Absolutely keep them! They will be a good laugh to show your kids or grand kids or who ever when your old and grey. They are precious memories..even if you are not with that/those boys anymore, and you love your husband, they were still a part of your life once. Its good to keep those memories. I37 yr old happily married women wants advice about what to do with high school boyfriend photos?
Being married does not mean that you cease to exist as a human being or as a woman. We all have a past and while you may not display your photos out on the mantel, these are still your memories and I believe that you have a right to them. I would think most men are mature enough not to feel threatened by a picture of a boy you knew 20 years ago.
I have a box in my closet that contains a few similar photos and things... Prom photos, an entire scrapbook of memories from high school and college... I mean I hung out with a close group of friends, and yes a few of the girls that I have in group photos were a little bit more than just my friend... but I would not dream of tossing those out and my wife has no problem with them. She too has memories... We met during college but we both had a life before that.
The reality is that it should be up to you what to do with them... if you like them then hold on to them.37 yr old happily married women wants advice about what to do with high school boyfriend photos?
1st off since u r happily married, my question is does your husband have any pictures of his high school girl friends ? If yes then I don't see why u having pic's of old BF is a problem but on the other hand if your hubby destroyed his then I guess u should do the same with yours. Personally I would put them away somewhere out of sight if they bother your hubby or u. In later years your grand kids will enjoy seeing who their grandparents liked before they met each other. My grand kids can't believe that their Grandpa %26amp; Nana ever liked any one but each other. They will make for interesting conversations oh say in another 20 years. I tell my grand kids ';Look who your grandmother would have been if grandpa had chosen this one.'; they just roll laughing at the thought.
well i would trow them away if yur happily married no need to hang on to the pass if yu do to me it means yur holding on to the pass and yur nt as happy as yu thought... if yu must keep them tell yur husband yu will like to keep them so if he finds it it wont be a big surprise to him and yu put it in a box and put it on the shelf in ur closet... but hey what do i kno im only 16 ..lol
If you have kept them this long then I wouldnt get rid of them. That is part of your past at school. You are no longer a child and neither is your husband so there should not be a problem. I mailed my pictures of my old boyfriend to his cousin to give to him of his parents and him. IF you dont want to keep them give them to his parents or let your parents have them.
don't get rid of them,it was high school what would be wrong with keeping them?that is part of your life ,put them in picture album and keep them......
You maybe should think about not having a boyfriend now that you're married
Pin them up and use them for dart practice.
Put them in a box or mail them to him.
Yes, run them through a paper shredder.
Throw them away.
are you serious?
why do you still have them?
auction it on ebay:)
post them on the internet, then throw them away
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