AC doesn't work, AC company is acting dumb. My wife is pregnant and the temperature outside the house is 103 and it suppose to go up to 110 today. I don't care about me, but I want to keep my women cool because she is pregnant I have no where to take her. Any advice?EMERGENCY PLEASE ADVICE! Pregnant women in hot temp. What to do to keep cool?
get a bunch of wet wash cloths and stick them in the freezer and when they're frozen take them out and she can stick them on her forehead or belly. another idea is buy a bag of ice or make ice and stick them in cold water and she can stick her feet in the bucket of ice cold water. another one i read was to freeze water bottles and then get a fan and stick the frozen water bottles in front of the fan so that it produces cold air. she can take a cold shower. that's how i got me to cool down last night before bed because it felt like 100 degrees outside still. she can drink ice cold water. that seems to keep my body temp down.EMERGENCY PLEASE ADVICE! Pregnant women in hot temp. What to do to keep cool?
when my ex was pregnant (8 months) it got to the high 90's here. the only thing that kept her cool was cool water on her wrists or on her feet. the blood vessels are very close to the surface there and conduct the cool very well. it was no AC by any means but it did keep her comfortable.
good luck and congrats.
fill up the bathtub with cool water and let he chill out as though she is at a pool get her a cold drink. if she doesn't want to do that get some ice and put it in bags so she can put that on her face to cool off and around her feet. and if you have a fan turn it on ...
Go shopping (most stores are air conditioned), go to a swimming pool, she can take a cool bath, you can buy a window fan to circulate the air, keep hydrated by drinking water or sucking on ice chips.
Cool baths, wash clothes for her head, light clothing etc. Do you live in AZ? It's that hot here too but my AC works, come on over :)
Why don't you go and buy an air conditioner that you put in the window?
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Any advice on good, ethical volunteering with kids/women near or in Cusco, Peru?
I am seeking to volunteer with women/kids/both in or near Cusco Peru, I am not looking to pay a high fee to an agency but instead volunteer in return for (cheap) accommodation/food. I speak Spanish fluently, I have experience in teaching English and managing people. I'd like to go for 4 weeks in December 麓08. Any advice on good, ethical volunteering with kids/women near or in Cusco, Peru?
OMG what a way of asking for free food and accommodation...
some americans still think they deserve everythingAny advice on good, ethical volunteering with kids/women near or in Cusco, Peru?
wow, now results that IF I didn't do any ';difference';, SO you are right??? then baby, you are soooooooo wrong!!!
I won't comment your despicable description of my country as a ';3rd world country';, sure you live in the past century
Happy you are not american, sadly, you look like
OMG what a way of asking for free food and accommodation...
some americans still think they deserve everythingAny advice on good, ethical volunteering with kids/women near or in Cusco, Peru?
wow, now results that IF I didn't do any ';difference';, SO you are right??? then baby, you are soooooooo wrong!!!
I won't comment your despicable description of my country as a ';3rd world country';, sure you live in the past century
Happy you are not american, sadly, you look like
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Can any women please give me some advice?
I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an aniversery surprise for my wife because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their husband did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?Can any women please give me some advice?
Yes, it feels different. I like the whole hog myself (or the hog whole - whichever have skin).Can any women please give me some advice?
God, why would you do this to yourself. What benefit do you think you're wife would get from this?
You're wife will want a present from you to her. Not a present done to you.
My husband is circumcised but that is because he is Jewish. Why would you want to mutilate yourself in a very painful manner? It will hurt and be extremely painful. You also run the risk of infection.
It's a lot different when you're only 8 days old....
HOW BOUT YOU DONT PUT THAT **** UNDER THE CATEGORY : MILITARY
That's an interesting ';surprise';. WIth honesty as being the best policy, the BEST person to ask is your wife. See if she thinks SHE would like it. If its something YOU really want to do for your own benefit, then again, it would be best to ';inform'; her before ';surprising'; her.
The best thing to do, is ask your wife how she feels about it. Tell her that you would love to surprise her with it for when she came home but you don't want to do something that you won't beable to reverse. Just explain to her that the best time to do it is while she is over there so it won't be so difficult for you while she is around...(if you know what I mean....). Trust me, do not do anything drastic like that without talking it over with your wife. My husband is overseas also, and when I told him that I got my nose peirced (it was a surprise for him for when he comes home), he was upset. He wanted to be there when I got it done. I know it is not the same thing, but I hope what I was saying makes sense to you in order for you to make your decision (the right decision). Good luck!!!
Yes, it feels different. I like the whole hog myself (or the hog whole - whichever have skin).Can any women please give me some advice?
God, why would you do this to yourself. What benefit do you think you're wife would get from this?
You're wife will want a present from you to her. Not a present done to you.
My husband is circumcised but that is because he is Jewish. Why would you want to mutilate yourself in a very painful manner? It will hurt and be extremely painful. You also run the risk of infection.
It's a lot different when you're only 8 days old....
HOW BOUT YOU DONT PUT THAT **** UNDER THE CATEGORY : MILITARY
That's an interesting ';surprise';. WIth honesty as being the best policy, the BEST person to ask is your wife. See if she thinks SHE would like it. If its something YOU really want to do for your own benefit, then again, it would be best to ';inform'; her before ';surprising'; her.
The best thing to do, is ask your wife how she feels about it. Tell her that you would love to surprise her with it for when she came home but you don't want to do something that you won't beable to reverse. Just explain to her that the best time to do it is while she is over there so it won't be so difficult for you while she is around...(if you know what I mean....). Trust me, do not do anything drastic like that without talking it over with your wife. My husband is overseas also, and when I told him that I got my nose peirced (it was a surprise for him for when he comes home), he was upset. He wanted to be there when I got it done. I know it is not the same thing, but I hope what I was saying makes sense to you in order for you to make your decision (the right decision). Good luck!!!
So I'm going to wax my hair down below, I need advice from women that have already done this?
I've been shaving it for about 6 years, I get annoyed when it grows back in just a few short days. I want to wax it AT HOME by myself. Are there any at home waxing kits that you all reccomend? I've seen some at the stores and I'm unsure of which brand to use. thank you girls.
There are no reputable salons around here to get it done at, that's why I need the at home version.So I'm going to wax my hair down below, I need advice from women that have already done this?
I used sally hansen's wax strip kit that already has the wax on strips for you. All you have to do is rub them between your hands to get them warm before you apply the strips.So I'm going to wax my hair down below, I need advice from women that have already done this?
Get the kind of wax that you do not use cloth strips with. You have to get a wax pot too, because the wax cools and hardens quickly and you are always running to the microwave.
Get a big bottle of wine, and give yourself about 3 hours to get through the first time. My Brazilian friend does this and this is what she told me. I decided to stay with the razor.
You shower every day, right? I just shave it every day in the bath. Quick, easy , painless, and no rash if you use the triple blades and change often.
I would never have my cooch waxed in a salon unless they use A NEW SPREADER STICK with every dip in the pot. If they don't then you know you are getting other people's skin cells in the pot. GROSS. My cooch deserves the best.
I suggest Sally hansens products they work well.
I think you should get it done professionally first then ask the waxer to recommend products that would work.
It is worth driving a little bit to find someone to do this for you. Some nail salons have waxing rooms.
Im gonna say one word ';OUCH!';
But at the same time, you'll get much better results than shaving, Im all bare down there and wax...but go to a salon (way to nervous to do it myself....IT HURTS!
to wax down there u must go to professional
Go to tyra show .com it will give a clip of how much pain it is.
P.s go2 my page and answer my question.
I would highly recommend going to a salon,as it is much more painful to do it to yourself.
Every salon should use a new stick EACH time they dip into the wax pot.
If you do choose to do it at home,once you find a good brand,make sure to apply the wax the way the hair grows,and pull the strip the opposite way (ie: hair grows down,apply wax down and pull strip up) and make sure you pull the skin VERY taut otherwise you will burn and bruise yourself badly.
Good luck!! :)
I used the wax strips on paper. Just pull them out, press to skin, let the heat of your hand warm it up and rip away. Very painful first few times! Hair gets softer and you get used to it.
There are no reputable salons around here to get it done at, that's why I need the at home version.So I'm going to wax my hair down below, I need advice from women that have already done this?
I used sally hansen's wax strip kit that already has the wax on strips for you. All you have to do is rub them between your hands to get them warm before you apply the strips.So I'm going to wax my hair down below, I need advice from women that have already done this?
Get the kind of wax that you do not use cloth strips with. You have to get a wax pot too, because the wax cools and hardens quickly and you are always running to the microwave.
Get a big bottle of wine, and give yourself about 3 hours to get through the first time. My Brazilian friend does this and this is what she told me. I decided to stay with the razor.
You shower every day, right? I just shave it every day in the bath. Quick, easy , painless, and no rash if you use the triple blades and change often.
I would never have my cooch waxed in a salon unless they use A NEW SPREADER STICK with every dip in the pot. If they don't then you know you are getting other people's skin cells in the pot. GROSS. My cooch deserves the best.
I suggest Sally hansens products they work well.
I think you should get it done professionally first then ask the waxer to recommend products that would work.
It is worth driving a little bit to find someone to do this for you. Some nail salons have waxing rooms.
Im gonna say one word ';OUCH!';
But at the same time, you'll get much better results than shaving, Im all bare down there and wax...but go to a salon (way to nervous to do it myself....IT HURTS!
to wax down there u must go to professional
Go to tyra show .com it will give a clip of how much pain it is.
P.s go2 my page and answer my question.
I would highly recommend going to a salon,as it is much more painful to do it to yourself.
Every salon should use a new stick EACH time they dip into the wax pot.
If you do choose to do it at home,once you find a good brand,make sure to apply the wax the way the hair grows,and pull the strip the opposite way (ie: hair grows down,apply wax down and pull strip up) and make sure you pull the skin VERY taut otherwise you will burn and bruise yourself badly.
Good luck!! :)
I used the wax strips on paper. Just pull them out, press to skin, let the heat of your hand warm it up and rip away. Very painful first few times! Hair gets softer and you get used to it.
Any advice for american women dating Jamaican men?
I am a white american woman trying to date a true Jamaican born man--I seem to not get it...Any advice for american women dating Jamaican men?
i c no reason y anyone would and could be against it!!! anyone in their right mind would tell u there's nothing wrong with it. look at me: i'm Latina n dating an Indian.
Jamaican men can b pretty hot. at least in my experience. heheh. there was one in a class i took and i mean he was weird (in personality) but undeniably cute. is he black?
yes people will talk and maybe stare. they'll so to speak ';interrogate'; u. but don't b afraid. the best of loves will go ur way, right?!
answer mine - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…becca
i c no reason y anyone would and could be against it!!! anyone in their right mind would tell u there's nothing wrong with it. look at me: i'm Latina n dating an Indian.
Jamaican men can b pretty hot. at least in my experience. heheh. there was one in a class i took and i mean he was weird (in personality) but undeniably cute. is he black?
yes people will talk and maybe stare. they'll so to speak ';interrogate'; u. but don't b afraid. the best of loves will go ur way, right?!
answer mine - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Are there any resources or advice for women trying to get custody of their kids when exhusband has lawyers?
Not if you live in Louisiana! I found that out the hard way. Any other state probably has decent Legal Aid attorneys that can help you. Google Legal Aid and your state and see what pops up. Also you can try to talk to some law students at a university near you and get help filing your own papers with the courts. I never understood WHY Judges seem to favor the party that does have a lawyer vs the one with out a lawyer. In my custody case, I was the primary parent and didn't screw anything up so I felt I shouldn't have to pay for an attorney. So I didn't. And there came a point where I desperately needed one. And could not get one unless I could pull a few grand out of my butt. Which I could not at that time. But you actually CAN get all the forms and fill them out yourself and submit them to the court (clerk of court) and it will be totally legal. Actually, if you scribble something in crayon on a napkin, and you pay to have it submitted to the courts, the judge Will see it. Of course he's throw that out!, but it's just an example. What I finally did since I could not find a lawyer, I copied my ex's paperwork! Like if he got his lawyer to file contempt of court against me I would scan those actual papers (the copies I got of them) into the computer, and change all the info but leave the exact same format and legal wording. So if it said some kind of stuff like ';the plaintiff is asking for sole legal guardianship of the said minor child, Thomas 'Lastname' '; I would say the same thing. ';The Defendant (or Plaintiff, depending on the court date, it changed!!) is asking for sole legal guardianship of the said minor child, Thomas lastname';. And you have to have all that blah blah blah legal junk they add in there, usually at the end of the paperwork. But that way you can keep the case number, format and their legal wording and all. Get it notarized, submit it to the courts. It can cost a good bit, a few hundred dollars, but not anything like an attorney would cost. If you are on child support, I suggest you are current and paid up before you try to get custody. You need to be able to prove you have a steady job, childcare, decent home, and are drug free. That will help a lot. Good luck to you, and don't be afraid of the legal system. There is a law library in every big city. Go to it and ask someone to help point you to the books with custody and parental rights and such. And if you need paperwork to submit to court, you can also get it there, free or at low cost.Are there any resources or advice for women trying to get custody of their kids when exhusband has lawyers?
You know what i went through this. I hate both my parents for putting me through their bulshit its not your choice let the kids decide they are smarter than you think give them a chance to choose. And if its not you ya know what tough luck the only thing you can do is be there for them. they are human beings just like you they are not some pets that you fight over.
Its your fault for having a kid no one told you dont use protection.
Dont bring stress and drama into your kids lives i swear i resent both my parents for all their bulshitAre there any resources or advice for women trying to get custody of their kids when exhusband has lawyers?
The husband doesnt automatically win because he has a lawyer.
Things that are considered are. Who has the kids right now? Whose taken the kids to the park, who has always helped with homework. Whose always been there for them on a day to day basis.
If there is no criminal history for the mother, the next thing will be, who can support the kids easier. This is about the kids. Who is working, who has insurance for the kids.
Judges do not like to remove the kids from the mothers home for small things, its more of a huge thing, like abuse or drugs, excessive drinking or lack of provable care.
If they are considering putting the kids with him, then you will owe child support, and you will be chasing them down every other weekend, or each weekend, or every three days however you request and get the terms set. Ask for half the year custody if your not going to win full custody. Then no one pays child support, but one must provide insurance for the children.
You can try to contact legal aid and ask what capacity they work with these days. Ive known no one ever that got help from them though, I hear about legal aid society, but I dont know what they actually do for anyone.
Just be well dressed, and versed, quiet and polite, speak to the point, and you should be fine. Bring with you all things that show you take care of your kids, bring in school records and report cards to show their attending and doing well. Bring in shot records, Dr visits etc etc. Just have anyting you can think of in a file to have handy if the judge wants to see something.
Bring in notorised statements from neighbors, landlords, and family about you as a person, written testomonies about you and your family.
I wish you well. Men do not always win, so relax, be prepared, get things in place that migth need taking care of and politely handle court. The judge is looking for a stable parent, and hes looking at you being that parent first, not your ex. PS, dont bring up anything bad about your ex, unless you have say, copies of arrests paperwork where your ex had hit you or the kids. Do not bring up anything you cant prove on paper, or that the judge cant see on a computer such as DUIs. No hearsay, just like court tv, they need to see proof, and never lie or stretch the truth, they can see honesty in someones face by their mannerisms.
probably have to get a lawyer as well
You know what i went through this. I hate both my parents for putting me through their bulshit its not your choice let the kids decide they are smarter than you think give them a chance to choose. And if its not you ya know what tough luck the only thing you can do is be there for them. they are human beings just like you they are not some pets that you fight over.
Its your fault for having a kid no one told you dont use protection.
Dont bring stress and drama into your kids lives i swear i resent both my parents for all their bulshitAre there any resources or advice for women trying to get custody of their kids when exhusband has lawyers?
The husband doesnt automatically win because he has a lawyer.
Things that are considered are. Who has the kids right now? Whose taken the kids to the park, who has always helped with homework. Whose always been there for them on a day to day basis.
If there is no criminal history for the mother, the next thing will be, who can support the kids easier. This is about the kids. Who is working, who has insurance for the kids.
Judges do not like to remove the kids from the mothers home for small things, its more of a huge thing, like abuse or drugs, excessive drinking or lack of provable care.
If they are considering putting the kids with him, then you will owe child support, and you will be chasing them down every other weekend, or each weekend, or every three days however you request and get the terms set. Ask for half the year custody if your not going to win full custody. Then no one pays child support, but one must provide insurance for the children.
You can try to contact legal aid and ask what capacity they work with these days. Ive known no one ever that got help from them though, I hear about legal aid society, but I dont know what they actually do for anyone.
Just be well dressed, and versed, quiet and polite, speak to the point, and you should be fine. Bring with you all things that show you take care of your kids, bring in school records and report cards to show their attending and doing well. Bring in shot records, Dr visits etc etc. Just have anyting you can think of in a file to have handy if the judge wants to see something.
Bring in notorised statements from neighbors, landlords, and family about you as a person, written testomonies about you and your family.
I wish you well. Men do not always win, so relax, be prepared, get things in place that migth need taking care of and politely handle court. The judge is looking for a stable parent, and hes looking at you being that parent first, not your ex. PS, dont bring up anything bad about your ex, unless you have say, copies of arrests paperwork where your ex had hit you or the kids. Do not bring up anything you cant prove on paper, or that the judge cant see on a computer such as DUIs. No hearsay, just like court tv, they need to see proof, and never lie or stretch the truth, they can see honesty in someones face by their mannerisms.
probably have to get a lawyer as well
I'm a single guy (24), but I tend to gravitate towards and be sexually attracted to older women? Advice?
craigslistI'm a single guy (24), but I tend to gravitate towards and be sexually attracted to older women? Advice?
age isnt nothing but a number. if you love her, then go for it. only worry about what YOU think not others. shes yours, not theirs!I'm a single guy (24), but I tend to gravitate towards and be sexually attracted to older women? Advice?
Have a good time and avoid married women. Never worth it.
What kind of advice are you looking for?
well im single and 17 and i like younger guys, so im sure there are other people like me out there. its just who you like and feel comfortable with. just because your not following the 'norm' doesn't mean your bad. its good to be different. my friends mom was 50 and she was dating a 25 year old, and they were happier then ever. so it can happen. can you answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Some much older women dig much older guys so go for whomever you are attracted to...she'll either like you or not (just as a chick your age).
So whats the problem??
my boyfriend told me that nothing is wrong with it. if that's what you like then go for it, there's nothing wrong with older women.
my aunt likes younger men....
what she likes is someone that is great in bed %26amp; mature as well. yeah, she isn't the best role model but thats the basics. oh yeah, those younger men have to always have great looks.......good luck
I guess follow your heart(or attraction)My uncle married a woman 14 yrs his senior.I'm attracted to older guys.Wup te freakin do. =)
Good for you, I wish there were more men like you out there for us!
You probably simply prefer a more maternal figure in your life and you don't like younger, sillier girls. Good for you!
Suite yourself. Your not a minor, if you like older women then go for it.
Nothing wrong with that...i'm 21 and attracted to older men.
Namely my husband.
because they are more '; mature'; in the sack !.....so you think!
age isnt nothing but a number. if you love her, then go for it. only worry about what YOU think not others. shes yours, not theirs!I'm a single guy (24), but I tend to gravitate towards and be sexually attracted to older women? Advice?
Have a good time and avoid married women. Never worth it.
What kind of advice are you looking for?
well im single and 17 and i like younger guys, so im sure there are other people like me out there. its just who you like and feel comfortable with. just because your not following the 'norm' doesn't mean your bad. its good to be different. my friends mom was 50 and she was dating a 25 year old, and they were happier then ever. so it can happen. can you answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Some much older women dig much older guys so go for whomever you are attracted to...she'll either like you or not (just as a chick your age).
So whats the problem??
my boyfriend told me that nothing is wrong with it. if that's what you like then go for it, there's nothing wrong with older women.
my aunt likes younger men....
what she likes is someone that is great in bed %26amp; mature as well. yeah, she isn't the best role model but thats the basics. oh yeah, those younger men have to always have great looks.......good luck
I guess follow your heart(or attraction)My uncle married a woman 14 yrs his senior.I'm attracted to older guys.Wup te freakin do. =)
Good for you, I wish there were more men like you out there for us!
You probably simply prefer a more maternal figure in your life and you don't like younger, sillier girls. Good for you!
Suite yourself. Your not a minor, if you like older women then go for it.
Nothing wrong with that...i'm 21 and attracted to older men.
Namely my husband.
because they are more '; mature'; in the sack !.....so you think!
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