I dont know where to go OR what web site OR designer has skinny fashions available for me to VIEW. I am skinny and I dont like looking sickly. PLEASE NO COMMENT TO EAT!!! I DO EAT!!! I just need to know what would accent my best features and hide the bad ones for skinny women....I need advice on what skinny women wear?
well i would wear skinny jeans to show off my legs but on the top i would wear like a baby doll top or any other flowy topI need advice on what skinny women wear?
i would wear something that is tight on the bottom and sort of baggy or something that hangs as a top. it will look stylish and flatter your figure.
You might want 2 try runway samples that's what my aunt has 2 wear**bt she works n the fastion industy and has those kind of connections**
Friday, January 8, 2010
Why men is to hard to listen to women advice?
Because women are usually right and that's a big problem where the ego is concerned.Why men is to hard to listen to women advice?
I hope you get some good answers. I'd like to know.
I always tell my boyfriend, he'd hear me nag a lot less, if he did what I asked!!Why men is to hard to listen to women advice?
if you talk like you write, it's no wonder they don't understand you.
some one asked, whats the best joke you ever heard on y/a?
i think you just did it.
because of their ego!
I hope you get some good answers. I'd like to know.
I always tell my boyfriend, he'd hear me nag a lot less, if he did what I asked!!Why men is to hard to listen to women advice?
if you talk like you write, it's no wonder they don't understand you.
some one asked, whats the best joke you ever heard on y/a?
i think you just did it.
because of their ego!
Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hello everyone,
I'm expecting #3 and due Sept 30th. My questions is,when giving birth to your 3rd etc.. child does your body handle the delivery process a lot better? I tore with my first two and needed 6 stitches with my 1st and needed 3 stitches with my 2nd.
I am dreading the tear =(
I'm just wondering if some women always tear or if it just happens in the first couple of children you give birth to?
Thank you very much for your time and your answers.Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
I have had three all natural births with only skin tearing, no muscle tearing no stitches, with the first birth and no damage at all from 2nd and 3rd. I have a very small frame and children with 14in heads. The amount of people who are 'just bound to tear' is medically very low. Most tearing is preventable. If the muscle is strong and flexible before labor from stretching and massage during pregnancy and if counterpressure and other slow controlled delivery techniques are used to ease the skin into it and if the mother can remember to relax that muscle only pushing from above during delivery the chances of remaining intact are very high. Granted you will be working with some scar tissue which doesn't stretch as much, but you can prepare all the skin around it to stretch enough to compensate with perineal massage. Here are some links on how to do it.
http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/鈥?/a> and http://www.birthingnaturally.net/cn/tech鈥?/a>
I did perineal massage during my first pregnancy only, using olive oil with a few capsules of Vitamin E sqeezed into it.. It's a little uncomfortable especially at first but I did see results and during labor I wished I had done it more. Something else that I'm sure helped me was while the baby was crowning my midwife applied counterpressure to the perineum. It was frustrating at the time but the patience paid off as it allowed the muscle time to stretch and adapt. Also, listening to her on when to stop pushing if it was coming too much too quickly, more than the muscle could handle at once. Talk to your midwife, or if you're having a doctor than consider hiring a doula to help in the hospital as the doctors don't usually do anything out of their own set procedure, about implementing some of the slow controlled delivery techniques. Whatever you do DON'T let them give you an episiotomy to ';prevent tearing';. Many episiotomies reult in further tearing and cuts have a longer and more painful healing process. Good luckAdvice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hey there,
I had a 3rd degree tear on top of an episiotomy with my first. With my second the Doctor did perineal massage (sounds weird and uncomfortable, but during labor almost anything goes!) and it helped tremendously. I only tore a little, no episiotomy, and the healing process was faster and there was a lot less pain that time. I am only 5 weeks with my third but I plan on attempting perineal massage again with this one during labor. I really think it made a big difference the last time and I really dread tearing again, too. Good luck!
with baby number 1, I needed almost 400 stitches, and with baby number 2, it was only 2 stitches. I had c-sections for babies 3 and 4, so I don't know about the tearing after baby number 2 personally... but my sister went into labor with her 3rd, ten minutes after she got to the hospital she gave birth, not a single tear, and a half an hour later was outside. From my understanding, each time you give birth it gets easier, and you most likely won't tear... and even if you do, you'll probably need only one or two stitches... which should heal up pretty quickly.
Good luck to you, I'm sure you won't tear at all.
I guess it depends on how big your baby is, i got maybe 3 stitches with my first, it got worse with me 2nd, she was too bif she tore me real bad, didn't get any with my third, i got 2 or 3 stitches with my fourt and i'm on my fifth due on June 3rd. So i guess it depends. Hey what can i say it happens, so don't worry so much everything will be fine :)
Good Luck!
I'm expecting #4 just a month after you!!! Congrats!
By way of your question...do you deliver quickly? It seems that if you have a ';normal'; delivery, your doctor should be able to ';stretch'; you or give you an episiotomy if he thought you'd tear!
My sister delivered an almost 10 pounder in 15 minutes with no drugs...she tore all the way UP! Ouch!
It seems that your 3 stitches is better than your 6, so maybe with this one you won't need any! You do stretch with each one, so I hoping this one will be easier for you!!!
With me...I had an episiotomy with my first. Didn't need one with either of my others. I think with each one it gets easier. I would expect to tear...that way you will be pleasantly surprised if you don't! Good luck to you!
I tore with my first, didn't tare with my second and he was more then a pound bigger then my first. My third is coming in about 7 weeks, and is expected to be more then 9lbs, so I hope I don't tare. The good thing was though that they numbed me BEFORE I tore. They numbed me again with something so that I would feel the tare if I did tare. I can't remmeber what it is called. It is something that they give you down there, not in your back. It's not an epidural, just a shot. Which I could remember what it was called. If I do then I'll edit this. Good thing is the labors generally get shorter though!
I tore bad with my third... I had an episiotomy (sp) with the first two... Labor wasn't any easier with the more children I had... I screamed just as loud, kicked just as many people... and squeezed my husband's hand ';off!'; The funny thing is, when I was pushing my third daughter's head out... I screamed ';MOMMY!'; like a little kid..... I don't know where the heck that came from.... After wards, I was like '; why in the world did I scream Mommy!!???'; Kind of embarrassing... It just came out..... :) Good luck Hun!!
I have 3 and one on the way. With my first two I had to have an episiotomy, with my third no tearing and no cutting it was much easier. Every pregnancy your body endures the pregnancy gets hard to handle but the labors get easier.
I have 3 children...
The 1st one I tore a whole lot and couldn't walk for 2 weeks...
The 2nd one I tore the tiniest bit but the doc said that red heads tend to bleed more so they gave me 1 stitch...
The 3rd time I needed no stitches or anything and was barely in pain!!
I hate to say it but some women just tear. I tore with all three of mine. Although the doctor was attempting to cut me before I tore and didn't make it in time. You might ask the doctor about that. Good luck.
I have 5 children and I have had episiotomys with all except the third, I tore with that one....Good Luck!
I have 8 kids, 6 were vaginal deliveries. I didn't tear after my first. Good Luck to you.
I hope not. I will deliver #3 in October. Good Luck!
i just needed stitches with my 1st one which is odd no.1 wieghed 6'9 no.2 wieghed 7'2,go figurebecca
I'm expecting #3 and due Sept 30th. My questions is,when giving birth to your 3rd etc.. child does your body handle the delivery process a lot better? I tore with my first two and needed 6 stitches with my 1st and needed 3 stitches with my 2nd.
I am dreading the tear =(
I'm just wondering if some women always tear or if it just happens in the first couple of children you give birth to?
Thank you very much for your time and your answers.Advice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
I have had three all natural births with only skin tearing, no muscle tearing no stitches, with the first birth and no damage at all from 2nd and 3rd. I have a very small frame and children with 14in heads. The amount of people who are 'just bound to tear' is medically very low. Most tearing is preventable. If the muscle is strong and flexible before labor from stretching and massage during pregnancy and if counterpressure and other slow controlled delivery techniques are used to ease the skin into it and if the mother can remember to relax that muscle only pushing from above during delivery the chances of remaining intact are very high. Granted you will be working with some scar tissue which doesn't stretch as much, but you can prepare all the skin around it to stretch enough to compensate with perineal massage. Here are some links on how to do it.
http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/鈥?/a> and http://www.birthingnaturally.net/cn/tech鈥?/a>
I did perineal massage during my first pregnancy only, using olive oil with a few capsules of Vitamin E sqeezed into it.. It's a little uncomfortable especially at first but I did see results and during labor I wished I had done it more. Something else that I'm sure helped me was while the baby was crowning my midwife applied counterpressure to the perineum. It was frustrating at the time but the patience paid off as it allowed the muscle time to stretch and adapt. Also, listening to her on when to stop pushing if it was coming too much too quickly, more than the muscle could handle at once. Talk to your midwife, or if you're having a doctor than consider hiring a doula to help in the hospital as the doctors don't usually do anything out of their own set procedure, about implementing some of the slow controlled delivery techniques. Whatever you do DON'T let them give you an episiotomy to ';prevent tearing';. Many episiotomies reult in further tearing and cuts have a longer and more painful healing process. Good luckAdvice from women who've had more than 2 children please?
Hey there,
I had a 3rd degree tear on top of an episiotomy with my first. With my second the Doctor did perineal massage (sounds weird and uncomfortable, but during labor almost anything goes!) and it helped tremendously. I only tore a little, no episiotomy, and the healing process was faster and there was a lot less pain that time. I am only 5 weeks with my third but I plan on attempting perineal massage again with this one during labor. I really think it made a big difference the last time and I really dread tearing again, too. Good luck!
with baby number 1, I needed almost 400 stitches, and with baby number 2, it was only 2 stitches. I had c-sections for babies 3 and 4, so I don't know about the tearing after baby number 2 personally... but my sister went into labor with her 3rd, ten minutes after she got to the hospital she gave birth, not a single tear, and a half an hour later was outside. From my understanding, each time you give birth it gets easier, and you most likely won't tear... and even if you do, you'll probably need only one or two stitches... which should heal up pretty quickly.
Good luck to you, I'm sure you won't tear at all.
I guess it depends on how big your baby is, i got maybe 3 stitches with my first, it got worse with me 2nd, she was too bif she tore me real bad, didn't get any with my third, i got 2 or 3 stitches with my fourt and i'm on my fifth due on June 3rd. So i guess it depends. Hey what can i say it happens, so don't worry so much everything will be fine :)
Good Luck!
I'm expecting #4 just a month after you!!! Congrats!
By way of your question...do you deliver quickly? It seems that if you have a ';normal'; delivery, your doctor should be able to ';stretch'; you or give you an episiotomy if he thought you'd tear!
My sister delivered an almost 10 pounder in 15 minutes with no drugs...she tore all the way UP! Ouch!
It seems that your 3 stitches is better than your 6, so maybe with this one you won't need any! You do stretch with each one, so I hoping this one will be easier for you!!!
With me...I had an episiotomy with my first. Didn't need one with either of my others. I think with each one it gets easier. I would expect to tear...that way you will be pleasantly surprised if you don't! Good luck to you!
I tore with my first, didn't tare with my second and he was more then a pound bigger then my first. My third is coming in about 7 weeks, and is expected to be more then 9lbs, so I hope I don't tare. The good thing was though that they numbed me BEFORE I tore. They numbed me again with something so that I would feel the tare if I did tare. I can't remmeber what it is called. It is something that they give you down there, not in your back. It's not an epidural, just a shot. Which I could remember what it was called. If I do then I'll edit this. Good thing is the labors generally get shorter though!
I tore bad with my third... I had an episiotomy (sp) with the first two... Labor wasn't any easier with the more children I had... I screamed just as loud, kicked just as many people... and squeezed my husband's hand ';off!'; The funny thing is, when I was pushing my third daughter's head out... I screamed ';MOMMY!'; like a little kid..... I don't know where the heck that came from.... After wards, I was like '; why in the world did I scream Mommy!!???'; Kind of embarrassing... It just came out..... :) Good luck Hun!!
I have 3 and one on the way. With my first two I had to have an episiotomy, with my third no tearing and no cutting it was much easier. Every pregnancy your body endures the pregnancy gets hard to handle but the labors get easier.
I have 3 children...
The 1st one I tore a whole lot and couldn't walk for 2 weeks...
The 2nd one I tore the tiniest bit but the doc said that red heads tend to bleed more so they gave me 1 stitch...
The 3rd time I needed no stitches or anything and was barely in pain!!
I hate to say it but some women just tear. I tore with all three of mine. Although the doctor was attempting to cut me before I tore and didn't make it in time. You might ask the doctor about that. Good luck.
I have 5 children and I have had episiotomys with all except the third, I tore with that one....Good Luck!
I have 8 kids, 6 were vaginal deliveries. I didn't tear after my first. Good Luck to you.
I hope not. I will deliver #3 in October. Good Luck!
i just needed stitches with my 1st one which is odd no.1 wieghed 6'9 no.2 wieghed 7'2,go figure
Dating older women advice?
I met a really attractive women today who is 29, she is very fun, and I am very attracted to her, we met at the gym and we now carpool and excersize togeether, but I havent asked her on a date yet, she seems to show interest in me, but I am nervous to ask her to date.....I am only 18. But I am not a normal 18 year old, I own my own tech company and support myself and am financially stable.....So i think that would be a big plus for her, any tips???Dating older women advice?
Zach, im a guy, answering on my friends account. This totally depends....u gotta ask yourself some questions....Does she have children? Is SHE financially stable? Is it worth your time in terms of what she has to offer?
I was 20, and i was in a serious relationship with a women who was 30...our relationship lasted 3 1/2 years...so it is not impossible...id say go for it.
Good Luck
Zach, im a guy, answering on my friends account. This totally depends....u gotta ask yourself some questions....Does she have children? Is SHE financially stable? Is it worth your time in terms of what she has to offer?
I was 20, and i was in a serious relationship with a women who was 30...our relationship lasted 3 1/2 years...so it is not impossible...id say go for it.
Good Luck
What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
dont be upset when he fires backWhat's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
passing gas is good for the health. when you release, you loose weight and your husband becomes happy! HOORAY!What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
Sounds to me like any woman that can do this in front of her husband must be secure in their relationship. They have a good marriage.
Slip some bean-o into her food when she is not looking:
Laugh
Ladies, please... let's show a little class.
Just because some... no, wait... most men are comfortable (and actually proud of) making disgusting bodily noises regardless of where they are, who they are with, or how bad the stench is, doesn't mean we have to act the same way!
Please don't! My advice to these women would be to let some things remain a mystery. I strongly believe in keeping your husband or boyfriend in the dark about LOTS of things -- not the least of which is the bodily functions issue. It creates a sense of self-respect, which fosters respect from them FOR YOU.
There is no good to be gained from doing such a thing. I believe that most women want to be treated well, and doing such things will cause your husband to think less of you, and treat you accordingly.
if he does it then so can you
Hope they think its funny and get pass it!
If it annoys you than she should step out of the room, and of course you do the same. If it doesn't than who cares, you definitely share body fluids so what's a little gas between spouses ;)
Ladies please!
You are our only hope that we can see some love on this cruel world. If you become like men, what are we going to do?
Your next step is to get him to indulge in it. Blow farts in his face.
Get a good divorce lawyer!
passing gas is good for the health. when you release, you loose weight and your husband becomes happy! HOORAY!What's your advice to women that like to pass gas in front of their husbands?
Sounds to me like any woman that can do this in front of her husband must be secure in their relationship. They have a good marriage.
Slip some bean-o into her food when she is not looking:
Laugh
Ladies, please... let's show a little class.
Just because some... no, wait... most men are comfortable (and actually proud of) making disgusting bodily noises regardless of where they are, who they are with, or how bad the stench is, doesn't mean we have to act the same way!
Please don't! My advice to these women would be to let some things remain a mystery. I strongly believe in keeping your husband or boyfriend in the dark about LOTS of things -- not the least of which is the bodily functions issue. It creates a sense of self-respect, which fosters respect from them FOR YOU.
There is no good to be gained from doing such a thing. I believe that most women want to be treated well, and doing such things will cause your husband to think less of you, and treat you accordingly.
if he does it then so can you
Hope they think its funny and get pass it!
If it annoys you than she should step out of the room, and of course you do the same. If it doesn't than who cares, you definitely share body fluids so what's a little gas between spouses ;)
Ladies please!
You are our only hope that we can see some love on this cruel world. If you become like men, what are we going to do?
Your next step is to get him to indulge in it. Blow farts in his face.
Get a good divorce lawyer!
Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
ok i was talking to this girl.....we was together for a while....we stop talking for like a few months and now we have gotten contact with each other....she had a boyfriend now but she still has feelings for me......she scared to have sex with him cause i told her that i wouldnt wanna mess with her like that no more......i dont know what to do.....i dont wanna move back in time but should i try and see if we can work something out.....need yall help femalesNeed help with a problem women advice is needed?
Sounds like she needs to decide who she wants to be with. If she was truly interested in you why is she bringing up having sex with someone else or even considering it.. Might want to decide if this is a relationship you truly want or is it time to look else where. If I want to be in a good qulity relationship I wouldn't be hopping back and forth wanting everyone to cater to my wishes. If she cares for you wouldn't she would be only with you.Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
I WOULD TAKE IT SLOW AND SEE IF THINGS COULD WORK OUT
first off, dont beleive that she aint sleeping with him because if she is with him and not a virgin she probably is just stringing you along. If you really want her then talk to her and see if you can work things out.
Talk to her no more games what do you have to loose - hmm her do you want her or not?
My, my, my...
Alright...
She shouldn't have a boyfriend if she still has feelings for you and she definitely shouldn't be considering having sex with him either for the same reason.
I think you need to reconsider this young lady.
I suggest you find someone who is devoted to you and you only, someone that loves you for who you are, and is not afraid to hide those feelings for you.
Don't you think you deserve that much?
I think you do.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it doesn't.
Take care!
first off dont believe that she isnt sleeping with him because she is she wants to play the field with both of you but youre gonna have to be the bigger person and say let him go and just be with me if she aint willing move on buddy
Sounds like she needs to decide who she wants to be with. If she was truly interested in you why is she bringing up having sex with someone else or even considering it.. Might want to decide if this is a relationship you truly want or is it time to look else where. If I want to be in a good qulity relationship I wouldn't be hopping back and forth wanting everyone to cater to my wishes. If she cares for you wouldn't she would be only with you.Need help with a problem women advice is needed?
I WOULD TAKE IT SLOW AND SEE IF THINGS COULD WORK OUT
first off, dont beleive that she aint sleeping with him because if she is with him and not a virgin she probably is just stringing you along. If you really want her then talk to her and see if you can work things out.
Talk to her no more games what do you have to loose - hmm her do you want her or not?
My, my, my...
Alright...
She shouldn't have a boyfriend if she still has feelings for you and she definitely shouldn't be considering having sex with him either for the same reason.
I think you need to reconsider this young lady.
I suggest you find someone who is devoted to you and you only, someone that loves you for who you are, and is not afraid to hide those feelings for you.
Don't you think you deserve that much?
I think you do.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it doesn't.
Take care!
first off dont believe that she isnt sleeping with him because she is she wants to play the field with both of you but youre gonna have to be the bigger person and say let him go and just be with me if she aint willing move on buddy
Im 16 and I need women advice?
I like this girl, but she has a boyfriend. she seems to always be sort of flirting with me, but i hear she is a big tease. although i have heard rumors that she wants my peni5. what should i do?Im 16 and I need women advice?
shes got a boyfriend plenty of fishin the see besides if shes like this with the current boyfriend wat make y9u different if you too did hook up would she be like that with someone else too plus you might be one out of ten lads she flirts and teases with ,go for a quiet girl half of them turns out to be freaks in other situations if ya know wat i mean manIm 16 and I need women advice?
Dude, just ignore it. The rumors are false that someone started. And if she's known as a tease, then don't pay her any mind. Maybe you could be sort of like a tease to her. Like when she tries to talk to you, just say like ';yeah w/e'; then walk away...send her a message.
tell her to hang out then show it to her + her bf
She sounds like she's trying to start something between you and her boyfriend. Leave her alone, she's not worth possibly getting beaten up for and all the drama that would occur if you went after her. Move on.
shes got a boyfriend plenty of fishin the see besides if shes like this with the current boyfriend wat make y9u different if you too did hook up would she be like that with someone else too plus you might be one out of ten lads she flirts and teases with ,go for a quiet girl half of them turns out to be freaks in other situations if ya know wat i mean manIm 16 and I need women advice?
Dude, just ignore it. The rumors are false that someone started. And if she's known as a tease, then don't pay her any mind. Maybe you could be sort of like a tease to her. Like when she tries to talk to you, just say like ';yeah w/e'; then walk away...send her a message.
tell her to hang out then show it to her + her bf
She sounds like she's trying to start something between you and her boyfriend. Leave her alone, she's not worth possibly getting beaten up for and all the drama that would occur if you went after her. Move on.
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