely
*Santa's spirit lives on,if you allow it to..%26gt;=)
This is what I want someone to say to me (as a teenage girl)
';this manual explains it all. How to deal with guys, school, friends, popularity, the whole shitchk. have fun!';
have a child BEFORE your 18
this way the kids can know their parents later in their lives...
Men potentially could answer this also, I suppose.For adult women: What's the best advice you can give to a teenage girl?
You can be whatever you like!!!!!
Even if you have to do it on your own.For adult women: What's the best advice you can give to a teenage girl?
Keep the lines of communication open with your parents. We know u will get up to some form of mischief but let us know so we can help.
I would say that the teen years are very, very difficult and that I would just warn them about all the broken hearts, emotional junk, and other garbage you go through as a teen.
respect God and Love him then you will...
respect yourself,
love yourself
stay true to yourself
wait for marriage
and have fewer regrets
Showing more skin doesn't make you sexier.
It makes you sluttier.
when me say they love you they only have one thing on there mind..
carry a condom
Just be yourself. Don't worry so much about what everyone else thinks about you.
If you aren't you, who will be?
Parents, keep your teenage daughters locked up until they are 30 away from boys. Girls, keep your legs crossed.
Be YOU. Do not give in to peer pressure. Make your own choices.
Someone did tell me but I didn't listen. Not to get married so young. Have some fun first or you will feel like you're missing out later.
Do what YOU know is best,not what others tell you is best
Dress appropriately for your age
Its not clever to act dumb.
Keep your legs closed(I mean that in the nicest possible way)
Don't marry too young and make sure you love that person. Be careful of those around you and stay out of trouble. Be good and stay away from drugs. Don't smoke, eat healthy and exercise. Think about a career that you'll love and want to stay with all your life.
don't be in a hurry to lose your virginity. you don't have to lose it to be cool or in the ';in'; crowd.
popularity is only good in school, it gets you no where in life when you are older.
responsibility and Independence gets you everywhere in life.
don't wear too much make-up to early, and when you wear too much it doesn't make you attractive , it just looks fake.
just because a guy says he loves you doesn't mean that he does. actions always speak louder than words.
always use sunscreen no matter where you go, the sun is a woman's worst enemy it gives you wrinkles so too much sunscreen is not enough.
more clothes leaves more to the imagination, wearing less clothes gives away all your secrets at one time.
hope this helps!
and good luck on your journey to becoming a woman:)
Several things come to mind..%26gt;=)
*Skin care...very important to moisturize and stay away from direct sunlight
*If you must judge people,look inside not just outside
*As you become an adult acceptance of ones piers is much easier,
choose your friends wisely
*Santa's spirit lives on,if you allow it to..%26gt;=)
This is what I want someone to say to me (as a teenage girl)
';this manual explains it all. How to deal with guys, school, friends, popularity, the whole shitchk. have fun!';
have a child BEFORE your 18
this way the kids can know their parents later in their lives...
Can any women please give me some advice?
I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an surprise for my girlfriend because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their man did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?Can any women please give me some advice?
I wouldn't do it if she hasn't said anything about it. There could be complications with it. Anyways you shouldn't do something like that for a girl. Do it for yourself. If you really want to do it, for your own reasons, then do it, but not for a girl.
Good luckCan any women please give me some advice?
It would make me soooo happy. it feels alot different ,it's cleaner and looks better. She will be thrilled! wish hubby would
erm i actually wouldnt know what to do with a circumcised penis.......... dont no if that sounds bad but it would put me off and id be scared to touch it incase i hurt my man. Its a lot nicer with the foreskin intact, your not restricted in any way then and can enjoy things so much more.
I may be wrong but i personally wouldnt be happy if my fella had it done, wheras if it was done before i met him i wouldda learnt any differences then but as its all ther intact i wouldnt want him to change it,..... how about buying her flowers instead???? LOL
That is a huge decision on your part. And it is also largely a matter of her preference and yours. Will your insurance cover an elective circumcision? Is there a particular reason you are thinking of doing this now? To me personally it does not make much difference sexually, once you are with someone for awhile you forget what it felt like to be with anyone else anyway. You may need advice from men who have had circumcisions as adults, ask whether they feel a difference sexually, how the procedure and recovery time were, and whether it was worth it.
Some say it is more visually appealing but again it is a matter of preference. If you really want to do it, then do it for yourself and not just for her, my guess is that she would love you either way.
I mean usually that surgery is done at birth.. i think if you have a girlfriend that is okay with it then leave it!! its a cosmetic surgery so insurance wont cover it, and if they do you like they do babies then you might want to reconsider!
Generally, I've had far better experiences with men who WERE NOT circumcised.
Well as I've only been with my husband I can't say. However I do know it will be easier to clean yourself. Good luck.
circumcised is the way to go. i would think most women would prefer it. non-circumcised men dont keep themselves clean and that could lead to infection, not only for the man but his sexual partners . this is a painful procedure even more so if your an adult so be prepaired. i dont think there is any sexual difference or not, i have slept with both and couldnt tell the difference...... good luck.....philosophy
I wouldn't do it if she hasn't said anything about it. There could be complications with it. Anyways you shouldn't do something like that for a girl. Do it for yourself. If you really want to do it, for your own reasons, then do it, but not for a girl.
Good luckCan any women please give me some advice?
It would make me soooo happy. it feels alot different ,it's cleaner and looks better. She will be thrilled! wish hubby would
erm i actually wouldnt know what to do with a circumcised penis.......... dont no if that sounds bad but it would put me off and id be scared to touch it incase i hurt my man. Its a lot nicer with the foreskin intact, your not restricted in any way then and can enjoy things so much more.
I may be wrong but i personally wouldnt be happy if my fella had it done, wheras if it was done before i met him i wouldda learnt any differences then but as its all ther intact i wouldnt want him to change it,..... how about buying her flowers instead???? LOL
That is a huge decision on your part. And it is also largely a matter of her preference and yours. Will your insurance cover an elective circumcision? Is there a particular reason you are thinking of doing this now? To me personally it does not make much difference sexually, once you are with someone for awhile you forget what it felt like to be with anyone else anyway. You may need advice from men who have had circumcisions as adults, ask whether they feel a difference sexually, how the procedure and recovery time were, and whether it was worth it.
Some say it is more visually appealing but again it is a matter of preference. If you really want to do it, then do it for yourself and not just for her, my guess is that she would love you either way.
I mean usually that surgery is done at birth.. i think if you have a girlfriend that is okay with it then leave it!! its a cosmetic surgery so insurance wont cover it, and if they do you like they do babies then you might want to reconsider!
Generally, I've had far better experiences with men who WERE NOT circumcised.
Well as I've only been with my husband I can't say. However I do know it will be easier to clean yourself. Good luck.
circumcised is the way to go. i would think most women would prefer it. non-circumcised men dont keep themselves clean and that could lead to infection, not only for the man but his sexual partners . this is a painful procedure even more so if your an adult so be prepaired. i dont think there is any sexual difference or not, i have slept with both and couldnt tell the difference...... good luck.....
Women advice wen a girl tries 2 get revenge wat is da most popular thing she will do?
I really care bout this girl and i slipped up and got caught talkin 2 my ex girlfriend now she tryin 2 get revengeWomen advice wen a girl tries 2 get revenge wat is da most popular thing she will do?
just apologize? I don't know. =)Women advice wen a girl tries 2 get revenge wat is da most popular thing she will do?
If she is trying to get revenge on you then she is not worth staying with. If she can forgive you (we never forget..) then you can work on your relationship, but if she is trying to get revenge that means she doesn't forgive you and you can't move forward. Try couples therapy though an organization or through your church.
Not sure.But I've read somewhere about some girls who got their revenge by cutting up his work clothes %26amp; stuffs,soaking his underwear/boxers in some kinda chemical that caused skin itch/infection,slept with his dad and so on.
Just apologize and tell her there's nothing between you guys(ex-girl) anymore.
Good luck!
you're screwed.
just apologize? I don't know. =)Women advice wen a girl tries 2 get revenge wat is da most popular thing she will do?
If she is trying to get revenge on you then she is not worth staying with. If she can forgive you (we never forget..) then you can work on your relationship, but if she is trying to get revenge that means she doesn't forgive you and you can't move forward. Try couples therapy though an organization or through your church.
Not sure.But I've read somewhere about some girls who got their revenge by cutting up his work clothes %26amp; stuffs,soaking his underwear/boxers in some kinda chemical that caused skin itch/infection,slept with his dad and so on.
Just apologize and tell her there's nothing between you guys(ex-girl) anymore.
Good luck!
you're screwed.
I have deep trust issues in both men and women... any advice?
These issues from my mothers abandonment of me and betrayal of my boyfriend and friend hooking up I have dealt with... but the trust issues still remain as the aftermath. I am fine with being on the look out, but it starts to interfere with my life and thought process when I become so untrusting of even the checkers in the grocery store! Any GOOD advice so I can live a more relaxed, worry-free life?I have deep trust issues in both men and women... any advice?
Trust people more.
Its a choice, so get trusting or stay ill.
Trust people more.
Its a choice, so get trusting or stay ill.
Can any women please give me some advice?
I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an surprise for my girlfriend because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their man did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?Can any women please give me some advice?
I don't know, i definitely think circumcised is better, but if it's never bothered you before why do it now? I don't think it will do anything for your girl, you will just feel the sex better.
if my man wasnt and he wanted to do it, id tell him yes get circumcised.Can any women please give me some advice?
I think that if your girl is with you now, she loves you... extra skin and all.
it feels a little bit different, but not completely noticeable. Some people think it looks better, but I, personally, don't really care. It is still a penis... I wouldn't put yourself thru the pain of it. I'm sure if you asked her if she would want you to do it, she wouldn't... and if she DOES, lose her. There are plenty of women out there who will take you just as you are.
Love your skin! :)
No offense, but just how many more times are you going to ask this question?
You do what you want to do. Has she ever complained about your sex life and if she has, did she ever specifically say it was because you weren't circumcised? Even if that is her main complaint, maybe find another woman instead of removing parts of your body. Maybe she's just not the one for you. Doing it as a surprise really makes no sense to me. You will be too sore for sex for weeks, so unless she's going to be gone for a month or more, she's going to know something is up. Never do anything that permanent for someone else. Only do that if you want it done. What happens if you break up? Will you regret doing it. I have also heard that sex for uncircumcised men is better than for circumcised men because the foreskin has a lot of nerves in it. That is also something you should be thinking about, not just her pleasure, but yours as well.
Not sure if it would feel different, I just think it looks better.
i personally don't feel anything about it. I think they are both fine, cut or not. I think though, that if you do this, it should be for YOU and not for anyone else. That's a BIG step to take.
I'm not sure if it will feel better for her. It might feel better for you as it's more sensitive to touch. Just know that your healing might be a little more painful than had it been done at birth, and that you'll remember it. If she's said something about having it done, and you really want to, then go ahead.
Doesn't make any sexual difference or really feel that different. It just makes it easier for you to keep it clean.
Doesn't feel any different for the female but may decrease your pleasure.
Doesn't really feel any different for the woman, well it didn't for me anyway. And I might be in the minority here but I actually think it looks better when it hasn't been circumcised.
Definitely looks better! But in my opinion doesnt feel any different
Let me just tell you if you get it done now it will hurt, my boyfriend is circumcise and it feels great i wont be able to tell you the difference but if you want to do it then i wish you the best of luck!
I don't know, i definitely think circumcised is better, but if it's never bothered you before why do it now? I don't think it will do anything for your girl, you will just feel the sex better.
if my man wasnt and he wanted to do it, id tell him yes get circumcised.Can any women please give me some advice?
I think that if your girl is with you now, she loves you... extra skin and all.
it feels a little bit different, but not completely noticeable. Some people think it looks better, but I, personally, don't really care. It is still a penis... I wouldn't put yourself thru the pain of it. I'm sure if you asked her if she would want you to do it, she wouldn't... and if she DOES, lose her. There are plenty of women out there who will take you just as you are.
Love your skin! :)
No offense, but just how many more times are you going to ask this question?
You do what you want to do. Has she ever complained about your sex life and if she has, did she ever specifically say it was because you weren't circumcised? Even if that is her main complaint, maybe find another woman instead of removing parts of your body. Maybe she's just not the one for you. Doing it as a surprise really makes no sense to me. You will be too sore for sex for weeks, so unless she's going to be gone for a month or more, she's going to know something is up. Never do anything that permanent for someone else. Only do that if you want it done. What happens if you break up? Will you regret doing it. I have also heard that sex for uncircumcised men is better than for circumcised men because the foreskin has a lot of nerves in it. That is also something you should be thinking about, not just her pleasure, but yours as well.
Not sure if it would feel different, I just think it looks better.
i personally don't feel anything about it. I think they are both fine, cut or not. I think though, that if you do this, it should be for YOU and not for anyone else. That's a BIG step to take.
I'm not sure if it will feel better for her. It might feel better for you as it's more sensitive to touch. Just know that your healing might be a little more painful than had it been done at birth, and that you'll remember it. If she's said something about having it done, and you really want to, then go ahead.
Doesn't make any sexual difference or really feel that different. It just makes it easier for you to keep it clean.
Doesn't feel any different for the female but may decrease your pleasure.
Doesn't really feel any different for the woman, well it didn't for me anyway. And I might be in the minority here but I actually think it looks better when it hasn't been circumcised.
Definitely looks better! But in my opinion doesnt feel any different
Let me just tell you if you get it done now it will hurt, my boyfriend is circumcise and it feels great i wont be able to tell you the difference but if you want to do it then i wish you the best of luck!
I want to open a women's clothing store. Does anyone have any advice on how to get started...money & location?
I've tried online, it doesn't work for me... I've spoke to several local clothing store managers and they've all said they bring in about $1000 per day on the weekdays and $2,000 - $5,000 on the weekends... Somebody please help, I need to know where to begin???I want to open a women's clothing store. Does anyone have any advice on how to get started...money %26amp; location?
Did they tell you whether they were making a profit or not. You would first have to determine whether it would be worthwhile. You need to have experience in running one or hire a key employee that does.
As for money, you can try to get loans from family / friends use credit cards or find an investor / bank loan. The last two could be very difficult if you don't have a lot of experience in the field. You will need a good business plan.
As for location, you need to compare several with the cost of rent vs expected sales. This way you can figure what will return the most profit.
Did they tell you whether they were making a profit or not. You would first have to determine whether it would be worthwhile. You need to have experience in running one or hire a key employee that does.
As for money, you can try to get loans from family / friends use credit cards or find an investor / bank loan. The last two could be very difficult if you don't have a lot of experience in the field. You will need a good business plan.
As for location, you need to compare several with the cost of rent vs expected sales. This way you can figure what will return the most profit.
Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hello everyone,
I'm expecting #3 and due Sept 30th. My questions is,when giving birth to your 3rd etc.. child does your body handle the delivery process a lot better? I tore with my first two and needed 6 stitches with my 1st and needed 3 stitches with my 2nd.
I am dreading the tear =(
I'm just wondering if some women always tear or if it just happens in the first couple of children you give birth to?
Thank you very much for your time and your answers.Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
I have had three all natural births with only skin tearing, no muscle tearing no stitches, with the first birth and no damage at all from 2nd and 3rd. I have a very small frame and children with 14in heads. The amount of people who are 'just bound to tear' is medically very low. Most tearing is preventable. If the muscle is strong and flexible before labor from stretching and massage during pregnancy and if counterpressure and other slow controlled delivery techniques are used to ease the skin into it and if the mother can remember to relax that muscle only pushing from above during delivery the chances of remaining intact are very high. Granted you will be working with some scar tissue which doesn't stretch as much, but you can prepare all the skin around it to stretch enough to compensate with perineal massage. Here are some links on how to do it.
http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/鈥?/a> and http://www.birthingnaturally.net/cn/tech鈥?/a>
I did perineal massage during my first pregnancy only, using olive oil with a few capsules of Vitamin E sqeezed into it.. It's a little uncomfortable especially at first but I did see results and during labor I wished I had done it more. Something else that I'm sure helped me was while the baby was crowning my midwife applied counterpressure to the perineum. It was frustrating at the time but the patience paid off as it allowed the muscle time to stretch and adapt. Also, listening to her on when to stop pushing if it was coming too much too quickly, more than the muscle could handle at once. Talk to your midwife, or if you're having a doctor than consider hiring a doula to help in the hospital as the doctors don't usually do anything out of their own set procedure, about implementing some of the slow controlled delivery techniques. Whatever you do DON'T let them give you an episiotomy to ';prevent tearing';. Many episiotomies reult in further tearing and cuts have a longer and more painful healing process. Good luckAdvice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hey there,
I had a 3rd degree tear on top of an episiotomy with my first. With my second the Doctor did perineal massage (sounds weird and uncomfortable, but during labor almost anything goes!) and it helped tremendously. I only tore a little, no episiotomy, and the healing process was faster and there was a lot less pain that time. I am only 5 weeks with my third but I plan on attempting perineal massage again with this one during labor. I really think it made a big difference the last time and I really dread tearing again, too. Good luck!
with baby number 1, I needed almost 400 stitches, and with baby number 2, it was only 2 stitches. I had c-sections for babies 3 and 4, so I don't know about the tearing after baby number 2 personally... but my sister went into labor with her 3rd, ten minutes after she got to the hospital she gave birth, not a single tear, and a half an hour later was outside. From my understanding, each time you give birth it gets easier, and you most likely won't tear... and even if you do, you'll probably need only one or two stitches... which should heal up pretty quickly.
Good luck to you, I'm sure you won't tear at all.
I guess it depends on how big your baby is, i got maybe 3 stitches with my first, it got worse with me 2nd, she was too bif she tore me real bad, didn't get any with my third, i got 2 or 3 stitches with my fourt and i'm on my fifth due on June 3rd. So i guess it depends. Hey what can i say it happens, so don't worry so much everything will be fine :)
Good Luck!
I'm expecting #4 just a month after you!!! Congrats!
By way of your question...do you deliver quickly? It seems that if you have a ';normal'; delivery, your doctor should be able to ';stretch'; you or give you an episiotomy if he thought you'd tear!
My sister delivered an almost 10 pounder in 15 minutes with no drugs...she tore all the way UP! Ouch!
It seems that your 3 stitches is better than your 6, so maybe with this one you won't need any! You do stretch with each one, so I hoping this one will be easier for you!!!
With me...I had an episiotomy with my first. Didn't need one with either of my others. I think with each one it gets easier. I would expect to tear...that way you will be pleasantly surprised if you don't! Good luck to you!
I tore with my first, didn't tare with my second and he was more then a pound bigger then my first. My third is coming in about 7 weeks, and is expected to be more then 9lbs, so I hope I don't tare. The good thing was though that they numbed me BEFORE I tore. They numbed me again with something so that I would feel the tare if I did tare. I can't remmeber what it is called. It is something that they give you down there, not in your back. It's not an epidural, just a shot. Which I could remember what it was called. If I do then I'll edit this. Good thing is the labors generally get shorter though!
I tore bad with my third... I had an episiotomy (sp) with the first two... Labor wasn't any easier with the more children I had... I screamed just as loud, kicked just as many people... and squeezed my husband's hand ';off!'; The funny thing is, when I was pushing my third daughter's head out... I screamed ';MOMMY!'; like a little kid..... I don't know where the heck that came from.... After wards, I was like '; why in the world did I scream Mommy!!???'; Kind of embarrassing... It just came out..... :) Good luck Hun!!
I have 3 and one on the way. With my first two I had to have an episiotomy, with my third no tearing and no cutting it was much easier. Every pregnancy your body endures the pregnancy gets hard to handle but the labors get easier.
I have 3 children...
The 1st one I tore a whole lot and couldn't walk for 2 weeks...
The 2nd one I tore the tiniest bit but the doc said that red heads tend to bleed more so they gave me 1 stitch...
The 3rd time I needed no stitches or anything and was barely in pain!!
I hate to say it but some women just tear. I tore with all three of mine. Although the doctor was attempting to cut me before I tore and didn't make it in time. You might ask the doctor about that. Good luck.
I have 5 children and I have had episiotomys with all except the third, I tore with that one....Good Luck!
I have 8 kids, 6 were vaginal deliveries. I didn't tear after my first. Good Luck to you.
I hope not. I will deliver #3 in October. Good Luck!
i just needed stitches with my 1st one which is odd no.1 wieghed 6'9 no.2 wieghed 7'2,go figure
I'm expecting #3 and due Sept 30th. My questions is,when giving birth to your 3rd etc.. child does your body handle the delivery process a lot better? I tore with my first two and needed 6 stitches with my 1st and needed 3 stitches with my 2nd.
I am dreading the tear =(
I'm just wondering if some women always tear or if it just happens in the first couple of children you give birth to?
Thank you very much for your time and your answers.Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
I have had three all natural births with only skin tearing, no muscle tearing no stitches, with the first birth and no damage at all from 2nd and 3rd. I have a very small frame and children with 14in heads. The amount of people who are 'just bound to tear' is medically very low. Most tearing is preventable. If the muscle is strong and flexible before labor from stretching and massage during pregnancy and if counterpressure and other slow controlled delivery techniques are used to ease the skin into it and if the mother can remember to relax that muscle only pushing from above during delivery the chances of remaining intact are very high. Granted you will be working with some scar tissue which doesn't stretch as much, but you can prepare all the skin around it to stretch enough to compensate with perineal massage. Here are some links on how to do it.
http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/鈥?/a> and http://www.birthingnaturally.net/cn/tech鈥?/a>
I did perineal massage during my first pregnancy only, using olive oil with a few capsules of Vitamin E sqeezed into it.. It's a little uncomfortable especially at first but I did see results and during labor I wished I had done it more. Something else that I'm sure helped me was while the baby was crowning my midwife applied counterpressure to the perineum. It was frustrating at the time but the patience paid off as it allowed the muscle time to stretch and adapt. Also, listening to her on when to stop pushing if it was coming too much too quickly, more than the muscle could handle at once. Talk to your midwife, or if you're having a doctor than consider hiring a doula to help in the hospital as the doctors don't usually do anything out of their own set procedure, about implementing some of the slow controlled delivery techniques. Whatever you do DON'T let them give you an episiotomy to ';prevent tearing';. Many episiotomies reult in further tearing and cuts have a longer and more painful healing process. Good luckAdvice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hey there,
I had a 3rd degree tear on top of an episiotomy with my first. With my second the Doctor did perineal massage (sounds weird and uncomfortable, but during labor almost anything goes!) and it helped tremendously. I only tore a little, no episiotomy, and the healing process was faster and there was a lot less pain that time. I am only 5 weeks with my third but I plan on attempting perineal massage again with this one during labor. I really think it made a big difference the last time and I really dread tearing again, too. Good luck!
with baby number 1, I needed almost 400 stitches, and with baby number 2, it was only 2 stitches. I had c-sections for babies 3 and 4, so I don't know about the tearing after baby number 2 personally... but my sister went into labor with her 3rd, ten minutes after she got to the hospital she gave birth, not a single tear, and a half an hour later was outside. From my understanding, each time you give birth it gets easier, and you most likely won't tear... and even if you do, you'll probably need only one or two stitches... which should heal up pretty quickly.
Good luck to you, I'm sure you won't tear at all.
I guess it depends on how big your baby is, i got maybe 3 stitches with my first, it got worse with me 2nd, she was too bif she tore me real bad, didn't get any with my third, i got 2 or 3 stitches with my fourt and i'm on my fifth due on June 3rd. So i guess it depends. Hey what can i say it happens, so don't worry so much everything will be fine :)
Good Luck!
I'm expecting #4 just a month after you!!! Congrats!
By way of your question...do you deliver quickly? It seems that if you have a ';normal'; delivery, your doctor should be able to ';stretch'; you or give you an episiotomy if he thought you'd tear!
My sister delivered an almost 10 pounder in 15 minutes with no drugs...she tore all the way UP! Ouch!
It seems that your 3 stitches is better than your 6, so maybe with this one you won't need any! You do stretch with each one, so I hoping this one will be easier for you!!!
With me...I had an episiotomy with my first. Didn't need one with either of my others. I think with each one it gets easier. I would expect to tear...that way you will be pleasantly surprised if you don't! Good luck to you!
I tore with my first, didn't tare with my second and he was more then a pound bigger then my first. My third is coming in about 7 weeks, and is expected to be more then 9lbs, so I hope I don't tare. The good thing was though that they numbed me BEFORE I tore. They numbed me again with something so that I would feel the tare if I did tare. I can't remmeber what it is called. It is something that they give you down there, not in your back. It's not an epidural, just a shot. Which I could remember what it was called. If I do then I'll edit this. Good thing is the labors generally get shorter though!
I tore bad with my third... I had an episiotomy (sp) with the first two... Labor wasn't any easier with the more children I had... I screamed just as loud, kicked just as many people... and squeezed my husband's hand ';off!'; The funny thing is, when I was pushing my third daughter's head out... I screamed ';MOMMY!'; like a little kid..... I don't know where the heck that came from.... After wards, I was like '; why in the world did I scream Mommy!!???'; Kind of embarrassing... It just came out..... :) Good luck Hun!!
I have 3 and one on the way. With my first two I had to have an episiotomy, with my third no tearing and no cutting it was much easier. Every pregnancy your body endures the pregnancy gets hard to handle but the labors get easier.
I have 3 children...
The 1st one I tore a whole lot and couldn't walk for 2 weeks...
The 2nd one I tore the tiniest bit but the doc said that red heads tend to bleed more so they gave me 1 stitch...
The 3rd time I needed no stitches or anything and was barely in pain!!
I hate to say it but some women just tear. I tore with all three of mine. Although the doctor was attempting to cut me before I tore and didn't make it in time. You might ask the doctor about that. Good luck.
I have 5 children and I have had episiotomys with all except the third, I tore with that one....Good Luck!
I have 8 kids, 6 were vaginal deliveries. I didn't tear after my first. Good Luck to you.
I hope not. I will deliver #3 in October. Good Luck!
i just needed stitches with my 1st one which is odd no.1 wieghed 6'9 no.2 wieghed 7'2,go figure
Dating older women advice?
I met a really attractive women today who is 29, she is very fun, and I am very attracted to her, we met at the gym and we now carpool and excersize togeether, but I havent asked her on a date yet, she seems to show interest in me, but I am nervous to ask her to date.....I am only 18. But I am not a normal 18 year old, I own my own tech company and support myself and am financially stable.....So i think that would be a big plus for her, any tips???Dating older women advice?
Zach, im a guy, answering on my friends account. This totally depends....u gotta ask yourself some questions....Does she have children? Is SHE financially stable? Is it worth your time in terms of what she has to offer?
I was 20, and i was in a serious relationship with a women who was 30...our relationship lasted 3 1/2 years...so it is not impossible...id say go for it.
Good Luckphilosophy
Zach, im a guy, answering on my friends account. This totally depends....u gotta ask yourself some questions....Does she have children? Is SHE financially stable? Is it worth your time in terms of what she has to offer?
I was 20, and i was in a serious relationship with a women who was 30...our relationship lasted 3 1/2 years...so it is not impossible...id say go for it.
Good Luck
What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
dont be upset when he fires backWhat's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
passing gas is good for the health. when you release, you loose weight and your husband becomes happy! HOORAY!What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
Sounds to me like any woman that can do this in front of her husband must be secure in their relationship. They have a good marriage.
Slip some bean-o into her food when she is not looking:
Laugh
Ladies, please... let's show a little class.
Just because some... no, wait... most men are comfortable (and actually proud of) making disgusting bodily noises regardless of where they are, who they are with, or how bad the stench is, doesn't mean we have to act the same way!
Please don't! My advice to these women would be to let some things remain a mystery. I strongly believe in keeping your husband or boyfriend in the dark about LOTS of things -- not the least of which is the bodily functions issue. It creates a sense of self-respect, which fosters respect from them FOR YOU.
There is no good to be gained from doing such a thing. I believe that most women want to be treated well, and doing such things will cause your husband to think less of you, and treat you accordingly.
if he does it then so can you
Hope they think its funny and get pass it!
If it annoys you than she should step out of the room, and of course you do the same. If it doesn't than who cares, you definitely share body fluids so what's a little gas between spouses ;)
Ladies please!
You are our only hope that we can see some love on this cruel world. If you become like men, what are we going to do?
Your next step is to get him to indulge in it. Blow farts in his face.
Get a good divorce lawyer!
passing gas is good for the health. when you release, you loose weight and your husband becomes happy! HOORAY!What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
Sounds to me like any woman that can do this in front of her husband must be secure in their relationship. They have a good marriage.
Slip some bean-o into her food when she is not looking:
Laugh
Ladies, please... let's show a little class.
Just because some... no, wait... most men are comfortable (and actually proud of) making disgusting bodily noises regardless of where they are, who they are with, or how bad the stench is, doesn't mean we have to act the same way!
Please don't! My advice to these women would be to let some things remain a mystery. I strongly believe in keeping your husband or boyfriend in the dark about LOTS of things -- not the least of which is the bodily functions issue. It creates a sense of self-respect, which fosters respect from them FOR YOU.
There is no good to be gained from doing such a thing. I believe that most women want to be treated well, and doing such things will cause your husband to think less of you, and treat you accordingly.
if he does it then so can you
Hope they think its funny and get pass it!
If it annoys you than she should step out of the room, and of course you do the same. If it doesn't than who cares, you definitely share body fluids so what's a little gas between spouses ;)
Ladies please!
You are our only hope that we can see some love on this cruel world. If you become like men, what are we going to do?
Your next step is to get him to indulge in it. Blow farts in his face.
Get a good divorce lawyer!
Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
ok i was talking to this girl.....we was together for a while....we stop talking for like a few months and now we have gotten contact with each other....she had a boyfriend now but she still has feelings for me......she scared to have sex with him cause i told her that i wouldnt wanna mess with her like that no more......i dont know what to do.....i dont wanna move back in time but should i try and see if we can work something out.....need yall help femalesNeed help with a problem women advice is needed?
Sounds like she needs to decide who she wants to be with. If she was truly interested in you why is she bringing up having sex with someone else or even considering it.. Might want to decide if this is a relationship you truly want or is it time to look else where. If I want to be in a good qulity relationship I wouldn't be hopping back and forth wanting everyone to cater to my wishes. If she cares for you wouldn't she would be only with you.Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
I WOULD TAKE IT SLOW AND SEE IF THINGS COULD WORK OUT
first off, dont beleive that she aint sleeping with him because if she is with him and not a virgin she probably is just stringing you along. If you really want her then talk to her and see if you can work things out.
Talk to her no more games what do you have to loose - hmm her do you want her or not?
My, my, my...
Alright...
She shouldn't have a boyfriend if she still has feelings for you and she definitely shouldn't be considering having sex with him either for the same reason.
I think you need to reconsider this young lady.
I suggest you find someone who is devoted to you and you only, someone that loves you for who you are, and is not afraid to hide those feelings for you.
Don't you think you deserve that much?
I think you do.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it doesn't.
Take care!
first off dont believe that she isnt sleeping with him because she is she wants to play the field with both of you but youre gonna have to be the bigger person and say let him go and just be with me if she aint willing move on buddy
Sounds like she needs to decide who she wants to be with. If she was truly interested in you why is she bringing up having sex with someone else or even considering it.. Might want to decide if this is a relationship you truly want or is it time to look else where. If I want to be in a good qulity relationship I wouldn't be hopping back and forth wanting everyone to cater to my wishes. If she cares for you wouldn't she would be only with you.Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
I WOULD TAKE IT SLOW AND SEE IF THINGS COULD WORK OUT
first off, dont beleive that she aint sleeping with him because if she is with him and not a virgin she probably is just stringing you along. If you really want her then talk to her and see if you can work things out.
Talk to her no more games what do you have to loose - hmm her do you want her or not?
My, my, my...
Alright...
She shouldn't have a boyfriend if she still has feelings for you and she definitely shouldn't be considering having sex with him either for the same reason.
I think you need to reconsider this young lady.
I suggest you find someone who is devoted to you and you only, someone that loves you for who you are, and is not afraid to hide those feelings for you.
Don't you think you deserve that much?
I think you do.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it doesn't.
Take care!
first off dont believe that she isnt sleeping with him because she is she wants to play the field with both of you but youre gonna have to be the bigger person and say let him go and just be with me if she aint willing move on buddy
Im 16 and I need women advice?
I like this girl, but she has a boyfriend. she seems to always be sort of flirting with me, but i hear she is a big tease. although i have heard rumors that she wants my peni5. what should i do?Im 16 and I need women advice?
shes got a boyfriend plenty of fishin the see besides if shes like this with the current boyfriend wat make y9u different if you too did hook up would she be like that with someone else too plus you might be one out of ten lads she flirts and teases with ,go for a quiet girl half of them turns out to be freaks in other situations if ya know wat i mean manIm 16 and I need women advice?
Dude, just ignore it. The rumors are false that someone started. And if she's known as a tease, then don't pay her any mind. Maybe you could be sort of like a tease to her. Like when she tries to talk to you, just say like ';yeah w/e'; then walk away...send her a message.
tell her to hang out then show it to her + her bf
She sounds like she's trying to start something between you and her boyfriend. Leave her alone, she's not worth possibly getting beaten up for and all the drama that would occur if you went after her. Move on.
shes got a boyfriend plenty of fishin the see besides if shes like this with the current boyfriend wat make y9u different if you too did hook up would she be like that with someone else too plus you might be one out of ten lads she flirts and teases with ,go for a quiet girl half of them turns out to be freaks in other situations if ya know wat i mean manIm 16 and I need women advice?
Dude, just ignore it. The rumors are false that someone started. And if she's known as a tease, then don't pay her any mind. Maybe you could be sort of like a tease to her. Like when she tries to talk to you, just say like ';yeah w/e'; then walk away...send her a message.
tell her to hang out then show it to her + her bf
She sounds like she's trying to start something between you and her boyfriend. Leave her alone, she's not worth possibly getting beaten up for and all the drama that would occur if you went after her. Move on.
Men and women advice- how do you know you are in love? women ? men?
Ok:
Picture the one thing you want to do most in the world/ your favorite thing. (like hiking through the Appalachian mountains...some life goal-ish thing)
Now, picture the person you think you might be in love with doing that one thing with you. Do you feel good about them being with you, or is awkward? If you feel like them partaking in that activity with you is just awesome, I'd say you are in love.Men and women advice- how do you know you are in love? women ? men?
It's different form person-to-person. It is really hard to explain. When you are-you'll just know.
Picture the one thing you want to do most in the world/ your favorite thing. (like hiking through the Appalachian mountains...some life goal-ish thing)
Now, picture the person you think you might be in love with doing that one thing with you. Do you feel good about them being with you, or is awkward? If you feel like them partaking in that activity with you is just awesome, I'd say you are in love.Men and women advice- how do you know you are in love? women ? men?
It's different form person-to-person. It is really hard to explain. When you are-you'll just know.
Men and women advice- how do you know you are in love? women ? men?
i'm a lady and i'll tell you that you'll just know when your significant other finds you.
Women advice please?
Do women think negativity is lame?
I have a problem with it and it just gets worse and worse. I have trouble getting dates, I'm afraid to try because I keep having the mindset ';I am going to fail every time I try, so I let the opportunity go by';. I don't think I will ever fix it and it causes me to be more negative and maybe have irrational thoughts. Can someone please help me?Women advice please?
i have aim if you can message me...my homework involves mean and standard deviation, percentiles and descriptive stats. I have several math problems and I would be grateful if you could help me with any of them.
By the way, I am a psycholgy major at college and in reference to the question you posted above, your feelings sound very similiar to self-fulfilling prophecy and behavioral confirmation. Plus I'm very good with dating issues, send me a message and maybe we can help each other.
Thanks!Women advice please?
That is with anyone. I think it is so unattractive and it always brings me down. I have a friend that she is this way and she has a son. I keep telling her to stop being this way because she will pass this onto her son. It doesn't work. I tried to help her and no luck. We stay in contact but we don't hang like we used to and I have told her why. I have kids and can't be around this all the time. I try to help the person but if they keep doing this than I just stay away. When you wake up in the morning, think this is the day that I'm going to be positive today; start small and see what happens. If not, try and get help-professional. There may be more to that than you think.
Don't get so nervous hun ;)
Just think, you're attractive, people like you, and you're happy.
Be confident. Don't doubt yourself: the only way you can get over this 'fear' of asking women out, is if you try and keep trying.
If somebody says no, that doesn't mean anything about you: it just shows their character.
Good luck...
xx
yeah, being confident is what I find HOT in a guy.. I mean, its mainly the girls that are insecure and all ';worried'; and everything...
I think you should just let it go with the flow, man! I mean, if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.. at least girls will see that your not nervous and your just being yourself.. its not something to be afraid of trying.. many people mess up..but there's a lot of girls in the world..trust me on that one! :)
Good luck,
xx
becoz girlz dont want a guy who is 2 scared 2 try thingz 4 them....guyz need 2 take care of girlz n if theyre negative n not brave enough 2 put themselvez out there, how r they going 2 b there for us? n plus...being around sumone who is always negative brings u down with them....
i kno how u feel wit that negativ mindset though,i used 2 b like that about everything, but there comez a point in ur life where u just gota say screw it...i mean who cares wat ppl think...most ppl r too caught up in their own lives to rememba nethin like that neway.....try it, if it dont work, move on....otherwise u will neva find watz gona make u happy....
sometimes a girl thinks its cute= they will put up with you for a WHILE. But you need a decent self esteem to get anywhere with a girl nowadays Believe in yourself babe! It's ok to mess up! :) its normal. It's better to fauk up trying then not try because your afraid to fauk up! :)
you neeed help!!!!!!!
philosophy
I have a problem with it and it just gets worse and worse. I have trouble getting dates, I'm afraid to try because I keep having the mindset ';I am going to fail every time I try, so I let the opportunity go by';. I don't think I will ever fix it and it causes me to be more negative and maybe have irrational thoughts. Can someone please help me?Women advice please?
i have aim if you can message me...my homework involves mean and standard deviation, percentiles and descriptive stats. I have several math problems and I would be grateful if you could help me with any of them.
By the way, I am a psycholgy major at college and in reference to the question you posted above, your feelings sound very similiar to self-fulfilling prophecy and behavioral confirmation. Plus I'm very good with dating issues, send me a message and maybe we can help each other.
Thanks!Women advice please?
That is with anyone. I think it is so unattractive and it always brings me down. I have a friend that she is this way and she has a son. I keep telling her to stop being this way because she will pass this onto her son. It doesn't work. I tried to help her and no luck. We stay in contact but we don't hang like we used to and I have told her why. I have kids and can't be around this all the time. I try to help the person but if they keep doing this than I just stay away. When you wake up in the morning, think this is the day that I'm going to be positive today; start small and see what happens. If not, try and get help-professional. There may be more to that than you think.
Don't get so nervous hun ;)
Just think, you're attractive, people like you, and you're happy.
Be confident. Don't doubt yourself: the only way you can get over this 'fear' of asking women out, is if you try and keep trying.
If somebody says no, that doesn't mean anything about you: it just shows their character.
Good luck...
xx
yeah, being confident is what I find HOT in a guy.. I mean, its mainly the girls that are insecure and all ';worried'; and everything...
I think you should just let it go with the flow, man! I mean, if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.. at least girls will see that your not nervous and your just being yourself.. its not something to be afraid of trying.. many people mess up..but there's a lot of girls in the world..trust me on that one! :)
Good luck,
xx
becoz girlz dont want a guy who is 2 scared 2 try thingz 4 them....guyz need 2 take care of girlz n if theyre negative n not brave enough 2 put themselvez out there, how r they going 2 b there for us? n plus...being around sumone who is always negative brings u down with them....
i kno how u feel wit that negativ mindset though,i used 2 b like that about everything, but there comez a point in ur life where u just gota say screw it...i mean who cares wat ppl think...most ppl r too caught up in their own lives to rememba nethin like that neway.....try it, if it dont work, move on....otherwise u will neva find watz gona make u happy....
sometimes a girl thinks its cute= they will put up with you for a WHILE. But you need a decent self esteem to get anywhere with a girl nowadays Believe in yourself babe! It's ok to mess up! :) its normal. It's better to fauk up trying then not try because your afraid to fauk up! :)
you neeed help!!!!!!!
Women advice for a male friend?
a close male friend came to me and said his wife dont want sex no more,she has just laid there while he did it the last couple of times,and he felt horrible,and she dont want to be hugged or touched anymore.she says she loves him and reckons they are meant to be together and they are quite happy together but it feels like they just live together,it dont feel like they are husband and wife.they have been together about 8 years.i cant help him but want to.what do you think.Women advice for a male friend?
Maybe she feels that she needs a little space and probably him not paying much attention will make her want his attention...Women advice for a male friend?
they need a little spice,or marriage counseling,I would suggest the spice first....do things like surprise!! you know in the shower and stuff...not only at night or something maybe where they might get caught (in their house) but then again I have no right giving out this kind of advice but it just seems to me thats what it might need....
There may be something going on with her. Maybe she's feeling unappreciated. Who knows? IMHO, if they are unable to work through this themselves, they should make an appointment with a marriage counselor before this escalates into a whole lot more.
Sounds like she's got some emotional issues because most wives want to have intimacy with their hubbies....maybe she needs counselling or better yet both of them go
shes sleeping with some one else and is very happy with that person.happy enough that she doesn't even want any more from her husband poor poor poor guy time for a hooker to come in
i think she is doing a right thing.. especially if he is a looser!!!
Maybe she feels that she needs a little space and probably him not paying much attention will make her want his attention...Women advice for a male friend?
they need a little spice,or marriage counseling,I would suggest the spice first....do things like surprise!! you know in the shower and stuff...not only at night or something maybe where they might get caught (in their house) but then again I have no right giving out this kind of advice but it just seems to me thats what it might need....
There may be something going on with her. Maybe she's feeling unappreciated. Who knows? IMHO, if they are unable to work through this themselves, they should make an appointment with a marriage counselor before this escalates into a whole lot more.
Sounds like she's got some emotional issues because most wives want to have intimacy with their hubbies....maybe she needs counselling or better yet both of them go
shes sleeping with some one else and is very happy with that person.happy enough that she doesn't even want any more from her husband poor poor poor guy time for a hooker to come in
i think she is doing a right thing.. especially if he is a looser!!!
I need mature women advice?
i dont want to ask the question on here so if someone would email me or give me their email i would appreciate. i will go ahead and say i am a guy and it has to do with relationships and sex and pregnancy so if anyone will help thank you. it is mostly about relationships thoughI need mature women advice?
You can E-mail me if you like Hun, I am a married woman and mother of 2 children due to have 3rd baby next week...I need mature women advice?
You can go into my profile, my e-mail adress is right there ;)
You can E-mail me if you like Hun, I am a married woman and mother of 2 children due to have 3rd baby next week...I need mature women advice?
You can go into my profile, my e-mail adress is right there ;)
Many men who have much experience with women advice that never trust women in romantic relation. Is it right?
do you know why you don't hear much out of couples who are happy? Because they are off being happy together...there are millions of people out there in romantic relationships that work...they love, trust %26amp; are committed to each other.
These men you speak of, have had bad experiences, and for some of them, it is their own fault due to the choices in women they make over and over again, but the choose not to take the responsibility for it and change what they look for. And some, well, pretty much everyone is going to have a bad experience dating at some point, it is what helps us learn what we want and don't want in our future.
So no, it isn't right to avoid love based on other people's opinions...date, and form your own.
It's like that old saying, if everyone was jumping off a bridge and dying...woud you jump too just to follow the crowd?
These men you speak of, have had bad experiences, and for some of them, it is their own fault due to the choices in women they make over and over again, but the choose not to take the responsibility for it and change what they look for. And some, well, pretty much everyone is going to have a bad experience dating at some point, it is what helps us learn what we want and don't want in our future.
So no, it isn't right to avoid love based on other people's opinions...date, and form your own.
It's like that old saying, if everyone was jumping off a bridge and dying...woud you jump too just to follow the crowd?
What is with women needing advice about how to get dates?
Whenever I see a question on here from a woman asking **** like
';How can I get a man';
or
';How can I get him to like me';
(Now unless the girl was REALLY REALLY REALLY ugly AND fat) it makes no sense
GOD IT MAKES ME SO ANGRY!!!
Where are these girls who are looking for boyfriends!!!
You have no idea how hard the dating scene is for a guy, IT SUCKS FOR US!! WE HAVE TO DO ALL THE WORK!!
Its so easy for women to get guys, why do they need help.What is with women needing advice about how to get dates?
You really think it's so easy for girls? Well I'm a girl and sure I'd have no problem getting sex from a guy, but when I need someone to be there for me, will he do it or move on to the next chick's bed?
It's so hard to find a guy (or any person for that matter) who thinks about more than himself and getting what he wants.What is with women needing advice about how to get dates?
i agree completely women should realize as long as they have a( ______ )they rule the world!!
HELL YA MAN!!! FINALLY SOMEONE SAYS IT! GIRLS HAVE IT SO DAMN EASY! IF A GIRL WANTS A STRAIGHT GUY, SHE CAN GET HIM. BUT NO, NOT FOR A GUY. IF I WANTED A GIRL, I HAVE TO DO ALL THIS CRAP! BE ALL EMOTIONAL,AND SENSITIVE AND CARING AND A BUNCH OF OTHER BULL ****! BUT YA, YOU'RE RIGHT MAN. ~RICKY~
lol
lol. I feel for you. It is so easy to be a girl (skinny %26amp; pretty).
But these girls you see on here lack confidence. So even though they could easily get a guy, they don't realize it because they are insecure.
uuh cuz they young n they wanna know how to get guys cuz they dont know yet n r shy dee dee dee
Dude chill out~!! Those girls are the middle school girls that are still shy and wanting advice..
Girls can be shy too. Sometimes they get too nervous to let a guy know that they really like him. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and realize that girls have their own burdens to deal with too. They also have to fight off all of the jerks that only want to use them for sex.
';How can I get a man';
or
';How can I get him to like me';
(Now unless the girl was REALLY REALLY REALLY ugly AND fat) it makes no sense
GOD IT MAKES ME SO ANGRY!!!
Where are these girls who are looking for boyfriends!!!
You have no idea how hard the dating scene is for a guy, IT SUCKS FOR US!! WE HAVE TO DO ALL THE WORK!!
Its so easy for women to get guys, why do they need help.What is with women needing advice about how to get dates?
You really think it's so easy for girls? Well I'm a girl and sure I'd have no problem getting sex from a guy, but when I need someone to be there for me, will he do it or move on to the next chick's bed?
It's so hard to find a guy (or any person for that matter) who thinks about more than himself and getting what he wants.What is with women needing advice about how to get dates?
i agree completely women should realize as long as they have a( ______ )they rule the world!!
HELL YA MAN!!! FINALLY SOMEONE SAYS IT! GIRLS HAVE IT SO DAMN EASY! IF A GIRL WANTS A STRAIGHT GUY, SHE CAN GET HIM. BUT NO, NOT FOR A GUY. IF I WANTED A GIRL, I HAVE TO DO ALL THIS CRAP! BE ALL EMOTIONAL,AND SENSITIVE AND CARING AND A BUNCH OF OTHER BULL ****! BUT YA, YOU'RE RIGHT MAN. ~RICKY~
lol
lol. I feel for you. It is so easy to be a girl (skinny %26amp; pretty).
But these girls you see on here lack confidence. So even though they could easily get a guy, they don't realize it because they are insecure.
uuh cuz they young n they wanna know how to get guys cuz they dont know yet n r shy dee dee dee
Dude chill out~!! Those girls are the middle school girls that are still shy and wanting advice..
Girls can be shy too. Sometimes they get too nervous to let a guy know that they really like him. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and realize that girls have their own burdens to deal with too. They also have to fight off all of the jerks that only want to use them for sex.
Women advice on what to buy?
My wife is turning 36. We have been married for 11 years and have 3 children. Money is tight this year. She is not expecting me to get her anything for her birthday because of finances. I really want to get her something or make her something. Can anyone give me advice on the ultimate gift without paying the ultimate price. Help!!!Women advice on what to buy?
The Best thing my husband ever game me was he made a CD of all the songs that reminded him of me and writing a letter to her telling her how special she is to you.....homemade presents are always the best they come from the heart.....Women advice on what to buy?
Find a babysitter and take your wife out on a picnic by a river or lake. With three kids, ';alone time'; can be very precious.
get her flowers and a love card.
Gee, dude, all you have to do is go find a dollar store, and just get ';something'; - a pair of earrings, a bracelet, or a knicknack with a heart on it -- that's all it has to be. Give up buying yourself ONE coffee, and do that for her.
A small painting will be great. Starting from $99, see http://www.paintyourlife.com/
All you need is send them a pic of what you want and they deliver your painting to the door.
Karl
Take a day and pamper HER. Let her relax while you deal with the kids, clean the house, and cook dinner. Once dinner is over.. and the kids are in bed.. run her a nice bubble bath. Bring her a glass of whatever her favorite beverage is and allow her to just soak her troubles away. When she's done.. help her dry off and then give her a very romantic, sensual massage.(With some lotion or body oil).. Just cater to her. A lot of people are under the misconception that you have to buy a woman expensive things to make her happy. I'm a firm believer that the sweet memories last far longer than the material ones. Best of luck..
Pamper her . Cook her favorite meal. Run her a bubble bath %26amp; give her a head to toe massage.
A photo frame with a recent candid (not posed) shot of the two of you in it. Or, if she has a hobby or interest, get something small for that or a paperback.
Give her the night off. Cook her dinner, complete with candlelight and music. Give her a simple pedicure (soak her feet in scented water, massage them with lotion, and finish it off by painting her toenails). Make her a card. You can write a poem or just something heartfelt. You don't need to spend a lot of money to make your wife feel loved and special.
Get a babysitter overnight and spend the night making her feel loved. Cook her dinner. Watch movies. Stay up late. Give her a massage. Sleep in (which you surely don't get to do with kids around). She'll love it.
Burn a CD with both of your's favorite Love Songs and Cook her a Romatic Dinner for Two,with wine and candle light (send the children to the relatives) Buy a $5 bouquet of flowers with a card, Run her a nice Bubble Bath with candles lit all around it and then wash her back. Then just Cuddle up a watch her Favourite Movie. That should be Economical yet Romantic enough.
i don't know how young your kids are but my husband had the kids make me a card with there own notes in it and for the baby her foot and hand prints and they made me dinner. i loved it so much and i am a young mom just like her.
cookng her dinner will make a woman very happy
send the kids on a day out or something and u have a magival evening jus the two of u... turn the eveing or afternon for her. ccok for her have candle and soft music and jut really romantic. u can watch some movies or give a full treatment spa- back rub, massage, foor rub the total at home package!!!!!!!!!!!
You've probaly heard of Bath and Body Works. Though some of the stuff there is really pricey, they're always having sales and women love sweet smelling stuff. Stop by there or maybe go to Godiva Chocolates. Buying her something sweet and fancy is a good idea. If not, try getting her some music she likes or even a book!
And tell her I said Happy Birthday!
This was once done for me and was the best gift ever....
I came home after a long week at work. My husband was in the kitchen making dinner and told me to go upstairs and get comfortable while he finished cooking. I got to the top of the stairs and there was rose petals leading into the bathroom where he had just finished running a hot bath with rose petals in the tub. On the ledge of the tub were candles, strawberries and a glass of wine. After my luxurious bath, I went to the bedroom and found a new nightgown laid out on the bed. When I went downstairs, he had the table set with candles and flowers with soft music in the background. Not only was it inexpensive, but also the most romantic and relaxing evening of my life!
I would suggest going to Walmart for candles, nightie and any other items as they have a nice selection at resqnable prices!
Good luck!
Here's the most cost effective gift you can give her and it's guaranteed to make both of you happy! Find a babysitter, clean the house, cook dinner, and give her a nice massage. Not only will she adore you for the time out from the house work and the kids, but she'll love the pampering! Who knows maybe you'll even get lucky. Good Luck!
Send her out to visit someone. Clean the house, put the kids to bed, light some candles. Then, run her a bath, rub her whole body and have great sex with the focus being on her. Before and /or afterward, spend some time cuddling and talking.
If you want to add a bit more, check out your local dollar store for bath accessories and candles etc. Some of the stuff they carry is awesome, just smell it first.
Do you have a friend with a digital camera? If so, get the kids all together at a park or somewhere nice and have your firend snap a few family shots of all of you. Wal-Mart or Target has ';Memory Frames'; where it holds the picture in the middle and you can write a message around the border. Get a family picture in the middle and then write a special message to your wife for her B' Day and put your kids handprints around the border. Should all be less that $20, but the keepsake will be worth a lot more!
The Best thing my husband ever game me was he made a CD of all the songs that reminded him of me and writing a letter to her telling her how special she is to you.....homemade presents are always the best they come from the heart.....Women advice on what to buy?
Find a babysitter and take your wife out on a picnic by a river or lake. With three kids, ';alone time'; can be very precious.
get her flowers and a love card.
Gee, dude, all you have to do is go find a dollar store, and just get ';something'; - a pair of earrings, a bracelet, or a knicknack with a heart on it -- that's all it has to be. Give up buying yourself ONE coffee, and do that for her.
A small painting will be great. Starting from $99, see http://www.paintyourlife.com/
All you need is send them a pic of what you want and they deliver your painting to the door.
Karl
Take a day and pamper HER. Let her relax while you deal with the kids, clean the house, and cook dinner. Once dinner is over.. and the kids are in bed.. run her a nice bubble bath. Bring her a glass of whatever her favorite beverage is and allow her to just soak her troubles away. When she's done.. help her dry off and then give her a very romantic, sensual massage.(With some lotion or body oil).. Just cater to her. A lot of people are under the misconception that you have to buy a woman expensive things to make her happy. I'm a firm believer that the sweet memories last far longer than the material ones. Best of luck..
Pamper her . Cook her favorite meal. Run her a bubble bath %26amp; give her a head to toe massage.
A photo frame with a recent candid (not posed) shot of the two of you in it. Or, if she has a hobby or interest, get something small for that or a paperback.
Give her the night off. Cook her dinner, complete with candlelight and music. Give her a simple pedicure (soak her feet in scented water, massage them with lotion, and finish it off by painting her toenails). Make her a card. You can write a poem or just something heartfelt. You don't need to spend a lot of money to make your wife feel loved and special.
Get a babysitter overnight and spend the night making her feel loved. Cook her dinner. Watch movies. Stay up late. Give her a massage. Sleep in (which you surely don't get to do with kids around). She'll love it.
Burn a CD with both of your's favorite Love Songs and Cook her a Romatic Dinner for Two,with wine and candle light (send the children to the relatives) Buy a $5 bouquet of flowers with a card, Run her a nice Bubble Bath with candles lit all around it and then wash her back. Then just Cuddle up a watch her Favourite Movie. That should be Economical yet Romantic enough.
i don't know how young your kids are but my husband had the kids make me a card with there own notes in it and for the baby her foot and hand prints and they made me dinner. i loved it so much and i am a young mom just like her.
cookng her dinner will make a woman very happy
send the kids on a day out or something and u have a magival evening jus the two of u... turn the eveing or afternon for her. ccok for her have candle and soft music and jut really romantic. u can watch some movies or give a full treatment spa- back rub, massage, foor rub the total at home package!!!!!!!!!!!
You've probaly heard of Bath and Body Works. Though some of the stuff there is really pricey, they're always having sales and women love sweet smelling stuff. Stop by there or maybe go to Godiva Chocolates. Buying her something sweet and fancy is a good idea. If not, try getting her some music she likes or even a book!
And tell her I said Happy Birthday!
This was once done for me and was the best gift ever....
I came home after a long week at work. My husband was in the kitchen making dinner and told me to go upstairs and get comfortable while he finished cooking. I got to the top of the stairs and there was rose petals leading into the bathroom where he had just finished running a hot bath with rose petals in the tub. On the ledge of the tub were candles, strawberries and a glass of wine. After my luxurious bath, I went to the bedroom and found a new nightgown laid out on the bed. When I went downstairs, he had the table set with candles and flowers with soft music in the background. Not only was it inexpensive, but also the most romantic and relaxing evening of my life!
I would suggest going to Walmart for candles, nightie and any other items as they have a nice selection at resqnable prices!
Good luck!
Here's the most cost effective gift you can give her and it's guaranteed to make both of you happy! Find a babysitter, clean the house, cook dinner, and give her a nice massage. Not only will she adore you for the time out from the house work and the kids, but she'll love the pampering! Who knows maybe you'll even get lucky. Good Luck!
Send her out to visit someone. Clean the house, put the kids to bed, light some candles. Then, run her a bath, rub her whole body and have great sex with the focus being on her. Before and /or afterward, spend some time cuddling and talking.
If you want to add a bit more, check out your local dollar store for bath accessories and candles etc. Some of the stuff they carry is awesome, just smell it first.
Do you have a friend with a digital camera? If so, get the kids all together at a park or somewhere nice and have your firend snap a few family shots of all of you. Wal-Mart or Target has ';Memory Frames'; where it holds the picture in the middle and you can write a message around the border. Get a family picture in the middle and then write a special message to your wife for her B' Day and put your kids handprints around the border. Should all be less that $20, but the keepsake will be worth a lot more!
Marital advice from women please?
I'm making a scrap book for a friend of mine. She's getting married, and one of the sections is called ';Woman to Woman: Word to the Wise,'; and I'm collecting advice from married women.. Little clips like ';Pick your battles,'; etc. Any input would be greatly appriciated, and please leave your name, as well, and (if you don't mind) the number of years you have been married. Even if it's only one year, that's helpful- it will allow her to relate. And if it's fifty years- it will give her something to look forward to. Thanks!Marital advice from women please?
This is the advice my darling grandmother gave me about marriage. Her name was Julia and she was happily married for 45 years before becoming a widow.
';Never let him eat his mistakes more then once';Marital advice from women please?
Show your spouse love and respect every day, never step on his feelings to validate your own. keep him sexually satisfied so that he is not tempted to cheat. let him have his guy time away from you. trust me he needs guy time as much as you need girl time. keep him on his toes and show him your strength so that you never become a door mat. if you want him to remember a special day make a point of reminding him constantly when the day approaches so he can be ready for it. make it easy for him to pick a gift for birthday, anniversary, and mothers day...just give him a list of things that would make your day to receive on those days and let him work his magic. don't make him guess when you are angry at him. let him know what he did so that you can get to the make up sex faster. and whether you work or stay at home never make him feel he is not good enough.
oh that's such a cute idea!!!
Don't go to bed mad.
The first year is the hardest-but it's worth it:)
In dating you have good days and bad days-in marriage you have good years and bad years.
Don't sweat the small stuff.
Keep dating each other-keep being spontaneous.
Give each other the time and space to miss each other once in a while.
Communication is key!
My favorite house rule-no conversation before coffee:)
married 4 years
Communication is key.
Live, love and laugh together.
Marriage is for a lifetime and divorce is not an option, if it's broken let's fix it.
Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
Never bring up mistakes from the past.
No go to sleep or leave home mad.
When you do something wrong, be ready to admit it.
Always say I love you before you leave.
This one goes along with ';choosing your battles wisely';.
';Sometimes you just have to bite your tongue';
also
';fight fair, no name calling or bringing up the past';
Angelina
Married 8 1/2 years
Always allow him, time to spend with his male friends. So long as it is not too much and he respects you and the marriage.
2.5 years and counting.
';Never go to bed mad';
Amber
2 years
Be the woman he would want to marry again every day.
Also ';she who sends her husband to the doghouse will eventually find him in a cathouse.';
Lovely idea for a gift. Wish I`d thought of that. Here`s my input.
In wedding, we comes before I.
Love conquers all.
Nine years wed. x
While I am obviously not a woman, let me offer up one.
';Put his needs before yours, and ask him to put yours before his.';
See him for who he really is, not for who you want him to be
Mrs. Robinson....not married anymore but this quote is why. You cant lie to yourself and i think its pretty good advise :)philosophy
This is the advice my darling grandmother gave me about marriage. Her name was Julia and she was happily married for 45 years before becoming a widow.
';Never let him eat his mistakes more then once';Marital advice from women please?
Show your spouse love and respect every day, never step on his feelings to validate your own. keep him sexually satisfied so that he is not tempted to cheat. let him have his guy time away from you. trust me he needs guy time as much as you need girl time. keep him on his toes and show him your strength so that you never become a door mat. if you want him to remember a special day make a point of reminding him constantly when the day approaches so he can be ready for it. make it easy for him to pick a gift for birthday, anniversary, and mothers day...just give him a list of things that would make your day to receive on those days and let him work his magic. don't make him guess when you are angry at him. let him know what he did so that you can get to the make up sex faster. and whether you work or stay at home never make him feel he is not good enough.
oh that's such a cute idea!!!
Don't go to bed mad.
The first year is the hardest-but it's worth it:)
In dating you have good days and bad days-in marriage you have good years and bad years.
Don't sweat the small stuff.
Keep dating each other-keep being spontaneous.
Give each other the time and space to miss each other once in a while.
Communication is key!
My favorite house rule-no conversation before coffee:)
married 4 years
Communication is key.
Live, love and laugh together.
Marriage is for a lifetime and divorce is not an option, if it's broken let's fix it.
Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
Never bring up mistakes from the past.
No go to sleep or leave home mad.
When you do something wrong, be ready to admit it.
Always say I love you before you leave.
This one goes along with ';choosing your battles wisely';.
';Sometimes you just have to bite your tongue';
also
';fight fair, no name calling or bringing up the past';
Angelina
Married 8 1/2 years
Always allow him, time to spend with his male friends. So long as it is not too much and he respects you and the marriage.
2.5 years and counting.
';Never go to bed mad';
Amber
2 years
Be the woman he would want to marry again every day.
Also ';she who sends her husband to the doghouse will eventually find him in a cathouse.';
Lovely idea for a gift. Wish I`d thought of that. Here`s my input.
In wedding, we comes before I.
Love conquers all.
Nine years wed. x
While I am obviously not a woman, let me offer up one.
';Put his needs before yours, and ask him to put yours before his.';
See him for who he really is, not for who you want him to be
Mrs. Robinson....not married anymore but this quote is why. You cant lie to yourself and i think its pretty good advise :)
Men and women advice- how do you know you are in love? women ? men?
I just didn't look at other guys anymore. I used to have a major thing for Antonio Banderas, but now I don't care about him at all. I don't even have a desire to check other guys out. And after almost three years together (married five months), I still get short of breath when he walks into a room.Men and women advice- how do you know you are in love? women ? men?
your heart will tell you
no body can advise you
if you still need advise then you are not in love
so easyMen and women advice- how do you know you are in love? women ? men?
Because the person is EVERYTHING to you in your life, you couldnt live without them-seriously. You would die for them if needed, you put them before your own needs, their happiness is most important, you think of them 24/7, you want to be with them 24/7. I could go on but Ill save space
This may sound strange and kind of silly, but the way I determined whether or not a woman was relationship material was if I could see myself spending the entire day with her at Disneyland! I know it sounds ridiculous, but it's true. Reason being is that most of the women I dated were lots of fun to go out to dinner with, have cocktails with, and sleep with! But if I could honestly see myself spending the ENTIRE DAY with them at Disneyland, going on rides, eating carnival food, holding hands, smiling at families, eating hamburgers in some coffee shop at 1am, and then giving each other foot rubs when we got back to her place or my place, then I knew there was long term potential! So ultimately I wouldn't even ASK a woman to go with me to Disneyland unless I had strong feelings for her. I know I know, sounds ridiculous! But it's true!
FYI: My wife and I went to Disneyland for our 2nd date!
When you don't have to ask how to tell you're in love. You just know.
Its like utopia haha. Ok really, you just know.
I know because I can feel it in my gut, almost like I want to vomit. (sounds degusting huh?) But at the same time I think its when you also trust and respect the other person.
Otherwise love gets confused with lust, or infatuation. Both come out looking more like obsession with a person than love. The ';I can't live with out them';, or ';They make me complete, with out them I would be nothing';. When people think like that I view it as infactuation not love. They are not in love with the other person, they are in love with how that other person makes them feel about themselves. Thus the need and bad self esteem....
your heart will tell you
no body can advise you
if you still need advise then you are not in love
so easyMen and women advice- how do you know you are in love? women ? men?
Because the person is EVERYTHING to you in your life, you couldnt live without them-seriously. You would die for them if needed, you put them before your own needs, their happiness is most important, you think of them 24/7, you want to be with them 24/7. I could go on but Ill save space
This may sound strange and kind of silly, but the way I determined whether or not a woman was relationship material was if I could see myself spending the entire day with her at Disneyland! I know it sounds ridiculous, but it's true. Reason being is that most of the women I dated were lots of fun to go out to dinner with, have cocktails with, and sleep with! But if I could honestly see myself spending the ENTIRE DAY with them at Disneyland, going on rides, eating carnival food, holding hands, smiling at families, eating hamburgers in some coffee shop at 1am, and then giving each other foot rubs when we got back to her place or my place, then I knew there was long term potential! So ultimately I wouldn't even ASK a woman to go with me to Disneyland unless I had strong feelings for her. I know I know, sounds ridiculous! But it's true!
FYI: My wife and I went to Disneyland for our 2nd date!
When you don't have to ask how to tell you're in love. You just know.
Its like utopia haha. Ok really, you just know.
I know because I can feel it in my gut, almost like I want to vomit. (sounds degusting huh?) But at the same time I think its when you also trust and respect the other person.
Otherwise love gets confused with lust, or infatuation. Both come out looking more like obsession with a person than love. The ';I can't live with out them';, or ';They make me complete, with out them I would be nothing';. When people think like that I view it as infactuation not love. They are not in love with the other person, they are in love with how that other person makes them feel about themselves. Thus the need and bad self esteem....
I'm writing a play for Women's History month and I need advice?
Which women of history would you like to see featured in a play? This is going to be an informative play for a local Girl's Inc club. Our local AAUW group is performing it for young girls. For me, the hardest part is picking which women get to be featured.I'm writing a play for Women's History month and I need advice?
Gloria Steinhem
*Eleanor Roosevelt
*Catherine the Great (of Russa)
Tina Turner
*Tz'u-hsi
Queen Victoria
Helen Keller
Harriet Tubman
Susan B; Anthony
Maragret Sanger
Sandra Day O' Conner
Shirley Chisholm
*Josephine Baker
*Eva Peron (Evita)
*Billie Holiday
Margaret Thatcher
Bessie Smith
Helen Gurly Brown
Katherine Hepburn
Greta Garbo
Toni Morrison
*Maya Angelou
*Interesting Choices....but it doesn't always mean their backgrounds are squeeky clean :DI'm writing a play for Women's History month and I need advice?
You should include Harriet Tubman, Susan B. Anthony, Florence Nightingale, and Marie Currie.
How about Mary Walker? She was a doctor with the Union during the ACW and as far as I'm aware she is still the only woman to have ever won the Congressional Medal of Honor. Which Congress wrongly took away from her in 1917 but which was posthumously returned in 1977.
Then there's Sarah Josepha Hale, the editor from 1827-1836 of Ladies Magazine and editor from 1837-1877 of Godey's Lady Book. Hale is also partly responsible for the US's modern Thanksgiving, she petitioned Zachary Taylor, Millard Filmore, Franklin Pierce, James Buchanan, and finally Abraham Lincoln for the institution of Thanksgiving as a national holiday. Of those five presidents only Lincoln took her seriously. She helped to raise money for a monument to be placed on Bunker Hill and pushed for the preservation of Mount Vernon.
From there, how about Valentina Tereshkova. In 1963 she became the first woman in space. In 1962 she was selected for the cosmonaut program. Though originally slated to fly aboard Vostok 5, she was pushed back to Vostok 6 and would remain the only woman to have flown in space for the next 19 years despite other female cosmonauts having been trained at the same time as she was.
Gloria Steinhem
*Eleanor Roosevelt
*Catherine the Great (of Russa)
Tina Turner
*Tz'u-hsi
Queen Victoria
Helen Keller
Harriet Tubman
Susan B; Anthony
Maragret Sanger
Sandra Day O' Conner
Shirley Chisholm
*Josephine Baker
*Eva Peron (Evita)
*Billie Holiday
Margaret Thatcher
Bessie Smith
Helen Gurly Brown
Katherine Hepburn
Greta Garbo
Toni Morrison
*Maya Angelou
*Interesting Choices....but it doesn't always mean their backgrounds are squeeky clean :DI'm writing a play for Women's History month and I need advice?
You should include Harriet Tubman, Susan B. Anthony, Florence Nightingale, and Marie Currie.
How about Mary Walker? She was a doctor with the Union during the ACW and as far as I'm aware she is still the only woman to have ever won the Congressional Medal of Honor. Which Congress wrongly took away from her in 1917 but which was posthumously returned in 1977.
Then there's Sarah Josepha Hale, the editor from 1827-1836 of Ladies Magazine and editor from 1837-1877 of Godey's Lady Book. Hale is also partly responsible for the US's modern Thanksgiving, she petitioned Zachary Taylor, Millard Filmore, Franklin Pierce, James Buchanan, and finally Abraham Lincoln for the institution of Thanksgiving as a national holiday. Of those five presidents only Lincoln took her seriously. She helped to raise money for a monument to be placed on Bunker Hill and pushed for the preservation of Mount Vernon.
From there, how about Valentina Tereshkova. In 1963 she became the first woman in space. In 1962 she was selected for the cosmonaut program. Though originally slated to fly aboard Vostok 5, she was pushed back to Vostok 6 and would remain the only woman to have flown in space for the next 19 years despite other female cosmonauts having been trained at the same time as she was.
I need to gain weight and I need Advice on meals/snacks to eat and what protein bars are good for women. I am?
18 5'3 and recovering from anorexia. I am on a 2500-3000 meal plan right nowI need to gain weight and I need Advice on meals/snacks to eat and what protein bars are good for women. I am?
Hey. Im also in recovery from anorexia. Im on a 3000 meal plan too :] Ive been eating a lot of nuts, granola, lean meats, eggs, whey protein shakes. I also have been eating greek yogurt and cheese. Ive been drinking soy milk, and fruit juices instead of water so I can get more calories in. A lot of vegetables sauteed in olive oil. Also a lot of calorie dense fruits like large bananas. I also love a lot of brown rice or sweet or baked potatoes. Wheat pasta is also good. For protein bars you can try Luna bars by Clif. Or Lara bars they are so delicious. I've gained 6 pounds so far :] Good luck.I need to gain weight and I need Advice on meals/snacks to eat and what protein bars are good for women. I am?
I am also in recovery for my eating disorder, so I hope that I can help. Luna bars are great (180 calories each, and they taste very good), and you might also like Kashi GoLean bars (280 calories each), or Clif bars (250 calories each).
If you're having difficulty eating enough calories, you might also want to try Ensure or Boost shakes. If you like smoothies or milkshakes, you could consider making them using milk, ice cream or yogurt and fruit or flavorings.
It will probably be easiest for you to eat calorie-dense foods, and to include a few snacks in your day so that you're not overwhelmed by eating a large plate of food, and instead you're able to split it up throughout the day.
Here are some ideas for meals and snacks:
-avocado dip or hummus with crackers
-bagel with peanut butter
-whole milk yogurt with granola
-trail mix
-oatmeal with milk and dried fruits
-ice cream (not reduced fat or light)
-salmon with stuffing
-sandwich with cheese and meat or vegetable/grilled cheese sandwich
-bean burrito
-omelette with real eggs (don't exclude the yolks), cheese and meat
Hope that some of these ideas helped, and good luck with your recovery.
Hey. Im also in recovery from anorexia. Im on a 3000 meal plan too :] Ive been eating a lot of nuts, granola, lean meats, eggs, whey protein shakes. I also have been eating greek yogurt and cheese. Ive been drinking soy milk, and fruit juices instead of water so I can get more calories in. A lot of vegetables sauteed in olive oil. Also a lot of calorie dense fruits like large bananas. I also love a lot of brown rice or sweet or baked potatoes. Wheat pasta is also good. For protein bars you can try Luna bars by Clif. Or Lara bars they are so delicious. I've gained 6 pounds so far :] Good luck.I need to gain weight and I need Advice on meals/snacks to eat and what protein bars are good for women. I am?
I am also in recovery for my eating disorder, so I hope that I can help. Luna bars are great (180 calories each, and they taste very good), and you might also like Kashi GoLean bars (280 calories each), or Clif bars (250 calories each).
If you're having difficulty eating enough calories, you might also want to try Ensure or Boost shakes. If you like smoothies or milkshakes, you could consider making them using milk, ice cream or yogurt and fruit or flavorings.
It will probably be easiest for you to eat calorie-dense foods, and to include a few snacks in your day so that you're not overwhelmed by eating a large plate of food, and instead you're able to split it up throughout the day.
Here are some ideas for meals and snacks:
-avocado dip or hummus with crackers
-bagel with peanut butter
-whole milk yogurt with granola
-trail mix
-oatmeal with milk and dried fruits
-ice cream (not reduced fat or light)
-salmon with stuffing
-sandwich with cheese and meat or vegetable/grilled cheese sandwich
-bean burrito
-omelette with real eggs (don't exclude the yolks), cheese and meat
Hope that some of these ideas helped, and good luck with your recovery.
Need some men and women advice?
i have liked someone for quite some time now, and i thought i was liked back...but just found out that he is going out with a close friend of mine.... before this my friend (the one that is dating the guy) was always encouraging me to make a move or give him a hint that i liked his as she keps saying she is not interestied in him so i was free to do what i wanted... yesterday i found out that they r planning their engagement party... i am not hurt but very anoyed... what shall i do with the friendship i have with them?Need some men and women advice?
i guess u just get on with your life
be happy for them
love makes u blind so maybe they didnt know what they were doing specially when she was encouraging u to make a move
forgive and forget :)Need some men and women advice?
How close did you actually think this friend of yours was? Keep your friends close and enemies closer is what this ';friend'; of yours was thinking. Dump both of them as friends immediately!
If you can, let it go. Maybe your friend didn't like the guy at the time she told you so. Maybe it's something that just happened and was not done to hurt you. If she is a good friend, than just be happy for them and move on. If you never actually dated the guy, it doesn't seem worth ruining the friendship over. You will probably just come across as being jealous of their happiness. He obviously wasn't the right guy for you, anyway. Someday, when you find your soul mate, you will be glad it wasn't.
love is a strange thing and ppl can not help if they fall in love. mind she sould have told you! but do not break up about it
it is obvious that he has made his choice. if he really liked you he would have went out with you and not with your friend, and he also wouldnt have waited for you to make the first move as im sure your friend didnt make the first move to be with him. if anyone is at fault her it is your friend. first of all she wasnt honest with her feelings. she is a hypocrit because she said she didnt like him and now they are planning their engagement party. now how does that make sense. but you shouldnt have any hard feeling towards anyone. let them go on with their lives, just reconsider your friendship.
First of all,the cow was setting you up to get your feelings torn down.She is not what I would call afriend.Some girls do that.they are going with guys secretly but they encourage others to seek him.It makes them feel sexier when the guy turns the other girl down.But in some cases,they do that to see if the guy would actually try and cheat.I even found girls that liked the idea of the friends sleeping with a guy and not knowing that she is sharing him with her.thats nasty to have your friend discuss sex with the guy when you are already sneeking with him,
wow!
dont be there friends anymore...
you have every right to be annoyed. She lied to your face then stomped on it. She had no right to encourge you to make a move if she was planning a marrige with. And if you want to be hurt you've got the right.
She doesn't sound like a very good friend to me. i would only be friends with them, not best friends. Or even not friends at all.
what a stinker. distance yourself from both of them
Two choices .. hold your head up and get her a great gift from her bridal registry ( people don't always expect to fall in love ), or avoid them both.
So she was trying to make you jellous. Kind of rude and crock way to do it even.
I would forget them and move on. Life is complicated enaugh without that kind of ';friends';.
huh !! ur friend's a lunatic she hates u.
Forget about friendship it does not sound like you had one! Thats so out of order.Your better off with out them!!
be super cool and sweet special the kind person you are and wish them the best hope they will be truly happy
make your own moves don't trust so much no one but your pillow
theres plenty of fish on the sea
forget it. It seems to me that your ';friend'; was leading you up the garden path, and in all probability laughing at you behind your back with her fiancee!
Who needs enemies when you have friends like her? Trust me move on, chalk it down to experience and organise a wicked night out for yourself on the night of their engagement party. Chances are you'll meet a nice guy and in no time you'll be planning you own engagement party!
just make them miserable, by having your head up high
I would be hurt. Are they close friends? That would make it worse. But just wondering how they are planning an engagement and you are just finding out about it now. It sounds like you aren't in the loop and maybe you should just give them both space for your own wellbeing. Find some new friends to hang with for a while and maybe a new love interest.
i guess u just get on with your life
be happy for them
love makes u blind so maybe they didnt know what they were doing specially when she was encouraging u to make a move
forgive and forget :)Need some men and women advice?
How close did you actually think this friend of yours was? Keep your friends close and enemies closer is what this ';friend'; of yours was thinking. Dump both of them as friends immediately!
If you can, let it go. Maybe your friend didn't like the guy at the time she told you so. Maybe it's something that just happened and was not done to hurt you. If she is a good friend, than just be happy for them and move on. If you never actually dated the guy, it doesn't seem worth ruining the friendship over. You will probably just come across as being jealous of their happiness. He obviously wasn't the right guy for you, anyway. Someday, when you find your soul mate, you will be glad it wasn't.
love is a strange thing and ppl can not help if they fall in love. mind she sould have told you! but do not break up about it
it is obvious that he has made his choice. if he really liked you he would have went out with you and not with your friend, and he also wouldnt have waited for you to make the first move as im sure your friend didnt make the first move to be with him. if anyone is at fault her it is your friend. first of all she wasnt honest with her feelings. she is a hypocrit because she said she didnt like him and now they are planning their engagement party. now how does that make sense. but you shouldnt have any hard feeling towards anyone. let them go on with their lives, just reconsider your friendship.
First of all,the cow was setting you up to get your feelings torn down.She is not what I would call afriend.Some girls do that.they are going with guys secretly but they encourage others to seek him.It makes them feel sexier when the guy turns the other girl down.But in some cases,they do that to see if the guy would actually try and cheat.I even found girls that liked the idea of the friends sleeping with a guy and not knowing that she is sharing him with her.thats nasty to have your friend discuss sex with the guy when you are already sneeking with him,
wow!
dont be there friends anymore...
you have every right to be annoyed. She lied to your face then stomped on it. She had no right to encourge you to make a move if she was planning a marrige with. And if you want to be hurt you've got the right.
She doesn't sound like a very good friend to me. i would only be friends with them, not best friends. Or even not friends at all.
what a stinker. distance yourself from both of them
Two choices .. hold your head up and get her a great gift from her bridal registry ( people don't always expect to fall in love ), or avoid them both.
So she was trying to make you jellous. Kind of rude and crock way to do it even.
I would forget them and move on. Life is complicated enaugh without that kind of ';friends';.
huh !! ur friend's a lunatic she hates u.
Forget about friendship it does not sound like you had one! Thats so out of order.Your better off with out them!!
be super cool and sweet special the kind person you are and wish them the best hope they will be truly happy
make your own moves don't trust so much no one but your pillow
theres plenty of fish on the sea
forget it. It seems to me that your ';friend'; was leading you up the garden path, and in all probability laughing at you behind your back with her fiancee!
Who needs enemies when you have friends like her? Trust me move on, chalk it down to experience and organise a wicked night out for yourself on the night of their engagement party. Chances are you'll meet a nice guy and in no time you'll be planning you own engagement party!
just make them miserable, by having your head up high
I would be hurt. Are they close friends? That would make it worse. But just wondering how they are planning an engagement and you are just finding out about it now. It sounds like you aren't in the loop and maybe you should just give them both space for your own wellbeing. Find some new friends to hang with for a while and maybe a new love interest.
All the mother's on the board what advice would you give pregnant women?
There's a lot of questions and advice on this board so what information or advice would you give to pregnant women?All the mother's on the board what advice would you give pregnant women?
remember being a parent is not something your born knowing how to do ...its something you learn ...either from your parents...or from whatever means you were taught...it doesnt always mean its the right way... you learn your way... but never be afraid to ask for advice ...and never lie to your children...and communication is the most important part of any relationship... never show judgement ...only willingness to disscuss... and your children will never be afraid to come to you no matter how small or large the problem.... i have this type of relationship with my children ...they come to me about any problem ..from sex..relationships..anything that bothers them ...and know i will be unbiased...if they are wrong i will say that is what i think ..and explain why ...... enjoy them they arent little for longAll the mother's on the board what advice would you give pregnant women?
eat healthy, take your prenatal vitamins (folic acid is especially important), don't drink, smoke, or take drugs ...
Dont ever try to get your teeth pulled.
If you are having morning sickness or afternoon sickness or all day sickness, take heart. It usually subsides by the end of the third month. Seven up and a soda cracker sometimes helps. Eat regular meals a day but don't overeat. Eat healthy, well balanced meals, take a multivitamin or prenatal vitamin daily. Get plenty of rest. Zero caffeine, alcohol, smoking or drugs is best. Avoid aspirin, take tylenol if headache. Exercise and yoga are good during pregnancy but do not overdo it. Avoid stress, as far as possible. Avoid prolonged sitting in a car. Go to La Maze class to learn how to breathe during labor. Read books on baby and child care. Have fun planning the baby room and get all the baby things ready no later than a month before you are due. Babies often come earlier than expected. Congratulations! This is only the beginning of an incredible journey.
absolutely do NOT drink while pregnant! Your child can get Fetal Alcohol Syndrome from just one drink and be neurologically impaired for the rest of his/her life.
Don't smoke or drink alcohol. Eat a green thing everyday. Stay away from nuclear waste and don't drink the tap water if you go to Mexico.
What whirlwind said....yea yea yea
get ready for a new wild ride
Do not take HOT baths. Do not wear tight clothes. Get all the sleep you can. Don't worry yourself too much about the future, take it one day at a time. Relax, breathe, enjoy the moments. Get all the sleep you can :) when the baby comes, no matter how dirty the house is, who needs to be called or what needs to be done, sleep when the baby sleeps. Dont fight the sleep schedule. instead follow it. and above all love yourself no matter what your belly and body look like from being pregnant.
p.s. get all the sleep you can.
those 9 months are pure hell
www.babyzone.com . If you take time to explore this site they have info on anything you could possibly imagine from pregnancy on..
http://www.homemakingcottage.com/mother/鈥?/a>
eat heathly, get penlty of bed rest, and do not do alot of lifting of ect.
remember being a parent is not something your born knowing how to do ...its something you learn ...either from your parents...or from whatever means you were taught...it doesnt always mean its the right way... you learn your way... but never be afraid to ask for advice ...and never lie to your children...and communication is the most important part of any relationship... never show judgement ...only willingness to disscuss... and your children will never be afraid to come to you no matter how small or large the problem.... i have this type of relationship with my children ...they come to me about any problem ..from sex..relationships..anything that bothers them ...and know i will be unbiased...if they are wrong i will say that is what i think ..and explain why ...... enjoy them they arent little for longAll the mother's on the board what advice would you give pregnant women?
eat healthy, take your prenatal vitamins (folic acid is especially important), don't drink, smoke, or take drugs ...
Dont ever try to get your teeth pulled.
If you are having morning sickness or afternoon sickness or all day sickness, take heart. It usually subsides by the end of the third month. Seven up and a soda cracker sometimes helps. Eat regular meals a day but don't overeat. Eat healthy, well balanced meals, take a multivitamin or prenatal vitamin daily. Get plenty of rest. Zero caffeine, alcohol, smoking or drugs is best. Avoid aspirin, take tylenol if headache. Exercise and yoga are good during pregnancy but do not overdo it. Avoid stress, as far as possible. Avoid prolonged sitting in a car. Go to La Maze class to learn how to breathe during labor. Read books on baby and child care. Have fun planning the baby room and get all the baby things ready no later than a month before you are due. Babies often come earlier than expected. Congratulations! This is only the beginning of an incredible journey.
absolutely do NOT drink while pregnant! Your child can get Fetal Alcohol Syndrome from just one drink and be neurologically impaired for the rest of his/her life.
Don't smoke or drink alcohol. Eat a green thing everyday. Stay away from nuclear waste and don't drink the tap water if you go to Mexico.
What whirlwind said....yea yea yea
get ready for a new wild ride
Do not take HOT baths. Do not wear tight clothes. Get all the sleep you can. Don't worry yourself too much about the future, take it one day at a time. Relax, breathe, enjoy the moments. Get all the sleep you can :) when the baby comes, no matter how dirty the house is, who needs to be called or what needs to be done, sleep when the baby sleeps. Dont fight the sleep schedule. instead follow it. and above all love yourself no matter what your belly and body look like from being pregnant.
p.s. get all the sleep you can.
those 9 months are pure hell
www.babyzone.com . If you take time to explore this site they have info on anything you could possibly imagine from pregnancy on..
http://www.homemakingcottage.com/mother/鈥?/a>
eat heathly, get penlty of bed rest, and do not do alot of lifting of ect.
Men, I need some approaching advice towards women?
what do you have? I am very friendly and funny, I just always feel like I will come off as a pig if I give a girl compliments or ';just'; try to talk to her, so what is a good approach?Men, I need some approaching advice towards women?
.By being honest,sincere and open.becca
.By being honest,sincere and open.
Women advice, super emotional on period and?
always get emotional during my period..
and i really want to be with my husband more..
so when i can't see
Him i watch the movie the passion of the Christ because my Husband looks alot like Jim caviezel when He played Jesus..
Is that weird? it makes me feel better and helps my emotions..Women advice, super emotional on period and?
haha-sorry not trying to be funny. I never get overly emotional at all. I don't change anything at all just from a period. Actually, I always forget I have it.Women advice, super emotional on period and?
Well personally at a time when us women are on our periods lets just say we do get a little psycho lol ! an yes being more sexually Drivin during your cycle is common as well i get the same way on my cycle i cry about everything get pi$$ed off about everything, and because of the increased sex drive i get Very sexually frustrated its a Very sh*tty time for me an pretty much all women ! but the whole Passion of the christ thing s a little odd , but from what you have explained that the actor looks allot like your hubby that being said then that can be understood . If you are concerned with your behavior discuss it with your family physician he/she can advise you what to do about your ordeal
i also agree with the last anwser dont worry about your man he will love no matter what !
best wishes
Girl, just take u some midol tablets...u'll be ok, don't be so hard on urself, we all feel different when its that time of the month.
You will learn to deal with it, as time passes. as for ur husband, take it easy on him, ur still the same person. He loves u on ur period too.
and i really want to be with my husband more..
so when i can't see
Him i watch the movie the passion of the Christ because my Husband looks alot like Jim caviezel when He played Jesus..
Is that weird? it makes me feel better and helps my emotions..Women advice, super emotional on period and?
haha-sorry not trying to be funny. I never get overly emotional at all. I don't change anything at all just from a period. Actually, I always forget I have it.Women advice, super emotional on period and?
Well personally at a time when us women are on our periods lets just say we do get a little psycho lol ! an yes being more sexually Drivin during your cycle is common as well i get the same way on my cycle i cry about everything get pi$$ed off about everything, and because of the increased sex drive i get Very sexually frustrated its a Very sh*tty time for me an pretty much all women ! but the whole Passion of the christ thing s a little odd , but from what you have explained that the actor looks allot like your hubby that being said then that can be understood . If you are concerned with your behavior discuss it with your family physician he/she can advise you what to do about your ordeal
i also agree with the last anwser dont worry about your man he will love no matter what !
best wishes
Girl, just take u some midol tablets...u'll be ok, don't be so hard on urself, we all feel different when its that time of the month.
You will learn to deal with it, as time passes. as for ur husband, take it easy on him, ur still the same person. He loves u on ur period too.
Need women advice to understand woman talk?
What should I do?Need women advice to understand woman talk?
it means she is not ready for a relationship yet!
give her some time, because right now she is still trying to deal with her new ';single-ism';.
however, she may think of you as a friend.
she says she's on the manhater status, but i don't think she hates you
lol:) and be patient!Need women advice to understand woman talk?
It means she's interested, but she's letting you know up front that she's not ready to jump into a relationship. She probably got burned by her boyfriend, and is not into the idea of settling down anytime soon. But the good news is that she is still interested! Perhaps you can be the one to change her mind :)
It sounds like she must have been hurt by the last relationship she was in. Her using the ';lol!'; shows me she doesn't believe you mean what you say...maybe the last guy didn't follow through on his word.
She is definatley wanting you to know she is now single, and that she is now a manhater, but i'm a woman and i know that what she really wants is for a man to prove to her that all men are not all bad!
Good luck,
Sonia
It's pretty straightforward. I actually reread your question to see if you were actually asking what she meant. What she says is what she means.
';you're good. we can talk next time I see you. but I don't know how well that will go because I just broke up with my boyfriend and I now I'm not in the mood for guys.';
She is alright with talking to you, but she is not interested in dating you. She is using the excuse that she had a bad relationship split up recently, which may or may not be the truth.
Seems like she likes you but doesn't want to get into a relationship!
I don't think she is into you.
She just became single, you would only ever be a rebound.
it means she is not ready for a relationship yet!
give her some time, because right now she is still trying to deal with her new ';single-ism';.
however, she may think of you as a friend.
she says she's on the manhater status, but i don't think she hates you
lol:) and be patient!Need women advice to understand woman talk?
It means she's interested, but she's letting you know up front that she's not ready to jump into a relationship. She probably got burned by her boyfriend, and is not into the idea of settling down anytime soon. But the good news is that she is still interested! Perhaps you can be the one to change her mind :)
It sounds like she must have been hurt by the last relationship she was in. Her using the ';lol!'; shows me she doesn't believe you mean what you say...maybe the last guy didn't follow through on his word.
She is definatley wanting you to know she is now single, and that she is now a manhater, but i'm a woman and i know that what she really wants is for a man to prove to her that all men are not all bad!
Good luck,
Sonia
It's pretty straightforward. I actually reread your question to see if you were actually asking what she meant. What she says is what she means.
';you're good. we can talk next time I see you. but I don't know how well that will go because I just broke up with my boyfriend and I now I'm not in the mood for guys.';
She is alright with talking to you, but she is not interested in dating you. She is using the excuse that she had a bad relationship split up recently, which may or may not be the truth.
Seems like she likes you but doesn't want to get into a relationship!
I don't think she is into you.
She just became single, you would only ever be a rebound.
This is awkward, but I need advice from women, or knowledgable men...?
My wife recently gave birth to our second child, and so it had been a while since we were intimate. This is very embarrassing, but i don't think im pleasing her as well as i could be. I can make her orgasm, but i don't think it's as good for her as it should be. I want to please my wife, but I think I need some...tips.This is awkward, but I need advice from women, or knowledgable men...?
I agree with the previous answer. Hormones are very powerful and I doubt it has anything to do with your technique. Even after the first 6 wks., the body is going through huge adjustments and healing from the delivery--including sore, milk-engorged breasts and probably some body issues until her tummy snaps back into shape.
On top of that, caring for a newborn is very exhausting with round-the-clock feedings every hour or two, diaper changes, erratic sleep schedules, follow-up doctor visits, etc. And all of this is on top of regular household chores.
This is an exciting time for you both in starting a family, but it is also very exhausting. It is easy for the husband/dad to feel very left out, ignored or inadequate--but that is really NOT the case at all! Give it some time and try to help out with the baby as much as possible and understand that if you are really there for her and patient with the situation, her hormones will likely settle down and she'll be more responsive to you.
Don't forget to tell her that you love her and that you think she is beautiful, because with all her body changes, she might be a little insecure about whether you still think she's attractive. Good luck--it DOES get better! :-)This is awkward, but I need advice from women, or knowledgable men...?
just give her some time for her hormones and body to get back to normal, it could take up to a year. My baby is 5 months and my sex drive is still non existant, i feel sorry for my husband.
I agree with the previous answer. Hormones are very powerful and I doubt it has anything to do with your technique. Even after the first 6 wks., the body is going through huge adjustments and healing from the delivery--including sore, milk-engorged breasts and probably some body issues until her tummy snaps back into shape.
On top of that, caring for a newborn is very exhausting with round-the-clock feedings every hour or two, diaper changes, erratic sleep schedules, follow-up doctor visits, etc. And all of this is on top of regular household chores.
This is an exciting time for you both in starting a family, but it is also very exhausting. It is easy for the husband/dad to feel very left out, ignored or inadequate--but that is really NOT the case at all! Give it some time and try to help out with the baby as much as possible and understand that if you are really there for her and patient with the situation, her hormones will likely settle down and she'll be more responsive to you.
Don't forget to tell her that you love her and that you think she is beautiful, because with all her body changes, she might be a little insecure about whether you still think she's attractive. Good luck--it DOES get better! :-)This is awkward, but I need advice from women, or knowledgable men...?
just give her some time for her hormones and body to get back to normal, it could take up to a year. My baby is 5 months and my sex drive is still non existant, i feel sorry for my husband.
I need advice on what skinny women wear?
I dont know where to go OR what web site OR designer has skinny fashions available for me to VIEW. I am skinny and I dont like looking sickly. PLEASE NO COMMENT TO EAT!!! I DO EAT!!! I just need to know what would accent my best features and hide the bad ones for skinny women....I need advice on what skinny women wear?
well i would wear skinny jeans to show off my legs but on the top i would wear like a baby doll top or any other flowy topI need advice on what skinny women wear?
i would wear something that is tight on the bottom and sort of baggy or something that hangs as a top. it will look stylish and flatter your figure.
You might want 2 try runway samples that's what my aunt has 2 wear**bt she works n the fastion industy and has those kind of connections**
well i would wear skinny jeans to show off my legs but on the top i would wear like a baby doll top or any other flowy topI need advice on what skinny women wear?
i would wear something that is tight on the bottom and sort of baggy or something that hangs as a top. it will look stylish and flatter your figure.
You might want 2 try runway samples that's what my aunt has 2 wear**bt she works n the fastion industy and has those kind of connections**
Why men is to hard to listen to women advice?
Because women are usually right and that's a big problem where the ego is concerned.Why men is to hard to listen to women advice?
I hope you get some good answers. I'd like to know.
I always tell my boyfriend, he'd hear me nag a lot less, if he did what I asked!!Why men is to hard to listen to women advice?
if you talk like you write, it's no wonder they don't understand you.
some one asked, whats the best joke you ever heard on y/a?
i think you just did it.
because of their ego!
I hope you get some good answers. I'd like to know.
I always tell my boyfriend, he'd hear me nag a lot less, if he did what I asked!!Why men is to hard to listen to women advice?
if you talk like you write, it's no wonder they don't understand you.
some one asked, whats the best joke you ever heard on y/a?
i think you just did it.
because of their ego!
Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hello everyone,
I'm expecting #3 and due Sept 30th. My questions is,when giving birth to your 3rd etc.. child does your body handle the delivery process a lot better? I tore with my first two and needed 6 stitches with my 1st and needed 3 stitches with my 2nd.
I am dreading the tear =(
I'm just wondering if some women always tear or if it just happens in the first couple of children you give birth to?
Thank you very much for your time and your answers.Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
I have had three all natural births with only skin tearing, no muscle tearing no stitches, with the first birth and no damage at all from 2nd and 3rd. I have a very small frame and children with 14in heads. The amount of people who are 'just bound to tear' is medically very low. Most tearing is preventable. If the muscle is strong and flexible before labor from stretching and massage during pregnancy and if counterpressure and other slow controlled delivery techniques are used to ease the skin into it and if the mother can remember to relax that muscle only pushing from above during delivery the chances of remaining intact are very high. Granted you will be working with some scar tissue which doesn't stretch as much, but you can prepare all the skin around it to stretch enough to compensate with perineal massage. Here are some links on how to do it.
http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/鈥?/a> and http://www.birthingnaturally.net/cn/tech鈥?/a>
I did perineal massage during my first pregnancy only, using olive oil with a few capsules of Vitamin E sqeezed into it.. It's a little uncomfortable especially at first but I did see results and during labor I wished I had done it more. Something else that I'm sure helped me was while the baby was crowning my midwife applied counterpressure to the perineum. It was frustrating at the time but the patience paid off as it allowed the muscle time to stretch and adapt. Also, listening to her on when to stop pushing if it was coming too much too quickly, more than the muscle could handle at once. Talk to your midwife, or if you're having a doctor than consider hiring a doula to help in the hospital as the doctors don't usually do anything out of their own set procedure, about implementing some of the slow controlled delivery techniques. Whatever you do DON'T let them give you an episiotomy to ';prevent tearing';. Many episiotomies reult in further tearing and cuts have a longer and more painful healing process. Good luckAdvice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hey there,
I had a 3rd degree tear on top of an episiotomy with my first. With my second the Doctor did perineal massage (sounds weird and uncomfortable, but during labor almost anything goes!) and it helped tremendously. I only tore a little, no episiotomy, and the healing process was faster and there was a lot less pain that time. I am only 5 weeks with my third but I plan on attempting perineal massage again with this one during labor. I really think it made a big difference the last time and I really dread tearing again, too. Good luck!
with baby number 1, I needed almost 400 stitches, and with baby number 2, it was only 2 stitches. I had c-sections for babies 3 and 4, so I don't know about the tearing after baby number 2 personally... but my sister went into labor with her 3rd, ten minutes after she got to the hospital she gave birth, not a single tear, and a half an hour later was outside. From my understanding, each time you give birth it gets easier, and you most likely won't tear... and even if you do, you'll probably need only one or two stitches... which should heal up pretty quickly.
Good luck to you, I'm sure you won't tear at all.
I guess it depends on how big your baby is, i got maybe 3 stitches with my first, it got worse with me 2nd, she was too bif she tore me real bad, didn't get any with my third, i got 2 or 3 stitches with my fourt and i'm on my fifth due on June 3rd. So i guess it depends. Hey what can i say it happens, so don't worry so much everything will be fine :)
Good Luck!
I'm expecting #4 just a month after you!!! Congrats!
By way of your question...do you deliver quickly? It seems that if you have a ';normal'; delivery, your doctor should be able to ';stretch'; you or give you an episiotomy if he thought you'd tear!
My sister delivered an almost 10 pounder in 15 minutes with no drugs...she tore all the way UP! Ouch!
It seems that your 3 stitches is better than your 6, so maybe with this one you won't need any! You do stretch with each one, so I hoping this one will be easier for you!!!
With me...I had an episiotomy with my first. Didn't need one with either of my others. I think with each one it gets easier. I would expect to tear...that way you will be pleasantly surprised if you don't! Good luck to you!
I tore with my first, didn't tare with my second and he was more then a pound bigger then my first. My third is coming in about 7 weeks, and is expected to be more then 9lbs, so I hope I don't tare. The good thing was though that they numbed me BEFORE I tore. They numbed me again with something so that I would feel the tare if I did tare. I can't remmeber what it is called. It is something that they give you down there, not in your back. It's not an epidural, just a shot. Which I could remember what it was called. If I do then I'll edit this. Good thing is the labors generally get shorter though!
I tore bad with my third... I had an episiotomy (sp) with the first two... Labor wasn't any easier with the more children I had... I screamed just as loud, kicked just as many people... and squeezed my husband's hand ';off!'; The funny thing is, when I was pushing my third daughter's head out... I screamed ';MOMMY!'; like a little kid..... I don't know where the heck that came from.... After wards, I was like '; why in the world did I scream Mommy!!???'; Kind of embarrassing... It just came out..... :) Good luck Hun!!
I have 3 and one on the way. With my first two I had to have an episiotomy, with my third no tearing and no cutting it was much easier. Every pregnancy your body endures the pregnancy gets hard to handle but the labors get easier.
I have 3 children...
The 1st one I tore a whole lot and couldn't walk for 2 weeks...
The 2nd one I tore the tiniest bit but the doc said that red heads tend to bleed more so they gave me 1 stitch...
The 3rd time I needed no stitches or anything and was barely in pain!!
I hate to say it but some women just tear. I tore with all three of mine. Although the doctor was attempting to cut me before I tore and didn't make it in time. You might ask the doctor about that. Good luck.
I have 5 children and I have had episiotomys with all except the third, I tore with that one....Good Luck!
I have 8 kids, 6 were vaginal deliveries. I didn't tear after my first. Good Luck to you.
I hope not. I will deliver #3 in October. Good Luck!
i just needed stitches with my 1st one which is odd no.1 wieghed 6'9 no.2 wieghed 7'2,go figurebecca
I'm expecting #3 and due Sept 30th. My questions is,when giving birth to your 3rd etc.. child does your body handle the delivery process a lot better? I tore with my first two and needed 6 stitches with my 1st and needed 3 stitches with my 2nd.
I am dreading the tear =(
I'm just wondering if some women always tear or if it just happens in the first couple of children you give birth to?
Thank you very much for your time and your answers.Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
I have had three all natural births with only skin tearing, no muscle tearing no stitches, with the first birth and no damage at all from 2nd and 3rd. I have a very small frame and children with 14in heads. The amount of people who are 'just bound to tear' is medically very low. Most tearing is preventable. If the muscle is strong and flexible before labor from stretching and massage during pregnancy and if counterpressure and other slow controlled delivery techniques are used to ease the skin into it and if the mother can remember to relax that muscle only pushing from above during delivery the chances of remaining intact are very high. Granted you will be working with some scar tissue which doesn't stretch as much, but you can prepare all the skin around it to stretch enough to compensate with perineal massage. Here are some links on how to do it.
http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/鈥?/a> and http://www.birthingnaturally.net/cn/tech鈥?/a>
I did perineal massage during my first pregnancy only, using olive oil with a few capsules of Vitamin E sqeezed into it.. It's a little uncomfortable especially at first but I did see results and during labor I wished I had done it more. Something else that I'm sure helped me was while the baby was crowning my midwife applied counterpressure to the perineum. It was frustrating at the time but the patience paid off as it allowed the muscle time to stretch and adapt. Also, listening to her on when to stop pushing if it was coming too much too quickly, more than the muscle could handle at once. Talk to your midwife, or if you're having a doctor than consider hiring a doula to help in the hospital as the doctors don't usually do anything out of their own set procedure, about implementing some of the slow controlled delivery techniques. Whatever you do DON'T let them give you an episiotomy to ';prevent tearing';. Many episiotomies reult in further tearing and cuts have a longer and more painful healing process. Good luckAdvice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hey there,
I had a 3rd degree tear on top of an episiotomy with my first. With my second the Doctor did perineal massage (sounds weird and uncomfortable, but during labor almost anything goes!) and it helped tremendously. I only tore a little, no episiotomy, and the healing process was faster and there was a lot less pain that time. I am only 5 weeks with my third but I plan on attempting perineal massage again with this one during labor. I really think it made a big difference the last time and I really dread tearing again, too. Good luck!
with baby number 1, I needed almost 400 stitches, and with baby number 2, it was only 2 stitches. I had c-sections for babies 3 and 4, so I don't know about the tearing after baby number 2 personally... but my sister went into labor with her 3rd, ten minutes after she got to the hospital she gave birth, not a single tear, and a half an hour later was outside. From my understanding, each time you give birth it gets easier, and you most likely won't tear... and even if you do, you'll probably need only one or two stitches... which should heal up pretty quickly.
Good luck to you, I'm sure you won't tear at all.
I guess it depends on how big your baby is, i got maybe 3 stitches with my first, it got worse with me 2nd, she was too bif she tore me real bad, didn't get any with my third, i got 2 or 3 stitches with my fourt and i'm on my fifth due on June 3rd. So i guess it depends. Hey what can i say it happens, so don't worry so much everything will be fine :)
Good Luck!
I'm expecting #4 just a month after you!!! Congrats!
By way of your question...do you deliver quickly? It seems that if you have a ';normal'; delivery, your doctor should be able to ';stretch'; you or give you an episiotomy if he thought you'd tear!
My sister delivered an almost 10 pounder in 15 minutes with no drugs...she tore all the way UP! Ouch!
It seems that your 3 stitches is better than your 6, so maybe with this one you won't need any! You do stretch with each one, so I hoping this one will be easier for you!!!
With me...I had an episiotomy with my first. Didn't need one with either of my others. I think with each one it gets easier. I would expect to tear...that way you will be pleasantly surprised if you don't! Good luck to you!
I tore with my first, didn't tare with my second and he was more then a pound bigger then my first. My third is coming in about 7 weeks, and is expected to be more then 9lbs, so I hope I don't tare. The good thing was though that they numbed me BEFORE I tore. They numbed me again with something so that I would feel the tare if I did tare. I can't remmeber what it is called. It is something that they give you down there, not in your back. It's not an epidural, just a shot. Which I could remember what it was called. If I do then I'll edit this. Good thing is the labors generally get shorter though!
I tore bad with my third... I had an episiotomy (sp) with the first two... Labor wasn't any easier with the more children I had... I screamed just as loud, kicked just as many people... and squeezed my husband's hand ';off!'; The funny thing is, when I was pushing my third daughter's head out... I screamed ';MOMMY!'; like a little kid..... I don't know where the heck that came from.... After wards, I was like '; why in the world did I scream Mommy!!???'; Kind of embarrassing... It just came out..... :) Good luck Hun!!
I have 3 and one on the way. With my first two I had to have an episiotomy, with my third no tearing and no cutting it was much easier. Every pregnancy your body endures the pregnancy gets hard to handle but the labors get easier.
I have 3 children...
The 1st one I tore a whole lot and couldn't walk for 2 weeks...
The 2nd one I tore the tiniest bit but the doc said that red heads tend to bleed more so they gave me 1 stitch...
The 3rd time I needed no stitches or anything and was barely in pain!!
I hate to say it but some women just tear. I tore with all three of mine. Although the doctor was attempting to cut me before I tore and didn't make it in time. You might ask the doctor about that. Good luck.
I have 5 children and I have had episiotomys with all except the third, I tore with that one....Good Luck!
I have 8 kids, 6 were vaginal deliveries. I didn't tear after my first. Good Luck to you.
I hope not. I will deliver #3 in October. Good Luck!
i just needed stitches with my 1st one which is odd no.1 wieghed 6'9 no.2 wieghed 7'2,go figure
Dating older women advice?
I met a really attractive women today who is 29, she is very fun, and I am very attracted to her, we met at the gym and we now carpool and excersize togeether, but I havent asked her on a date yet, she seems to show interest in me, but I am nervous to ask her to date.....I am only 18. But I am not a normal 18 year old, I own my own tech company and support myself and am financially stable.....So i think that would be a big plus for her, any tips???Dating older women advice?
Zach, im a guy, answering on my friends account. This totally depends....u gotta ask yourself some questions....Does she have children? Is SHE financially stable? Is it worth your time in terms of what she has to offer?
I was 20, and i was in a serious relationship with a women who was 30...our relationship lasted 3 1/2 years...so it is not impossible...id say go for it.
Good Luck
Zach, im a guy, answering on my friends account. This totally depends....u gotta ask yourself some questions....Does she have children? Is SHE financially stable? Is it worth your time in terms of what she has to offer?
I was 20, and i was in a serious relationship with a women who was 30...our relationship lasted 3 1/2 years...so it is not impossible...id say go for it.
Good Luck
What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
dont be upset when he fires backWhat's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
passing gas is good for the health. when you release, you loose weight and your husband becomes happy! HOORAY!What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
Sounds to me like any woman that can do this in front of her husband must be secure in their relationship. They have a good marriage.
Slip some bean-o into her food when she is not looking:
Laugh
Ladies, please... let's show a little class.
Just because some... no, wait... most men are comfortable (and actually proud of) making disgusting bodily noises regardless of where they are, who they are with, or how bad the stench is, doesn't mean we have to act the same way!
Please don't! My advice to these women would be to let some things remain a mystery. I strongly believe in keeping your husband or boyfriend in the dark about LOTS of things -- not the least of which is the bodily functions issue. It creates a sense of self-respect, which fosters respect from them FOR YOU.
There is no good to be gained from doing such a thing. I believe that most women want to be treated well, and doing such things will cause your husband to think less of you, and treat you accordingly.
if he does it then so can you
Hope they think its funny and get pass it!
If it annoys you than she should step out of the room, and of course you do the same. If it doesn't than who cares, you definitely share body fluids so what's a little gas between spouses ;)
Ladies please!
You are our only hope that we can see some love on this cruel world. If you become like men, what are we going to do?
Your next step is to get him to indulge in it. Blow farts in his face.
Get a good divorce lawyer!
passing gas is good for the health. when you release, you loose weight and your husband becomes happy! HOORAY!What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
Sounds to me like any woman that can do this in front of her husband must be secure in their relationship. They have a good marriage.
Slip some bean-o into her food when she is not looking:
Laugh
Ladies, please... let's show a little class.
Just because some... no, wait... most men are comfortable (and actually proud of) making disgusting bodily noises regardless of where they are, who they are with, or how bad the stench is, doesn't mean we have to act the same way!
Please don't! My advice to these women would be to let some things remain a mystery. I strongly believe in keeping your husband or boyfriend in the dark about LOTS of things -- not the least of which is the bodily functions issue. It creates a sense of self-respect, which fosters respect from them FOR YOU.
There is no good to be gained from doing such a thing. I believe that most women want to be treated well, and doing such things will cause your husband to think less of you, and treat you accordingly.
if he does it then so can you
Hope they think its funny and get pass it!
If it annoys you than she should step out of the room, and of course you do the same. If it doesn't than who cares, you definitely share body fluids so what's a little gas between spouses ;)
Ladies please!
You are our only hope that we can see some love on this cruel world. If you become like men, what are we going to do?
Your next step is to get him to indulge in it. Blow farts in his face.
Get a good divorce lawyer!
Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
ok i was talking to this girl.....we was together for a while....we stop talking for like a few months and now we have gotten contact with each other....she had a boyfriend now but she still has feelings for me......she scared to have sex with him cause i told her that i wouldnt wanna mess with her like that no more......i dont know what to do.....i dont wanna move back in time but should i try and see if we can work something out.....need yall help femalesNeed help with a problem women advice is needed?
Sounds like she needs to decide who she wants to be with. If she was truly interested in you why is she bringing up having sex with someone else or even considering it.. Might want to decide if this is a relationship you truly want or is it time to look else where. If I want to be in a good qulity relationship I wouldn't be hopping back and forth wanting everyone to cater to my wishes. If she cares for you wouldn't she would be only with you.Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
I WOULD TAKE IT SLOW AND SEE IF THINGS COULD WORK OUT
first off, dont beleive that she aint sleeping with him because if she is with him and not a virgin she probably is just stringing you along. If you really want her then talk to her and see if you can work things out.
Talk to her no more games what do you have to loose - hmm her do you want her or not?
My, my, my...
Alright...
She shouldn't have a boyfriend if she still has feelings for you and she definitely shouldn't be considering having sex with him either for the same reason.
I think you need to reconsider this young lady.
I suggest you find someone who is devoted to you and you only, someone that loves you for who you are, and is not afraid to hide those feelings for you.
Don't you think you deserve that much?
I think you do.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it doesn't.
Take care!
first off dont believe that she isnt sleeping with him because she is she wants to play the field with both of you but youre gonna have to be the bigger person and say let him go and just be with me if she aint willing move on buddy
Sounds like she needs to decide who she wants to be with. If she was truly interested in you why is she bringing up having sex with someone else or even considering it.. Might want to decide if this is a relationship you truly want or is it time to look else where. If I want to be in a good qulity relationship I wouldn't be hopping back and forth wanting everyone to cater to my wishes. If she cares for you wouldn't she would be only with you.Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
I WOULD TAKE IT SLOW AND SEE IF THINGS COULD WORK OUT
first off, dont beleive that she aint sleeping with him because if she is with him and not a virgin she probably is just stringing you along. If you really want her then talk to her and see if you can work things out.
Talk to her no more games what do you have to loose - hmm her do you want her or not?
My, my, my...
Alright...
She shouldn't have a boyfriend if she still has feelings for you and she definitely shouldn't be considering having sex with him either for the same reason.
I think you need to reconsider this young lady.
I suggest you find someone who is devoted to you and you only, someone that loves you for who you are, and is not afraid to hide those feelings for you.
Don't you think you deserve that much?
I think you do.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it doesn't.
Take care!
first off dont believe that she isnt sleeping with him because she is she wants to play the field with both of you but youre gonna have to be the bigger person and say let him go and just be with me if she aint willing move on buddy
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