Ok, i know this is kinda gross, but i need some advice from women who have sex without condoms?

i went on the pill, and now we don't use some condoms





anyone else who does this will be aware of the whole 'what goes up, must come down' issue. whats your way of dealing with this?Ok, i know this is kinda gross, but i need some advice from women who have sex without condoms?
well, i am picking up what you are throwing down, and i have to say that my remedy for it is to go to the potty after wards. they say you should pee after sex anyway, to help keep things like UTI's from occurring. this seems to eliminate the ';coming down'; problem, although getting there without the mess is the trick. hee hee!Ok, i know this is kinda gross, but i need some advice from women who have sex without condoms?
Its sex and your body, there is nothing gross about it. Just because you're on the pill doesn't mean you go without using condoms or other safe-sex tools, you both need to have STI tests come back negative for everything and be in a long-term trusting relationship, hell even then there is no guarantee thanks to things such as drug use, piercing or simple cheating.





The mess that comes after sex, it鈥檚 a normal and natural part of sex, it is supposed to be messy between his ejaculate and yours, as well as your lubrication, both of your sweat and so on. You would be going to the bathroom after sex anyway to pee 鈥?to prevent UTI鈥檚 鈥?so bare down to help push semen out of your vagina and maybe wash away with some water or just wipe. Semen does tend to get more fluid inside the vagina and can stay up there quite some time so for the days following sex you may want to use a liner 鈥?cloth liners like those from Lunapads, commercial liners will just make you feel uncomfortable and make your groin warm and moist which is perfect for bacteria and yeast to grow. Apart from that there is nothing you can do but either accept that sex is a messy business or go back to using condoms to avoid the mess.



I always use condoms.. but just a tip: hopefully you'e both been tested. If not you're one of the reasons stds get spread. Avoiding pregnancy is just one of the reasons for condoms you know. AnD Even after testing though, men can't get tested for genital warts and they can just be dormant
well i only been with my husband so we never used a condom. now im not really sure of what ur asking, but i think your talkin about his sperm coming back out. that never happened to me. i guess the best way to deal with this is to take a shower after, or if your pressed for time then try to go pee. because not only will you get to wipe his stuff off, but peeing helps get rid of any infections he might give you. not to say your man is dirty because i got offended when my doctor told me this. hope i helped.
I use a towel or something to catch what does come out until I can get to the toilet to let the rest drop out, you can kind of push it out too when your on the toilet or in the shower, then just clean yourself up!!!





**Good Luck**
Well, me and my husband have a little routine after we are done. Have a towel ready next to you and as soon as he pulls out, grab the towel and do what you need to do. Its alot better than trying to run to the bathroom while it drips on your legs. Ew! I hated that.
I don't want to sound boring .... but worrying about sperm dripping should be the last of your problems...the pill should protect you from an unwanted pregnancy but what about your health a condom is not 100% safe but can help from getting STDS or aids
I go to the bathroom after sex ... not *right* after, cuddle time is good ... but I go relatively soon afterwards and pee and that helps to get rid of some of it. If it bothers you that much, take a bath afterwards.
we usually have a towel laying around that we use, then i go to the bathroom and do kegels on the toilet until most of it comes out.
i usually just try to go to the bath room afterwords. its a good idea to pee after sex it helps prevent bladder infections. good luck!
just have a towel handy and hold it between your legs after intercourse while you walk to the restroom to urinate.





simple as that!
Keep a something near by to catch the fall before you make it to the bathroom and shower right away..yuck,.
1.shower and wait til they drop


2.toilet and wait til they drop
i usually keep napkins or something close by n shower rite after.
Put a washcloth or towel close by to catch what comes down.
Shower soon after! I hate the sticky mess too ;)
just dont stress over it .. normal thing


kinda like what goes in must come out.
just finding out? tissue i plce tissue there to collect. dont go crazy with douche, and then just wash. normal.
if he cheats on you he could come back with herpes
I pull out and put it on her tummy, then put it right back in!!
I don't use one, but I don't understand your question
normaly i jump up as soon as I feel the come and start dancing, most of it drips down my leg
I understand what you are saying.


After we have sex, I just go use the rest room and push out what I can. If I feel there might be more, use a panty liner, or a tampon for VERY light days. I personally go with a light tampon for a few hours, then I am good.





Hope this helps.